Relationships

BN Hot Topic: ‘Playette’ or A Gardening Tool

BN Hot Topic: ‘Playette’ or A Gardening Tool

Thursday, June 7th, 2012

So yesterday at the office, Onos wanted to know what the female version of a player was called. I replied “Playette” and Jite in the same breath said “slut…“. My gasp was so audible! “How could

Understanding Women Beta By Doug E. Douglas

Understanding Women Beta By Doug E. Douglas

Wednesday, June 6th, 2012

An ideal title to this title would be Not Understanding Women 2.0 and you’ll see what I mean.

You see, I have read so many articles recently stating that there aren’t “real men”… anymore and that modern day men are

BN Hot Topic: Daddy! Take It Or Leave It, He’s The One I’m Going To Marry

BN Hot Topic: Daddy! Take It Or Leave It, He’s The One I’m Going To Marry

Thursday, May 24th, 2012

Under Nigerian customary law, a marriage is deemed valid when a bride price has been paid or gifts in lieu of cash are exchanged. However, this is only after parental consent has been obtained. It is said that a valid…

BN Hot Topic: How Far Would You Go To Keep Your Man?

BN Hot Topic: How Far Would You Go To Keep Your Man?

Thursday, May 17th, 2012

Men are hard to find, a good man…even harder. At least that’s what we women have been made to believe over the years. As soon as you find that man who ticks most or all of your boxes, you got…

How to satisfy a Man by Tobi Atte

How to satisfy a Man by Tobi Atte

Wednesday, April 25th, 2012

How do you satisfy a Man? No really. Many women are really starting to get really frustrated about that question because they’ve been told that men are less complicated. Give him good food, good sex, don’t nag and you should…

A Woman’s Worth

A Woman’s Worth

Wednesday, April 18th, 2012

I was at a wedding recently and got talking to a friend of a friend, and the inevitable question about my marital status came up. ‘I’m not married’ I said. He seemed to be rather surprised, and said ‘It’s weird…

A Reader’s Guide to Relationships!

A Reader’s Guide to Relationships!

Tuesday, April 17th, 2012

Ladies are often captivated with the so-called step by step approach to relationships, the concept of the “Author’s Guide to Relationships”. The list is endless: “how to know when he’s that into you”, “finding the perfect man”, “making it work”…

The Breaking Point! When Should You Leave?

The Breaking Point! When Should You Leave?

Monday, March 26th, 2012

Two weeks ago, I had my usual catch-up sessions with my girlfriends and this topic came up. Just a few days ago, a website surfaced with “a letter from the grave” – http://www.ogorip.com/my-story.html
A lady named Ogo who passed away…

Sincerely, Jerome: Yomi and Tomi Marriage “30th October 2010 – 13th of October 2011″

Sincerely, Jerome: Yomi and Tomi Marriage “30th October 2010 – 13th of October 2011″

Thursday, March 15th, 2012

I was just seeing a friend off from the Counseling Room, when I got a call from my sister Pastor Tosin. She asked me if my sister Tomi had called me to tell me anything, and I said no, and…

The Death of Presumption

The Death of Presumption

Tuesday, February 28th, 2012

I had always taken pride in my (supposed) great instincts. I thought that I had foresight and that I had everything and everyone all figured out… that I could define people and situations in a glance. I was wrong.
I…