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“Is it OK to Break Up a Relationship After 11 Years?” – Watch New Web Series ThreeSum




ThreeSum is an online discussion show, where a panel of three guest hosts, discuss and argue various hot topics and social issues in today’s society.

The hosts are Lydia, Tunde and The NoiseMakerYemi Akisanya.

ThreeSum is produced by ToksVisions.


  1. cindy

    March 29, 2015 at 8:44 am

    what is this again? mtchew!! >(

    • Lekwa Ukwu

      March 29, 2015 at 11:43 am

      Nigerians Haba……Let us support our own. We dont mind making Kim Kardarshian and Amber Rose Celebrities but we are quick to bash our own when he has a different view on life. Abeg, let’s enjoy and be blessed

  2. mysterious

    March 29, 2015 at 8:51 am

    hahhahahahhah…. i love you yemi..yes there should be some kind of rule/settlement ,don’t come wasting a dude/babes time if you know you would leave them hanging after a long time..

    • Mims

      March 29, 2015 at 12:58 pm

      If its bulls***t, then its better 11 years than the rest of your life.

  3. Val

    March 29, 2015 at 8:53 am

    Blah blah blah, everybody now wants to be on the internet or a celebrity.

  4. scarlet

    March 29, 2015 at 8:54 am

    Why would you even date someone for 11 years!!!! Is he or she your twin? Your sis/bro or adopted sibling? Jeeeezzzz! 11 years and noting official is a big red light….. even if you started from Secondary school, you should be working after 11 years and settled.

    The guy got married to a new girl he met because he is super excited about her, got butterflies in his stomach and all that buhaha, that he must have felt at some point with the other lady but not anymore.

  5. Lee

    March 29, 2015 at 8:58 am

    This is actually one of the reasons why I hate long relationships.but if the parties involved are not happy it’s fine

  6. Anon

    March 29, 2015 at 8:59 am

    Will BN stop shoving crap spewed from this failure turned noisemaker down our throats? Didn’t even bother watching the moment I saw he was one of the panelists.

  7. ethy

    March 29, 2015 at 9:02 am

    Unless u have been dating the person since u were in high sch,I see no reason to date someone for 11yrs.that is marriage and @least 2kids.if u are not heading in that direction,brk it off.11yrs of dating just doesn’t feel or sound I won’t watch the the argument.

  8. Lee

    March 29, 2015 at 9:44 am

    11years? why waste someone’s time for that long?

  9. @edDREAMZ

    March 29, 2015 at 9:49 am

    Not interested….

  10. green IV

    March 29, 2015 at 10:08 am

    This guy should give it a rest abeg, he tries too damn hard

  11. Haley

    March 29, 2015 at 10:30 am

    Ladies be wise, if a guy is still unsure at year 2, please leave the relationship, no guy deserves 11years of your life… Tunde stop yarning balderdash abeg….

  12. adeoluwa

    March 29, 2015 at 10:40 am

    Dumbest shit ever and oh bunch of contradictory humans #yall need to try something else

  13. Tina

    March 29, 2015 at 10:57 am

    If you’re stupid enough to date one person for 11yrs, you sorry ass deserve to be left.

  14. shade

    March 29, 2015 at 11:08 am

    In oda news didn’t Toke Makinwa date Maje for fifteen years? Lol

  15. k

    March 29, 2015 at 12:43 pm

    okay this web series is just confusing. are u guys gisting or educating your audience. i mean no one really looked at the camera and stated their argument everyone was either looking at the other person etc… you guys can do better. also why can’t someone really talk about something new, different and thought provoking, why is everyone jumping into relationship or at least why can’t someone talk about something relationship in a different way! the same old stuff everyday. this was not organised and I’m sure i did not learn anything. noisemaker i think you should really do your research before saying things sha!!! if you need to do a talk show you have to be on point especially when everyone wants to have a talk show! if u want to talk about a topic. do your research, organise your points or arguments and make sure whatever topic our talking about theres a moral lesson, food for thought!! my 2cent!!!!

  16. Diddy

    March 29, 2015 at 1:00 pm

    that one na question for the gods,but e depend cos some couples just no fit separate,even when dem dey inside the relationship off and on,dem still no fit let the thing waka,and some be se even after that years when dem marry dem go live happily ever after and while some be se when dem marry dem go divorce afta 2 or 3 years,so una see se e dey complicated,but 11 years na really long thing,naim make i se na question for the gods cos we all get our opinion

  17. LILO

    March 29, 2015 at 2:43 pm

    Look studies have shown that the man who left a woman he dated for 11 years to marry a woman he met 6 months ago, is not necessarily in love with the new woman, but only in love with the ‘ newness’ of the new girl and it’s a matter of time before the newness starts to feel old and such a man will still be back on the market looking for the next new thing.

    Leave when you are not feeling it is the reason why divorce rate is at an all time high. What you all don’t know about your seemingly happily married friends is the part where they are not feeling it YET they made it work. If you go into a relationship or marriage expecting to always feel each other day in day out, then you are heading for doom. Love is a verb not a noun….some days you won’t feel the person and other days you will be glad you married the person. The worst thing you can do in a relationship or marriage is to put your feelings above you and your partner’s combined feelings. It should be about the union not your individual needs

    • jide

      March 29, 2015 at 11:57 pm

      You have said it all. It’s heart breaking to see that nowadays, people have stopped working things out. It’s on to the next girl or guy.

  18. bruno

    March 29, 2015 at 3:15 pm

    I will never waste my data. NEVER!!!

    the headline alone says it all,
    nigerians and their love for stupid conversations and arguments.

  19. Tosin

    March 29, 2015 at 4:27 pm

    Yes it is OK. The 11 years you shared were a privilege, why not be glad for that, why not enjoy the years, and when they’re over, enjoy some more years apart. I don’t understand.
    If splitting up after 11 years is so unacceptable to you, then why not go and meet babalawo and swear a blood covenant say you will die the day you split up? I haven’t watched the video yet, but all of this hypertensive relationship stuff. Please. Stop it. Relationship is love, not slavery. Freedom, not fear. I’m tired.

  20. olajumoke

    March 29, 2015 at 4:47 pm

    why don’t we ever talk about changing the world? making new inventions? trying out new ways of making our economy better? Its high time we channel our intelligence into dscussing something more worthwhile..

  21. TruthBetold

    March 29, 2015 at 4:55 pm

    I find this girl’s stand on the issue very annoying! I doubt she’s in a relationship. I usually don’t like the noisemaker guy but he’s the only one making tiny sense. The other guy speaks as he looks……………stupid! Overall the video is a fail!

    • HatsOff

      March 29, 2015 at 8:04 pm


    • Ona

      March 29, 2015 at 9:08 pm

      Very apt analysis! The girl was hella annoying and was obv trying too hard to sound “real” but ended up sounding dumb. The other bush dude was just off and talking nonsense. Couldnt watch past 3-4 mins. The noisemaker guy was the only one who made sensible points.

  22. tob

    March 29, 2015 at 6:32 pm

    Yemi’s points are valid.
    In fact, a common law marriage is typically recognized after being in a relationship for SEVEN years in the following American states: Alabama, Colorado, District of Columbia, Iowa, Kansas, Montana, Oklahoma, Rhode Island, South Carolina, Texas and a few others. The partner being left behind is usually granted PALIMONY and some award of assets. ……
    Regardless of gender, eleven years is a long time to spend with someone and invest in their lives without a concrete commitment just to be left high and dry.

  23. Derin

    March 29, 2015 at 10:10 pm

    Pls ToksTV when is Complicated series coming back ?

    • Toks Akisanya

      March 29, 2015 at 10:50 pm

      Hi Derin, the second season of Complicated will be out some time this summer. So stay tuned, and thanks.

  24. C'est moi

    March 30, 2015 at 12:41 am

    I’m with the girl, if the guy falls our of love after 11yrs then so be it. Better to have someone stay out of love not duty for time served, that just breeds resentment. Why would you even want to be with something who isn’t into you? That’s where the whole malarkey of trying to ‘keep your man’ stems from. Trying to keep one who doesn’t want to be kept. Abi you be thief? You’ll just end up miserable. Even if you push and say lets make do, you could marry and then be known as the couple who dated for 11yrs and divorced after a year.

  25. Tantra

    March 30, 2015 at 4:55 am

    I tried to watch the video, but the girl’s accent/intonation wouldn’t let me. I quickly gave up.

  26. rita

    March 30, 2015 at 8:34 pm

    just here waiting on complicated the series!!! when will ppl learn to perfect one craft and give to the audience!!

  27. EKENE

    April 4, 2015 at 11:30 am

    why in Gods name will you give a guy 11 years of your life? what have you guys been discussing, if after a year he does not say anythingabout marriage “give your self brain”

    • opeyemi

      April 24, 2015 at 8:04 pm

      hehehe, i like ur style. on point!

  28. CHIOMA

    April 14, 2015 at 3:03 pm

    Nice topic, i strongly agree with Yemi’s opinion on the topic… 11 years is a long time ,too much has been invested in it to “UP AND LEAVE ” using your terms…..

  29. opeyemi

    April 24, 2015 at 8:04 pm

    nice prog. nice idea. cool 3 of u but try to ensure the conversation remains a conversation not a noise sorry to use that word but y’all cant talk at the same time actually.
    in the moral sense, i feel the circumstance that surrounds how the individuals meet plus aw the breakup happens determines how the friendship breaks or continues.

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