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The NoiseMaker wants Ladies to Respect Their Men’s Privacy, “Going Through Your Man’s Phone Means You Don’t Trust Him – Don’t Do It!”

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Yemi Akisanya The NoisemakerIt’s the second-to-last episode of this season of The NoiseMaker!

In today’s episode Yemi Akisanya talks about going through your partner’s phone. “Don’t do it!”, he says.

He says you will get more information than you bargained for – debts, cheating and other issues. In fact, he thinks it will give you a reason to break up with the person.

He also addressed people that don’t mind their business when it comes to others’ relationships.

Do you agree? Isn’t information ‘power’ – a great tool to know the person you’re REALLY dealing with?

Watch!!!

The NoiseMaker is produced by ToksVisions.

35 Comments

  1. pink davos

    April 8, 2015 at 9:09 pm

    Blah..blah..blah…. it is the usually what a woman should do and cannot do! How about you educate men & women about not cheating?!?!
    If don’t trust the person you are dating then you probably shouldn ‘t be dating at all. Yes trust is earned and all……

    • Ginika

      April 9, 2015 at 1:56 pm

      Yes o! Now come Yemi, let me explaon something to you. In this day and age where people get married and findout the real gist about their partners like he is married with 2 children and they live in Nigeria or he is an ex-convict or he is in-debt or he is a serial killer or he is gay and is using you to prove a point etc. The point is you can never be sure in today’s world where your word means jack all! Gone are the days where your word was your honour and you would fight to uphold it. My own sha, just hire a private investigator when you are feeling uncomfortable with his ‘truths’.

      Get a man of character, a man who sticks to his word or tries his best to do his best, a man who has the fear of God is his heart meaning someone who applies the God filter in their decision making. Be a woman of character for your own good and not because anyone says you should, be beautiful and healthy for yourself not for anyone, be respectful etc. you get the gist. You have one life to live, pick the life you want to live and fiercely pursue it; find a lover, partner, confidant who wants to commit with you for the rest of your life, to do life with you!

      We have one life to live, live it purposefully!

  2. ab

    April 8, 2015 at 9:21 pm

    ok..Noise maker abi na nosey maker wateva…I like you sometimes o and sometimes u sound cray cray like almost bordering foolishness…If your man or woman cannot reveal those issh that will make or break a relationship, then wonder why u are there in d first place…unless its just r/ship for benefit o…if i am in a relationship with a guy that I see great prospects with, No I wont set out early in the morning or in an evening to catch him out by sneakily going through his phone but paradventure i do and he hiding queen Bey there, or debt issues then i know that means he dont even trust me to talk to me as his G …ohh well…why am I preaching on here…all man to himself jare! But wateva…just stop it o….cuteness nor dey cover crazy talkss…

    .

  3. ab

    April 8, 2015 at 9:23 pm

    thank you pink davo o….i just tire for this world of men we have these days and their small pathetic mind….I’m a start a blog soon….guess chicks needs to preach to them too! kapishhhh….

  4. BEAUTIFULNBLESSED

    April 8, 2015 at 9:24 pm

    MR. NOISE MAKER, WHAT DO YOU THINK MAKES A WOMAN CHECK HER MANS PHONE IN THE FIRST PLACE? YOU FIND A GOOD WOMAN, TIE HER DOWN AND THEN CONTINUE FAFFING AROUND TOWN WHILE SHE CONTINUES TRUSTING YOU ABI?

    WHAT KIND OF CROWD DO YOU THINK YOU ARE TALKING TO AND DO YOU KNOW WHAT ERA YOU ARE IN? WHAT YOU ADVICE WOMEN TO DO, CAN YOU DO IT? YOU SHOULD TALK TO YOUR FELLOW MEN TO BEHAVE/ YOU GENDER AND NOT WOMEN YOU KNOW ABSOLUTELY NOTHING ABOUT. CALL US WHEN YOU CAN BIRTH CHILDREN. YOU BETTA CHECK YOURSELF.#pissmeoff!

  5. Animal Doctor

    April 8, 2015 at 9:45 pm

    @BEAUTIFULNBLESSED, Na rope abi na wire dem use tie you down? lol. I honestly believe if anyone checks any adult’s phone, they will find at least one questionable thing in there. You are only looking for trouble when you do that.

    Tbh if you have a partner who is always ‘out there’ and is secretive about what he/she gets up to, then it’s understandable. The fact that you have the desire to check the person’s phone alone is a massive red flag. My problem is with those people that just meet someone, start dating, and without just cause, just want to check someone’s phone and will do it at the first available opportunity. Me I will leave you for your people if you try that one with me cause na the insecurity issue when we dey always talk about be that, and me I’m not ready to start answering for the sins of your boyfriends past.

    • gabriel o

      April 8, 2015 at 11:25 pm

      Animal doc. Lolsz

    • BEAUTIFULNBLESSED

      April 9, 2015 at 5:03 am

      ANIMAL DOCTOR, FIRST OF ALL I AM NOT TIED DOWN. NOW IF YOU READ WHAT I WROTE AGAIN, YOU WILL SEE THAT YOU AND I ARE KIND OF SAYING THE SAME THING. IT IS WRONG FOR A MAN TO TIE AN INNOCENT GIRL DOWN AT HOME AND GO START MISBEHAVING OUTSIDE.

      BEFORE A WOMAN STARTS CHECKING HER MANS PHONE, THERE MUST BE RED FLAGS. SO TO TELL A WOMAN WHO SEES ALL THAT NOT TO FIND THE SOURCE OF THE PROBLEM IS GOOD RIGHT? IF IT IS YOUR SISTER/BROTHER, WILL YOU TELL HER THAT? C’MON, GOOD ADVICE NOURISHES THE BODY AND SOUL. LET US HELP DIRECT THE MANY YOUNG GIRLS OUT THERE IN THE WAY THEY SHOULD GO BC MANY DO NOT KNOW WHAT TO DO AND THEY LOOSE THEMSELVES TO WICKED MEN. WOMEN HAVE SUFFERED ENOUGH ABUSE. WHAT IS WRONG IS WRONG.GOD BLESS, CHEERS……….!

  6. wagamama

    April 8, 2015 at 10:10 pm

    Yemi, I’ve been trying so very hard to love you! DARN ET! Why are you proving so hard to love? Why you always got something to say to women? Women do this, don’t do that its disrespectful, don’t say this, don’t touch that……. WHAT IS IT? WHY ARE MEN SO HELL BENT ON DOMINATING THE FEMALE FOLK?

    If you are happy to catch HIV and other STD/I’s from me, all cos you trust me, THEN CARRY GO! NAH WHO HOLD UNA??

    But best believe i will snoop the shit outta your phone, SM accounts, and every other gadget and platform snoopable! MBA! And don’t bring that ish about that being disrespectful! I AM DOING IT FOR MY OWN INTEREST! MY PEACE OF MIND AND SANITY! If you don’t like it, abeg jump ship! OGINI KWA GE MEH? I don’t want to be a statistic! **chineke e kwele ihye ojo! **

    • BEAUTIFULNBLESSED

      April 9, 2015 at 5:09 am

      GBAM! THE GOON BE SAYING DON’T CHECK PHONE….I BEG ROLL OVER BIKO…………..THAT’S WHAT HE’S DOING TO HIS WIFE/ GIRLFRIEND. TEACHER CHIKE! ICHEKU! EZE GOES TO SCHOOL.

  7. Ada Nnewi

    April 8, 2015 at 11:08 pm

    I have one major rule; If your phone is off limits to me, my phone is off limits to you, the man will now be fidgeting once my phone rings…i’m like when you are ready and serious you will give me your password and you can then answer my phone..

    • gabriel o

      April 8, 2015 at 11:26 pm

      Lol. Ur head is working perfectly…

  8. belle

    April 8, 2015 at 11:12 pm

    I came for the comments **sips tea**
    Ya’ll be spilling all the Yems tea. lol

  9. gabriel o

    April 8, 2015 at 11:24 pm

    Well, I’m a guy and I’m totally in support of all d comments been seeing so far… i’m not a sell out o. Pardon me.

  10. beast

    April 9, 2015 at 12:36 am

    if you got nothing to hide, then why is it difficult to let your partner go through your phone or computer?? i strongly suggest that relationships/marriages should be as open-minded and transparent as possible that is the only way True love can exist.

    • Queen

      April 16, 2015 at 8:32 pm

      Ose joor

  11. lint

    April 9, 2015 at 1:07 am

    For some reason this seems rather chauvinistic to me. But I pardon him sha, it is “gender”, which always get to be(thus gets noticed faster”. But then the “more information” he talks about is there in stock already, it is not something the girl makes up. So whether she sees this or not it is there already. Mr Noisemaker, as innocuous your intentions might be, it just makes it seem like you are applauding and equipping the “not trusting” instigators.
    PS: the world is changing, and women do “a lot” like men do, So it is now do unto others what you want them to do to you(can the men sincerely take that)!

  12. Anon

    April 9, 2015 at 2:05 am

    I believe in a relationship that is healthy, there should be that environment where you have nothing absolutely nothing to hide. Therefore you should be okay with your significant other questioning you when there are suspicions. There’s nothing wrong in checking your partners phone. If you’re with a trust worthy partner it should be infavr encouraged to confirm their commitment to you. If you see something questionable then you ask. That is what an healthy relationship is like. The freedom to express ones concern. Change your perspective. If you have nothing to hide then create that open environment

  13. fleur

    April 9, 2015 at 2:21 am

    wetin u sabi about man and woman biz? You are too Young to know

  14. ChillLax

    April 9, 2015 at 2:32 am

    its now obvious that this guy is only out to make mockery of women!!! is that all you think about every second of the day??? bashing women, women topic, women this, women that. come out with something creative for once abeg, your gist is getting boring. I guess the new fame is now being controversial…

  15. paulmirabilis

    April 9, 2015 at 3:29 am

    I noticed that so many people that comment on this guy’s vlog have so much bitterness in them. If you watch the video and paid attention, the guy did not single out only ladies. He condemned the act with no bias. One then wonders why so many of you guys are hating on the guy. The world would be a better place when people stop nursing hatred against their fellow humans.
    Personally, I never check anybody’s (be it my girlfriends, friends or family members) phone or other private things. It is just not right. Please respect other people’s space.

    • Toks Akisanya

      April 9, 2015 at 4:34 pm

      Lol, the problem is that most people don’t watch the videos, they read the title, read other people’s comments, and then respond. There is no way you watch the video, and come up with the assertion that Yemi bashed women or said it only applies to women.

      But we do like the participation and the fact that people feel the need to respond. Behind the initial insults, we do find true criticism and discussions, and that we appreciate.

      Thanks guys.

  16. aarya stark

    April 9, 2015 at 3:41 am

    This Yemi is probably trying to tell his girlfriend something. I saved myself from a rubbish relationship because I snooped through the guy’s phone even before we started dating. Different chics sending him messages and one in particular talking about meeting his family and vice versa.

    If the relationship is new then phone checking should be done, if you’ve been with the person for years then hopefully you have built trust and there is no need going through their phone.

  17. tachy

    April 9, 2015 at 4:11 am

    no comment

  18. Babe

    April 9, 2015 at 7:49 am

    My likeness for this guy has just ended…you are just like every other cheat out there..rule no 1..any guy who hides his phone is a cheat!!!

  19. Naked

    April 9, 2015 at 7:59 am

    Lol @ all the comments and bashing. The ladies don vex patapata oo. I’m very sure this dude is going to pipe down on all this write up about women with all this bashing.

  20. Minister Ade

    April 9, 2015 at 10:06 am

    The Bible says… “And two shall become one”… If you are not yet one (Godly), this is applicable…. Problem resolved!

  21. loveth

    April 9, 2015 at 10:59 am

    True talk, u did well dis time compare to d last episode….More grease to ur elbow. “Trust” d basic ingredient in a relationship, bt i find it difficult to trust men.

  22. oge

    April 9, 2015 at 8:07 pm

    O di egwu! It is so! My ex was the one that started the checking phone thing. He started it; especially when I’m sleeping or when we’re out and I’m gisting with friends. I did it just to payback and I found sex chats. Biko, I will check your phone. I’m sorry, if it makes me immature so be it. Guys do it too. I’ll check, if you don’t like it don’t check mine either.. I’ll still check yours

    • Queen

      April 16, 2015 at 8:27 pm

      I dey tell u….. if they trust themselves why do they check our phones?

  23. Girl on Fire

    April 10, 2015 at 12:38 am

    Girls, better snoop! That was how I found he was seeing someone else alongside me. I confronted him, he said it was over.
    Fastforward to some months later, they are doing introduction and im heartbroken.
    By all means, snoop! Even his social media accounts. If your partner doesn’t allow you access his phone, he definitely has something to hide. I stopped snooping and trusted, that’s why I’m heart broken. May God heal my heart

  24. Icebag1976

    April 10, 2015 at 11:49 am

    I will not snoop. Wetin u no know no go kill you

  25. CHIOMA

    April 10, 2015 at 8:40 pm

    The point is before you went through his phone im sure you had a suspician that he was up to no good and just wanted to confirm by going through his phone. Abeg if you cant trust him then you should not be in the relationship. SIMPLE

  26. Queen

    April 16, 2015 at 8:23 pm

    I won’t check my hubby’s phone if he doesn’t check mine. Reverse is the case here….. #shekina

  27. madamaproko

    April 30, 2015 at 11:24 am

    This is my first time of watching this guys video and trust me i am not impressed with the “dont do it” part…why all the secrecy because of phones? as partners who are friends and share everything where does the privacy thing come in? my partner knows everything i do and i tell him everything i do and he is allowed to check my fone or emails just like i am allowed to check his and his facebook friends and gist, what is the big deal? i think people who have something to hide are usually the ones who bring up this trust and privacy nonsense. Please mr noisemaker, you probably haven’t found someone you love and can be free and playful with or someone you share almost anything with, what if your friend sent you a text that he has HIV, is your partner CNN, why cant you share it with them? abegi you dont have an issue here jawe>>>

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