“They can’t help but destroy what they touch” – Godwin Tom on Unstable & Broken Men

Talent and Artist manager Godwin Tom shared an insightful post on his Instagram page about  men who are broken and unstable not because they are bad people who want to be that way but because they do not know what they want and are trying to find themselves.

He wrote

There are mad men walking around in suits and well groomed facial hair. Unstable men. Broken men. They live several different lives to please different situations. Most times they truly mean well. But they can’t help but destroy what they touch. Not because they are bad people, but because they don’t know what they want so they take too much and drop important things. And break them.

They can’t raise children because their actions don’t match their words. They beat their wives. They lie for no reason. They cheat on their wives. They Cannot keep promises because it means they are breaking others in their alternate lives. Honesty stops becoming a virtue but a problem.

Some of these men are great business men. Amazing pastors. Examples to society. But they can’t help themselves. They have problems saying no. Some of them were told men dont cry. So they bottled everything up and imploded. Now they are a mess and they have let so many things slide into their souls and minds, they don’t even know what is causing their problems.

Broken and unstable men find comfort in pain and control. They sit on both sides of the fence and play both sides for fear of losing people or things. They stand for nothing and for everything. I’m sure some of you are reading this and think… “I know this person” or “that’s me”.

Tell them or yourself to find help. Get out of that hole. Dear sister, I know you love him but he will do more harm to you if he does not know who he is.

Find you! #BrokenMen