It’s another Sunday and again, I am leaving church with no husband. No proposal and no prospect of marriage yet. Nothing. It’s not all that bad...
We see it all the time: wife dies, man marries another woman, kids say “you can never replace my mother” and make it clear they will...
Going on dates can be quite tricky for a lot of people – it could go well and be one of your many good memories, or...
Getting one’s heart broken is one of the worst things that can happen to people, especially when your partner was your sun and moon and the...
There’s a popular quote about being able to see farther because of the privilege of seating on the shoulders of those who have gone ahead. Why...
Since Meghan Markle and Prince Harry‘s interview with Oprah Winfrey was released on Sunday on CBS, there have been lots of debates on whether the former...
“Say something.” This was the third time he had prodded me for a word this evening. I could say anything but I knew he didn’t want...
In the music industry, there is a genre called Alté or “Alternative”, it refers to sounds and songs that aren’t mainstream. It is the same with...
In some parts of the world including Nigeria, when there are conversations about mental health, it often revolves around adults and not children. This needs to...
Cry Me A River The day Pamela slapped me, I saw twinkle stars, the type we called kiri kiri star. I lost my balance and staggered...
It’s their 4th wedding anniversary and Kunle bought Temi the latest designer bag. The bag is beautiful but there’s a problem – Temi is so mad...
In many African homes, sex is often talked about in hushed voices and the intricacies of it are hardly ever discussed. Many women grew up hearing...
On a night like this when the moon sits full in the sky, illuminating the already lit city, we are but estranged from the coolness the...
A few weeks ago, I asked Tamara of the Yellow Wall what her thoughts were on sex. She told me that one of her deep concerns...
Heartbreak is never an easy thing and people react to it differently; some people automatically unlock hidden talents like music and poetry, some cry, some sleep...
A friend of mine asked me if I thought it weird that she wanted to get STD testing with her boyfriend of 2 years. At first,...
When I was in California, the CEO of Intel Corporations came to speak at my church. His sermon was so good that I sent it to...
We all have them – those hurtful, frustrating, offensive, manipulative people in our lives. No matter how hard you try to surround yourself with positive and...
There is a truth about African fathers that goes unnoticed or unaddressed for years. An unspoken truth. You may be experiencing this unspoken truth—a tension between...
Almost everyone’s heard phrases like: “Boys don’t cry” “Man up” “Take it like a man” “Na man you be” The list is endless. I have always...
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