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Skuki’s Peeshaun shares 4 Tips on how to “Work On Your Relationship”

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Peeshaun, one half of the music duo, Skuki, has been sharing some relationship tips on social media recently.

Today he shared 4 tips on how to work on your relationship and make your relationship work for you.

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He wrote:

1) A lot of people go into relationships, even marriages thinking that it would automatically work itself- No! If you don’t want your relationship to hit STAGNANCY, then you have to put in work.

2) At all times, be yourself- YES! But be your creative-self. There are so many little things we can do to make our partners happy, to at least cushion the times when our opinions don’t align at all.

“The absence of creativity, is the presence of boredom”- ‘Peeshaun 2016’.

3) Never bring old problems into a new relationship. The negative vibes you got in your last relationship must vanish with it. Don’t try correcting the mistakes you made with your ex, by being paranoid with your next.

4) It is common that partners ask about each other’s past, wanting to know what the other has done before their hook up.

Word of caution: I agree that you should be open, and by all means be honest, but if there are some immature things you’ve done, and you’ve outgrown them, then narrate your story… but minimize the details, downplay the facts.

Examples: If your ‘new’ girl asks if you ever cheated on your ex, and even tho EFCC is currently looking for you cos of how much you cheated, my brother, tell her you didn’t. If you didn’t own up to your ex (the person you cheated on gangan) then why open up to your ‘new’ all in the name of sharing past.

If you are a girl and your new man asks if you ever gave ur ex BFs a b*** job. If u have done it, then say you have done it, but don’t go describing how intensely you engaged in it. Even if you know you can blow pass Boko Harram, just say ‘yea I did it a couple of times’- kpam!

NOTE: Every guy wants a good girl, that’s bad for only him and every girl wants a bad guy who is good to only her.

“In a new relationship don’t go over-detailing your past. Who past epp?” – ‘Peeshaun 2016’.

There are a thousand more things we can discuss under this topic, but let’s take these few points for now.

7 Comments

  1. Social Media 9

    July 20, 2016 at 5:15 pm

    Ojoro ! thats partial joor!
    So the woman should say her’s
    But the guy should deny outright hmnnnn.
    Just thinking out loud noni ??

  2. Olu

    July 20, 2016 at 5:48 pm

    Well if music fails,blogging may pay,never too late to venture…peeshaun 2020

  3. Nnenna

    July 20, 2016 at 7:59 pm

    The girl can deny too if she wants oh. Tell him its never been something that interests you; but you’d give it a go for him(as per how much the like/love is doing you). Peeshaun’s points are quite solid though

  4. nm

    July 20, 2016 at 8:46 pm

    ahhh if he had a blog ill be reading….

  5. Eagleeye

    July 20, 2016 at 9:09 pm

    “If you are a girl and your new man asks if you ever gave ur ex BFs a b*** job. If u have done it, then say you have done it, but don’t go describing how intensely you engaged in it. Even if you know you can blow pass Boko Harram, just say ‘yea I did it a couple of times’- kpam!”

    This is double standards…unless of course guys you can enlighten us women why you would want to know if we have given BJ’s to our ex’s BF’s…….do you not think I would like to know if you have a penchant for cheating also? If the guy is not comfortable in telling he has cheated (sometimes I personally would rather not know) I don’t think it is wise for the lady to go divulging all the juicy details of her sex-capades with folks other than her ex’s IMO

  6. ijs

    July 20, 2016 at 9:52 pm

    Una Don start. Women liberation experts.

  7. Oscar

    July 21, 2016 at 5:18 pm

    abi oh jare..who past epp! guys can be so weird sometimes. My ex and I had a vacation in Dubai, Now my fiancé refused us going to Dubai on vacation. Weirdest sentiment ever

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