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BN TV: Watch OAP Kemi Smallz weigh in on Guys’ Obsession with “Wife Material”



A couple of days ago when we brought you clip from a recent episode of EbonyLife TV’s “Men’s Corner” show where they were talking about what makes a woman have wife material, a lot of our BNers commented on the fact that guys are always going on and on about this so called “wife material”.

In this clip, OAP Kemi Smallz adds her voice. She isn’t too pleased with the standards guys set to choose a wife and she shares her interesting. opinion.

Watch below.


  1. Md

    July 20, 2016 at 12:12 pm

    So a man should not have his personal standard again but a woman can have a huge list of what makes a real man in her eyes. Gerarahere

    • AceOfSpade

      July 20, 2016 at 12:39 pm

      Girls don’t get it. They set a standard of the type of men they want but most times, they don’t get half of that order. If a guy says this is what I want, you don’t catch feelings because they don’t usually end up with such also.

      If I say I want a virgin… it your want ni? Don’t catch feelings because you are not a virgin. It is me that want a virgin not you….why would you be angry at what I WANT. Some girls want tall dark handsome rich and 1st class graduate and while some get it without asking, some also get it cus that’s what they want. I can’t be angry because I am not TDHR and that’s what one lady wants. Haba

  2. Cindy

    July 20, 2016 at 1:50 pm

    The problem is not the standard. The problem is when you discredit those who don’t meet that standard as if to say your way is the only way. It’s like the recent saga between Freeze and Noble Igwe. Freeze made it seem like a woman who cooks is better than a woman who doesn’t. This is where a lot of people get it wrong. It being your preference doesn’t make it better. A man who has a ride is not better than the one who doesn’t. He is just your preference. Simple. And I really think people should stop using the words ‘wife’ or ‘husband material’. It’s kind of limiting. If everybody is to have the same qualifications, it means everybody can marry everybody. Where’s the fun in that? Why the need for a soulmate then? Like they say, one man’s food is another man’s poison.

  3. Baby gurl

    July 20, 2016 at 3:16 pm

    She is so defensive wow.

  4. truthservedhot

    July 21, 2016 at 12:03 am

    She made zero sense. Her answer was all over the place.

  5. Tola

    July 21, 2016 at 8:01 am

    What is there to be defensive about, and it wasn’t an answer, it was an opinion. She said don’t be too picky, have your principles but don’t be too picky about it. What’s defensive about that . It’s how she feels , you may feel another way, that’s your problem. Ahn ahn, Na wa: please let her be

  6. Bukky

    July 21, 2016 at 8:03 am

    You guys seem to think, there is a right or wrong answer. It’s what she feels about guys setting some wierd standard. Can she live

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