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“Merck More than a Mother” Supports Jackline Mwende – A Victim of Infertility Stigma in Kenya

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Jackie - MerckWhen we read stories of individuals and organisations who go beyond their call of duty to help other people. It is in this light that we’re happy to share the story of the work being done by the “Merck More than a Mother” initiative – to help women suffering from infertility.

BellaNaija shared the videos of some of the beneficiaries of the Merck More than a Mother initiative. {Click here if you missed it}

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“Merck More than a Mother” initiative will support Jackline Mwende, the recent victim of infertility stigma, throughout the rest of her life after having her hands chopped off by her husband for failing to bear children. Merck aims to empower infertile women across the continent through access to information, health and change of mind-set through their initiative that been launched in June 2015 “More than a Mother”

“Jackeline Mwende, a young woman of 27 years from Machakos County in Kenya whose both hands were chopped off – not by thieves but by her own husband for failing to bear children. It is so shocking that someone would go to such an extent to batter his own wife and leave her nearly dead. Infertility should never be a reason to separate, hurt or kill your partner. There are so many options out there available to manage infertility” said Hon. Joyce Lay, Member of Parliament and the Ambassador for ‘Merck More than a Mother’ in Kenya.

“Through -Empowering Berna- project, Merck will support Jackeline Mwende throughout the rest of her life to empower and enable her to become an independent productive member in society. ‘Merck More than a Mother’ initiative will provide Mwende with a monthly income of $250 , then will establish a business for her in which she will be able to generate a sustainable monthly income of not less than $250. In addition she will get the needed physical and physiological rehabilitation to enable her to support herself and stand on her own two feet despite the challenge of her brutal disability that was caused by the stigma of infertility – even though her husband is the one who was found with the infertility problem, yet she is still the one who bore the devastating consequences of the public stigma associated with it.” said Rasha Kelej, the Chief Social Officer of Merck Healthcare.

Hon. Joyce lay, Jackline Mwende and her parents receive the support from “Merck more than a Mother”

“Mwende didn’t deserve what she went through and especially that her husband is the one who was found with the infertility problem and not her. Society, government and all stakeholders need to continue to join hands with Merck in their campaign to encourage the acceptance people live with infertility because the stigma associated with infertility puts pressure on them to a point where they do crazy and criminal things. We need to know that it’s a shared responsibility, not just for the couple but for the society too,” Joyce Lay added.

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Hon. Joyce lay, Jackline Mwende and her parents receive the support from “Merck more than a Mother”

“Jackline Mwende’s story is the reason all people should appreciate ‘Merck More than a Mother’ initiative. No sane person should torture a woman for failing to produce children. Men should not think that their failure to be a biological father is due to women’s infertility. Why torture a fellow human being and inflict such permanent bodily harm for a fault that could be yours?. No amount of justice in the courts of law will bring back Mwende’s arms. Justice will only prevail if Mwende’s case marks a turning point in society that appreciates one fact- “that women are women irrespective of their ability to bear children. They need to be respected,” emphasized Hon. Sarah Opendi, Uganda Minister of State of Health and Uganda ambassador of Merck more than a Mother.

“This terrible violence Mwende suffered has emphasised the significance of ‘Merck More than a Mother’ initiative for Africa. ‘Merck More than a Mother’ will continue working closely with partners to create a culture shift and to empower infertile women economically and socially through “Empowering Berna” Project to ensure no other woman in Africa should ever go through such violence, humiliation or misery again,” Rasha Kelej emphasized.

About “Merck more than a Mother” initiative
In many cultures, childless women still suffer discrimination, stigma and ostracism. Infertility can transform from an acute, private distress into a harsh public stigma with complex and devastating consequences. An inability to have a child or to become pregnant can result in being greatly isolated, disinherited or assaulted. This may result in divorce or physical and psychological violence.

Jackline Mwende with her parents at their home in Machakos, Kenya

Jackline Mwende with her parents at their home in Machakos, Kenya

“Merck More than a Mother” initiative aims to define interventions to reduce the stigma and social suffering of infertile women, empower them and raise awareness about male infertility and the necessity for a team approach to family building among couples across the continent.

According to the World Health Organization (WHO), lower levels of development are thought to be associated with higher levels of non-genetic and preventable causes of infertility. For instance, poor nutrition, untreated sexually transmitted infections (STIs), unsafe abortion, consequences of infections caused by the practice of female genital mutilation (FGM) or child marriage, exposure to smoking, leaded petrol and other environmental pollutants can lead to infertility.

About “Empowering Berna” Project
“It is very important to empower infertile women through improving access to awareness, health and change of mindset so they can bear children as part of their human rights. In case they can no longer be treated, ‘Empowering Berna’ project will contribute towards empowering and training them to establish their own small business so that they can be independent and re-build their own lives, a woman is more than a mother, ‘Empowering Berna’ initiative will prove this every day.” Rasha Kelej, Chief Social Officer of Merck Healthcare.

See the transformation of childless women after meeting “Merck more than a Mother” please watch videos below:

Stories of these infertile women who have been supported through the “Empowering Berna” Project:

12 Comments

  1. Mabel

    September 21, 2016 at 12:11 am

    Gosh. Why are men so wicked for no reason? He could have simply divorced her and moved on, but he just had to inflict lifelong pain upon her. Yet, they wonder why we fight and why some of us are so militant.
    Thank goodness an organization is there to render some aid however small. I can’t imagine what anyone can say or do to bring joy to her soul, her face speak her sorrows. May the Goddesses help us in this male dominant world. Whew!!!

  2. jennietobbie

    September 21, 2016 at 3:30 am

    Great initiative and thank you for helping these women!!!

  3. Temi

    September 21, 2016 at 5:18 am

    Good initiative.. and I do hope that the husband that chopped her hands is jailed for at least 20 years… Who knows maybe he was the one with low sperm count.. In Africa they tend to always blame the women.. Poor WE .. and our daughters, mothers and grannies..

  4. Puzzles

    September 21, 2016 at 5:52 am

    It was the man that was infertile yet he tried to kill his wife for infertility… Na wa o. God bless those behind these initiative

    And someone called JustSaying was mocking Jennifer Aniston for not having kids.. You and all who mock others for being childless are not different from this wicked husband

  5. Marian

    September 21, 2016 at 5:56 am

    I’m almost certain the guy is the one with the issue. She’s only 27. Mehn!!! I just can’t!!! There is something wrong with a culture that puts down women for not having kids on time or not at all like they are the ones creating babies. Read on another post a wife and mother feeling superior for having kids. So the ones without kids should go and die abi? She’s not even barren. She’s only 27 for crying out loud. Unless she has an underlying condition like pcos would have only recommended lots of sex and just charting her period to know when she’s ovulating and most fertile.

    I have met so many amazing women who have changed lives and made a difference in this world and they did it without marriage or kids. Infact they won’t have been able to go as far as they did if they were married with kids. I love the institution of marriage but it’s not the only path to a fulfilled life. Having kids will not take anyone to heaven. Adoption is also another option!

  6. Cindy

    September 21, 2016 at 6:16 am

    You’ll not see the likes of Paul Adeyemo on this post now. This is for those wondering why feminists exist. I’m so pissed, mtchew!

  7. ese

    September 21, 2016 at 7:36 am

    Too much evil going on in this world..my heart can’t take it anymore

    • Tosin

      September 21, 2016 at 8:56 am

      Hugs.

  8. lotus flower

    September 21, 2016 at 9:33 am

    Lord! These dear women! It’s sad that in many societies, infertility is a ‘woman’s issue’. Many men suffer from infertility as well. People need to realize that it can affect anyone, no matter your sex.

  9. Bela

    September 21, 2016 at 11:34 am

    I can tell that VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN is far to an end. I agree with Mabel, he should just divorce her and move on. What a World are we living in. Thank Lord there still good samaritans and hope she can find hope and tranquility through the goodness of this organization.

  10. Daphne_647

    September 21, 2016 at 1:38 pm

    i am literally crying right now. ‘”having her hands chopped off by her husband for failing to bear children””. this is the saddest thing i have ever heard in my entire life.
    I lost my left eye in infancy and i still dont feel the same today so i can only imagine what this woman is going through. God bless you ma.
    Is the husband still alive. i would like to pay him a visit.

  11. Ivana

    September 21, 2016 at 1:53 pm

    God bless “Merck More than a Mother” very commendable act of kindness, that’s what it’s all about, giving a meaning to the lives of others.

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