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Is Bigger Always Better? Olamide Craig Gets Candid About Penis Sizes on Twitter!



IMG_20140611_135536 Penis Sizes: Women speak in hushed tones about them, while men use them as gauge of superiority (of some sort). Well, BellaNaija columnist, Olamide Craig expounded on the subject last night via his Twitter feed.

And boy, did he explain!

Ladies, and gentlemen, read his tweets below:












































    October 22, 2014 at 9:39 pm

    Fine doctor,nice tweets. Personally, I think the usage matter more than the size. Instead of a weapon of mass destruction, I would prefer a weapon of mass satisfaction. That being said,dear Lord place me at parallel line with a guy with an undersized or oversized penis. May we never meet. I need some compensation for not being a lesbian. #Teammoderatepenis.

    • Jane

      October 22, 2014 at 10:50 pm


    • dinky

      October 23, 2014 at 9:59 am

      confession: My first bf has what u’ll call average penis (in my opinion). Sex with him was satisfying…. good… I climax….. we were together 3 yrs. Then we broke up and I started dating again… So,abt 2 weeks after, he stripped in my presence and I realised that my new bf has a small penis!… and i mean small (not the pinky finger type sha o).. when i saw it, I was disappointed. In fact, I dint have sex with him for a long time ‘cos he is a really good person, I liked being with and I wasn’t ready to let go of the relationship ……yet! The small penis was a deal breaker… or so I thought…. but he kisses like a god…..then, we had sex for the 1st time… Jesus of Nazareth! I didn’t know sex can be soo good… Now I know what climaaaaaaxing is… No jokes I now have soo many ringtones I cant even keep up. Enough said, I TOTALLY agree that it is not about size… its how u use it….that small penis may be what you are looking for.

    • fyre

      October 23, 2014 at 6:28 pm

      Amen!!!!!!! Hahahaha
      This killed me oooo……Jesu

  2. jake ro

    October 22, 2014 at 9:40 pm

    Still we have to be honest to ourselves, most women love it big but, not extremely big.that is for the porn industry as you say, but small penis is also a put -off for most women too.research shows that most women prefer it average and above average not small

    • Amiira

      October 23, 2014 at 11:08 am

      This Doc’s tweets reminds me of 2 encounters I had as a young lady. I met and dated 2 guys with gigantic ‘weapons’. The first guy we dated for 5months and when the d-day came for me to see the junk in the-trunk that I have felt through the day, I was astounded by what I saw. I could just do it. I felt the guy was going to bring my intestines out and I wasn’t in fo that adventure. I was so terrified that I did not continue with the relationship later…I just made up silly excuses to end it. No 2 guy was so much of a gentleman and never pressured me for sex until I was so ready to ‘do’ him. I couldn’t until the 3rd attempt. The first time I saw ‘him’ I had my mouth hung open. He cajoled me and I had the most excrutiating but short sex I’ve ever had in my life after ‘disvirgining’. I could have passed out in pain if he had not stopped by the 4th thrust. Mhen!. He said I was the one who was too tight. What? But I was the one who had a monster for a dick. I loved him but I hated the sex we had with a passion. It was like purnishment. We dated for about a year and 2 months but I don’t think our sex was up to 8 times in all. Thank god for the distance between us. We are still friends though. Finally I met my match. A guy who has ‘the perfect dick’ , who makes me cum, cum and cum without pain. He is long and lean and makes me so wet that I drip. That is a man. Thank God I’m no longer searching because I don reach last busstop (my hubby of 7years). So my fellow bellanaigerians, abeg be no conformed to this world because that ‘koko’ may not make you or your v-jay-jay happy. Cheers. Nb: I’m no pretender but do not advice women to do sex before marriage IF they can

  3. I like

    October 22, 2014 at 9:43 pm

    very well said. Dnt be decieved by the porn world ppl!

  4. Emem

    October 22, 2014 at 9:44 pm

    God bless you

  5. Dr Craaaaaaaaig

    October 22, 2014 at 9:44 pm

    Lolll Dr. Craig toh badt, very insightful .pls are you married? you iz cute. your face like your 😉 ??also what is pouch of douglas ejo?

  6. Dr Craaaaaaig

    October 22, 2014 at 9:59 pm

    Hmm Jake ro na lie o, I thought so until I met some guy I was madly in love with DAMN! We had sex a year after being friends and the attraction was maximum .I am that woman that when I love you, sex must be good even if you have a tiny sausage but this baby was DAMMMMMMMMMMN!!!!!!! and much as I was into him, like love sex was PAINFUL, I looked forward to being with him the next time hoping skills props and position will change it, but I had fear in my mind and yes by the 3rd thrust I couldn’t SAD! I loved him but pain ain’t no pleasure for mama. I like moderate abeg and I can tell you most guys feel their dicks are big, when my moderate is bragging, I just don’t want to truncate his ego and tell him, you never see someTHING.

    • Jane

      October 22, 2014 at 10:52 pm


  7. yummie

    October 22, 2014 at 10:04 pm

    all i c is dr.craig……lol.

  8. bruno

    October 22, 2014 at 10:12 pm

    in conclusion, no pastor or daddy in the lord or prophet can make ur penis size increase with prayer.

  9. bruno

    October 22, 2014 at 10:19 pm

    I have seen a lot of penises that can last me a life time, and the humongous ones look disgusting. trust me, having a mega penis is not cute. and it hurts, damn.biko stay away from me with ur gorilla penis. (also a tiny penis is a huge turn off)

    • dinky

      October 23, 2014 at 10:08 am

      Bruno is a female? Jesus!

    • bruno

      October 23, 2014 at 11:35 am

      cause its only women that like ‘penis’

    • kuuks

      October 23, 2014 at 11:37 am

      @dinky thoughts exactly…smh

    • Dora the explorer

      October 23, 2014 at 4:17 pm

      no bruno is gay (so he/she claims)

    • Pat

      October 23, 2014 at 5:00 pm

      yes Bruno is female

  10. bruno

    October 22, 2014 at 10:19 pm

    dr craig I didnt know u where a pastor.

    • Arin

      October 23, 2014 at 10:38 am

      Now you know. And to think Bruno is a lady who has seen different shapes and sizes… interesting revelation.

    • MC

      October 23, 2014 at 12:06 pm

      Bruno may not be a woman….Seeing different shapes and sizes doesn’t automatically make Bruno a female.

      I’m not saying Bruno is a he…just saying that what was said doesn’t confirm Bruno is a she.

    • Idak

      October 23, 2014 at 1:33 pm

      Is this a joke? Or you are too slow to realize that gay men have sex?
      I struggle to see the revelation you claim to find interesting.

    • Bleed Blue

      October 23, 2014 at 5:39 pm

      Idak, I struggle along with you…sigh…

  11. Anon

    October 22, 2014 at 10:44 pm

    Eloquent and a good read.

  12. Jane

    October 22, 2014 at 10:53 pm

    nice tweets, most of it is true…i think guys should master how to use their equipment to pleasure a woman, irrespective of the size.

  13. Blaqgurlrok

    October 22, 2014 at 10:53 pm

    Bruno Bruno Bruno!!!! Bruno Fassbender – bending since 1960. So you even know how painful the big ones are WOW

    • TANTRA

      October 24, 2014 at 5:36 am

      Bruno replied to a commenter once,”…I am not even a dude”. I guess she is a lady. From her comments, she may not be a full time gay. She may just be one who sees nothing wrong in anyone being a gay or she may be one who was pushed into it by the unusual big penises that hit her. She had to run for dear life.

  14. C'est moi

    October 22, 2014 at 10:58 pm

    The penis plays no part in my orgasm.
    Only good for making babies.

    • Ada Nnewi

      October 23, 2014 at 9:08 am

      Wow…They’ve been doing you the wrong way…95% of the time i’ve had an orgasm was through penile penetration and there was one beautiful ecstatic multiple orgasm i had with a moderate size penis that made me fall in love/lust so bad ehhhnnn..i was d*%k whipped! Till today when i remember the experience i shiver… My eyes literally rolled back in my head when dude was done with me….

    • BlueEyed

      October 23, 2014 at 1:19 pm

      They have not been doing her wrong, did you read the post at all?, if penile stimulation doesn’t do it for then it’s because she is as different in composition as a human as you are from many other women. As the Doctor said one size does not fit all.

    • Idak

      October 23, 2014 at 5:36 pm

      Even the way you described the experience so well, It sounds like I was there live!

    • dark knight

      October 23, 2014 at 11:23 am

      I feel you

  15. iyke

    October 22, 2014 at 11:10 pm

    Story!Consolation for the small men!
    Pastor, please don’t tell that to a chic who has been (dickmatized) tasted a big dick or to a dude who has seen a bigger dick than his.
    Medically, it may mean nothing, but psychologically, size does matter. Why do you think women fight over men? You think it’s because of money?
    It’s not a big issue if you have not tasted it, (what you don’t have, you don’t miss), there is no going back if you have been with a guy with a bigger dick. who fills you up…that’s how chics role…otherwise, they will keep comparing.
    For men, we always size ourselves up. How we deal with it is another story. We always wish it’s a bit bigger….if you want to know what am talking about, go to the men’s changing room after a gym training. Those who believe in what they carry, walk around naked while the small ones look for where to hide.

    • Dr. Craig

      October 22, 2014 at 11:58 pm

      Iyke chill.

      Answer me this. Which came first? The chicken or the egg?
      Want to know why bigger guys are seemingly better in bed? Its because they have more confidence and by extension have gotten more practice. Sexual prowess after all is a skill that must be learnt.

      Why are average guys seemingly not as good in bed? I dare say that its because of the very idea you’ve shared here. Because they have been fed for so long the lie that if they are not impaling a woman then they can never satisfy her.

      So what really is the cause of poor sexual performance? A lack of confidence or an average sized penis? You tell me.

      Guys, don’t be fooled. No one is born an Adonis! Even the most proficient lover was at some point a bumbling novice. Sexual prowess can be learnt. All it takes is practise.
      Now does that mean you should go out and sow your wild oats and get as much experience under your belt as you can before you marry? God forbid No! Premarital sex is not part of Gods plan. Whats more, what you learnt pleasing Folake may be useless with Fatima anyway and what you learnt to do to make Morin scream your name may not work at all with Muna.

      The fact is that Women are different and one size does NOT fit all.

    • infinity

      October 23, 2014 at 12:44 am

      Hi doctor craig in case you see this could you please give an insight into why i do feel pain after sex? Like i always get so swollen all round my vagina even when am very “wet”? This always scares me to have sex and i have been tested for sexual infections by my GP but they all are negative.
      P.S i was sexually abused as a kid could it be a factor? Even though i stopped dwelling on that?

    • tea

      October 23, 2014 at 1:42 am

      My husband and i waited till we said I Do. I must admit that at first we were not really flowing, but after two years in marriage……gosh we have perfected our sexual harmony, its crazy! You can both learn in marriage, just communicate.

    • Royalty

      October 23, 2014 at 2:27 am

      Dr the Dr! na u biko!

    • Tee

      October 23, 2014 at 9:19 am

      Hello Dr, nothing do your tone, totally got what you were saying but since you mentioned premarital sex again…I was wondering, could you please do an article on the spiritual and medical effects of premarital sex on the psychology and physiology of both men and women–the psyche of a person in essence?

      Thou shall not have sex before marriage isn’t in the 10 commandments and don’t you think the societal prohibition of sex before marriage is more morality driven than medically and / or spiritually driven?

      I mean Mary is historically estimated to have been about 12-15 when she married Joseph who, on the other hand, was about 30 something…do you think he was a virgin? No, blasphemy intended o but I don’t think so.

      And before you buy a luxury car and let’s say that’s the only car you’ll ever drive till the end of time…isn’t it only logical to test drive it before purchasing it? Doctor, if you haven’t done a write up on this before pleeeaasse do one and I know you’re a pastor but it would be nice if you could give us a Christian (specifically), religious (generally) and medical outlook on the matter.

      Thanks DC

    • Dr. Craig

      October 23, 2014 at 1:03 am

      No offense intended Iyke. Realised my tone was a bit condescending. Was not intentional.

    • Bella

      October 23, 2014 at 8:54 am

      and humble too…<3

    • ConcernedNigerian

      October 23, 2014 at 11:04 am

      @Tee, premarital sex has everything to do with the spiritual which inturn makes manifest in the physical and moral aspect of life.
      Taking it from the Christianity like you mentioned, when one reads the bible you ask for discerning spirit to understand the message of the bible, also Bible I think should not be read in part, it should be read as a whole and understood, just like the Book of Wisdom tries to always weigh two sides of life. So you quoted the 10 commandment not mentioning anything about don’t have premarital sex, but I ask have you read the part of the bible that states/lists the things that are evil and separates us from God, those things that come out from us that defiles us, Matthew 15.
      More so the Bible also made it known that its not just in the commandment that our judgment lies. Matthew 25 but more emphasis on vs 39-43, where the righteous and sinner was separated into right and left hand respectively; note there that the judgment there was based on how we treat our neighbors.
      God in His infinite wisdom has set out ways by which we ought to live so that it will go well with us, but when we abandon it, its to our own peril. Now how could you use such a Logic of buying an expensive car and trying to test run it before you buy which means you could be part of the populace that subscribes to men making sure by manner of test running, that a woman becomes pregnant before you marry the woman just to be sure she’s fertile. How so that our wisdom its foolishness in the eyes of our Creator.
      There is a reason we are called to stay away from premarital sex because of the social and physical woes it could bring. Now you said how could you not test run, but I say to you if all men obeyed this call to not fornicate, pray tell how would any man claim to know what sexual satisfaction is in the first instance, I bet both couple will be novice and they would discover themselves, in love, understanding and communication. Like the law of elasticity, when it something reaches its elastic limit, it becomes plastic. Is it not because of over indulgence that makes a man/woman sex freak, then you find out that you now have to relate to the opposite sex just based on the sexual prowess. Now keep in mind that a lot of individuals has missed out of great opportunities of being with a great opposite sex just because he is not good in bed, people actually miss out on their right partner just cos they are not ‘good’ between the sheets.
      The word of God is true and no man can take away or add to it, the foolishness of God is wiser than men, and the weakness of God is stronger than men 1st Corinthians 25 vs 40-41

    • iyke

      October 23, 2014 at 11:12 am

      No offense taken buddy!
      My opinion may not be popular but it’s cool..We are here to learn and be informed right?
      Yes, I subscribe to Mark Twain’s quote on the ”Not the size of the dog in the fight, but the fight in the dog……’ . but the reality is that (MEN) wish that the dog is a Roth instead of a Chihuahua.
      Men, we talk, we hang out and we know how we feel about size and how it affects our confidence. Blame it on the porn industry or whatever, the fact still remains that we DO worry about it…and it does matter to us. How our women see it, it’s completely different. And that is where we need their help, to guide us on exactly what they want.
      # Am just keeping it real.

    • Heph

      October 24, 2014 at 12:05 am

      Chai! See prim and proper man; so civil, so humble. God save you I don fal pata-pata for Aneyo my medium and satisfying adonis, I for chase you till the ends Of this earth

    • Ada Nnewi

      October 23, 2014 at 9:09 am


    • Didi

      October 23, 2014 at 4:06 pm

      Oga iyke, you sound familiar.

    • TA

      October 23, 2014 at 5:42 pm

      @ Tee,that age-old comparison people always draw between test driving a car and testing your partner sexually before marriage… Well, look at it this way. The Creator who made humans was the one who gave the law on no sex before marriage. He created us, so he knows what is best. More like the Toyota or Honda guys his car. God knows and understands human makeup more than any gynaecologist or scientist. He knows and understands what makes us tick. (Roms 9:20) And the beauty of it is that: His laws are for our own benefit!

    • Heph

      October 24, 2014 at 12:12 am

      Also, one does no miss or have experience of what you haven’t done before. I dated my 1st bf for 7yrs and I didn’t realise he wasn’t the best guy in bed until I slept with someone else. I wish I never did any of them but rather conform to God’s standard. Fornication is a sin against one’s body, spirit and God. Why even bother when you may not know if you’ll ever end up with the guys you experiment with.

  16. Lilian

    October 22, 2014 at 11:11 pm

    Very educative and informative.God bless You Dr Craig, handsome man of God.

  17. SISI EKO

    October 23, 2014 at 12:08 am

    sorry to divert abit,i used to be very embarrassed with my very small boobs, despite the fact that I have an amazing body, well shaped hips, flat tummy and tall with an average facial look, i know for sure when i walk past men they look back to admire me, i know i am hawt,my friends and colleague says I am hawt, beautiful, get compliment here and there but in my mind I wasn’t happy because of my very small breast, I hardly dress in front of people, even if I do I wear my padded bra so quick so no one would see my undersized breast……you would never see me early in the morning without wearing bra, unlike most girls, I didn’t want people how flat chested I was, meanwhile all along I have had failed relationships in the past,deep in my mind I would be wondering could it be because of my undersized breast, because when its comes to relationship I give my all, they profess there undying love and all, we always had wonderful time and at the end something ,somehow would happen and they walk away, I was scared and I always worry probably nobody want to be with me because I was flat chested, as time goes on I decided to have more confidence in my body, not as if I wasn’t a beautiful woman that was just my BUT…..and decided to remain celibate till whenever the Mr. right comes and do the needful before any thing called sex can happen, and I prayed for my bone of my bone, God made it happen, fast forward to months ago, my now husband had sex for the first time, I could see fear in his eyes has he inserted his pe*****s, hmmmm, small pe****s, he was embarrassed but just couldn’t resist me, he was shy but made him feel so wonderful as if he was the best in bed ,i looked beyondd small p****s ,knowing the torture I went thru with feeling bad about my body, he got small p****s, I got small breast, we are so free around each other, our sex life is wow, he reaches climax and I do too, the first 3 times I could see he wasn’t so free, he covers up always, but now he walk around naked…..freely and I do the same as well, with my undersized breast….lol with my amazing hips and flat tummy,i looked beyond small penis because he is a wonderful MAN….I think its the thing of the mind, if you feel you would be satisfied with a small p*****s, you would… breast aren’t extremely small just perky and wont fill a whole palm and wont give round cleavage without push op bra,….lol……MY STORY… me satisfaction and reaching orgasm is a thing of the mind…….,sorry for my gbagahuns

    • Royalty

      October 23, 2014 at 2:27 am

      Awww.. heart felt!

    • Tee

      October 23, 2014 at 9:04 am

      this just goes to show that humans, irrespective of race, nationality and tribe, have more similarities than disparities, we share the same fears and concerns. We are all uniquely beautiful and precious.

    • Anon

      October 23, 2014 at 9:21 am

      Truth be told if you don’t want your breast to be small don’t wear bra every now and then especially as you grow into your 20’s . I have big breast unfortunately I’m not a fan so I always wear bra to curb the growth and it’s worked for me sha .

    • BN

      October 23, 2014 at 9:33 am


    • Idak

      October 23, 2014 at 10:13 am

      BN,please “Give This lady a Bells!”
      This story of hers warms my heart.

    • aj

      October 25, 2014 at 11:44 pm

      lmaoooooooooooooooo small dick hubby and small breast wife. but i loved your story though.

  18. Ib

    October 23, 2014 at 12:23 am

    Can I have a “Medium Large” please?

    • Bella

      October 23, 2014 at 8:56 am


    • Ada Nnewi

      October 23, 2014 at 9:12 am

      lmao!! You’re my kind!

    • Idomagirl

      October 23, 2014 at 9:57 am


  19. baboushka

    October 23, 2014 at 12:27 am

    So he is actually called Craig David like the singer! Good stuff doc porn has been distorting sex lives since 1900…

  20. lase

    October 23, 2014 at 12:34 am

    Dr Craig!!!!

  21. Kenny Jossy

    October 23, 2014 at 12:35 am

    @Dr. Craig nice one. One love and remain blessed. For guys, understanding a woman’s body, is paramount. If a woman loves you, you are half way there regardless. Dr. the topic i really want you to talk about if you feel comfortable, bc most Nigerian men think its disgusting, is a man giving their women head. I think if a man knows how to give head very well, most women i think will receive good pleasure. If a man’s weapon is small, giving head will compensate bc the most important thing about sex, is for both parties to get orgasm. I will suggest guys before you give head to your woman, make sure she’s really neat down below bc some women can be really nasty, vise versa.

  22. Kenny Jossy

    October 23, 2014 at 1:45 am

    Gbam Dr. your second reply, on point i cannot agree more. May God continue to give you wisdom bro.

  23. Carliforniabawlar

    October 23, 2014 at 2:22 am

    Lol. I don’t care what it can do, some things are big and some things are small….shikena. Well, I’m not known for my subtlety so when i saw my ex’s penis one time and he started going on about it being big, my response with a puzzled look on my face was “….errrrrr, nope. I may not have seen a lot in my lifetime but i don’t think your size is what they call big…” Then homeboy started arguing that i don’t know anything jare that it was ‘big for his bodysize’….i just kept shaking my head in disagreement…my guy dey think say he don see ‘good girl’ he can confuse….hehehe. In retrospect i think that may have just been the worst conversation i ever had with a guy…

    • Iris

      October 23, 2014 at 6:55 am

      LMFAO! Tell him abeg. How could he now be arguing about it? Insecure much? Such a turn-off. Those are the kind of people that may take out their insecurities or frustrations on their partners.

    • Ada Nnewi

      October 23, 2014 at 9:14 am

      ROTFLMAO! You had liver to tell him i will just keep quiet and form celibate after, never going back to his bed…

  24. Amh

    October 23, 2014 at 2:58 am

    hmm. What can i say. I once dated a useless guy with humongous. Fat very big and unimaginably painful. The annoying part of it is that tne idiot kept going on and kept changing styles for over an hour. It was painful. Irritating unenjoyable and damn right off. He had no intention of coming at all. Did all the squeeing in the world to get d idiot off me. With his cow leg. No nothing worked. Untill i fake not been able to breathe that he got the gist haba. It was a great turn off. Kept changing styles every minutes. I dumbed d gorilla. The next day, my hubby has a moderately big penis. Which he knows how to use very well. Minimum of 3 orgasms each time we make love. He was not that good when we met a long time ago but long years of marriage. Listening to my wants and needs helped. Hes the best. I woman married to mr cowleg. I can bet she has permanent bow legs. Girls abeg dinosaur dicks are a great turn off. Mtcheew.

    • Tee

      October 23, 2014 at 8:57 am

      LWKMD, BN you have comedians sha

  25. jennietobbie

    October 23, 2014 at 3:18 am

    Shamelessly following on Twitter.! Dang, a fine, Godly and intelligent man? Sign my up, honey!! My generation is still INTACT!!! Thank you, doc and God bless u for shaming “every man cheats” syndrome. Never believed it, anyways.

    Breathe of fresh air, I tell ya!!

  26. benny

    October 23, 2014 at 3:32 am

    Big peens aint all that o. Oga is big. I was grateful to God at first but now I feel like my uterus is an endangered specie.
    Lest I forget, unless u want to die on the spot, don’t try some positions with a big peen man. Your pelvic bones will just resign and walk away mid action.
    I signed up for life so na here we dey sha. Love him irrespective of…

    • Tee

      October 23, 2014 at 8:55 am

      Here…you need a hug…pele, God knows why…I almost feel sorry for you *puzzled face*#shrugs shoulders

    • Ada Nnewi

      October 23, 2014 at 9:15 am


    • Bleed Blue

      October 23, 2014 at 5:46 pm

      Hahahahahahahaha!!! You BN people have finished me today oh!

      Chei sister benny sorry oh ehn… **wiping away hot tears**

  27. 2X

    October 23, 2014 at 4:14 am

    Dr Fine Craig lets have your email jor…. 🙂 🙂 I hope the confidence you exude in your tweets is so in real life….am almost crushing on you 🙂

    • jmada

      October 23, 2014 at 9:35 am


  28. Elvina

    October 23, 2014 at 5:08 am

    Hello Dr,

    I agree with most of the things you said. And I think it’s great that people are starting to publicly talk about sex because it deserves to be talked about. The only thing I want to add is that True there are SMALL sizes. Notice I put small in caps? That was deliberate. And by that I mean really small sizes.

    I am a lady that would always say that the size of a man’s equipment isn’t my concern. I don’t see a man and worry about what size he has. Friends even tried to convince me that it’s important to worry about it but I still didn’t think it was. I’ve always believed that it’s more about how the dick is used than the dick itself. However that impression changed after I saw a REALLY small dick. I mean so small that after erection it was still the size of one on my fingers! Not big and not long! The guy told me before he had a small dick but I wrote it off as maybe something not that bad. But after I saw it I honestly felt pity for him, considering he’s such a cute and intelligent guy. No woman (except a virgin who doesn’t know any better) would stay with him after seeing that. I told him to do something about it but he felt there was nothing he could do. Honestly a virgin wouldn’t even FEEL that dick inside of her. And he knows it.

    Isn’t there an approved Penis enlargement stuff such guys can take? I remember someone once told me he was taking such drugs with the approval of his doctor. If there’s something like that I’ll really be glad to talk to him about it. He needs help. And you’ll believe me if you believe me that I’m really not a girl concerned about dick sizes so if I am saying this it means it’s really bad. This abstinence from sex before marriage is a challenge for issues like that. Imagine that I was married to him before I saw his equipment?! It was even too small to fondle with. Too small for a blow job. Just too small.

    The reason I posted this was to confirm that really there are small, even tiny penises. It’s not all in their heads Dr. And women looking for big penis, I hail una o. Maybe if I had a cervix that was very deep within I wouldn’t mind. But with something called cervix and the sharp pain from when a penis brushes it, an average size dick is a girl’s favorite; especially when you are the type that likes experimenting with positions. You can try anything without fear that something is going to hit something!

    • Dr. Craig

      October 23, 2014 at 7:11 am

      Hello Elvina.
      I agree with you that there are a hand full of men whose penises are well below average.

      XS men make up about 5% of the male population.
      Men with average sized packages (M) make up 50%. Those with slightly below average (S) and slightly above average (L) both make up 20% and 20% respectively. That leaves the 5% who are well above average (XL)

      The same way there are guys who are 6 feet 8 inches tall, so also there are guys who are 5 feet 2 inches tall. The same way some women are a voluptous DD, so also there are women who are small AAA. Variety they say is the spice of life.

      Can women with small breasts look sexy for their husbands and be good in bed? Definitely! Can men with small packages satisfy their wives and give them pleasure? Most definitely!
      All they need is to think outside the box, be confident, creative and adventurous. If the spouse is supportive and willing to help the other learn, then as AMH mentioned, they can both discover eachother and bring sizzling passion into their marriage.

      God bless you

    • Nigerian Lady

      October 23, 2014 at 1:57 pm

      Dr Craigggg, hola at a sister real quick!! boyyyy, boy you summer time fine…

    • Eliva

      October 24, 2014 at 2:27 am

      Just to mention that the small breast comparison you gave wasn’t a fair one. While men have their preferences as regards the size they want to grab on to, big or not, the breasts does its part during love making. Its sensitivity doesn’t depend on its size. And it is not been inserted into anything. On the other hand, while it is true that a woman can still have a good time through other means during love making, the satisfaction that can be achieved from penetration sex is a feeling that can’t be compared to any other form of sex. A very small penis can leave a woman in sexual dissatisfaction for the rest of her life or at least have her give up a form of sex, penetration sex. Let’s say it the way it is.

      My question that you didn’t respond to remains:

      What can such men who are really small do aside getting creative in bed? Isn’t there any doctor approved penis enlargement treatment?

  29. kenny Jossy

    October 23, 2014 at 7:08 am

    @2X october. Ashewo the Dr. no dey look for woman. If your kponyon day scratch you, make you go look for ppl with Ebola way go help you scratch am. Omo elenwon

  30. babycakes

    October 23, 2014 at 7:13 am

    Very informative tweets! Quite a lot of reference was made to porn here, so i suggest that it might be a good idea for the insecure to stop watching it. Better still, stop defining themselves by it. Pouch of Douglas?? Never heard of that before. I must look it up. Thanks doc for the great knowledge you keep imparting.

  31. Bullet

    October 23, 2014 at 7:19 am

    wow……am lost!!!!!

  32. Shir

    October 23, 2014 at 8:17 am

    Very intelligent write up, most of the time it’s not about the size but how you use it. Guys with big Dicks think it’s about the bang bang bang and how long they last, I blame their inflated ego and the porn industry. That being said, small penises are usually one minute men. Not only is he little but with weak erection and can’t last more than two minutes? Girls need atleast a 6incher to fill her up nicely, not the one that struggles to penetrate. In as much as there are several ways to make a girl cum, it cannot substitute being banged/filled up. I can’t marry a pinky finger guy no matter the skills he has….my opinion

  33. Carliforniabawlar

    October 23, 2014 at 8:31 am

    Oh!! Lest I forget, Dr Craig, by the way, I’m going to join instagram or twitter just for the sole purpose of creating a meme with this your fine picture and the caption “Let me assure you, that for every penis size, there is a woman whose vagina will respond ecstatically to it”

    Ohhhhh brace yourself!! We’re aboutz to go viral sir!! Lehgooo!!

    • TA

      October 23, 2014 at 1:57 pm

      Oh dear Lord! ROTFLOOOL. The women of BN are a crazy lot. Lol Cray cray people.
      @ Californiabawlar, you had me bawling with laughter like a crazy Chica. Oh my days! Loool. Chai. BN will not be the death of me, I swear.

    • Concerned_Boyfriend

      October 24, 2014 at 3:52 am

      LMFAO!…Lemme know your handle so I can retweet/repost..

  34. Grown Woman

    October 23, 2014 at 8:48 am

    wow very informative info…Dr. Craig, please next time how to make a woman climax.Most women have no idea and some men to 🙂

  35. akinwumi

    October 23, 2014 at 8:58 am

    Well I have it big down there. I also last longer and it make me uncomfortable with myself.

  36. roneyberry

    October 23, 2014 at 8:58 am

    Love me some doctor Craig….

  37. Fashionista

    October 23, 2014 at 9:06 am

    Size is definitely NOT everything! My hubby is huge, sex for us most times is just painful and uncomfortable for me.

  38. SISI EKO

    October 23, 2014 at 9:27 am

    Just like dr Craig said, its all about confidence for guys, with or without big p****s, once a guy has that then he can perform to satisfaction…like my hubby, I made him feel relaxed and never reacted as if I was disappointed, over time he improved…..I was just concerned about getting pregnant, which medically, size of equipment doesn’t affect, I was just worried in my mind hoping the sperm travels down to the right spot,3months after we got pregnant, its been amazing, girls please look beyond sizes o, he makes me reach orgasm, what more, his skills improved…..guessing he must have been embarrassed in the past with his equipment, because first few times we made love, the confidence wasn’t there, girls its the thing of the mind, and acceptance of your spouse the way they are, what more can I ask for, he’s not perfect but very nice guy that loves me, was suprised last night a very special gift….love him like that.

  39. pj

    October 23, 2014 at 9:31 am

    For the first time I read the message and almost all the comments, the comments are almost more informative than the tweet shared.

    I’ve never met a guy with really small penises, so I have no tale to tell, so I believe the fact that only a few guys have really small penis.

    But to derail, I once met a guy with dysfunctional erection, even when erect he has to force the penis in, cos it wasn’t hard enough, now the problem is, he was too proud to even be aware of his state, then I spoke to my doctor about it, and he said “please let him see me. There is solution to that”. That was how the mumu guy messed up and started misbehaving, I ended up not telling him about his problem and I know most women won’t tell him they will just walk away. I feel awful at times, but when I think of what he did to me, I just smile this wicked smile.


  40. SEEN ALL

    October 23, 2014 at 9:56 am

    I know how hard rejection can be. I mean, i don’t know personally but I’ve heard about it from guys that has small PENIS.

  41. beibei

    October 23, 2014 at 10:24 am

    No harm to any one but the Last time this happened to me was in march and he has not been able to look me in the face…I jst ended a relationship sooo i wanted to u go wild…we got drunk nd i was expecting amazing until i noticed a small d**k not up to my thumb…i am petit by d way….well…i am sorry bou saying my ex d**k was huge buh it was huge nd sweet…buh i will never pray to see such again

    • En

      October 23, 2014 at 3:24 pm

      I feel your pain, girl….. same thing happened to me and quickly did I “bro-zone” him.

  42. lollly

    October 23, 2014 at 10:50 am

    very enlightening post. I met a guy about 3 months ago and we are currently dating. the first question i asked myself when i met him was ‘ how can a cute, comfortable decent guy still be single in his mid 30″s. then i approaching mid 30’s too, single, intelligent, good job, decent..etc ..some things happen which are no fault of yours.
    I visited him at home recently and we ended up in his bedroom…we just kissed and cuddled up but he kept pulling my hands down there begging me to just touch him. I eventually braced up and did. hmm..i just cdnt hide my disappointment and shock. i was like ‘ God this isnt fair! how can a tall well built guy be dis small …i had to pull myself together cos i was almost going to cry. in my mind,cos in my mind I was beginning to visualize marriage with him .
    Anyways, i have decided to keep the relationship going, get to know him better. I plan to keep the bed undefiled before marriage so the idea of experimenting to check if his size doesn’t pose a threat isnt an option for me. perhaps if I end up falling hopelessly in love (all other things being equal), his size wouldnt be such a big deal …and on the other side hoping and praying that for his size, my V will respond ecstatically!
    God help me.

  43. ngozi

    October 23, 2014 at 10:57 am

    LOL… the weapon of mass satisfaction comment just had me laughing sooo hard at workk.. you guys are too funny.. love the Dr’s point and the comments from bella readers.. keeping it real…lol

  44. Chai!

    October 23, 2014 at 11:05 am

    Chai! Chai! Chai!

    On top d**k matter, comments have reached this?
    Checked BN 30mins ago and knew i didnt see this article/post
    Was surprised to have seen all these comments as if the article was posted yesterday

    It is well

  45. funbaby

    October 23, 2014 at 11:13 am

    please what of ladies with small breast. Before I used to feel very insecure and I have decided to say no to sex until I can be confident. I wear padded bra all d time to give myself a little confidence but how can I develop this confidence when am naked and married?

  46. Mimi

    October 23, 2014 at 11:23 am

    Yaaay! Lamide Craig oh! Nice one. We are prouding on you! lol! I like it when Christians are free and talk about sex like every other topic. Not the one that you will be coding it. I was annoyed when i was about to get married and church sisters were just shutting down on my questions.

    I want to encourage you to write on the premarital sex articles as requested above. I believe God will give you the wisdom to deal with it! Xoxo

    • Dr. Craig

      October 23, 2014 at 1:13 pm

      One day some years ago, a muslim friend I had just made asked me if premarital sex was allowed in Christianity. Shocked at first I wondered why she would ask such a thing.
      “Well” she said, “I am a virgin, and I know most of my friends are. But I am yet to meet a Christian my age who is a virgin”
      Then she asked me, “Are you a virgin? How many of your friends are virgins?”
      She concluded that there must be a passage somewhere in our Bible’s that allowed it, because according to her all of us were doing it.”What’s more” she added, “you shout it on the rooftops. At least when my friends who are not virgins do it, they are hush hush about it”

      I thought long and hard about her question. A quick mental census of all my unmarried friends at the time revealed that her observations were sadly true. A huge chunk of them were not virgins and neither was I. This assessment of my friends, I assured her, was very unfair, because I knew* for a fact that there were many amongst them who despite having lost their virginity were abstinent.
      “What about the rest?”
      “At least they are in stable committed relationships!” I blurted out without thinking.

      As the words escaped my lips I realised that I had unconsciously lowered my standards and had begun to condone the very thing that my entire ministry was set up to correct.

      Later that evening as I walked the long route down the cold Selly Oak high street from her house to mine, I realised that I had relaxed my standards out of fear that I would be seen as a hypocrite if I stood too firmly on this truth. I had done so simply because I knew that I myself had once fallen. I was no longer the valiant crusader for the cause, demanding abstinence and complete sexual purity. Instead, I had become the kindly old counsellor at the health booth who listened non judgementally as the teenage couple explained why they needed the morning after pill and then went on to dispense safe sex advice, some Postinor™ and a packet of condoms.
      When I finally got into my flat I crumbled in a heap of tears at the foot of my bed and cried my repentance to God. Repentance for becoming complacent, repentance for being scared to stand up for what was right, repentance for ever falling in the first place.

      It took a while but I was able to once again speak up for the truth and even though there were a handfull of people who knew my past and were often quick to point it out to me, I smiled and pointed them instead to the cross. My sins were paid for. My record had been wiped clean.
      But something had changed. When I was in university, I had preached my brand of sexual purity from atop a pedestal. Had I climbed up it or had society pushed me onto it? I don’t know. I was the young, good-looking, Christian boy who had every reason to be a player but instead chose to be abstinent. My calling card was, “if I can do it, what reason do you have not to?” I have since abandoned the pedestal. Instead I now preach my message from within the people I was called to reach and here at ground zero I try to show them that I am proof that God can heal the broken and restore the lost. “If God can forgive me, what he reason would he have not to forgive you?”

      This is my submission.

      Don’t have sex before you’re married.

      If you have already had sex, change your mind, repent, ask for grace and don’t do it again

      If (when) you fall, get up, ask for his mercy and keep working at living right
      Ignore those who know your story and proceed to call you a hypocrite. Jesus doesn’t care for public opinion. Neither should you.
      Remember the leaders of religious law were shut out of the kingdom while the prostitute made it into the Messiah’s family tree.

      God bless you!

      * From a soon to be published memoir titled Conversations

    • Busola

      October 23, 2014 at 2:39 pm

      Husband material 1000 yards!!!!!

    • oje

      October 23, 2014 at 3:02 pm

      Selly Oakkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk. Brumites.

    • Tee

      October 23, 2014 at 4:02 pm

      Thanks doc but still doesn’t delve into the pros and cons objectively from a medical and religious perspective sha…just sayyying…*waka pass*

      and you can write, if you haven’t already published something please do so and give it like a doctor oz vibe mixed with TD Jakes-esque tinz…I know you understand me lol. I’ll buy your book…if or rather when you publish it

    • C'est moi

      October 23, 2014 at 4:48 pm

      The bible is silent on the issue of pre-marital sex, there is no NT scripture in support of it nor against it. The word ‘fornication’ which we now use in modern language to mean pre-marital sex did not hold the same meaning in the biblical era but instead meant whoredom/prostitution which was rampant in the ‘red-light district’ of their time i.e. under the arches surrounding the Colosseum (fornix (Latin)/fornicate means arch & still does in architecture). A prostitute was called a fornatrix whilst a fornicator is the client of the prostitute. Even till date, the top rows at the Colosseum are still known as the fornicatorium – because that’s where the prossies had sex with clients whilst watching the gladitorial games.
      It is poor to read the bible without placing it in its cultural and historical context or understating how fluid language is (e.g. wicked is now a compliment). Other versions of the bible use the word sexual immorality instead of fornication but that is even more ambiguous in meaning. Deeper life for instance consider oral sex even in marriage as an immoral act.
      Historically, the jewish laws on sex had nothing to do with spiritual purity, it was about securing property and lineage. The only way for man to ensure all the children were his was to impose very strict laws regards female virginity and adultery.

    • TA

      October 23, 2014 at 5:23 pm

      Until last year I sometimes used to wish I had some experience so that when counselling troubled youngsters and they asked me I would have something to say, something other than the bible verses I was quoting something like first hand knowledge so that I would not seem like an innocent aunt who was just spewing bible verses from her head. On one such occassion, I lied to the young lady,I lied that I had done it and felt empty afterwards just to drive home the point that premarital sex is wrong. The awful feeling I had for days was not something I wish to relive… Even till date, some people (both male & female) seem to handle conversations of sex with me better if they do not know my sexual history (or lack of it). People need to know that even though the bible condemns sex before marriage, it does not mean that those who have done so cannot change and become totally different persons. (Hebs 4:12) Neither does it mean that those who abstained before marriage not need to develop and mature as married Christians.

    • Mz Socially Awkward...

      October 24, 2014 at 1:50 pm

      … and you made me finally comment on this particular page.

      Craig, please publish that book. The world (and this generation) is filled with bruised hearts that are desperate to have those conversations. Thank you in advance.

    • benny

      October 24, 2014 at 2:56 pm

      Don’t be fooled. A veiled society is not necessarily a pure society. With respect to purity and all that, down here in the north, premarital sex is prevalent. A lot of veiled girls smoke, drink and engage in all sorts of things. Homosexuality is rampant but covered up. There are tribes where the women even openly smoke. Marriage is like dating. Someone can marry you just to sleep with you and let go of you. one of my neighbours is on her 5th husband. Don’t be fooled. This is a “veiled” society but the dirt underneath the cover ups can’t be quantified. These topics are just taboo topics but they are practiced everyday

    • Nelson Paul-Akhabue

      October 24, 2014 at 4:32 pm

      I can totally relate to this, Ola-mai-dee. Nice one repping Christ and NNSSAB, lol. Cheers.

  47. berrie

    October 23, 2014 at 11:53 am

    Na wetin dy make me run for short n stoic guys ooo.haba deir mambu z hell bent!tall and slim guys av t lean nd average dou ..buh if em carry weight join.?ya a goner my dear

    • Ada Nnewi

      October 24, 2014 at 8:56 am

      Are you serious? I didn’t think the guy’s physical look had an effect on penis size

  48. Tee

    October 23, 2014 at 12:30 pm

    @ConcernedNigerian, thank you very much for the enlightenment and I totally agree with you on most of the points you raised but as I experience life more and consider what constitutes our norms and acceptable societal practises and why this may be so, I find that little to no accurate and concrete substantiation exists for why certain things are done in a certain way.

    I think what a lot of people would like to know is does having sex at an early stage in life before settling down have a toll on the way you respond to your husband / wife by the time you settle down? is it scientifically proven that you’ll inevitably compare your husband / wife to that one boyfriend / girlfriend who gave it to you good in the past? is it true that you’ll always be at the beck and call of your 1st (especially with respect to girls, apparently) .

    Basically, how does premarital sex affect you spiritually and physically by the time you get married? Does it affect you for the worse or the better? We have a tendency of viewing life through philosophical and poetic rosy glasses. I just feel that we are not being realistic enough when it comes to sex before marriage. I mean, I totally get the Bible verses you quoted but do they specifically qualify premarital sex as the “sin” that draws you away from God? No…so you see, when we think deeply about things we’ll realize that a lot of the black and white practices we think are etched in our hearts and minds actually contain a lot of tints of grey…tints of doubt…tints of accepted incomprehension. Help Doctor (or anyone else), Please *pouts*

    Thanks 🙂

    • ConcernedNigerian

      October 23, 2014 at 2:43 pm

      @Tee there are so much confusion in your views but first I understand that you truly want to debunk the idea that fornication is a sin, to that I urge you to study more of the bible, not in part. Please read your 1st Corinthians 6:18-19, I could quote more of bible versions that states fornication is a sin. The word of God has no contradiction.
      Now your second paragraph wants to know how people that had extra marital affairs could react in Marriage. You should know that some individual don’t just have one wow experience from the past, they could 2 or 3 partners that had given the wild sex from the past. That will now bring me to the point I made earlier, if once sexcadapes is so rich and the appetite wide and the persons finds themselves yoked with an individual that is not up to par, chances are that you would wish/think/want to go get your fill somewhere else, atleast to quench your thirst. I saw you made reference to the fact that girls are more inclined to this behavior, to that I disagree.
      How sex affects ones spirituality moving forward is thus, the Bible made provision for restitution/forgiveness and the mercy of God. But two things are involved, are you spiritually inclined? Some peoples conscience do not make any mental calculation or even as much as think that whatever they did was a sin and hence nothing get to hunt them, or atleast till they encounter some problem in their marriage, then they would think they are being punished for the past. But the Grace of God abounds, one has to make peace with oneself and seek the face of the God in all that they do. One also has to have an in-depth knowledge of the Word before they can accept the peace and mercy God offers, because they tend to still believe that they are being punished even after their restitution.
      Now lets get real, I did indulge in premarital sex and I met and married a man that was a virgin. I respected his status and agreed to sex after our marital rights. The guy is a good person and had a clean heart, I only asked him to go for all the tests like the church stipulates during marriage counseling. Both of us came out good to go. Note that the guy knew that I was sexually active, he had the option of backing out of the marriage for fear of maybe I might have done stuffs that couldn’t make me conceive, I too could have quit the marriage too for the fear of maybe he wont be good in bed or worst still, he wont be able to get his rude boy up or even sterile; But we told each other the truth as it pertains to our sexuality and productivity. Fast forward after marriage, hubby could not sustain an erection, infact he was sexually inept. I struggled with it, he became even frustrated to the extent that even the little he could do dwindled. I had urge to go get it outside, which I even told him, that even demoralized him the more..Until my paradigm shift happened, my ahaa moment. I looked at my husband’s innocence and asked myself a simple question, when I started having sex the first time was this good?.. I went to God in prayers to give the patience that I need towards my husband..Fast forward to 2yrs and counting now, we have an ahhmazzing sex life, infact atimes he sings for me, we started from the bottom, now we are funny.
      @Tee the bible states that there is no sin that goes unpunished and every soul that sinneth shall die, also it also states that every good deeds have its reward. We would never claim to know how God shows mercy and forgives sin, or how he chose to mete out punishment, perhaps when we struggle with things is a way of punishment for not doing his deed, may be when we get some uncommon kindness from stranger, it could be a way of rewarding us for good deeds; but bear in mind that his word says He shows mercy to whom he wants to show mercy to.
      Peace be with you

    • Tee

      October 23, 2014 at 3:54 pm

      nice one girl, thank you 🙂

    • TA

      October 23, 2014 at 4:59 pm

      @ Tee, reality does not change facts. Well, God expects his worshippers to “abstain from fornication.” (1 Thessalonians 4:3) For instance,If you were a parent would you give your kids assignments or chores they cannot handle? No! Well, take comfort in the fact that if God says sex within marriage is the best” believe that it is the best for you because He knows you way better than you know yourself. God would not ask us to abstain if he knew we could not. That is my 2 kobo advice.

  49. Chloe

    October 23, 2014 at 12:31 pm

    Sorry to divert, pls I will like to ask if there is anywhere in Lagos (prefarably island) where I can go to get screening for breast cancer (free or not so expensive)… I went to a hospital the other day and they said 30k for test, and I was like “I’m not even sure if I have anything why will i wanna spend that much just for test” so I left..
    But this month I’ve been seeing the whole pink awareness everywhere I go and all of a sudden my boobs start hurting again, now I’m really just worried..
    Is there any NGO that handles “breast screening/test” somebody help!!!!!!

    On a side note, this DR Craig is handsome, I fall in love with his type easily…..

    • Susan

      October 23, 2014 at 3:35 pm

      Your life is more important. 30,000 shouldn’t be an issue. Even if it’s more, breast cancer is deadly. Try Lagoon Hospitals, VI or Readington, they are not exactly cheap.

  50. Pius Christiana

    October 23, 2014 at 12:34 pm

    Nice one…Dr Craig though aint in that boat yet.

  51. Tee

    October 23, 2014 at 1:00 pm

    Please BN how do we contact Dr. Craig. I have an important medical issue that I will like to have his opinion on. Waiting for a reply ASAP. thanks.

    • jcsgrl

      October 24, 2014 at 1:37 am

      I see you hun. You wan take style reach the fine dr shee. Nurrin do you…nurrin do you

  52. Sassy

    October 23, 2014 at 1:38 pm

    Just came across this post and it warmed ma heart to read about all the experiences of people from the comments…..We have discussed this particular topic amongst ourselves (Ma friends, both male and female) and it boils down to the real fact of knowing how to use what one has got regardless of the size. Just like some other babes, I have dated a cute, fine and dear guy with a dick that any babe would want to feel inside of her but the sexual matter was nothing to talk about even when we entered a session of educative classroom lovemaking…He did nothing wrong to me o…but wooooo……The thrill of the doing and the feeling of the tin is very important abeg. I don also date a guy wit less than average and the experience was earth shattering ( I could not believe it)…Me think guys should just study and learn all the erotic zones of a woman and know how to make her enjoy sex that leaves her satisfied every time no matter what size of penis they have….The taste of the penis is in the knowing what to do with it….Gbam!

  53. Fisa

    October 23, 2014 at 1:39 pm

    Hmmmmn am surprised at the rate of premarital sex everywhere. Gd help our generation.

    • TA

      October 23, 2014 at 4:50 pm

      Amen sister!

  54. TA

    October 23, 2014 at 2:12 pm

    Na so we see am o my sister. Talk about sex or food and we all interested. Lmao. Even folks that we have not seen on BN for ages all came out. Lol! 🙂 I shall call names -Idak and Iyke! So it was all this talk of P… that brought you guys out of hiding? Hian! Diaris God o 😉

    • Idak

      October 23, 2014 at 5:34 pm

      Na wa for you o!
      You wan spoil my rep abi?

  55. Arin

    October 23, 2014 at 2:43 pm

    All this my bellanija sisters cannot see fine boy and remove eye! Ahn ahn loool. Only last week some dude was wishing me luck meeting a guy who does not want sex before married. Craig has given me some hope again. I still believe!

    • Idak

      October 23, 2014 at 6:14 pm

      I too would have given you hope 🙂

    • Magz

      October 24, 2014 at 8:58 am


  56. Fisa

    October 23, 2014 at 2:51 pm

    I see a lot of babes will start following Doc Craig on twitter start catching feelings and tweeting at him. Not everybody will end up like “Tunde Leye & Folusho” who met on twitter. Dont because of the last wedding post on Bella start disturbing the handsome DR on twitter. Look for your husband elsewhere and let the Doc rest biko!!!!!!

    #Awon finding hubby sisters take note!!!!!!

  57. Bellemoizelle

    October 23, 2014 at 3:44 pm

    @Fisa u nko?Do u like him too? I had a good laff with ur comment tho! La vie est belle………….

  58. Tos

    October 23, 2014 at 4:16 pm

    My boobs are small but my nipples are so huge…they sure do compensate me, lol…..i get shy at first with guys but once we get jiggy i dont luk back…all the way we go….i have also seen guys with small penis….one trick that can help is the lady lying on her back with a pillow underneath, close to her raises her vagina when the guy thrusts his penis doesnt slide out easily…another problem with small penis apart from hitting the right spot!

  59. Queen1

    October 23, 2014 at 5:05 pm

    Love me some Dr Craig!
    Thanks for all the advice. Its changed my way of reasoning.

  60. TA

    October 23, 2014 at 5:27 pm

    @ Dr Craig, nice article. Besides the pornographic Industry, premarital sex is a huge reason why penile size became an issue. If no one had a basis for comparison, maybe there won’t be so much focus on ‘what he is packing? Married guys, should get over their size or lack of it and learn to please their wives.

  61. Crazy eyes

    October 23, 2014 at 6:21 pm

    Is masturbation a sin?

  62. Koffie

    October 23, 2014 at 6:34 pm

    I agree with TA, if we didn’t have previous sexual relationships to compare with, no one would bother about if the brother is packing. May God continue to grant us grace to remain celibate (those who chose the path of course)
    I was once considering dating a particular guy that was on my case till he mentioned that the idea of sex disgusts him and that he hates the female anatomy. Although we were both of the Abstinence Till Marriage bandwagon but I couldn’t get over what he said. I just shaperly brother-zoned him. I cannot risk having that kind of story(ies) that touch later in marriage.
    I recently saw one meme with a man with a penis smaller than my pinky finger “if you discovered on your wedding night that your hubby is this tiny, what would you do”. Something along that line. May God not give me that type of cross to bear.

    • Idak

      October 23, 2014 at 8:22 pm

      Na who suppose bear that kind cross, since it is not your portion?

    • Koffie

      October 24, 2014 at 12:00 am

      Hehehhehehe, someone strong enough to bear it? Never mind

    • Ada Nnewi

      October 24, 2014 at 8:51 am


    • slice

      October 24, 2014 at 2:46 am

      but what does no premarital sex have to do with not knowing the size of his penis. haba you can see and not use now

    • TA

      October 24, 2014 at 1:56 pm

      @ Slice, You are joking right? my dear make we talk true nah. How many people see the ‘packing’ or weapon of mass satisfaction (according to Tantra, BN Chicas will not kill me oneday) and not use it? So I meet a guy and we gist talk and laugh and in between knowing where he went to school or discussing his first job, the guy suddenly decides to show me his John Thomas just so I an see the size,then I say hello,nice to meet you JT and guy stuffs it back in his trousers,no touching,squeezing or action of any kind?! Let’s get real now!!! What am I seeing it for if I have no plans to use it for anything in the first place? While it is very true that you ‘can see and not use’, what will be the point of seeing it in the first place? Isn’t that a little like showing a very hungry man your pot of delicious food and then putting the lid back on. 🙂 Ehen, shebi you get my drift? As the good book says, ‘do not gather fire into your bosom’…else you get burnt.

    • slice

      October 24, 2014 at 6:02 pm

      my dear i don’t want to believe you really don’t think you can look or size up a guy without any plan to use the package. even one small trip to the gym will show wetin he carry without ever coming near him. and yes, if you’re planning to marry someone,whether or not you have sex with them, you have every right to ask to see them nude. being celibate doesn’t mean you don’t see your partner’s body

    • Carliforniabawlar

      October 25, 2014 at 9:02 am

      @TA, My person abeg me I have seen and touched without chopping the thing oh! Oh boy…if you go market wan buy plantain, and somebody come pack something inside bag for you, you sef go just collect am dey go house like that without double-checking??! Abeg, I dey shekirout steady!! In my case, two bobos don already try package banana for me as plantain…needless to say when breakup time came, that factor was one of the cons that worked against them….it was like good radiance to bad rubbish 😛
      And using your JT analogy, if my bobo bring hin JT out, I go say nice to meet you and “shake” him naa ni….lmao, I’m so nasty I know.
      Okay now the same me is back, i agree with you and I know it’s not safe to keep opening pot of food wey I never ready to chop. In fact my most recent bobo and I kept thing very PG and oh! am I very grateful for that. I’m so glad I never let him touch me, else now I’d probably scald myself to wash his lying, cheating, trifling hands off me…oops sorry, I derailed thats a topic for another day…lols.

  63. Somebody

    October 23, 2014 at 7:42 pm

    Hi Dr. Craig as concerns the passage excerpted from your soon to be published book, I do feel you judged yourself too harshly in spite of your realization of the pedestal issue, which is also very valid. This is is what I mean; when your friend made the comment about herself and her friends being virgins, you should have asked her if she meant both male and female friends. It doesn’t sound like she did. You see have I problem with the false equivalency implied in her statement and in your reaction to it. From the best of my understanding through friendship and interaction with Islam through Muslim friends, there is quite a different standard for male sexual morality than there is for female sexual morality, hence the men feel no qualms about having sexual congress with ‘strange’ (re: Foriegn) women before either of them is married, yet are ready to carry out so called ‘honor killings’ if their sisters or relative enjoys similar freedoms. Of course the leveral of outrage is not always expressed in such dire terms, but there is no doubt that female sexual freedom is highly frowned upon, discouraged, and inhibited in that culture hence the hijab, niqab et el. Since it takes two to tango, and you really ought to treat others as you want to be treated yourself (i.e. don’t sleep with other people’s unmarried sisters if you don’t want them sleeping with yours), I consider this arrant hypocrisy and I for one am glad most Christians do not hold themselves to such unfair standards even if they pay lip service to it. You see, it is nothing short of narcissistic to point an accusatory finger at other people for something that goes on in your own house and then hold yourself up as a better example of whatever standard you aim to be peddling. Don’t even get me started about the comment of having premarital sex and then whispering afterwards and pretending like it never happened. Whoever gained anything from pretense? Who was ever ministered to by pretense? Who has ever been able to counsel others and encourage them by pretending to them that nothing wrong has ever happened in their lives? This is why the bible records the faults of its characters, not just their successes to show us that there is life after mistakes, and that God is more interested in your comeback, than in your condemnation. In Christ there is no male or female, that is what the bible says, and we are all called to holines, both men and women. If you were shamed into regretting your past prideful-ness, I would have hoped it wouldn’t have been from such a probably un-worthy judge. On the other hand, the fact that it was said judge who brought you to your knees in shame filled tears, shows how far you had to go and just how slight a foundation your pedestal of self righteousness was built upon. This is usually the case with such attitudes though, and there is nothing surprising there. I hope in the aftermath you have become more confident of the love and and grace of the one who called us – Christ, and do not allow your conscience / self esteem to be so easily battered by the winds of other people’s self righteousness. The word of God itself is a gold standard to judge by, and by that standard we are all doing badly – both Muslims and Christians. We don’t need any false equivalencies to point that out.


    October 23, 2014 at 8:00 pm

    @c’est moi, that was an insightful expose! I wish all these religious adherents will be humble enough to do some research as to the origin and history of their beliefs, bearing in mind the context some of their precepts were founded upon. Big dick, small dick…all na dick. Sex is just darn overrated! says so!

    • tunmi

      October 25, 2014 at 7:47 pm

      I sincerely appreciate @c’est NOI’s inclusion of context.

  65. Somebody

    October 23, 2014 at 8:14 pm

    Bellanaija, I sent in a thought out, carefully written, and respectfully expressed comment on Dr. Craig’s tweets and response. But I can see that only certain kinds of comments, mostly of a frivolous nature are welcomed on your message boards. This is a shame. Of all the issues plaguing the Nigerian online forums, genuine observations and respectfully and carefully worded expressed opinions are not one of them. I think it’s a shame you decided to go with the ‘let’s censor this comment lest we anger them’ response endemic in the country’s discourse. We won’t get anywhere by doing that – but obviously I’m barking up the wrong tree here.

  66. jcsgrl

    October 24, 2014 at 1:34 am

    OMG I’m soo late to this party. I have laughed, rolled on the floor, passed out, lost my voice at these comments. Dear God where have I been? See how sweet gist passed me by. Kai, I’m wiping hot tears from my eyes. Scrolling back up to read again. Jesu BNers y’all give me life!!!

  67. KennyG

    October 24, 2014 at 11:49 am

    @ Dr Craig ….Nice article…. LWKMD with this post today…I’ve a filled day reading peoples cooments… me some Bellanaija!

  68. Leo

    October 24, 2014 at 12:43 pm

    WOW!!!! I read all comment on dis yesterday and went home thinking, d various experiences has thought me more than Dr David’s article, nevertheless i have acquired so much from dis.
    please keep up d good job Dr, same goes to BN.

    I believe its not about d size of a mans equipment, but how well his able to use it.
    Have once dated a lady who loves it extremely big, and told me i was d smallest she has very seen, our relationship lasted for about three years wit lots and lots of sex, she got married and called me one night about four month ago, confessing that though i was the smallest she ever encountered, but i was d best of them all, and she can’t get those sweet memories of her head, because it was always an awesome experience when it come to both of us having sex. i knew where she was headed so i keep my distance from her ever since.
    My advices is both parties should communicate together on how to improve on their sex life regardless of the size in other to experience multiple orgasm and real satisfaction, because my able to communicate with her was what gave us a wonderful sexual relationship and between us.

  69. word

    October 24, 2014 at 1:38 pm

    Most interesting post ever on BN…d comments are entertaining. I enjoyed

  70. Jay

    October 24, 2014 at 4:03 pm

    hmmmmm! im 25. a female and a virgin and hoping that the grace of God carries me till marriage. iv been two years out of a relationship because most guys that come along just cant imagine staying without sex. Its not easy. I still know i will find that right guy. I know it in my heart and im willing to wait no matter how long it takes. but until then, its “shop closed” over here. im choosing to refrain from the bandwagon culture of pre marital sex.So help me God

  71. Pretenseslayer

    October 24, 2014 at 4:55 pm

    Madam Mz Socially awkward, you just had to draw attention to yourself with the comment ‘ and you made me finally comment on this particular page, you know you could have still made your comment without that bit? I know you do know but you just had to let us notice sha, Miss goody two-shoes thank you for gracing our filthy page. You may now move on to the next post. Rubbish!

    • Mz Socially Awkward...

      October 24, 2014 at 5:32 pm

      Shut up. There, I said it. It’s Friday evening and between idiots at work and those on the internet, my patience has worn thin for the week.

      Did it even occur to you that I had no comment, because I have nothing to add? I’ve read the comments and found some useful, clicked on a few to add my “likes” but I had no particular response to make until I read Craigs’.

      Multiple times on this site, I’ve seen people write “I never comment on BN, just read and move on by but you made me decide to comment today”. Did you attack them then? Is it because of the subject matter being discussed here that you felt the need to attack mine? What brought that feeling on?

      Please. It’s been a long week, I really don’t have time for so-called pretense slayers trying to ride my behind. Try and enjoy your weekend without getting het up about whatever you’ve construed my response to Craig (the writer of the post that I was DIRECTLY COMMUNICATING my reply at) to mean.

      Absolute rubbish, indeed.

    • Mz Socially Awkward...

      October 24, 2014 at 5:36 pm

      Oh and by the way, would you have been one of the people that attacked Lola about sharing her wedding night experience? Just checking you weren’t amongst the criers of “somethings are only meant to be kept within your marital sheets”. Just checking, oh because my limit for nonsense has been truly maxed out this evening. For real.

    • Diuto

      October 24, 2014 at 6:37 pm

      How is her comment affecting u? Hater we hav noticed u. We all luv Mz Socially Awkward

  72. Authour Unknown

    October 25, 2014 at 6:08 am

    The discussion that refuses to die. The things that happen when folks can talk anonymously. Interestingly, everyone has something to say about size, but we all know it’s very subjective. One woman’s ‘Medium” might be another’s “XXS” lol.. So, what actual measurements constitute a penile size? Is a 3-inch flaccid penis small, medium? What about a 6-inch erect? Small? Black guy or Chinese? LOL.. At the end of the day, it very well could be a function of who’s doing the judging.

  73. Britico

    October 26, 2014 at 8:41 pm


  74. Just me

    October 29, 2014 at 2:35 am

    Interesting! !!!
    Dr.Craig I won’t be chasing you on twitter, Facebook, instagram etc. Just wanted to you to know, continue what you do. God is on your side.
    Hats off to you.

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