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Munir Bello: He Claims He Loves Me, But He Won’t Stop Watching Porn

Munir Bello

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At some point or other all women I’ve spoken to have asked me about porn. Some (not all) women I’ve spoken to in relationships struggle to understand why their partners watch it. They always ask, ‘Am I not enough for him?’ Opinions do differ. Some women don’t mind their men watching porn as they believe that it’s a natural thing for men to do and aren’t particularly bothered. They prefer that their men watch porn than go out and sleep with other women. Others accept it but don’t want to know about their partners consumption habit. There were a few women who said that they would watch it with their partner. The majority of women I spoke to have a big problem with their men watching porn. Their reasons vary, some see it as something that’s on a par with cheating, others think that there must be something wrong with their relationship if their man is watching it. ‘I do everything he wants so why the need to see other women naked?’

There was no shortage of participants for this particular topic when I first put it out there. There were so many people queuing up to give their opinions. I spoke to many guys in bars and had tons of emails. The men’s consumption habits were varied. There were some men who watched it once a week, some watched it daily and there were some guys who used every spare minute they had to indulge in some viewing (A surprising amount said that they used their lunch break as an opportunity to get some alone time every day at work). There weren’t very many men who were comfortable watching it with their partner on a regular basis. The ones that did would be happy to occasionally watch it as a couple to look for tips and get a better understanding of their partners preferred method of achieving a climax. Others used joint participation to heighten their sensations during sex.

The first fellow I spoke to said that he watched porn because there were many things that the girls in those movies did that his partner refused to do to him. Another guy said that it allowed him to indulge in his fantasies of being with a girl that looked different to his partner in terms of hair colour, ethnicity or body shape. One guy said he searched out celebrity lookalike porn which featured girls that look like his celebrity crushes which allowed him to act out his fantasies. The guys did all say that they loved their partners dearly but sometimes they just weren’t enough. Girls in porn look like they are really enjoying themselves whereas their partners didn’t always look like they were. Some men said that if their partner gave them sex more often then they would have no reason to watch porn whereas some said that even if (and in some cases it was) always available from their partner they wanted the variance that porn offered them. Many guys said that they climaxed far quicker when watching porn because they knew exactly what they needed to do. Two of the guys said that in order to climax when they were with their partner they had to picture some of their favourite scenes as they sometimes found their partner boring in bed.

The next thing I wanted to know was if the men watched it in secret or if their partners were aware of it. 80% kept it to themselves for fear of upsetting their wives/girlfriends. 20% did tell their partners but half of those wished that they didn’t as it made for a difficult conversation or in some cases arguments. Two guys lost their relationships because their girlfriends were disgusted by their habit. The other guys who told their partners about it said that their partners were happy to watch it with them and also didn’t have a problem with it as they thought all men do it.

Final question asked was how the men would feel if their partners watched porn in secret. The first addict said that he would hate it because he knows what goes through his mind when he’s watching porn and would be very uncomfortable with his partner experiencing similar thoughts. Most of the guys did think that their partners did watch it and whilst they didn’t have a problem with it they would be uncomfortable discussing with them. A few did wish that their partners did watch it so that they could openly discuss their preferences without any negative repercussions.

I don’t think there is anything wrong with watching porn as long as it doesn’t involve beastiality, children or any sort of violence. I think having to watch it every minute of the day is a bit excessive but isn’t something that people should be vilified for. Everyone has a different level of drive in that department. One correlation that I noticed was that men who were exposed to porn before they lost their virginities had some unrealistic expectations from their partners in the bedroom and also made up the majority that had a very high consumption level.

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50 Comments

  1. Rosek

    March 25, 2015 at 1:22 pm

    You don’t think there is anything wrong with your partner watching porn?

    • NoToPorn

      March 25, 2015 at 6:28 pm

      @ Rosek, I am in shock as well that he does not see anything wrong with watching porn.

      Munir Bello, thank you for your article and analysis but please there is everything wrong with watching porn.

      When you watch pornography you are setting a standard for comparing the sexual acts of yourself and your partner. Sex is mainly about intimacy between two people. Comparing such an intimate act with what “porn stars” are paid to do (whether they enjoy it or not) dehumanizes the sexual act between you and your partner and removes the “love” and “acceptance” element from your “love making”.

      Your wife/husband (or whoever you are having sex with) is a beautiful and complex human being with a mind, feelings, interests and aspirations. Their sexuality is a part of who they are but there is much more to them than their sexuality. For heaven’s sake, do you expect your partner (male or female) to compete with a porn star? Does watching porn not equate to bringing other people into your living room (or bed room) so they can have sex together and then you can watch?

      I really worry when I read articles like these because they endorse the prevailing attitudes and trends that exist in the world in which we live, which is to put “SEX” on a pedestal and to make an idol out of it. There are a number of things we need to survive in this world (like water, air, food, etc), sex is not one of them. Yes, sex is good in its place but when we make an IDOL out of it we become its slave and “SEX” has a reputation for being a very cruel and demanding master. I say NO to pornography. Let’s stop making an idol out of sex. Why have we reduced ourselves to a generation that sees no other activity from which we can derive pleasure other than sex? Why?

  2. Rosek

    March 25, 2015 at 1:26 pm

    And yet we condemn prostitutes. Where is our morals? The day I caught my partner doing the undo I was shocked to my bones. It made me sick. I just could not relate with it. Still don’t understand men.

    • prince

      March 25, 2015 at 4:24 pm

      when you say doing the undo, you mean masturbating. everyone does that (though mostly men) but that’s just a way of not cheating on you.

    • Itha

      March 28, 2015 at 2:57 am

      I hate generalizations like this. NOT EVERYONE WATCHES PORN/MASTURBATES…it breaks my heart how sexually perverse the world is today and we act like its normal/fine because majority engage int such activities.
      We want to stop rape, prostitution, adultery and the likes but think porn is okay…im sorry to break the news but all sexual sin are brothers, we cannot pick and choose the ones we endorse and the ones we are disgusted about. I know not everyone believes in God like me but honestly guys He is the only way to save us from all these.
      I am also very scared at the re-occuring theme of ‘all men do it’ mentality… ladies it is not okay…dont buy into status quo…not all men do it!

      God help us cos im really disturbed right now

  3. sum1special

    March 25, 2015 at 1:32 pm

    This things have a way of messing up someone’s brain. First they watch it and then look for who to practice it on, and we all know its never their wife. So i wont like my husband watching porn for the fear of what he is brewing in his brain. If he wants porn lets explore with ourselves together. P.S i am not married but just talking from the point of if i was married. don’t know if that counts.

  4. Bennie Errick

    March 25, 2015 at 1:59 pm

    Two different set of rules: guys can watch it cos their partners dont give them enough sex or because they need different styles bla blah blah! The ladies shouldn’t watch cos they know what goes on in their mind when they watch and wont want the lady to do same bla bla blah! why the double standards? I personally believe if we want to explore our bodies, lets explore together don’t go watching another person(s) doing different things with themselves and come try them with me,People are different, relationships equally different, you need to try new styles in bed?lets discuss and work on it together, that is how our sex life will grow and work out not through no porn session.

  5. Kay mindy

    March 25, 2015 at 1:59 pm

    Right first things first, the 21st century, android carrying, internet consumed chick whether it’s from 18 or 21 years and above has opened a porn site… Lie if you can….even sef say na by mistake!

    You’ve been intrigued by the unknown especially if you’re still a virgin, you want to know what all the fuss is about, true or false?

    Now the difference between males & females is the trigger happy automatic button, for most guys & I really don’t think all, that automatic arousal & someone catching you watching the dirt really turns them on, for chicks not so much, most chicks watch out of curiosity than the need to get turned on, because most only get aroused by physical touch, so even if it’s in 10D it’s just another movie to her, u’ve only ever heard of rare extreme cases where women are porn addicts (but if na sex addict them full), but then there’s chicks that like varied categories of porns too, for me am an anime freak & I just happen to like hentai porn, (adult carton porn) my husband isn’t all that into porn but we watch it together once in a while & he thinks hentai porn is cute because it’s carton (btw anime is not carton, I keep telling ppl this lol)

    Last paragraph really sums up my stand about porn, if it aint hurting nobody & you’re not disgusted by your partner, live a little, stop carrying secrets about, you know you want him to know your fetish, you know he’ll never see that porn babe, she’s in Slovakia why are killing yourself over when his watching it in lekki on his broken down laptop that the porn might quench sef….live a little

  6. stevebond007

    March 25, 2015 at 2:01 pm

    Porn is easily accessible because of the high speed internet, we should try and stop it.
    we need control on it . Join #fapstronaut

  7. @edDREAMZ

    March 25, 2015 at 2:02 pm

    a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said…
    .
    I think watching porn is healthy for the body and involving an understanding partner will definately be the best feeling ever no doubt….
    .
    .
    ***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

    • girl

      March 25, 2015 at 7:20 pm

      see as you spoke english because of porn….

    • Seyi

      March 26, 2015 at 12:35 am

      Lmao!!!

  8. Kay mindy

    March 25, 2015 at 2:02 pm

    Cartoon o, this phone be killing a sisters write up, u lot are sha sharp guys, meant cartoon*

  9. ola

    March 25, 2015 at 2:11 pm

    mojo……lol

  10. It is Well

    March 25, 2015 at 2:18 pm

    Smh this article is all types of….. in fact i don’t have the strength today…..the sooner we realise that porn addiction is a serious case like all other addictions the better for us. You do not want to know what the actors in the porn industry go through, and because they are based on sex unlike normal movie roles that come with different types of scripts, the porn industry has to be based on different types of gruesome sex act to keep the viewers entertained and in most cases they are not realistic for normal relationships. Viewing Adult movie is ok but an addiction needs to be addressed because like it or not its going to affect your relationship with the opposite sex.

    The funny thing is most of these men who are addicted and claim their partners are boring etc ARE actually the boring ones because instead of shutting that damn thing down and try and explore the human body with their own initiatives they keep expecting that they would just do so little and their partner would do all the crazy stunts in the porn videos for them. if you make a woman feel loved she would do so in return.

  11. JULIE

    March 25, 2015 at 2:25 pm

    why your guy watch porn may be u r nt romantic on bed or u don’t give him styles, Pls try moan it makes them go mad. (wink)

  12. kaycee

    March 25, 2015 at 2:33 pm

    Porn are good and a great way of keeping relationship fresh out of the oven. I can remember watching the beastly act by Richard Ricardo and Serena Swiss with my significant other. It really opened a new door to our sexual life, cos after that moment every interaction becomes a connection, every hole in her body find the soothing hair in mine to fit into. It was nothing short of mind blowing. The experience really introduced an intoxicating need to satisfy each other during sex. Right now she and I speak so many arousing languages that I can’t even begin to describe where the language came from. I suggest if you would want to watch porn go for the classy, limited edition, exclusive porn, cos unlike the usual phenomenon where everything is rushed, it starts out normally as a movie, where parties involved gets to form some sort of connections. Action usually start from episode 2 of season 2 of the series. And trust me , u did be glad u watched it, as u wouldn’t feel that self guilt, besides most of u lots have watched 50 Shades of grey.

  13. Omolade

    March 25, 2015 at 2:39 pm

    I don’t fink a day av passed wif out me watching porn, even on wkdns wen am at home wif ma family I stay in the toilet for close to 30 mins just to watch ma latest download. I go to pornhub.com regularly just to see if there re any new vid frm Mia Khalifa, Lisa Ann nd Asa Akira. Bn married for 3 years am 30 years of age and av neva cheated or tut bout cheating ma wife despite knowing almost all d porn site. Some men jus derive pleasure in watching it for me am a porn addict since I dnt drink, smoke or womanize.

    • MC

      March 25, 2015 at 5:03 pm

      I believe that there is nothing wrong if one wants to and enjoys watching porn….but you my dear, sound like you have a crazy addiction

  14. Ade

    March 25, 2015 at 2:46 pm

    Cool Story..
    Some men don’t watch porn at all… like me.
    Bruh, Abeg do pie-chart or histogram for this statistic wey you write here jare. I nor get time for long story.

    Na all these articles dey brainwash everybody.

    Live your life and not believe everything you read.

  15. Adenike

    March 25, 2015 at 2:48 pm

    Okay! After all said and done, I love the final question, and I have come to the opinion that we live in an extremely selfish world. In a previous BN post, some men allegedly killed their women cos they found out they were cheating. If it was the other way round, women will be told to forgive and that’s how men are wired. As if being horny or sexually unsatisfied is gender-peculiar. Now in this post, someone has the audacity to say that he will be offended if his partner watches porn, while he does? Sick, sick world. Anyways, God I know that there are still some reasonable people out there, please bring them closer to me.

  16. Adenike

    March 25, 2015 at 2:48 pm

    Conclusion****

  17. bruno

    March 25, 2015 at 2:53 pm

    why do girls like to behave like they don’t watch porn or they don’t like porn.

    I wasn’t surprised when I found a folder full of hardcore mojo (I call it “mojo” cause im old school) on my sister’s laptop.

    there are some guys who can’t perform unless porn is playing on the tv or laptop.

    porn is so easy to access nowadays. I remember back in the day, when u had to go to the cyber cafe, buy 30 minutes worth of time, open the very slow internet Explorer,just so u can see explicit contents.
    back then, when I bought a porn cd (150 naira), after watching it on our 3 loader vcd player, I will break the cd immediately, cause I couldn’t risk my parents catching me. lol

    today, porn doesn’t even excite me, what are they doing that I have not seen or done before. I have a special laptop just for porn, when Im watching porn on my laptop, I even fast forward it cause se of them are annoying. too much fake shouting, terrible background music, uninterested unenthusiastic actors who just want the scene to be over so they can collect their pay.

    I don’t know why people get addicted to porn, its so fake and over rated.

  18. Taipan!

    March 25, 2015 at 2:57 pm

    Hmmmmm!, Blue film talk, interesting……most people pretend about this but in their closet they have dozens, it has its own adv and dis.adv but it wont be funny if your spouse will want to fulfil their erotic desires afterwards

  19. Mimi

    March 25, 2015 at 3:57 pm

    Lets be real here. Porn is not just some video or movie, it is highly demonic. It messes not just with your mind, but your spirit and soul. You watch once, you would want to watch again. The desire grows, the addiction grows because again it is highly demonic. It opens u up to very strong demons that’s why those hooked to it cant stop so easily. you try to stop, and your thoughts, dreams and actions become filled with them. At a point you even know that something is wrong with you and you need help. As for the guilt that comes with it, only God knows. It leads to lust, masturbation, sexual immorality, unfaithfulness, addictions,because u would always want to practice what u watch, and again you never get satisfied. If you been involved before, run to Jesus and get deliverance. It is a destroyer. Infact run, run, run from it as fast you can from it.

    • MC

      March 25, 2015 at 5:05 pm

      Demonic?
      LMAOOOO Poor you! you are missing out

    • memyself&i

      March 26, 2015 at 4:48 pm

      Poor you! you are doomed.

    • Itha

      March 28, 2015 at 3:03 am

      God bless you for this comment! Oh that men may understand…ignorance is a cancer in our generation today

  20. yikyak

    March 25, 2015 at 4:14 pm

    Na wa ooooo

  21. Tee

    March 25, 2015 at 4:16 pm

    Nothing wrong with watching porn, heck, I’ll make pop corn, burgers and get you a cold glass of beer while we’re at it…invite my pops and mumz to come watch with us, my friends, your friends, the local priest. Movie Night!!! (for adults only lol)

  22. nwa nna

    March 25, 2015 at 4:40 pm

    Live a little my naija folks! There’s nothing wrong in watch porn in my opinion, heck I’ve used it to enhance sexual skills on pleasing my mate and she ain’t complaining of the end result she gets either. Let go of your inhibitions and enjoy life ma peeps, I’ve watched porn with females and we’ve both thoroughly enjoyed it. Sure, it’s not for everyone but don’t get mad at your mate when your sex department gets boring and you’re willing to explore and they go elsewhere to explore and satisfy their urge. Reading some of the BN commenter reply makes me shake my head because it sounds to me like it’s more of a moral struggle than anything else.
    Now back to watching some correct blue film 😛

  23. prince

    March 25, 2015 at 4:43 pm

    The thing is everyone is entitle to their opinion. some say its demonic, some say its cheating, call it whatever you want to call it. Like Bruno said, I don’t know why someone should be addicted to porn, cant remember the last time I did but I can’t come out and say watching it is wrong.
    Some guys watched it and wank so they wont have to start looking for someone to have sex with.
    You know what makes you happy, go ahead and do it. you owe no one an apology for been happy. lets leave all this holier and thou attitude biko

  24. Sabifok

    March 25, 2015 at 4:55 pm

    My two kobo about porn (aka Mojo or Blue Film)

    1. The sex scenes in Porn are as coordinated and as real as WWE wrestling. Take everything you see with a pinch of Dicon Salt. Even most of the actress’s boobs are made of silicon, and their screams of estacy are as choreographed as a live musician’s mime

    2. I used to watch mojo with girls I wanted to smash, as a good way to set the tone. But I stopped doing after one chick wanted to try anal sex, and I dont play that. Then another one started imitating the yells she was seeing in the mojo, and damn near alerted all my neighbors to my sex activities. She was screaming like a newspaper vendor. I couldnt look at my landlord in the face the next morning.

    3. Porn can be addictive, and has been known to distort one’s perception of sex and intimacy to unrealistic levels. Not all chicks are physically built like Alexis Texas, Sunny Leone or the likes. Not everyone can hang from a shower rod like Mimi. Chicks in real life have boobs like pure water sachets, and stretchmarks and hairy nether regions, just as most men are not like what you see on porn TV. Living with that reality and come-down is the hardest thing about getting over an addiction to porn. Some people can not get off with their wife/girlfriend without opening Spankwire. Mba nu!

  25. eyong

    March 25, 2015 at 6:05 pm

    Well, watching porn is as natural as getting a boner. What you loud mouthed women don’t realize is we men are very horny. Fact. Most men wake up in the morning with hard ons, and if it isn’t taking care of, it keeps coming back through out the day, and it is very embarrassing when youre walking down the street and all of a sudden things start getting stiff. Or at the office/ school trying to concentrate, but all you can thinknof is sex. Its maddenig. But that’s the cross we men have to bear, and only we will ever understand. You women can be horny as hell, and no one will ever know… ours is very obvious! And in that moment of extreme need of release, believe me, your partner will even consider cheating on you, and if the evil stars align, he just might. So, Trust me, most men don’t watch porn because they want to, or because they desire to cheat. It’s simply to masturbate and make life easier for themselves to stay faithful. Again, YOU WOMEN WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND WHAT IT FEELS LIKE FOR A MAN, SO STOP SPEAKING OF THINGS YOU DON’T KNOW. SMH

    • cindy

      March 25, 2015 at 8:10 pm

      you men are selfish and that’s what you are. Who says women don’t get horny every damn time? Self control is the key you lack do. Be truthful to yourself.

    • eyong

      March 26, 2015 at 5:17 am

      Cindy why are you vexing? Abeg, did I tell you that women shouldn’t watch porn? Please, take your trangression somewhere else until you learn to read and comprehend. And shut up with “men cheat” everywhere. News flash so do women.. so, what’s your point again?

    • busola

      March 26, 2015 at 5:20 pm

      This is bullshit! This nonsense mentality is what makes a lot of men lack accountability. Even if you are horny, is that sufficient reason to cheat?

    • Eyong

      March 27, 2015 at 8:36 am

      Well, obviously you idiot can’t comprehend simple phrasing. There’s a reason I specifically wrote “if the EVIL stars…” Signifying my stance on cheating. But you’re so butthurt that you were running to reply Abi? Please take several seats, who ever you’re vexing with it isn’t me o.

    • randommer

      March 27, 2015 at 12:43 am

      i guess rapists can’t control themselves either so women should not dress or act in ways that will provoke them.

  26. Yamaha

    March 25, 2015 at 6:49 pm

    Ahhhhhhhh! Den!den!den! Yamaha will tell mummy that you’re watching mummy and daddy tins (snaps fingers). Yamaha really find la topic interesting. Yamaha can’t even deny that shit, that she didn’t watch porn. She did! Oh! Yamaha watched porn and she enjoyed it #lickslips# After she found it on her uncles laptop when she was 17, she watched porn for years. But, emphasis on but, as soon as Yamaha had sex, Yamaha quit! Why? Because it made her have extremely unrealistic expectations about sex and love making. Yamaha’s boyfriend watches from time to time, she has caught him. But really Yamaha thinks we’re all adults and can do whatever we please as long as nobody is hurt. I can’t say porn is good or bad. If you’re Christain, then you know that anything that causes you to sin should be avoided and we all know porn instills lust. But if you’re married then I think you and your spouse can do whatever as long as it’s fun and well within your boundaries.

  27. Munir Bello

    March 25, 2015 at 7:29 pm

    You guys crack me up!! Every time I write an article I eagerly await your comments which are funny as hell. Keep them coming and let me know if there are things you’d like me to write about. Some of you need to set up your own blogs because your opinions are seriously interesting!

  28. Drknite

    March 25, 2015 at 7:44 pm

    I like porn! Just don’t eat popcorn while watching porn.

  29. lisl

    March 25, 2015 at 9:53 pm

    STUPID PROBLEM. Better he watch porn than make porn with another woman. Why are we women so worried about men watching porn. It’s good for solo loving, I love it and I would much rather my husband watches fake sex than goes out looking for real sex. Women we are never satisfied.

  30. memebaby

    March 26, 2015 at 12:00 am

    i don’t see the big deal with porn.. people.. live a little pls.. I watch porn once in a while and porn helped my “bedmatics” skills BIG TIME.. boo thought i’ve started looking outside for a second lol…all their twisting and position.. yup, thanks to pornhub :)..as long as you are not hurting nobody or yourself…directly or indirectly..and geez everything in moderation..

  31. BlueEyed

    March 26, 2015 at 4:16 am

    So the only problem I have with porn watching is when it becomes obvious. I have this white dude colleague at work who is married with kids and it is becoming disturbing the rate he watches porn at work.

  32. Donhiill

    March 26, 2015 at 9:02 am

    Watching porn is an act of expecting the unexpected and doing the undone. I will not advice anyone to be watching porn with the conviction that it’s normal to watch porn movies.
    Fact ist: It puts you on the line, sometimes under some certain pressures that you can’t easily control because you just want to let it out. Porn movies are addictive, it manipulates the mind to a tuture that puts you in a confused state of mind.

    Hormones are differs and at the same time uncontrollable when it urges for it need, even if your sub-conscience tries to talk you over to stop watching it but just for that fact that the person is already an addict, it keeps the mind unrest until the person climaxes. It’s better to practice with the you love and are you very open to in discussion.

    Most people do love but are not to open for some certain discussion because their inner goddess are shy to speak out but will not be shy to watch porn movies and practice an act that is not 100% true in reality. #SayNoToPorn #PornIsAddictive #PornIsDistructive

  33. tish

    March 26, 2015 at 2:28 pm

    At least 80% of the comments here see nothing wrong in watching porn. As in nothing is wrong with it o not that it’s a sin they are trying to stop. Wow. I’m surprised. Who are those that occupy the churches that are filled every Sunday? To serve God is not easy sam sam. It’s not about what we enjoy. It’s about what He says we should or shouldn’t do. Porn is demonic! If you are into it, pray for the Holy Spirit to help you out of it. It’s not too late yet, we are all works in progress.

    • Itha

      March 28, 2015 at 3:09 am

      God bless you for this comment. thats the pat that scares me the most…that people think theres nothing wrong and they are not harming anyone or themselves. We really need Gods help.

      Im not trying to be a goody-two-shoes. I am work in progress but I will not fail to call out something that I know is wrong.

  34. Anonymous

    March 28, 2015 at 5:10 pm

    When I was younger, I stayed away from porn because I thought it contributes to the debasement of female sexuality and it is written from a male’s perspective. That argument went out of the window when I discovered that there is such a thing as feminine porn. Anyway, curiosity (and hanging out with only guys) led me to look for porn; I found it incredibly boring and instead of focusing on the (un)sexy scene, I found myself wondering why the women don’t moisturize their nyash (I mean come on! if you are going to lay it bare, try to use some lotion!) and the spitting?!!

    Anyway, as a society, in our quest to evolve, we are starting to accept things that are morally questionable (and not just by religious standards). Some of these people described are addicts and whilst some people find porn as a nice stress relief, it puts undue pressure on sexual performance and cheapens the beauty that is sex. If your partner is boring, talk to him/her no point suffering through bad sex. Let’s be honest, sex isn’t always great on the first try – it becomes better with time (practice makes perfect and all that). And please, the excuse that porn prevents you from cheating is a shoddy one! You will be surprised what a reliance of porn will lead you to. Finally, abeg, if you catch your partner watching porn, please don’t make them feel ashamed – talk to them about it and leave the judgement at the door.

    • Rapunzel

      March 30, 2015 at 9:59 pm

      So their dry nyash was all u noticed lmao

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