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How Long is Long Enough? Find Out What Tracy & William Conclude in their VLog



Screen Shot 2016-06-07 at 13.24.17No no no, I’m sorry to disappoint the pervert in you, today we wouldn’t be counting in inches. But don’t be disheartened, it evolves around the same topic. How long is long enough to before it is okay to…ermm…partake in…ermm…copulation? Phew, thank the heavens for synonyms and euphemisms. Anyways, how long is long enough?

One of the interesting most interesting aspect of this question, even in western societies, is that it is always almost exclusively directed at women. Perhaps because women are often considered to be the gatekeepers of sex while men gate-keep commitment, hence why we are the ones to ask for the woman’s hand in marriage. In the complex world we live in where trust and sex are valuable social commodities, it is worth thinking about, if it is even relevant to ask this question, and what are the implications of our answers.

I am, as you might expect from men, of the opinion that time is irrelevant. I have heard enough stories of people that met and got it on as soon as it was convenient, and they have gone on to get married. I have also heard of men than hung around for over a year for a hit and run. There are also tales of the knights that waited, and the quick smash and go.

My point is, there is no safe zone. You just have to weigh the situation and figure out what card to play. For a guy interested in other parts of a woman that aren’t sexual, I fail to see how having sex with him too early would change his entire opinion of you. And if it does, do you really want to get with a man that attitude towards women? Next thing he will ask what your body count is. Of course, you know, to him any number not zero might as well be an exponential digit. Okay, maybe too far, but you get my drift.

Tracy on the other hand is of the opinion that a 90 days trial period without sex would be a great idea. According to her, sex can cloud our judgment. I suppose there is some merit to that. Athough, I think it actually opens up the true intentions of people; so really, it should clear your eyes. Perhaps at a steep price, ouch.

Tracy, who as a woman I believe should be better equipped to answer makes a strong point about the demand for sex from men being too much. It just has to be regulated. Understandably, if it wasn’t, men would take the piss (we kind of do already).

Like most questions concerning emotional and social rules, there is no easy or absolute to this one, just circumstantial choices we would all have to make at some points. But what is life without discourse? So please, what do you think is better or safer, wait it out, or get it out the way. The floor is yours.

Watch Tracy and William here:

William Ifeanyi Moore is an MPharm graduate from the University of Portsmouth, UK. His true passion is in novels and poetry but he cheats on them with movies, plays, and music. He believes sacrifice and compromise is the bedrock of any healthy relationship. His debut novel Lonely Roads is out on 10/12/2015. Blog: Twitter: @willifmoore Instagram: willifmoore


  1. Spunky

    June 7, 2016 at 9:01 pm

    I don’t think putting a time line on it is necessary. Withholding the act or not is not a perequisite to a successful relationship. It all depends on what they want and how emotionally mature they are. I speak for myself when I say it will feel good to wait out on sex with a potential partner. I feel sex is just OVERRATED…and NO, I don’t have a low libido.

  2. Missy J

    June 7, 2016 at 9:54 pm

    The dude looks soft and easy on the eyes. He can totally bless me anytime .

  3. Neharra

    June 7, 2016 at 11:28 pm

    Sooo the only thing I learned from this is that I have to go and stalk William moore on social media haha I kid…I kid… But on to the topic, there is no formula for these things. Sex should be when both parties feel ready which is something only the individual can determine.

  4. Da dude

    June 8, 2016 at 6:45 am

    BORING!!! William please stick to writing. Not everyone is made for broadcast….or maybe you and Tracy are just not in sync. Tracy please, cover the lap or at least use a concealer to cover the spots
    It is not attractive in any way.

  5. Vernita

    June 8, 2016 at 1:06 pm

    They’re fine and stop being a little mitch-man bitch 😉 you weren’t forced to watch :*

  6. cika

    June 8, 2016 at 1:28 pm

    her overly exposed laps are distracting me…

  7. "changing moniker"

    June 8, 2016 at 5:52 pm

    Ahn Ahn Tracy……cover up na…biko….
    William can you wait 90 days seeing all these goodies?

  8. Ejs

    June 8, 2016 at 9:13 pm

    Seriously? I won’t comment on your opinion of William you’re entitled whether I fiercely disagree or not. However, she does not need to put cover up on her legs, or anywhere…an extremely rude and unecessary thing to say. Certainly makes your opinion far less significant.

  9. Sade

    June 8, 2016 at 10:47 pm

    Have you guys never seen laps before? Close your eye na! Dem force you to watch? Acting like she showed more than legs smh

  10. Ghen Ghen

    June 10, 2016 at 2:36 pm

    Tracy is so hot!
    William is really funny. See why he’s a good writer

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