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“May I Play with your Toy?” Watch this “After Dark” Edition of EbonyLife TV’s “Love Lounge” with Oreka Godis, Emma Nyra & Uche



In a new episode of EbonyLife TV‘s Love Lounge, the show’s host Oreka Godis delves into the play side of the closet – Sex Toys!

Her guests, recording artist Emma Nyra, and relationship advisor, Uche, shared and answered a lot of frequently asked questions regarding curiosity, toys, pleasure, and everything else in between.

Some of these tags addressed include:

Are there different toys you use as a single individual and different set for married people?

When is it ok to introduce a sex toy into your relationship?

What toys are great to introduce at the start?

Is it a bruise to your man’s ego to ask to introduce toys?

How do you curb an addiction to toys?



  1. anon

    March 15, 2017 at 8:23 am

    “Oh…it’s amazing!!!”…..Oreka to Emma on panty vibrators…lmao
    Good that conversations about sex are gradually becoming mainstream in naija.

  2. keke driver

    March 15, 2017 at 8:37 am

    Thank you Uche

  3. Nuna

    March 15, 2017 at 8:59 am

    I absolutely love the Uche lady! So refreshing and honest.
    I think I may have to have a convo about using sex toys with my husband because there is nothing he does that makes me cum. Ever! Its starting to get frustrating because I hear women talk about having a glorious orgasm and I start to wonder if there’s something wrong with me.

    • word

      March 15, 2017 at 1:07 pm

      Theré’s nothing wrong with u. Most women dont cum from penetration. Plus it takes a good understanding of a woman’s anatomy and how navigate it to make her cum. But with eg. a vibrator, held by u or him, u too will see the galaxies. Dont forget to return here to testify when u eventually do. LOL

    • Nuna

      March 15, 2017 at 2:33 pm

      I’ll look into vibrators. Thanks for the suggestion

  4. laila

    March 15, 2017 at 9:53 pm

    eerrrm ….. Uche, relationship expert? the twitter keyboard warrior always looking to bite people (esp guy’s heads) off?? yimu.

    i laugh in spanish. I wish the video was longer with a larger panel, like Cordelia’s Ndani show.

  5. Careful

    March 16, 2017 at 10:32 pm

    Be careful oh, sex toy might get you the orgasm you require but might also get you hooked. Be wary of building intimacy with a toy at the expense of your husband. I have live experience of this happening.

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