Nigerian photographer and vlogger Eniola Tito Abumere is out with a new episode of his relationship video series, “Just tryin’ to help a sista out’” where he lets women know what men are really thinking!
In this episode, he talks about what is more important in a marriage if it’s the chemistry between the couple or the compatibility.
He says:
There are lots and lots of factors to consider when it comes to picking who you’re going to choose to spend the rest of your life with. One very common conflict many of us face is dating or marrying someone based on whether the chemistry is right between both of you or if you’re compatible.
Watch!
Interesting!!!! Keep em coming
Thanks Arese. I’ll try to. Thanks for watching.
NEITHER!!!
Commitment is the bench mark you need! If you are both committed to the relationship that will be your anchor!! That will help you work through everything. BELIEVE me the trials are going to come like a flood. Chemistry
Chemistry and compatibility are the most inconsistent. things in relationships. If that is the benchmark of why you want to be in a relationship and why you stay in a relationship.
You will either
1. Stay single for a life time
2. Divorce
The inconsistency of Chemistry and Compatibility also means this is something you can both work and grow in.
But both of you have to be committed to the relationship. You can’t grow in commitment you either are or you are not.
Don;t let TV love fool you. Real love is Real.
Real talk Caramel Chic. I appreciate it. *Thumbs up* I guess it’s a combination of things that will make us enjoy marriage and not just endure it. But you’re right though, maturity & commitment are paramount. But some might argue that it’s easier to stay committed to someone you’ve got great chemistry with:-). Cheers.