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#LiterallyWhatsHot: Amaka Chika-Mbonu is helping Men Win Back their Women’s Love in “How to Get Your Wife to Swing From the Chandelier in a Red Negligee”



I have been in a relationship where this guy was and is still every woman’s dream man. His exes wanted him back, and I didn’t want to lose him. I was so enamoured by him that I willingly did things I ordinarily wouldn’t do. It happened so many times that I began to think I was under a spell!

Looking closely at the situation now, and from my experience, before we painfully agreed to a separation, those ladies were desperate to have him back because they realized he was the “complete package”; all they wanted in a man.

Fortunately for men out there, the guidelines to earning this “complete package” tag that gets every woman on her toes, keeps her drooling over her man, and easily bends her to total submission are well explained in Amaka Chika-Mbonu’s How to Get Your Wife to Swing From the Chandelier in a Red Negligee”. 

Amaka Chika-Mbonu

When I first saw the book’s title, I thought Amaka Chika-Mbonu’s book was one of many ‘How-To’ books centered on relationships. But, as I started reading, I realized I couldn’t put down the book. Amaka took the words right out of my mouth and even helped me understand certain things about the female psychology.

For us women, intimacy is more than just physical touch. It is more than just telling us ‘I love you’. We need to see you in action, for the proof of your love lies in your body language. In revealing that heart-to-heart communication is key to unlocking your woman’s love, the author also helps us understand the role communication plays in building a lasting bond with a spouse. This quote says it all:

A man who is not connecting in any meaningful way with his wife both in and out of the bedroom, leaves her vulnerable to, and in serious danger of going down this path of emotional connection with another man because, as I like to say, ‘show me a man a woman is talking to, and more importantly who is listening to her, and I guarantee you she is sleeping with him or has the strong potential to do so’.

And this, amongst others:

Men, you might want to take note of this fact, I cannot stress it enough, WOMEN RESPOND TO LOVE. A woman flourishes, blossoms, and comes into her own, not only when she is loved, but also when this love is expressed to her continually in a way she understands and has confidence in.

This point hits the nail right on the head.

As much as I’d like to explain the psychology of the female species, I know I won’t have words to totally explain it as Amaka has already done a great job. “How to Get Your Wife to Swing from the Chandelier in a Red Negligee” explains things our men (and even women) seem to take for granted, and why they are what will make any relationship actually work. These things shouldn’t be ignored.

I admire the author’s ability to clearly present her message without bashing the male folk, for whether we like it or not, men are a vital part of our existence as women. Amaka tries to help women understand that no matter what, men are the heads of the home. In all this, she also makes it clear to men that if they refuse to lead right, we will lead ourselves as well as the home.

The only part I disagree with in this book is where she wrote that in women leading a home where a man is dysfunctional, they may lead wrongly. I do not think they will lead wrongly because women care for and understand the workings of a home better than a majority of the male folk, but then they say two heads are better than one. If a man and woman come together to plan the way forward, things will run better.

This book doesn’t only talk to the married folks, it speaks volumes to single men and women out there. It helps them—particularly the men—to know how to effectively woo and keep the woman they love. It helps turn your wife’s moodiness and complaints into melodies of love, happiness, understanding, and total submission. It also helps both male and female folks understand in details the leadership position the man occupies.

Dear men, if you don’t want a playboy taking your woman from under your nose, it’s best you learn the secret of womanguage (woman language) that Amaka has so gracefully shared in this book. These secrets will help you keep your woman and make her happy.

I recommend this book to every couple: young, old, married or still dating. Singles are not left out. As long as you hope to be in a relationship someday, then you need to learn “How to Get Your Wife to Swing From the Chandelier in a Red Negligee”.

Available now on Okadabooks. Hit this link to get your copy.

Karo Oforofuo is an experienced freelance writer, an author with several fiction books to her name, and a blogger at Pelleura (, where she entertains readers with mouth-watering stories. She also specializes in helping authors, who want to start and grow their reader base, through consulting sessions. When she’s not working , she’s busy reading the next best paranormal romance novel or writing one.


  1. Bodunade

    October 6, 2017 at 11:56 am

    “How to Get Your Wife to Swing From the Chandelier in a Red Negligee”

    When I’m done being my dream self I will make out time to learn to be another person’s dream.

  2. Oloi

    October 6, 2017 at 1:20 pm

    ‘ in women leading a home where a man is dysfunctional, they may lead wrongly’. The man may not? A woman actually wrote that? An intelligent woman? And I’m supposed to buy her book and learn from her ‘wisdom’? Really? I am a woman and we are our own problem.

  3. Tessy

    October 6, 2017 at 3:57 pm

    Amaka is not in a position to give advise ooo. We all know her husband (an ordained Redeemed Pastor then) strayed and fathered children outside their marriage. Why did she not get him good advise back then? She should park well joor. That is how people open their own yansh.

    • Amaka

      October 6, 2017 at 9:16 pm

      LOL. Thank you dear and God bless you for commenting. Not sure how old you are, but the truth is that everyone WILL face something at some point in their walk through life, this is enshrined in the Word of God.. What doesn’t kill you definitely makes you stronger, teaches you valuable lessons, and enables you, if you allow it to, perhaps then have the privilege of sharing insight from the other side of it. Romans 5:3-5 ends with the phrase, “hope maketh not ashamed.”
      Strength, courage, and character are birthed in and through adversity, walk tall through it all.

    • momo

      October 7, 2017 at 11:38 am

      @Tessy hope you are proud of yourself thought you were trying to shame @amaka right??….her scars are her testimony and ultimately her strength ..women are the worst when it comes to pulling their mates down then they turn around and cry for equality…shame..

  4. Robin Hood

    October 6, 2017 at 4:03 pm

    As usual a lady justifying the decision of a woman to decide to go astray.
    My dear a lady will go astray whether or not the man gives her all the love in the world plus mansion, private jets n best sex… once she decides to explore
    I like the kinky freak she waking up in me trying to imagine her swinging from the chandelier in lace garter belts, thongs and half cup french lace bra

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