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Folasade Owoeye: We All Can’t Afford to Run Mad

When you face a bit of traffic and you are tempted to take one-way or you are about to drop litter on the street, please pinch and tell yourself this hard truth: “We all can’t afford to run mad in this country.” Or more civilly, “I won’t contribute to making Nigeria a hellish place to live.”



One Wednesday evening, I took a quick Taxify ride to grab a meal within Lekki Phase 1. The Taxify driver seemed pleasant enough and tried to make small talk, but I was more interested in getting home in time to devour the contents of my takeaway pack. As we neared my destination, we encountered a bit of traffic. The driver instinctively started to veer off the street to cut through the traffic by taking the opposite lane, aka one-way. I protested his line of action, insisting that we stick to the right lane and use the appropriate turn at the end of the road. He pointed out that other drivers were taking the shortcut, and that it really wasn’t a bad idea since the distance was so short. I looked back and sure enough, several drivers towed the line in a quick dash across the street through the opposite lane. I told him, “Oga, I normally swear for people that take one way oh. Let’s do the right thing. We all can’t afford to run mad in this country.”

The last statement must have struck a chord with him, as he laughed and replied, “Aren’t we all mad in this country? Is it your refusal to pass this one-way that will make Nigeria better? Out of all the problems we have in this country, corruption, no security, poverty, you think this small traffic offence is what will now make Nigeria better?”

I was ready to engage him in a passionate argument. I threw back at him, “Is it the lack of law enforcement that makes people behave irrationally in this country, or are we just disorderly by nature? Is it the lack of law enforcement that makes people litter the streets, or are we just predisposed to being dirty? Is it the lack of credible leaders that makes us vote in inept leaders and individuals with questionable characters, or are we just short-sighted that we easily get swayed by the petty benefits provided by election campaigners?”

“God will help us,” the driver responded with a sigh.

I burst into a mirthless laughter. “No, sir! God isn’t going to come and help us pick up that empty bottle of Sprite on the road,” I said, pointing to a squashed green plastic bottle by the roadside. I continued, “The person that threw that bottle on the floor probably did that without a second thought. Since you asked me if I thought my refusal to take the one-way route was contributing anything to the country – if every one of us decided to drop our litter on the roadside, what would our roads look like? If all the drivers decided to disregard traffic regulations and drive in a manner that suited them, what would our streets look like?” I was ready to go on and on with many more examples of the devastating effects of each Nigerian being complicit in “little” acts that collectively make the county hellish, but I was already nearing my destination. I delightedly pointed out to the driver that there were several other drivers on the road that did take the right turn, sticking through the traffic so we weren’t the only compliant road users.

He smiled at me and said in a tired and dismissive voice, “God will help us.”

Hours later, after scoffing down my meal, I had enough time to reflect on my conversation with the driver, and I had to admit to myself that part of my argument was flawed. In developed countries, the people didn’t act right because they were naturally orderly, or because they had been born with pre-installed anti-one-way or anti-road littering software. No. The societies we tag as civilised and developed run on strict codes of societal conduct, for which there is a strong system of consequence management. If you park in the wrong spot, you will get a ticket. If you rack up traffic offences on your driver’s license, you risk the chance of your driver’s license being rescinded, or in some extreme cases, some traffic violations can even result in a misdemeanour or felony charge. Bringing that home to Nigeria, it is easy to see that without a functional system of law enforcement, even for the most mundane aspects of our daily life, such as driving and waste disposal, we are left at the mercy of the sanity of our countrymen. And there will always be those Nigerians who will always choose the path of insanity (side eye to some danfo drivers and high-flying corporate executives).

So, the crux of this article is this: Nigeria is still eons away from installing traffic controlling cameras, (although I strongly believe we can put our local masqueraders to good use by having them flog people who drop litter on the streets or take one-way). In the meantime, when you face a bit of traffic and you are tempted to take one-way or you are about to drop litter on the street, please pinch and tell yourself this hard truth: “We all can’t afford to run mad in this country.” Or more civilly, “I won’t contribute to making Nigeria a hellish place to live.”

Hi. I’m Folasade (@afiolasade) a finance consultant and a writer seeking a balance between my love for numbers and creative writing. You can catch up on more articles like this on


  1. Mo

    June 7, 2019 at 10:06 pm

    Agreed! The more developed countries have stiffer penalty for such misdemeanors and this makes everyone comply. In Nigeria there next to none. In the end Nigerians must collectively decide to make the country better by the decision we make.

    • K

      June 8, 2019 at 5:05 am

      You know what that meins…
      Humans will almost always naturally be shit, what you need is systems that work. Praying/hoping that everybody acts right is naive and at best idealistic. There are numerous cases of foreigners (from developed nations) being shit in a lawless nation (Nigeria), doing things they otherwise wouldn’t do in their country.
      Conclusion: if the system is enabling, humans will be shit.

  2. Nneka

    June 7, 2019 at 10:12 pm

    Great read! While we hope and pray for better and accountable leaders, let’s ensure we’re better citizens.

  3. Lola

    June 8, 2019 at 7:19 am

    Interesting read and observation. My conclusion on this matter is that Nigerians are not unruly nor uncivilised (few Nigerians I will say tho) and there are penalties for every crime or law violations but the problem is that our law enforcement agencies and Police force are just too corrupt, cheap, and lawless themselves to be diligent in their duties. You will get away with crimes easily in Nigeria not to talk of small violation of traffic laws. The prices to pay is very negotiable, knowing all this, an average Nigerian will calculate in his head what it will cost him and go ahead to commit the crime or whatever violation of the law it may be. It always a money making venture when you recruit Nigerians in most law enforcement agencies, especially when they are in uniforms…they will harass you, not in the bid to enforce the laws but extort you.

  4. Linda

    June 8, 2019 at 9:48 am

    Same starry-eyed approach I used to have to this matter o, until I came to the sad realisation that doing the right thing in Nigeria is really about appeasing your conscience and your God, than contributing to any greater good. Because no one cares, not those whom you want to set an example for, or those who should be enforcing the law.

    And by the way, please add to your side eye-giving, the government and law enforcement officials themselves… Danfo drivers and high-flying corporate executives are after all, only maxing out the laxness of our law enforcement

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