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WATCH the heartbreaking moment a Nigerian man discovers he’s not the biological father of his 32 year old son



A Nigerian man, identified simply as Oscar received what may be one of the saddest news of his life, considering the way he reacted on hearing it.

In the latest episode of The Jeremy Kyle Show, Oscar discovered that he isn’t the biological father to his “son” of 32 years.

The son, Valentine had brought his father, Oscar on the show, after being told a month ago by his mum that the man who had brought him up may not actually be his dad.

Oscar brought Valentine to England from Nigeria and put him through school.

So Jeremy did a DNA test on the two men to find out the truth, and it tragically turned out Oscar isn’t Valentine’s real dad.

On finding out the news, Oscar let out the most heartbreaking wail.

“He’s not my son?” he asked

But Jeremy said: “Being a dad isn’t about being blood-related. It takes a man to look after a kid.”

Oscar and Valentine had earlier said that no matter the outcome of the DNA test, “nothing will change” in their relationship.

Watch the heartbreaking moment here:

Watch the full video here:


  1. Wunmi

    February 14, 2017 at 11:55 pm


    • FasholasLover

      February 15, 2017 at 12:22 am

      Real WAWUUU. oDIKWA TERREBU. Jeremy Kyle our own Jerry Springer. This is evil on the part of the woman. But sha na woman know who give am belle. If only some men know that the children they nutured di not ome from the loins. The Secret Lives of Baba Segi’s wives.

    • FasholasLover

      February 15, 2017 at 12:23 am

      …..did not come from their loins.

    • NK

      February 15, 2017 at 12:35 am

      This young man is razz, fame hungry and an opportunist. Whatever happened to a quiet DNA? Why bring the father on The Jeremy Kyle show?

    • Sisi wura

      February 15, 2017 at 12:49 pm

      Abi o oo Case study is Lola Shoneyin’s The Secret Lives of Baba Segi’s Wives
      The fact that they knew that Baba Segi wasn’t the father of their kids and that he is impotent and were still calling Bolanle barren is another case study.

    • Amaka

      February 15, 2017 at 3:58 pm

      @real Nigerian. I await your comment.

  2. Onika

    February 15, 2017 at 12:02 am

    Valentine’s mom is wicked sa. How can you deceive people for this long? But, why come on TV and embarrass yourselves with a public DNA test? And why is this 32 year educated man speaking like a villager?

    • FasholasLover

      February 15, 2017 at 12:16 pm

      I tire. The thing is, once the foundation is faulty, it is impossible to correct the way an adult speaks. He probably schooled in the village and only came to the UK as an adult for Uni. He is an opportunist just like his mother. Imagine embarrassing the man publicly like that. Coming to the UK to find fame on rachett tv shows like The Jeremy Kyle show. The man should just disown him when he gets over the shock.

    • different perspective

      February 15, 2017 at 4:21 pm

      well it’s free to get tested with Jeremy but the clause is the results will be public.
      Just because you see them properly dressed on TV means things are easy in terms of finances.
      That kind of news will get a typical igbo man on the next flight to Nigeria

  3. Valentina

    February 15, 2017 at 12:15 am

    Several Nigerian father’s are guilty of this esp those who married their wives pregnant. Lol

  4. CovertNigerian

    February 15, 2017 at 12:21 am

    32 years of being lied to. Just more proof that we need to be careful with the very sweeping, gender based generalizations that we often make. It is true that men and women are different in many ways but all of us are capable of inflicting emotional damage and sadly very often do.

    There may very well be a very complicated story of a woman caught between a rock and a hard place behind this 3 decade lie. There may also be a man who doesn’t know he has an adult son, not mention siblings whose brother is now their half-brother, or who suddenly have a previously unknown half-brother. There’s a lot of damage and hurt to go around. Only the mother knows the full story and I hope the she does what she can to fix the hurt she has caused. May they all forgive her.

  5. EE

    February 15, 2017 at 12:27 am

    Dude’s name is Valentine. Talk about coincidence.

    My brother Oscar took it like a man though. See recovery, Oscar you be legend jare!!

    Whoever has been uploading content this night, your reward is both on earth and in heaven.

  6. Rose

    February 15, 2017 at 12:47 am

    Nawa oooo… this is a realllllllll wawuuuuu

  7. OJ

    February 15, 2017 at 12:47 am

    somebody somewhere had opened her legs for another man….sigh!!!!

  8. Becca

    February 15, 2017 at 12:48 am

    Valentine knew this man wasn’t his father all along. Him and his mother 419 the poor man to give him a better life and send him to ‘univasity in abroad’

    • Iyanjebu

      February 15, 2017 at 6:31 pm

      I agree. Valentine seemed to be smiling when the results were announced and showed no emotion at his “father’s” distress.

  9. Yahoo

    February 15, 2017 at 1:37 am

    Pain!, too much pain in this world all in the name of love & marriage, what i can only pray for to God is to protect my loved ones. If u don’t love ❤️ someone leave them the exact way u met them, they should be a law that carries death penalty for defaulters.

    • July

      February 15, 2017 at 9:02 am

      Thank you so much, if you don’t love someone, let go and don’t go about beating them up publicly. Marriage is way too overrated.

  10. Chief

    February 15, 2017 at 1:44 am

    Another buffoonery act.32 years? Habaa!!You see why some women can’t be trusted.Paternity fraud is commonly applies to marriage.It really is rather simple,when the baby is born or before the birth certificate is signed,hospitals should conduct a genetic paternity test and submit the results to the father.About 53% of tests have proven that the alleged fathers were not biological fathers.This gives more than enough reasons to have mandatory paternity test especially for married couples,reason to stop with the putative fatherhood.

    No real men should required to get the mothers consent before conducting paternity test.Most men are fooled and tricked into caring for another man’s child.Statistics and observation of every day life tells women cheat more than men.,
    According to Melanie Mc Donagh,she says that DNA test violates a woman’s right and these feminists have gotten DNA tests banned in most countries.if a man dares to find out the paternity of his child he’s jailed and fined.Imagine!.This is a travesty of justice.It’s a bit disingenuous for a woman to say or to be preaching to us that paternity fraud is no big deal.Why would feminist say that women will feel offended on mere note that men wants to get it done out of curiosity.Why would a woman be offended about a man wanting to know 100% that a child his?

    Do you women really so badly want to control all spaces men are and silence men on everything unless it compliments or support you.It seems that women clearly want to want to assume the role of men.It’s only simps will bow down to your world not a red pill man like me.Never!

    • Padre

      February 15, 2017 at 7:52 am

      The Idiot Chief is here. No surprises.

      Please help us with your sources for this information:
      “About 53% of tests have proven that the alleged fathers were not biological fathers.”
      “Most men are fooled and tricked into caring for another man’s child.”
      “Statistics and observation of every day life tells women cheat more than men.”

      Your buffoonery is already well known, but perhaps it will be reduced if you would lend yourself some credibility by letting us know your comments are intelligently informed….unless of course you’re only speaking from your experiences with your mother, your sisters and maybe even your poor wife….in which case, I can only feel deeply sorry for you and your hard luck.

  11. Mawi

    February 15, 2017 at 1:45 am

    There’s a family living on my street. They are a young couple with twin toddlers. The husband is NOT their real father! But he doesn’t know that. Na look I just dey look. Madam you know yaself

    • Adunnie

      February 15, 2017 at 12:06 pm

      Gbese. Twins!!!
      But how do people do this? How can you give another man’s child to someone else and both parties are completely in the dark about it? That is very very wicked. Women who do this are wicked.
      This video is very very heartbreaking.. That woman is truly wicked and I pray she pays dearly for this

    • o

      February 15, 2017 at 1:18 pm

      The real father might know he’s the real dad but keep quiet. There was a case like that on ChazB show years back

    • Mawi

      February 16, 2017 at 10:51 am

      In my neighbors’ case, the real father (single fine guy) knows & had been threatening the woman while she’s been avoiding him. I don’t know if they’ve reached an agreement now or if he just decided to keep the peace or what.

  12. nnenne

    February 15, 2017 at 1:46 am

    A child is a mother’s baby and a father’s may be! !!!

    • nene+

      February 15, 2017 at 11:24 am

      Scary something! Has the mum now shown him a new dad? Shouldn’t they have allowed this to slide? Is this not same as egg/sperm donor?

      This DNA revelation is like a set up for the man. No hugs, no emotion from the son. Fishy

    • Fisayo

      February 15, 2017 at 3:24 pm

      You know I was reading your entire comment slowly, looking for where you would somehow make this unfortunate situation about APC versus PDP and how Buhari is the worst President ever…and you didn’t do it. You actually didn’t!
      I’m so proud of you girl!!!

  13. Chief

    February 15, 2017 at 1:58 am

    BN where is my comment?

  14. Otinkpu

    February 15, 2017 at 2:24 am

    Chei, I’m sorry for this man o.

  15. Esther A

    February 15, 2017 at 2:53 am

    At 32, sorry, I won;t be doing any DNA test – he brought me up, he is my Father…God is the Father of us all biko!…painful stuff

  16. dhoney

    February 15, 2017 at 3:13 am

    after God, fear Nigeria women….!.I know of a Nigeria woman who had a baby girl before relocating to US without the baby. He got to US and got married and after sometime she brought the girl to US and introduced her as their last born in the family. The marriage is about 30ys now and the man still does not know that the girl is his step daughter. The lady while narrating this story in 2012 was 28yrs old and full of bitterness. The saddest part of it is that the woman`s family (brothers, Sisters and mother in Nigeria) knows about this big lies. My question is what is the big deal in telling the truth about having a baby to a man or woman you claim loves you?.. If a man loves you, he will love everything including that baby. No wonder the bible says..the heart of a man is full of wickedness.

    • love is BLACK

      February 15, 2017 at 11:45 am

      just like russell loves futures son…one thing “love is pure”‘love is blind”its about the connection…bella naija keeps giving i and my friends reasons to skip the marriage part and adopt a kid work hard be happy with a kid prolli try artificial insemination and still be dating the ladies that want to confuse themselves.

      most relationships in nigeria are built on lies, bound for failure

  17. Cocolette

    February 15, 2017 at 3:46 am

    So much pain in that “ewoooo”… ??? why is the son smiling like isi okporoko at such hurtful news ??

    • Cocolette

      February 15, 2017 at 3:53 am

      Oh…my bad, that’s his resting facial expression

    • Ine

      February 15, 2017 at 10:45 am

      My thoughts exactly. He just seems happy to be on tv

  18. survivor

    February 15, 2017 at 4:41 am

    Y air it nah

  19. Ranti

    February 15, 2017 at 4:45 am

    Wicked woman! why should she say it now, she should have kept it a life secret, its better to say the truth on time, I feel for the Dad because it will be more painful for him being deceived for so many years! I pray the family heals.

  20. truth

    February 15, 2017 at 5:44 am

    I think there should be a DNA show like this in Naija, in fact Africa as a whole, I bet many men, will die of pain and pure hurt. May God help us all, and may women learn to fear God when passing another man’s child off to another.

  21. Moniker

    February 15, 2017 at 6:26 am

    The guy is just a goat. All this while he and his mom knew. They les the man along. Only to shatter his heart on tv. The thunder wey go fire una still de gym. Another thing the Igbo man must have thought through would be the fact that it is a man… the hurt is so real.mhen


    February 15, 2017 at 7:11 am

    Only mothers know the real fathers of their children; there was a post here on Aunty Bella about a 27 year old guy suspecting that his father might not be his real father.
    Come and read deflective advice from the female commenters:
    -It could be genetics; maybe you ressemble a distant relative
    -You’re just worrying yourself for nothing; after all, your mother and “father” provided for you all along, what else do you want?
    -Your head is playing you tricks

    When a man cheats, does he cheat with goats? He cheats on you with other women, abi? Meaning: women cheat too, it’s just that they’re damn coded about it because of our patrarchial mindset.

  23. women are dogs pass men

    February 15, 2017 at 8:56 am

    women *are dogs pass men*

    hope y’all agree now

    • Gina

      February 15, 2017 at 3:26 pm

      Nope, we don’t agree.

      We do agree that some women behave very, VERY badly, but on the balance of things, especially in Africa, men are still by far the leaders in the dog department.

  24. Moyo

    February 15, 2017 at 9:31 am

    Why is the younger man smiling, do they pay them to reveal this terrible things about themselves. I stopped watching after 3mins

    • Big Joe

      February 17, 2017 at 11:00 am

      I also think they paid them to put on a good show. The young man was smiling and the father’s recovery was so quick. Honestly, I still see a lot of the young man in his father. Their resemblance looks genetic DNA. The young man should have told his mother that the information that Oscar wasn’t his dad was not needed. After 32 years. DNA was not important.

  25. Real

    February 15, 2017 at 9:52 am

    Haha! I know this guy. Oscar. Lives in Bradford. A real hustler. Was so proud of his son. Always spoke about him and how he took care of him…

    • Cocolette

      February 15, 2017 at 1:43 pm


  26. Prince

    February 15, 2017 at 11:57 am

    A child you’ve nurtured since infant. What a terrible world we live in. Valentine’s mum should be killed for keeping the truth away from his husband till now.

  27. Vera

    February 15, 2017 at 12:06 pm

    Valentine is an ingrate, smiling stupidly while a man who is old enough to be his dad is crying! I expected him to show some love at the point the man said, nothing will change in our relationship- he should have hugged the man with respect and love! I guess it was a planned thing between the mom and the still boy! They will ripe the fruit of their sowing!

  28. mee

    February 15, 2017 at 12:16 pm

    I know a family friend who told his brother’s story as:

    The wife would always tell his family members things like “abeg stop troubling this boy he may not be your son for all you care o” ……….”in yoruba, e ma damu omo olomo o, o tie mo boya omo yin ni sef”

    One day the husband got angry and did a DNA, it turned out the 2 DNA did not match but the wife denied any hanky panky claiming her popular slogan was only a joke.

    this my family friend was then called to intervene in the messy situation so he facilitated another DNA to be done in SA but it was the same report. His brother is not the child’s father.

    Till tomorrow the wife and her family are still begging and claiming she only used to joke that the boy may not belong to the man but the family no wan here am at all.

    my family friend said the last time he spoke with them he told them to conduct another test to disprove the previous ones but they are yet to revert

  29. Bella

    February 15, 2017 at 12:40 pm

    This is heart-breaking to watch, but the fact is this, when men cheat, who do they cheat with? Women are cheaters too just as bad as man do. Like one of the readers wrote, when men cheat do they cheat with goats? No, so women haaa, this is too bad for this guy na!

  30. Ifeoma

    February 15, 2017 at 3:30 pm

    Obirin!!!!!!! ew U!!!!! nna na wa oooo. This woman is wicked. She should died with the secret. What will this old man do now? have another child at his old age. Women make una fear God oooo!!!!. If you must cheat ALWAYS USE PROTECTION oooooo. Na wetin be this sef!!!

  31. Orienma

    February 15, 2017 at 5:09 pm

    …and to think he is his only son! Chai chai (in Patience Jonathan’s wife voice), women! there is Goddddd ooo.

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