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A Tale of 2 Girlfriends: Twitter User shares Infidelity Experience

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To be honest, one of the most hurtful things you can experience is discovering the love of your life is not the love of your life.

You’re just there casually scrolling through Instagram and you see your lover, your actual lover of 7 months, with another person, the caption celebrating 3 years of the two of them being together.

Your heart pauses for a minute, you know. Maybe you even doubt your senses, go “But this can be.”

That was the case of Twitter user @Scilla_xx, who on Instagram discovered her boyfriend is, well, somebody else’s.

With @Scilla_xx’s permission, we are sharing this.

See the thread below:

30 Comments

  1. Sherlie Holmes

    December 1, 2017 at 3:24 pm

    Another Yoruba guy at it again…SMH. What pleasure do they derive from this foolishness??? It’s disgusting!

    • Anonymous

      December 1, 2017 at 6:25 pm

      The only thing you could bring out from the whole situation is the ethnicity of the guy in concern. In your mind now, you would think you are a sensible person. Guess the breakups and divorce going on everyday across the globe involves a Yoruba man. A Sound mind is far from you.

  2. SoniaPaloma

    December 1, 2017 at 3:31 pm

    LOLLLLL Good on her, He did not even have the decency to apologies to her and instead blocked her straight,

  3. Anon

    December 1, 2017 at 3:36 pm

    Wow, while your anger is justified you’ve handled this like a tantrum throwing child. What happened to calling the guy himself and telling him off and walking away knowing you just dodged a bullet. What’s all this involving innocent family members? And going on a rampage on social media. It’s not what you are doing to them in the name of revenge but what you are doing to yourself- letting your irrational thoughts dictate your actions and going so low. Like the guy didn’t marry you so what’s the family’s own and if this is how you manage challenges in relationship what will you do when married- burn the house down? What your boyfriend or spouse does is their own, what you do is your responsibility. You owed it to yourself to walk away from a deceitful man but The lengths you went to hurt other people just to appease yourself shows you have a lot of work to do on your self esteem. You didn’t cheat na abi? You’re the honourable one so what else do you want?! #walkingawayisrevenge all this outing people in this manner is low!

    • Buhari Bu Ndi Ojor

      December 1, 2017 at 3:53 pm

      Maybe irrational, but, how was she to reach him? He blocked her everywhere!
      Let him go into a panic and not do damage control with his babe alone but with her friends and family too. Let the babe also know he is a douche bag. What she does after that with the info at her disposal is her biz.

    • nothng wey we no go see

      December 1, 2017 at 5:16 pm

      Anon God bless you for your response. You can see that this one has taken on the black American stereotype of badass girls. I don’t even feel pity for her after all of her shenanigans. To call the other girl’s mother and all that. Their family did not do anything to you. No home training at all. She also better lose that so called friend that found the number on the internet for her. A friend that assists you to hurt an innocent person who, if we think about it critically has been more betrayed, is no friend at all. Blind leading blind.

    • mywifeisfiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiine

      December 1, 2017 at 5:56 pm

      I am a guy and i say she did the right thing. i have a friend in NY, she met this Naija guy who had come to study for his masters and i believe his New York Bar also. Guy started chasing girl, and girl tells him; oga as you can see i am single and only interested in a serious relationship; there are plenty other girls out there you can spend money on. i am not looking for money but a real relationship; guy swears up and down, woos girl left right and center; she agrees to date the punk. Only for this guy to chop toto anyhow for almost a year. then one day they go out to eat; he slides money into her bag without her knowledge. She sees the money later on, calls the guy and asked him about the money. he says yeah, he just felt like gifting her. Couple days go by, she has not heard for him and starts to call, phone is switched off; sensing something, she tries his naija number and it goes through. Relationship was a wash, she felt like the money was payment for all the yanshin. If na you wetin you go do? She ofcourse kept quiet like plenty other girls out there and i am sure the guy is still doing it to other women.
      If you are a guy reading this, stop this rough play of toying with peoples emotions, sex is overrated, if you are a woman, avoid the headache, if you don’t trust a guys movements you are probably right; he is shady.

    • Weezy

      December 1, 2017 at 8:10 pm

      The fact that she used the word “baecation” twice was enough for me to know this is small girl things.

  4. Anon

    December 1, 2017 at 3:44 pm

    Causing physical harm to someone who cheats on you is not cool. Calling their wife or girlfriend or family over their actions is not cool. Going on social media to slander them is not cool. That’s not the way big girls handle issues- it’s the way children behave- you don’t get what you want so you go and spoil ground. Big girls take care of shit by taking care of themselves not running riot like headless chickens! What a man does isn’t a reflection on you so he cheats how is that your shame to be reacting upandan about that’s why he blocked you- you’d already taken matters into your own hands- who apology again when your actions justified the irrational crazy girlfriend stereotype that a guy should actually dump!

  5. Anon

    December 1, 2017 at 3:48 pm

    Trust me the majority on social media might hail you for being so called badass but truly your actions were crass and childish. I was appalled rather than entertained or impressed by your shenanigans. Still embarrassed for you! So that all it takes to make you hembarass yourself on the internet. Issokay the young shall grow!

    • Power of The Ancestors is the ONLY Power

      December 2, 2017 at 11:44 am

      Anon aka Yomi the cursed idiotic nuisance whose daughters shall taste of the bitter seed he sowed in some innocent lady’s heart,kindly shut the fuck up. I am sure you being a weasel newbie on bellanaija,didnt realise that the icon on the left changes per new person. But instead you decide to come back over and again to register your displeasure at your actions.

      You wretched young man,are nothing but a buffoon. You deliberately led someone along for your own temporary kicks and are now crying foul for being outed like the thief that you are.

      You are lucky she is calm.
      Try that with me in my single days and your life would have been over on earth,but you would still be existing.
      Omo oshi jakujaku.

      Whoever raised you needs to cover their face in shame.
      Useless child.

      Na pikin like you we dey go babalawo house for.
      Mi ma ba ti e je ni.
      Your mother would see you and cry blood.

      Naija Prisca or whatever your name is,how I wish you were my niece.
      All I need is his name,thats all,and so long as he has seen your nakedness,he would definitely see pepper.
      Some mumus will say hand him over to GOd.
      Which God?
      God of the white man abi?
      That keeps allowing your politicians to cheat you while you cry and curse into nothingness.

      Prisca abeg,if you want to deal with him further,just leave a message below my response.
      O ma gba,shey he doesn’t want to have home training abi?
      Aiye ma su ni!!!
      Countless stupid men we have dealt with,it’s this one that looks like rejected menses that is giving you headache.
      Nonsense.

  6. #ProudNigerian

    December 1, 2017 at 3:53 pm

    All because of MAN you are stressing yourself like this . Investigating, calling, faking bla bla. I advice you to drop all these drama it’s not good for your emotional health. I cannot come and go and come again and stress myself all because of man school is enough stress????

  7. Deleke

    December 1, 2017 at 3:57 pm

    You were obviously the side dish

  8. Ephi

    December 1, 2017 at 4:18 pm

    Why should she be sending screenshots to the other girl’s family members? What for? Wetin concern them for this, the 3-year gf is not even married to this dude so wtf is all this harassment on her family members? Meanwhile, her writing was just giving me headache when reading through. Babe, better apply your energy to more productive things than forming James Bond upandan.

  9. Linda

    December 1, 2017 at 5:09 pm

    Hmm, pettiness on social media.

  10. John

    December 1, 2017 at 5:54 pm

    Just Imagine all this…the dude dodged a bullet..good riddance to bad rubbish and good for him for dumping her on time…a woman like that can stab someone to death

  11. curious

    December 1, 2017 at 6:57 pm

    my only issue with the lady is, she appears to be pretending not to be hurt. She is hurt and that’s okay. it’s okay for us to admit we are in pain that’s one of the first step towards true healing. If she wasn’t pained she wouldn’t be going through the stress of finding the whole family and doing all this. Like I said…what the guy did was absolutely messed up and it’s okay to admit your pain.

  12. Jummy

    December 1, 2017 at 7:06 pm

    Overkill!

    I felt sorry for you initially but the lengths with which you went to tarnish his image shows you’re a pretty vengeful person.

    Cry your tears, dry your eyes and move on! Why thus pettiness? Which man would want to date someone like you who doesn’t know how to handle distress without throwing tantrums.

    Aunty please target your energy to better things.

  13. Mrs chidukane

    December 1, 2017 at 7:14 pm

    Abeg she did well. If i was the 3year girlfriend, I would be very happy to get this information. So I will know the real truth about my boyfriend. My mom and family wouldn’t mind the information either. See, marriage is a long time to live with a big cheat. Who knows what else he’s doing behind my back? Free her. If it hasn’t happened to you, you won’t know how it feels.

    • Puzzles

      December 1, 2017 at 8:33 pm

      The girlfriend would most likely not give a damn. You think she would throw away a three year relationship over a side chick? That’s how she and her family members would reason. Highest thing is the guy would be scolded by his and her family members. They will sha beg her to forgive him, they will marry and babe would be feeling like the winner. And bros would get another side chich while wife would become very active in church, praying against the sidechicks that want to break her home.

      I have to commend the girl for blocking the face of the girlfriend as she did her no wrong.

  14. Physio Tinu

    December 1, 2017 at 7:33 pm

    I was a side chick once and I didn’t know it. I’d been with the chap for about 9 months and one day I’m in his crib chilling and then a message comes into his phone. For the first time in the 9 months we were together I read his message. It was from his babe who was away in another state doing her NYSC. After going through their sms thread it became clear that they had been together for years, she was ending NYSC in a couple of weeks and there was hint of introduction/engagement.

    I didn’t know what to do. Confront him? Reveal to the babe? How to Hurt him?
    A whole me, in all my glory, my nubile self, I was a side chick?! Chai!!
    Then again, kini big deal? I’d known that he wasn’t THE ONE. I was in my early 20’s. It was fun while it lasted but no skin off my back. My decision was just to go cold on him. I walked away from it all the following day. Didn’t pick his calls. Refused to see him. Haven’t been in touch with him since that time.

    If i had more teeth in the game e.g. maybe if i was older like mid 30ish or had vested more time in the situationship I wouldn’t have played the ice queen card. Omo I would have played it hot-looked for a way to hurt him or at least discomfit him or something.

    Each to his own joor. The background/past experience usually influences how people react and who are you to judge the person. Face your own.

  15. hmm

    December 1, 2017 at 7:55 pm

    interesting because she often used to tweet about how all men cheat and it’s not a big deal. BN you should have added her previous tweets. That’s part of why she was trending, because she had often gotten into fights with feminists and even some guys as she was always teasing women who were against cheating. Nigerian women forever pretending like they are okay with their partners or spouses cheating meanwhile it hurts and drives one crazy, naturally. Why then do women pretend like it’s something they are fine with or wouldnt mind putting up with if it causes them to go nuts, spend years praying or tracking down the sidechicks or co wives/girlfriends? Wish them all the best.

  16. P

    December 1, 2017 at 8:24 pm

    I would want to find out if I were in the 3yrs gf shoes but not this way. If the gf was interested in knowing the details, she would have reached out when she sent the messages particularly if it has details that are too real to be ignored. She may not be interested and that’s her choice too. Contacting her family members is just malicious ,it definitely does not come from a place of concern. It’s enough shock to deal with and she should get to decide how to break the news to her family. She may not even want to tell them about. Not everyone is close to their family members even their mother. All I get from her is anger and a need for revenge. Her telling does not come from a place of concern like she said. She wanted to hurt the guy and his relationship and in the process hurt and humiliate the gf.

  17. Puzzles

    December 1, 2017 at 8:36 pm

    I wish there was a website where girls can post the details of these players. All a lady has to do if a guy is toasting her or she’s unsure of his fidelity is to go to the website and search if he’s there.

    Saw the guy’s face on Instagram and he looked so cute and innocent, like he can’t hurt a fly. Looks are deceiving

    • californiabawlar

      December 2, 2017 at 6:21 am

      Lol… there was a website called don’tdatehimgirl dotcom. I think they ran into legal issues and had to take it down or revamp it as something else. But shebi Nigeria is a lawless country fa? Someone can definitely start a yorubademon registry… hehehe

  18. Baymax

    December 1, 2017 at 8:37 pm

    The guy sha! Dating two girls with the same name! The devil would be saying “Na wa o”

  19. Dora

    December 1, 2017 at 9:11 pm

    Truly a Yoruba demon!!!!
    Girl, glad you let the other girl and her family know so she too knows what piece of trash she is dealing with. But please send no more or investigate no more. Just let them be. They are well informed to make whatever decisions they need to. I hope you heal soon and eventually forgive him in your heart, only for your own emotional well-being and for the next relationship you get into. Stay blessed. Xx

  20. JJ

    December 2, 2017 at 5:22 am

    the place that caught my eyes is totally different. a lady is dating a guy for three years?! shu??? like what are you doing? I get that people do it but girllll, if a man is in a relationship with you and after a year hasn’t indicated in any way that he wants to marry you, then you need to start considering your options. study shows that before the man even approaches you, he already has an end in sight. he knows what he wants. so if he doesn’t propose In that time, this is a very slim chance he ever will

  21. Big Tee

    December 2, 2017 at 6:46 am

    Hmmm… but this same Prisca girl leaked her ex-boyfriend’s babe’s nudes and got her expelled from Bowen Uni back then… if you know this Prisca in real life, run for your life, she is a bomb waiting to explode.

  22. Tru

    December 4, 2017 at 2:18 pm

    dayummmm, hell hath no fury!!!!

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