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Do Long Distance Relationships Ever Work? Osi Suave shares his thoughts on a New Episode of “Off Air”



On-air personality Osi Suave is back with his no-holds-barred vlog called “Off Air”.

In this episode he is talking about long distance relationships and asking if they every work and even if it works, is it worth it?

The video contains strong language.

Watch below.


  1. Anon

    August 30, 2016 at 1:49 pm

    Sort out the next page fiasco, please.

  2. Grown Woman

    August 30, 2016 at 1:57 pm

    It does work for some people especially if both parties are committed to each other, otherwise it can be a bit of a challenge sometimes

  3. Emasax

    August 30, 2016 at 2:02 pm

    This guy got it all wrong, long distance is distance relationship fully works, if it doesnt work for him, then that’s his problem, nonsense

  4. Jacy

    August 30, 2016 at 2:03 pm

    I have been in a long distance relationship of seven years. It is a non sexual relationship. You should only be in a lonf distance relationship if the commitment disciplone and affection far ouyweighs the distance. Fully relying on Jesus. On the average we are together 6months in two years. Most importantly it has developed my spiritual life as well as that of my bf. It has sharpened our instincts we would be walking the aisle to an enternity of bliss in few months. I wouldn’t have had it any other way it has been awesome. In all never waver in faith fully trusting in God challenges would come but surely you shall overcome.

  5. Oluchi

    August 30, 2016 at 2:12 pm

    Sometime last week i beggd any1 to come to my aid
    dat i was in dire need of financial help, two people
    responded sndn me 2000 nd 1000 respectively makn a
    combined sum of 3000( if any other person put anytin
    other dan dis, den pls call me out for lying) i really
    appreciate dis two people though i can’t give dia
    name in respect to dia privacy. Its been almost 1wk
    now nd am still whr i was, am nt in a hospital bed nd
    am nt down wit any disease or sickness, am jst weak
    frm extreme hunger nd poverty, i am a final yr studnt, i
    haven’t paid my school fee for last session, i havnt
    paid my lodge fee for 2yrs so I’ve been told to leave, i
    cant afford another place, i dnt knw if i can squat wit
    anybody, I’ve always jst managed myself; sometimes i
    drink garri 2 times in a day nd dat keeps me going, no
    one knws wat goes on behind closed doors bt i cm out
    smilln, i can’t cope wit others livn standard, i cant
    afford it. I will b going bak to schl nxt month, pls i beg
    every1 who sees dis to help me go bak nd complete
    my schooling, am a final year student, i can prove all
    of dis claims if calld upon to do so. Am nt a fraud i jst
    nid help, i am one of millions of Nigerians frm less
    advantaged homes bt am one who has decided to
    come out to publicly beg for alms, my entire childhood
    nd teenage yrs has been lost to extreme penury,
    poverty, nd hunger, i jst really nid help now. D last
    time i said i was ashamed to b beggn, nd ys i truly
    was nd so i askd for 10000 naira, cos i culdn’t open
    up; am no longer ashamed to do dis, as i write dis am
    extremely hungry,dis might hav very well affected my
    thinkn u cant imagine wen last or wat i ate last, i
    really wnt 2 eat, am tired of d brown water we eat dat
    is calld soup, i wnt even if its one plate of gud food
    please Nigeria cm to my aid, i wuldn’t go to dis length
    if it isn’t serious. pls anybody, everybody help me, i
    knw am nothing more than a beggar bt pls if being
    calld dat will save me den so b it. bt if u cant help me
    financially den help me by telln me if suicide is a sin,
    for days now i hav been going thru d bible nd i can’t
    seem to find a place whr it is mentioned, i jst nid to
    knw. my acct no. is 0039705865, diamond bank, acct
    name: Oluchi O. nd pls put all like me in ur prayers cos
    life for us is nt worth living, we only see d beauty of d
    world thru other peoples eyes nd lives.

    • Sky Blue

      August 30, 2016 at 2:23 pm


    • Girl

      August 30, 2016 at 2:45 pm

      Hi Oluchi i would love to help you, I don’t know how to make it possible though because I’m in America. I’m a “final year” student like you and i would be cutting deep into my paycheck to help you but i couldn’t imagine having to go to school with all these problems I would have dropped out a while ago. I want to give you $100 so if anyone here on BN can give me an idea on how i can get the money across ill appreciate it.

    • Mr D

      August 30, 2016 at 3:30 pm

      My humble opinion is, Oluchi, Should try and open a paypal or neteller account. It can be done online in a couple of minutes and it is absolutely free. If she opens the account, anybody who wishes to donate money from abroad, can easily do so.

    • tunmi

      August 30, 2016 at 3:31 pm

      You can do western union online, I think there’s a $5 or $15 charge, and she could get it in a couple of days

      You can also do transfast but it’ll take some days to verify your account if you don’t have an account with them. It takes about a week but there’s no fee.

    • tunmi

      August 30, 2016 at 3:41 pm

      Forget transfast, they’re asking for too much of her private info like her phone number, what state she is in, what city, and her bank branch number. Kúkú do western union or moneygram

    • Girl

      August 30, 2016 at 3:59 pm

      Hi oluchi please can you leave your email address? ill send you an email and we’ll go from there. Also thanks tunmi.

    • aja

      August 30, 2016 at 9:08 pm

      you can send money to her account straight via RIA money transfer, its free if you use your debit card

    • Stephanie-feld

      August 30, 2016 at 2:52 pm

      Oluchi, I would love to help you too. BN is there a way you can have my contact (e-mail) sent to Oluchi so I can get her account details. Thanks.

    • tunmi

      August 30, 2016 at 3:32 pm

      Her account number is 0039705865, and her bank is diamond bank

    • jide

      August 30, 2016 at 3:20 pm

      @stephanie bt d acct details r dere already na, diamond bank, oluchi nd d number too, abi its nt shown in ur browser?, den @girl i dnt hav a clue, mayb money transfer of one sort me i dnt knw, sha ask ur bank. bt abeg dis girl sounds super frustrated so pls dnt raise her hope for nothn, i will make a transfer soon

    • Oluchi

      August 30, 2016 at 4:46 pm

      its [email protected] for anyone dat wnts to get intouch

    • tunmi

      August 30, 2016 at 3:59 pm

      Can you provide your full account name. I tried with Western union and with moneygram and the error message is that “Account name does not match account number. Reconfirm both items”. You can email me of you’re not comfortable with this: [email protected]

  6. Girl

    August 30, 2016 at 2:45 pm

    ewww bn what happened to my blue avatar i don’t like this one

  7. that uptown girl

    August 30, 2016 at 3:07 pm

    Long distance relationship do work but it takes a lot of work and commitment. The best the people involved can do for themselves is not give each other a reason to suspect that either one is cheating or being unfaithful. My husband and I dated long distance until we got married. Texting, WhatsApp, midnight calls, Skype, you name it and sometimes those weren’t just enough and I’d just burst out crying. The worst periods were the days following when we had just being together. Before we met I had sworn of long distance relationships but I saw something good in him and was willing to explore it.

  8. That African Chic

    August 30, 2016 at 4:34 pm

    Long Distance works if both are willing to put in the required effort. Also there must be an end plan to the long distance. Yes the hardest is right after you’ve seen each other.

  9. Yolanda

    August 30, 2016 at 4:51 pm

    @that uptown girl; exactly my current situation!! It(s not easy at all but I saw something precious in him!!!

  10. Mahka

    August 30, 2016 at 5:24 pm

    Funny Osi??. Ikorodu is like one very long bus away..u should come visit. Love you on air,you n Maria always bantering.

  11. Sisi

    August 30, 2016 at 6:18 pm

    Lols, funny guy. Hmmm long distance is a long thing – faith and trust – if those two are missing you’ll just drive yourself crazy wondering what if………mind you not having the proximity to physically interact with someone, you are likely to miss out on somethings which might be red flags in terms of long term future

  12. Gorgeous

    August 30, 2016 at 8:53 pm

    I used to love long distance relationships and still do. But the individuals have to be mature. Truly before you are married, you both need the space and time to achieve what you need to. And sometimes close proximity and give way to laxity, and even over dependence on each other. Long distance really helps with thinking rationally when in relationships. All the bad habits come up really quickly, and it is the ultimate test of commitment. It is not for everyone though, but i prefer it because i like my space a lot.

    • Rekiya

      August 30, 2016 at 10:08 pm

      Gorgeous I’m not a lesbian but take a wet kiss.I love my space and long distance is really the ultimate test of commitment. We all need that time to achieve what we can alone before marriage makes us the proverbial one.

  13. Reben

    August 30, 2016 at 10:07 pm


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