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Can you be Friends with Benefits without “Catching Feelings”? Guys of the “Men’s Corner” Discuss on BN TV



Men's Corner

On a new episode of EbonyLife TV‘s ‘Men’s Corner, show hosts Ebuka Obi-Uchendu, Andre Blaze and Mazino discuss “Friends with Benefits”

The Friendly neighbours, VJ Adams defined it as a relationship that has an extra value, while Kore Brown defined it as a situation where you share everything but without feelings while Akah Nnani, believes it is for those without morals and it’s for those who don’t know what they want, but they just want.

They all try to define the term and then go on to discuss who initates it, if it’s possible to have it long term without “Catching Feelings”.

The women also weigh in on the issue – Kemi Smallz believes it’s a Business deal and when it stops being that you should let it go, Dusky Mila & Seyitan believe that men are most likely to initiate that sort of relationship.

Watch it here:


  1. Bodunade

    September 21, 2016 at 1:38 pm

    Sages at the round table spitting knowledge and making us more enlightened.
    This is a Very relevant discussion

  2. bims

    September 21, 2016 at 5:14 pm

    let me quickly comment o. pls pls pls dont start it o. cos 1 person must catch feelings. firsthand advice. in my case it was me. and he wasnt having it. this at that tym happened to be the closest person in the world to me.we shared everytn except d feelings. it took so long for me to move on when he wasnt forthcoming. newsflash! then I move on after so much & so long and oga’s feelings arrived. too late Sir. it was such a painful xperience.

  3. A Virgo

    September 22, 2016 at 12:59 am

    Hmm, I v learnt a lot… No friends with benefits for me. ….pussy closed till he puts a ring on it. God help me do dis

  4. esteem

    September 22, 2016 at 5:01 am

    Indeed it is painful and un- African, though people practise it but certainly the weak and emotional will always break the rules by loving the other. Guys most a times initiate it, i call them people who have low self esteem and probably runs away from responsibilities. Damn it the heart is not a memory card that you can delete the most beautiful songs or picture in it, if you don’t know yourself like the word of socrate(know thyself) don’t practise it because it is not for fragile, loving, caring and sensitive hearts like you. Game of feeling you no fit form JAGABAN at all.

  5. Valkyr

    September 25, 2016 at 7:53 pm

    Can you be Friends with Benefits without “Catching Feelings”? Is a question anyone who wishes to answer must answer for themselves.. And if you answer please don’t disturb me.
    Any human can initiate it Biko o dey label any gender. Bia Bella, kwanyelu ones gi ugwu o. Reverse sexism a akaria

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