Connect with us

News

“My Ordeal in the hands of Ivie” – John Edobor Accused of Hitting his Wife with a Metal Rod shares his own Story

BellaNaija.com

Published

 on

John Edobor and Ivie

John Edobor and Ivie

John Edobor, the former Zenith Bank Plc. staff who was accused of hitting his wife of 9 years, Ivie Edobor, with a metal rod has taken to Facebook to share his own side of the story.

Edobor who shared his story with several documents attached, claimed that Ivie got pregnant for her lover, one Matthew Agbaire, who, according to witness, brought her home the night she got injured.

Edobor also shared documents that showed that Ivie was married in 2002 which he was until this incident, unaware of.

Read what he wrote below:

Ivie Angela Edobor who lives in Surulere, Lagos, got married at Saint Dominic’s Catholic Church, 356, Herbert Macaulay Street, Yaba, Lagos on Saturday, 30th June, 2007 at 12noon. We did the traditional marriage ceremony at the father’s compound at Abisogun Estate, Alafia Sari-Iganmu, off Lagos Badagry Expressway on a Thursday, 28th June, 2007. And as well as the marriage Registry in Lagos at Ikoyi on the 17th January, 2007 (all the marriage documents are attached).

Ivie and I are blessed with three lovely children (three girls – senior 9 years old; second – 7 years and 4 years old respectively). Ivie and I had lived together (with love) all these years in peace devoid of rancour and acrimony.

Ivie Edobor once worked for Stanbic IBTC Bank Plc. until she resigned her appointment on the 11th July, 2011 in view of the fact that she was been accused of collecting kickbacks from the bank’s contractors in order for her to perform her duties as administrative staff. She exhibited these traits of fraud, corrupt practices and financial misappropriation which led to her termination and dismissal from Econet (now Airtel)… She was dismissed for lack of integrity due to lies in addition to her serial borrowing from her many colleagues.

When Ivie resigned from Stanbic IBTC Bank in 2011, (find attached her resignation letter) in order for her not to be at home doing nothing, we both had a discussion on (the next line of action) and then she suggested that she wanted to start importing diapers from the United Kingdom (UK) and start distributing and selling in retail which I obliged her by giving her initial start-up capital of about N500, 000 (Five Hundred Thousand Naira) and as the year progressed, we noticed that the business was moving I had to borrow money from friends and with my personal savings to inject into the business which amounted to about N8 million (Eight Million Naira Only).

Every year, it was our agreement that audit be done to ensure that the business is actually doing well and to make sure tax is paid to Government as well. This was actually adhered to in 2012 and in 2013, I noticed that Ivie had refused to call the accountant to come audit her books. I kept insisting on the audit to be done since she knows the accountant and have his contacts and moreover where we were staying in Ajah at No 76, House 3, Street X, Abraham Adesanya Estate, Ajah, Lagos, was not far from where the accountant was actually living in Ajah.

This persisted until September 17th 2014 when strange faces of people I had never met or spoken with before kept coming to knock at my gate as early as 5a.m. every morning to demand for their moneys from Ivie and when the amount was added together, it came to about N25,204,250 (Twenty Five Million, Two Hundred and Four Thousand, Two Hundred and Fifty Naira Only). Please see attached the list of people she was owing and these people are available if you which to speak with them. Most of them said Ivie told them that her dad was sick and she needs money to treat her very sick dad. Just like she has said on FB that I don’t give her money….

Despite all these borrowings, Ivie could not account for what the sum of N25, 204,250 was spent on and till date she has not being able to explain in clear terms what the money was used for. She could not explain to me or her family members how she spent such huge sum of money. It became clear of recent after two years that she actually borrowed these moneys to save face from shame since Matthew Agbaire who she was dating was threatening to blackmail her if she could not part with money anytime Matthew Agbaire requested for any sum to use for himself.

On 11 October 2014, one of the Ivie’s creditors known as Tolu and her family members, came to the house when I had gone for a training, dragged my sister (Otekpen) out of the bathroom when she was having her bath and assaulted and humiliated her. The matter was reported by me to the Nigerian Police Station, Ogombo, Ajah, Lagos and the matter was recorded in crime diary S/NO 80, Time 2055 HRS. (go and verify for yourselves).

When the threat of violence was becoming too much, I advised Ivie to relocate to her father’s house temporarily till a time that the entire or substantial part of the indebtedness would have been defrayed and the threat of violence most especially on the children of the marriage would stop.

After Ivie left our matrimonial home as agreed, we were still meeting on Fridays to Sundays at the matrimonial home in Ajah to discuss our family affairs. And we were during this period still performing our marital responsibility to each other. (evidence to support this assertion with printed copies of correspondence between us and her pregnancy.)

On November 24th, 2015, Ivie was pregnant for me with twins which she confirmed severally in our chat (see attached for your perusal and confirmation the Ultra Sound Scan Report for the LMP and EDD) and the pregnancy grow for 5 (five) months and the babies had become 5(five) months old in June.

Since Ivie was living in Surulere despite my several plead to the father to allow Ivie and the children to come join me in Yaba notwithstanding that Ivie and I looked for the apartment in Yaba for us to live as one family again, Ivie decided to stay back in surulere and every Fridays she would come to sleep with me while on weekdays she kept sleeping with Matthew Agbaire who is married with his own kids.

Until May 2016, when my kids where on midterm break, and they came to spend the holiday with me in Yaba that two of my children told me that, every night, one uncle Matthew was always coming to the house to sleep in mummy’s room till the next day and he will buy them Suya. And when I asked Ivie she initially denied until I showed her a video clip… that she then admitted (see attached our chat for your perusal) and at this time Ivie was still pregnant.

Since Ivie knew the consequences of her action she begged and pleaded that, she would need to go for confession which she did in June 5th, 2016 at Saint Dominic Catholic Church, Yaba. There she promised the reverend father Felix never to go back to such life again. Two days later I received a phone call from the house help that, Matthew came again to take her out and did not return until late in the night. When I asked Ivie she denied and she beat up the house help as well as collected her phone from her.

At this time Ivie had threatened she was going to flush the babies since I am doubting the paternity of the twin. Because, I asked Ivie if you are pregnant for me and still kept sleeping with another man (Matthew Agbaire) so who own the babies? We would need to do a DNA test to actually know who their father is.

Three days later, Ivie and Matthew Agbaire went to abort the babies since she was worried that I kept insisting on the DNA of the children. When I asked Ivie what happened to the babies she said she could not face the shame of having bastard children which am not ready to father and this kept me worried up till now since Ivie could kill children that were already formed (7months) babies.

I spoke with the father who lives in Orile, in Lagos and even went to see him about it and all I got from the father was he will talk to Ivie and two of her aunties and I tried calling her mother who lives in UK but she would not pick her calls and as well told my family members about it too.

On what happened in June 19th 2016, incident that got Ivie admitted at Tokin Hospital for broken leg, contrary to claims by Ivie, she actually got injured during a scuffle between myself and Matthew Agbaire who brought out a hammer from the tool box in his car to fight me. Ivie at sighting me started shouting ‘ole, ole’ for the security men to come and kill when Matthew brought her back home past one (1:00a.m.) in the morning while the children were left at home with a girl of about 13years old to care for them while Ivie and Matthew went to a hotel to have sex.

Ivie in an attempt to allow Matthew to run away was holding on to my hands backward and in the course of my struggle, Ivie and I fell to the ground and then, Matthew wanted to seize the opportunity to slam the hammer in his hand on me which I dodged and then I noticed he was not relenting the second time after first strike which actually hit ivie, and then she shouted, when I saw him trying to raise his hand again, I had to row over Ivie and stood on my feet before the security men came to rescue the situation.

Matthew quickly rushed her to a hospital in Surulere perhaps the same hospital the twin was aborted by Ivie and Matthew. Ivie has consistently told people that I have not been taking care of the children school fees (find attached the receipts of my children school fees till date for your perusal) and that because they are girls and not boys that was the reason I drove her out of the matrimonial home. This statement is reckless and unfortunate because I love my daughters and in several instances I had used prominent woman who are role models like Okonjo-Iweala to buttress my stand on this even to her. I do know for sure my children will grow up to be greater than men and their knowledge will be sort after around the world. She has push out false information to the public for her to continuously gain sympathy from the public, press, bloggers, the civil society and human rights activist.

In another case, she has said I came prepared with the intention to kill her that night she was injured by Matthew, with a knife and of recent a dagger and crowbar or wheel spanner to attack her. And I keep wondering with the inconsistency the tools she keep naming that I used. The fact is, I came into Lagos that night (18th June, 2016) from school in Ile – Ife at about 9p.m. with my school bag and book in it and my car was parked at the stadium where I drove to her house which is a stone throw away from her house and I did not get Yaba before going to see her that night since we had agreed to meet that night. Matthew was the one who works for a construction company and had his tool box where he brought out his big hammer he used on Ivie.

It will shock you to know that Ivie was married to one Benedith Jatto on the 17th December 2002, a document she used in her NYSC and equally in her former place of employment while she was working with Airtel Nigeria. I got to know and see all of these when this issue came up and a copy of the document is available for your perusal. And up till date that married has not been dissolved which means Ivie is legally married to two men.

Ivie is doing all these for her to hide her shame and the face of Matthew Agbaire a father of two who is still married to his wife, and work in Centrix Allied Limited who is the brain behind her termination of the twin and the her broken leg. It is unfortunate that Ivie is acting this way because as my wife and mother of my beautiful children this is not the way I planned for us.

As a responsible father I have consistently played my role and provided for them to the best of my ability all that they needed.

So please tell me how I went wrong…. You can imagine my shock to find out that I am her 2nd husband…was it wrong of me to have encouraged and empowered my wife? Please tell me which man will take it…she only shouted out so the issue of the children she killed will not come limelight.

Click the embedded link below to see the documents and photos:

195 Comments

  1. Abi

    November 17, 2016 at 4:36 pm

    Na wa o! who do we believe now ehn? This is a totally different version from Ivie’s. I just hope justice prevails and this man does not end of going to jail for something he didn’t do.

    • Cocolette

      November 17, 2016 at 8:36 pm

      As in ehn…so confusing. Who will believe him now? I thought they said if you cheat on an Edo man, it has dire consequences, how come it didn’t work against the lady all this while? Whatever the story sha, I’m sure a lot of steps could have been taken to avoid all of this…like, someone cheats repeatedly on you, you leave them and free yourself before you begin to harbour a burning rage against them that will bring you temptation. How do marriages even get to this stage? Now the poor lady has lost use of one leg most probably for life.

    • Princess Isoken

      November 18, 2016 at 5:12 am

      It has consequences if the woman has a male child,The child might din due to this or it can affect the husband if he’s not strong spiritual, it can even kill him.

    • Anonymous

      November 17, 2016 at 8:36 pm

      This is complete falsehood, After he had broken her leg, he was apprehended while trying to escape, arrested and detained overnight at a police station, then transferred to Ikoyi prisons where he was their guest for three days. There were several witnesses that night and all the weapons he came with are with the police. Don’t fall for these lies he is spewing out just because he is idle and has been sacked by Zenith bank,

    • john

      November 17, 2016 at 10:54 pm

      lol…where is ur proof. He has shown his

    • E_ver

      November 18, 2016 at 9:24 pm

      And who might you be, n what do you have to say about all the documents and proofs he has put on display

    • kissinger

      November 18, 2016 at 10:56 pm

      We don’t want anonymous, show your identity

    • Ivie Imobhio

      November 19, 2016 at 5:45 am

      Chai……… You people don’t Know Ivie Imobhio….. That is her maiden name. Go and ask her classmates from Abuloma….. The girl is a born liar and drama queen… I wonder why most of them are not commenting…. Ivie if you get to read this, you know your husband is saying the truth….. You are always lying and borrowing money…. People are believing you cos they don’t know the kind of lies that you can cook up….. You people should not mind Ivie oooooo….. Trust me, she loves attention and can lie for Africa. Ivie that acted like an asthmatic patient through out her secondary school days… Abi is it telling all and sundry how her mother was her step mother and was very wicked to her and wanted her dead…… She was in Primrose house and her classmates know her well well……. You guys have no clue who Ivie is. The chic needs mental help……. John needs to pray cos Ivie will bury him with her lies and she is ready to act out the script as long as it takes…..

    • abby

      November 18, 2016 at 10:17 am

      blaa blaa blaaa..he brought thugs to beat her n broke her leg in the process, please how does that solve anything? if she is all u claim she is, couldnt u just cut her off n report her to the police? responsible father indeed..now ur gonna get what a “responsible father” gets.

    • Anonymous

      November 18, 2016 at 8:43 pm

      My dear in a marriage there’s usually three sides to a story: the wife’s side, husbands side and the one day neva talk. When I had issues in my marriage people will hear my husbands side call me a witch, hear my side call him a devil. whether by one miracle or names they’ve called us the witch and the devil are still together. Morale of the story only dem can settle their matter

  2. Mystique

    November 17, 2016 at 4:37 pm

    This is a lot to digest……….. I’m shocked. Tried to look the guy up on facebook I won’t even lie. So who is telling the truth????

    • Ayodele

      November 18, 2016 at 8:06 am

      To be honest i think they both didn’t take their marriage vows seriously, he was cheating, she was also cheating. I don’t how people do this if you don’t want to be married walk away. If he hit her then he should face the consequences of his actions.and If the woman lied karma will catch up with her

    • benosky

      November 18, 2016 at 8:43 am

      there is no marriage vow to be taken seriously. Woman marring two men at the same time and also keeping another man. One can not get any good thing from this kind of woman.

  3. Amaa

    November 17, 2016 at 4:43 pm

    See ehn my guy you spoilt everything the moment you attempted to murder her . You should save this story for the gods. This entitlement syndrome that you Nigerians men have is what will be all your down fall. If I where you this is what J would have done
    File for a divorce
    Get a restraining order from the court to stop creditors of your wife from coming
    File for sole custody of your children with visiting rights for her based on her recklessness and financial improprieties
    Thirdly move on with your life and your kids
    Now your job is lost and you probably will be heading to jail because the evidence of her injury and eye witness account is solid. All because of ego and the lord mentality

    • Anonymous

      November 17, 2016 at 4:46 pm

      Oponu ayeraye, how exactly did he attempted to kill her? Read, you thick head.

    • ???

      November 17, 2016 at 8:34 pm

      why are you insulting a total stranger? you could have stated your point sans name-calling

    • Ab

      November 17, 2016 at 9:27 pm

      Sincerely what stopped him from doing all this once he noticed all this about his wife.he already has 3 daughters. No matter how awful it may sound, going to block your wife/ alleged lover by 1am is not it. What if something else happened to him. Guys should learn to pick themselves up from marital issues these days or it will be downfall all the way

    • mua

      November 18, 2016 at 12:56 pm

      Why do we just hate to read, is it that hard? smh.

  4. Dr. N

    November 17, 2016 at 4:51 pm

    You mean she required titanium implants in her legs from an accidental injury??? Something is not right.
    Ha!

    • A Real Nigerian

      November 17, 2016 at 5:14 pm

      Doctor, it happens

    • Ada

      November 18, 2016 at 1:48 pm

      No it doesn’t! He is lying! He hit her in his blind rage and repeatedly too and is now ashamed.

    • groovernaculum

      November 18, 2016 at 7:00 am

      Why not?I am a Dr, and you cant imply that because she has implants, it may be more than an accident.. Implants is not an indication for deliberate or accidental injury. You dont know the conditions of her bones , nor the kind of injury sustained for sure. That is why you need to see the xray to be more informed and really only a competent radiologist or orthopedic surgeon can be more accurate. Even with all the xrays, except it is 100 definite from the xray, It could still be spun in any direction .Please dont spread misinformation. You dont arrive at diagnosis or conclusions by speculations or emotions.

  5. E j

    November 17, 2016 at 4:52 pm

    Nawa, father let the truth prevail, don’t let the just go to jail pls Lord, just so painful

  6. Reverse

    November 17, 2016 at 4:53 pm

    Nigerian men and accusing their wives of infidelity! So where’s the proof of the abortion? What were you doing at hers by 1am? How does her previous marriage come into play? So you knew she was married and went to marry her?

    Just throwing accusations upandan. See how you wrecked her legs. You should have just moved on, after all she wasn’t even properly married to you!

    • Mr. Egghead

      November 17, 2016 at 5:02 pm

      Proof of the abortion?
      Do you think he has the aborted foetuses in his freezer.

    • Marlvina

      November 17, 2016 at 6:09 pm

      ??? with ice block bags on top.

    • Reverse

      November 18, 2016 at 3:06 pm

      Yes, let him bring it from the freezer then! Typical chauvinist, you think it’s ok to accuse a woman of abortion on social media court without proof! This is a man his pictures with another woman on a bed are on social media but shes the adultress! What if she had a miscarriage? Hey but she’s a cheat let’s hang her! She’s everything bad but he still went to destroy her legs. Why can’t he move on? Anyway let him go and sue zenith bank for unfair dismissal, or maybe it’s just near women his rod wielding powers manifest!

    • A Real Nigerian

      November 17, 2016 at 5:15 pm

      Proof of the abortion? Lol!

    • nene

      November 17, 2016 at 5:21 pm

      apparently, they were both having affairs. i hope he’s not lying about breaking her legs, but somehow i don’t believe him. i think both parties are guilty, unfortunately, the woman lost as usual. women please respect yourselves.

    • Someonecute

      November 17, 2016 at 5:49 pm

      Lol.. Proof of abortion?! I can’t laff abeg.

    • Chief

      November 17, 2016 at 6:08 pm

      shut up!! Call a spade a spade.The unforeseen consequences of the idiotic ideologies of feminism and women empowerment have devastated our society and African culture.You feminists are hypocrites,emotionally and psychologically askew. Where are the angry feminsts that were demonizing the man in the previous post? I have said it that feminism demonize men and also teaches women to never take responsibility for their own actions but instead to promote a victim culture in which people truly seem to crawl for a way to make themselves a victim of something.As for the man,he made a terrible mistake by empowering his wife.Moral of the story,i support him and he acted as a real man….period

    • Jide

      November 17, 2016 at 6:18 pm

      Your father should have acted as a real man and punched you out of your mother’s stomach.

    • Chinese

      November 18, 2016 at 1:27 pm

      So empowering a woman is a wrong thing??? You should be ashamed of yourself. Such myopic way to think.

    • Reverse

      November 18, 2016 at 3:14 pm

      You are irredeemably pathetic and I’m sorry I can’t help you? I need to shut up for you to give your own opinion? Some of you think too highly of yourselves… make your point and pass, but Mba I must insult. You talk about feminism with so much pain. It’s here to stay so deal with it!

    • Bugg

      November 18, 2016 at 8:23 pm

      too bad your mom didnt abort u…shame

    • Ify

      November 17, 2016 at 6:30 pm

      Pls read and digest before commenting. He didn’t know about the marriage until recently

    • sass

      November 18, 2016 at 9:31 am

      My dear my mum is a nurse and I am a lawyer. I have seen enough in court and my mum has given me enough jist.
      The number of Nigerian men fathering multiple kids that are not their own will shock even devil. Naija women cheat for Africa oh. And yes I am a female.

    • abi

      November 18, 2016 at 9:10 pm

      Those men know. Weak weak sperm.

  7. Rrrrrrr

    November 17, 2016 at 4:54 pm

    This is what happens when people aren’t truthful. A man’s job was terminated. That is why he decided to go on full assault. Please madam Ivie I hope you didn’t lie.

    • ogeAdiro

      November 17, 2016 at 5:55 pm

      This guy deserves to have his job terminated oh. Someone you call your wife owes random people unexplained 25mil and you’re still talking marriage? Since 2014? He’s lucky that the woman no kill am sef. I’ll give her 24 hours to explain and if her explanation is still not making sense, I’m ghosting with my kids. Anything else will be done through intermediaries, before emotions will come and get in the way of common sense.

  8. Mr. Egghead

    November 17, 2016 at 4:55 pm

    This man doesn’t have time for games.
    All his accusations have receipts, signed and stamped.

    Why can’t adulterous people just say “I’m not doing again” and walk away?
    If Matthew is her new boo, then sign the divorce papers and press the eject button. Stop fighting for somebody who doesn’t want to be won.

    Matthew is a real G tho. He knacks the mama and buys suya for the children. With him, everybody wins a prize.

  9. Dentale

    November 17, 2016 at 4:55 pm

    So many personal details shared here. I wonder why? To distract from the dastardly attack? It feels like this man is grasping at straws. If he knew she was unfaithful, even up to the point of aborting a pregnancy on account of uncertainty about the paternity, why did he stick around? These are adults, capable of making decisions for themselves! To narrate such sordid details tells me that the marriage was in trouble for a while. But they kept up with the appearances, now things have fallen apart. Somehow I’m not buying this story. Are there any reliable witnesses to corroborate the claim that her lover was responsible for her injuries? I think not.

    • Anonymous

      November 17, 2016 at 8:48 pm

      He drove her out of their matrimonial home along with her three daughters 2years ago. Abandoned to suffer in the wilderness, she survived and overcame, then he returns after being used and dumped by lagos girls and women, she has moved on and out of insane jealousy breaks her leg. He wakes up realising he has been sacked and decides to tarnish Ivie’s (the mother of his kids) reputation. Pettiness, sheer pettiness!

    • anon

      November 18, 2016 at 10:05 am

      Verywell said my dear

  10. Teju TJ

    November 17, 2016 at 4:57 pm

    The problem with him is that he still does not get it. If you do not get along with your spouse, get a divorce.

  11. Deb

    November 17, 2016 at 5:00 pm

    I stopped reading when he said he got a calkl from his House help. If you have gotten to a point where you use your House help to snooop then he marriage has broken down irretrievably

  12. yellow sisi

    November 17, 2016 at 5:02 pm

    Marriage of nowadays na waah oo!..I have nothing to say and cannot judge the man.I want to hear from Mathew’s side of story.

  13. Lily

    November 17, 2016 at 5:04 pm

    Stories are good from horses mouth but if this is true about Ivie.. Mehn ????

    • Marlvina

      November 17, 2016 at 6:13 pm

      My dear they’re both “horses”. So whose mouth we go listen to? In fact, horses tell lies too. Only God can tell the truth.

  14. Benny

    November 17, 2016 at 5:16 pm

    Bloody sociopath. This man is dangerous.

  15. nene

    November 17, 2016 at 5:17 pm

    Too many spelling errors. What a woman!

  16. Ann

    November 17, 2016 at 5:17 pm

    Adultery is not a crime in the Nigerian constitution. You guys were already separated. So why did you attempt to kill her? Attempted murder and assault is a crime. Adultery is not. So I don’t understand this long story. She cheated oh, she didn’t cheat oh, it doesn’t matter. You tried to kill her and you’ve maimed her for life, that’s your crime.
    Men will cheat up and down but let a woman do the same and it’s like the world has ended.
    Did you hit her? Yes or no? That’s the question.

    • abi

      November 17, 2016 at 8:53 pm

      I’m confused……He wanted them to move back in together after asking her to leave because of her debts (huh?) She insisted on staying away. So what domestic help ratted her out? And which home did Matthew drop her off at when the hammer-tion happen? And why would she still be chummy with Matthew while he was blackmailing her? Which according to him was what led to her massive debts which he asked her to leave for.
      This story is poorly told with too many cliches.
      Bottom line he injured her.

  17. nene

    November 17, 2016 at 5:19 pm

    Too many spelling errors. What a woman! Still as adults, they should’ve settled everything in silence. This affects the kids.

    • Marlvina

      November 17, 2016 at 6:07 pm

      In this generation do people even know what silence or privacy is anymore? I just tire o! Ds kin life sef.

  18. Lol

    November 17, 2016 at 5:19 pm

    Okay it’s still does not condone beating her.

    If you’re getting married please do pre-marriage counseling at a good church or whatever religion you are. Love makes you blind and does not point out red flags like this. So sad.

  19. KWAKWACITY

    November 17, 2016 at 5:20 pm

    Why didn’t he just go home that night? Why bother about who she was sleeping with?This is a mess! People should learn to move on and avoid all this tragedies!! I feel bad for everyone involved, especially the kids! Seriously…Kai

    • Anonymous

      November 17, 2016 at 5:25 pm

      Why bother about who HIS wife is sleeping with?? really block head??

  20. tunmi

    November 17, 2016 at 5:24 pm

    Hmm… This guy’s has receipts!!!! And I’m inclined to believe him.

    • Ann

      November 17, 2016 at 5:54 pm

      To believe him about what? So because she’s cheated he’s allowed to kill her? You Nigerians are so bloody emotional. Did he attempt to kill his wife? Yes or no?

    • tunmi

      November 17, 2016 at 9:24 pm

      No, her cheating does not give him license to kill. I’m just not sure that he broke her leg. But there were eyewitnesses there. Was the Matthew guy present at the fight that led to the broken leg?

    • Anonymous

      November 17, 2016 at 8:42 pm

      The guy just fooled you too. No receipt was posted, Check through the documents attached. None of what was posted supports his story. Fake story teller from the village!!

  21. Darius

    November 17, 2016 at 5:28 pm

    My instinct tells me you are telling the truth. But why would you fight over a woman? Even when you knew she was unfaithful to you, you were seemingly unperturbed by it. No woman on earth is worth dying for. That Jezebel you call a wife would snuff you out if she gets the slightest opportunity. File for divorce and with the strong evidence you have, the court should grant you custody of the kids. Get a restraining order against her, and live your life without a care in the world. No man should ever have to put up with a liar, a nag, and a whore.

    • Nahum

      November 17, 2016 at 6:45 pm

      I don’t understand, Nigerian women live with lying, nagging whoring husbands all the time….why can’t men pray for that heir wives the way women are urged to pray for their husbands? Stupid hypocrites

    • BlueEyed

      November 17, 2016 at 7:32 pm

      I agree with you Nahum, I don’t understand why people are dismissing his story because he stayed, when our society encourages women to stay to save face, why is it unusual that a man decides to stay with an unfaithful wife ?? Remember feminism ??
      On this topic, I am inclined to believe this man, the same way we have deadly men that is how we have deadly women, this man came with receipts!!! Ivie might be the real sociopath here. TBH even when I read the story yesterday I automatically did not believe the woman’s tale. Watch Crime tv programs and see how many men have suffered shame, loss and incaceration in the hands of sociopathic women.

    • Nahum

      November 17, 2016 at 7:45 pm

      @BlueEyed, I don’t know what you are agreeing with me on, we are not saying the same thing. My point is, if men are encouraged to divorce bad wives, women should be given the same advice and encouraged to leave bad husbands. NO ONE should stay with a bad spouse and domestic violence is NOT the way out!! That is what I am saying.

    • tunmi

      November 17, 2016 at 9:30 pm

      Maybe that’s what the guy did here as well. We have been speaking about Nigerian women staying in abusive marriages, but what is to say some Nigerian men don’t do the same. I’m not equating the two. I’m not so quick to dismiss that this guy was trying to make things work with his wife.

      Oya eyewitnesses, send your letters oh

    • Darius

      November 17, 2016 at 9:31 pm

      Make no mistake about it, I don’t condone infidelity whether it is done by a man or a woman. I just think that nobody should put up with a partner(a man or a woman) who consistently cheats on them without remorse. My friend was accused of infidelity and battering by his wife. She plotted the story in such a way that, anyone who heard it believed her and took an instant dislike for her hubby. We all fell for her lies and cut off every relationship with her husband. When the truth finally emerged, that was when we all realised what a pathetic, big fat liar she was. We all looked stupid for not sticking with our friend till this day. SOME WOMEN are devil incarnates. If you have never been set up by a woman before, you won’t be able to fathom the extent a woman can go to make a man look bad. They say it’s a man’s world, but apparently, we have to beg to be heard, and even when our story is heard, it is always discredited and dismissed as false and an outright lie.

  22. chidi

    November 17, 2016 at 5:28 pm

    The lack of comprehension in this country is at an all time low.
    From his post:
    “On what happened in June 19th 2016, incident that got ivie admitted at Tokin Hospital for broken leg, contrary to claims by Ivie, she actually got injured during a scuffle between myself and Matthew Agbaire who brought out a hammer his tool box in his car to fight me when Ivie at sighting me started shouting ole, ole for the security men to come and kill when Matthew brought her back home past one (1:00a.m.) in the morning while the children were left at home with a girl of about 13years old to care for them while Ivie and Matthew went to a hotel to have sex. Ivie in an attempt to allow Matthew to run away was holding on to my hands backward and in the course of my struggle, Ivie and I fell to the ground and then, Matthew wanted to seize the opportunity to slam the hammer in his hand on me which I dodged and then I noticed he was not relenting the second time after first strike which actually hit ivie, and then she shouted, when saw him trying to raise his hand again,”

    Apparently Matthew, his wife’s lover accidentally broke her leg during the scuffle.

    • LemmeRant

      November 17, 2016 at 5:45 pm

      They will all conveniently ignore that. After all the man always has to be at fault.

    • Ann

      November 17, 2016 at 5:55 pm

      But eye witnesses are saying he’s lying. They’re saying he did it himself.

    • LemmeRant

      November 17, 2016 at 6:05 pm

      eye witnesses vs receipts lol.

      Because you want something to be true doesn’t mean it is.

    • Mz Socially Awkward...

      November 17, 2016 at 6:13 pm

      God bless you. The witness report is the one part of the story which hasn’t yet been explored or explained by Mr. John.

      Unless there’s a still untold account of how Ivie was sleeping with the witness in question, as well as with Matthew…? Insert sarcasm as appropriate.

    • Eno

      November 18, 2016 at 5:54 am

      Mr Lemmerant, does the receipt show how her legs were broken? I just tire for some of these comments.

    • abi

      November 17, 2016 at 8:59 pm

      What was he doing at her home at that time? He asked her to leave because he didn’t understand what “for better or worse” entailed in a marriage.
      This story is pure bs.

    • Eky

      November 18, 2016 at 4:24 am

      How do people think? so Matthew mistakingly hits Ivie once and she ends up with all those bruises and broken legs? While ivie might not be a saint like she made all of us believe, this guys story does not add up.

    • gold

      November 18, 2016 at 9:09 pm

      She never claimed to be saint, she agreed that a male friend brought her home…fill in the gap.

  23. daniel

    November 17, 2016 at 5:28 pm

    more reasons not to get married. May god help us in this institution called marriage

  24. Solape

    November 17, 2016 at 5:31 pm

    The Nigerian Male domestic violence manual. When you’ve let your temper get the better of you and trash beat your wife into a hospital bed, make these accusations to get fellow neanderthals and imprisoned female minds to take your side
    1. Accuse her of infidelity – but he is cheating to, that one isn’t discussed
    2. Accuse her of being reckless with money
    3. Accuse her of neglecting her duties as a wife and mother
    4. Accuse her of not building her home or praying enough

    YAWN!!!! – No excuse bros. You had ample opportunities to walk away. No one can provoke you to slap Buhari. So men like Paul who think a woman can provoke a man, are talking rubbish. No policeman or soldier on teh streets can provoke you to beating the crap out of him. So, if a fellow man in a position of power can’t provoke you to anger and violence, tell me how that analogy can’t be applied to your wife or sister.

    This script has been played out so many times with different casts. I don’t care to read his side of the story. Did you or did you not beat your wife. Tha’ts how lawyers ask in court. The second you answer yes, you’ll be told no further questions. All these but, but, let me say my own side of the story, is trying to justify violence. Slut shaming, money shaming, wife shaming, you name it. I don’t care if she was Cruella Devil personified. You don’t raise your hands to hit ANYBODY. If you were in the West where law and order still means something, would these tales by moonlight you are chanting hold water?

    Was your life physically in danger that you beat her up in self defense? No. Even in cases of self defense, your immediate reaction to protect yourself is what is taken into consideration. If you continue beating up the person, omo jail is in your destiny. Let my cousin’s husband tell you what happened to him after he beat up a burglar who broke into their house. He thought it was naija, jungle justice. The burglar got an even lesser sentence than him, and after he serves his sentence he is very likely going to be deported.

    If your life isn’t in danger, you have zero justification for beating her up. Mr John, you were also cheating, yes or No. I am not taking Ivie’s side here, because i am a woman too. This case is like Trump and Clinton, two shitty choices, but you have to stand on the side of what is right. Mr Matthew was there, according to you, why didn’t you beat him up.

    Can this man say without any iota of doubt that this is the first time he has hit Ivie. That’s a rhetorical question. If you are a man or woman reading his side of the story and taking his side, just know that you have justified what he has done. Domestic Violence is black and white, no grey areas. My consciously or subconsciously taking his side because his wife is a “bad woman with a colourful past”, you have just set up your sisters and daughters, because best believe society is made up of you and I. The evil that is domestic violence is still being perpetuated because we find exit doors for the attackers and victim shame the other person until it hits very close to home. The day your daughter comes home beaten black and blue or worse dead, this same society will paint her red and give her husband a get out of jail card. This goes beyond commenting on social media

    • Nahum

      November 17, 2016 at 6:21 pm

      Thank you!!!!!! I can’t put it any better

    • Cmbo

      November 17, 2016 at 6:36 pm

      The irony of his write up is that he has just supplied Ivie’s team with enough ammunition to prove he had a motive. Imagine posting an invoice /bill and calling it school fees receipt. Are the messages proof he didn’t do it? Even if she was the devil, why attack her. Matthew did not break that leg. I can believe everything else but that!

    • gold

      November 18, 2016 at 10:11 pm

      God bless you! He just provided enough reasons for the premeditated attack.

    • coly

      November 18, 2016 at 3:08 am

      Simply because he is responsible for her and not the powerful position you mentioned … You can discipline anyone irrespective of their strength or muscle if you are responsible for them of pay their salary

  25. Jess

    November 17, 2016 at 5:35 pm

    I am so angry at this man. If all wives do to their cheating husband what you did to your wife,do you know how many married men will be on wheel chair. The guy that killed his wife claimed the wife was cheating,this one is towing that line. Many eye witnesses Oga, many.

  26. Micheal

    November 17, 2016 at 5:38 pm

    marriages crashing everywhere in Nigeria, such a thing that is meant to bring you so much joy, just look at this MESS… ivie its a shame, was it worth it, look at how you have been exposed you tried to ruin your husband now all the lies are out in the world for all to see. I wish your third husband luck. You should relocate

  27. teniola

    November 17, 2016 at 5:43 pm

    There is no greater force in this world than a woman destined to destroy her home. It is practically unstoppable. I Wish them luck. Matthew Agbaire i hope the toto was worth all this mess.

    • Corolla

      November 17, 2016 at 9:31 pm

      Greater force se kini? In your mind you’ve dropped knowledge. Iranu! Nigerian men that have been destroying their homes since 19 guguru and epa nko? When a woman does half of what they do, y’all will start dropping useless and meaningless quotes. Whether or not she is adulterer or liar, did he break her leg? All this cock and bull story does not exonerate him or prove his innocence. He wants to deflect from the issue at hand and tarnish her image, and he knows that the some block head Nigerians will immediately justify his behavior once they hear that she is an adulterer. Nonsense!

  28. Mawi

    November 17, 2016 at 5:46 pm

    Oga, assuming all u stated is true, there is no justification for physically assaulting ur wife or her lover. You should have walked away & left the marriage Tey Tey sef. WHY REMAIN THERE BIKO???
    You men always advise women to ‘pray’ for adulterous husbands, or ‘to manage them’ or at worst, peacefully leave. You should have used that advice but no, una mega egos no go gree una. See am na. U don shit for church.

  29. Cmbo

    November 17, 2016 at 5:47 pm

    Imagine if everyone got maimed because of their indiscretions? What were you doing there in the middle of the night? Were you a faithful husband? Could you not have divorced her? What exactly warranted that kind of attack? If wives were to cut off the dicks of their cheating husbands, would they be justified? You had the option to walk away from all this. Now look at your life!!! Are you now saying you didn’t break her leg? So the witnesses are ghost?

  30. john

    November 17, 2016 at 5:49 pm

    rules for men only
    1)no man should ever marry a woman who don marry before..
    2) never marry a divorcee
    3) never marry a single mother
    4)never marry a woman who identifies herself as a feminist
    5) never marry a woman who flirts too much
    6 ) the final rule ..if ure lucky to find a woman who doesn’t exhibit this attributes, never never let her go

    …….no womanbis 100% perfect but AT LEAST THOSE ARE A START

    • Dear John

      November 17, 2016 at 6:01 pm

      Dear John, I pray you have a daughter. I pray her husband abandons her and her kids making her a divorcee and single mother not by choice or defect in her. I pray that she is alone in the prime of her life and that no man marries her. I pray she is lonely and frustrated, unable to attract a single man or used and passed round by men taking your evil advice. Then you will remember the trash you typed here today.

    • EE

      November 18, 2016 at 2:33 am

      I’m rather curious why his future daughter was brought into this?

    • Dear John

      November 18, 2016 at 5:32 am

      @ EE, there is no option to reply you so I have to reply myself. His future daughter is relevant because the women he so casually condemned are people’s daughters too. They were carried for 9 months by a mother who loves them, a father excitedly announced their birth and used sweat, blood and tears to provide for them then give them away in marriage expecting the best only for the husband to treat them like dirt. If this is John’s advice on how to treat people’s daughters who experience hell then so shall it be for his own daughter.

    • A Real Nigerian

      November 17, 2016 at 6:05 pm

      Retard.

    • Ono

      November 17, 2016 at 6:36 pm

      Men should please not marry, it’s not by force to marry. If you cannot control your temper please don’t marry. You want to kill another human being because she cheat on you……. Another man woman when you marry, if her first husband did not kill you for marrying her, why do you want to now kill her for sleeping with another man. You should have been a man and left her alone. She has a right to live her life the was she wants, if you no like her way of life waka pass. She no good she no good, you stay with her born three girls even give her belly for twins again, she may not be good but her pussy too good for you.

    • Emeka

      November 17, 2016 at 8:33 pm

      I married a single mother of 2, we’ve gone on to have two more kids. Everyone told me not to marry her, especially as her kids have different dads. Guess what? SHE IS THE BEST THING THAT EVER HAPPENED TO ME!! Its been 12 years now since we got married and it hasn’t all been easy but she HAS NEVER given me any reason to regret marrying her! One of my friends who told me not to marry her, that she is a hoe, gold digger etc, well, HIS marriage has crashed and we’re still together!
      So Johnny boy, what’s your point?

    • john

      November 18, 2016 at 12:54 pm

      @emeka story story STORY. .tell it to the birds..who sre u trying to deceive

    • Hmm

      November 17, 2016 at 11:53 pm

      Guys beware of an aggressive feminist, they will wear you out, they will judge your every action based on their agressive doctrine. Eg He said he loves me but he said it in a misogynistic way, therefore I will show him I can’t be talked to any how. Women beware of an aggressive and egotistical man, Every thing you do will be judged based on their Ego. She said good morning with respect. I will teach her a lesson.

  31. Sonia Paloma

    November 17, 2016 at 5:51 pm

    So, no eye witness to verify both parties story or what?
    The man has receipt for every single thing he said. Fingers .
    No one knows who to believe anymore *sigh*
    This is why it is important to leave a marriage when both parties are no longer happy and can’t seem to find a common ground, to avoid story that touch LIKE THIS

    • Ann

      November 17, 2016 at 5:56 pm

      In the previous posts there were eye witnesses and they said he’s lying. That he hit the woman himself.

  32. Chanel

    November 17, 2016 at 5:52 pm

    Wow, too many details.
    Men lie
    Women lie
    I’m not going to take sides here
    But all I know is, God knows best

  33. Dear John

    November 17, 2016 at 6:06 pm

    Ivie’s behaviour sounds disgraceful that’s if its true but he should just have walked away. Why was he laying in wait for them and joining issues? Now its his word against theirs and he has lost so much. All for the kind of useless woman he claims she is. Not worth it. People fall into this trap of wanting to prove a point or give people a piece of their mind but its better to leave them. They will surely get what they deserve. Its easy to say I know but look at this mess. Any judge would have dissolved the marriage and given a good custody order for the benefit of the children. Very sad situation.

  34. ferrari

    November 17, 2016 at 6:16 pm

    It’s so easy to believe this man…i wonder which version is true

  35. Paul Adeyemo

    November 17, 2016 at 6:23 pm

    Ivie Edobor, you will rot in help fire. Oloriburuku

  36. Paul Adeyemo

    November 17, 2016 at 6:23 pm

    IVIE EDOBOR, prostitute

    • Ono

      November 17, 2016 at 8:19 pm

      Did she use your body to prostitute?

    • abi

      November 17, 2016 at 9:03 pm

      I picture you as a man with round hips lol

    • Californiabawlar

      November 18, 2016 at 12:36 am

      Lmao!!! ????? I almost choked on my crackers ?? I never esperrerit ?

    • Maya

      November 18, 2016 at 10:56 am

      ……..and boobs ?

    • Teju TJ

      November 18, 2016 at 2:32 pm

      Doesn’t that make her and your mother. Abi did your mother not collect money from your father?

  37. Nahum

    November 17, 2016 at 6:26 pm

    Men, if we go around trying to kill you because you all cheat so much, wouldn’t we be justified as per your stupid reasoning. There is NO EXCUSE that justifies trying to kill your wife!!! Whether she cheats, aborts, does not knack or does not cook, just divorce her. The minute you touch your wife, you deserve to lose your job and go to jail.

    And as usual, I am not surprised that there are many Nigerian women that are supporting this man, I would appreciate it if you ladies could surprise me by supporting your fellow woman, but I know this is alien to you. What a big shame!!!!

  38. eni

    November 17, 2016 at 6:33 pm

    This guy is the real Sociopath, blaming everyone but yourself. Being married to someone else b4, mismanaging millions of naira and other allegations are not the issues on ground cos u already sent are packing, right?. the main issue is you left your home waiting to injure the mother of your children in the middle of the night. the woman in question does not even live with u anymore so he was obviously stalking her to know she went out that night. Sociopath says anything to appear innocent, they go as far as changing the whole story and rework facts. hmmmm….let’s see how this goes

  39. Paul Adeyemo

    November 17, 2016 at 6:40 pm

    Women believes IVIE is a saint but John is the devil. John gave his story with evidence but you brainless women on this forum believes he’s lying. My only grudge is with Zenith Bank, why would they sack him before the court pronounces him guilty

    • Ono

      November 17, 2016 at 7:19 pm

      He should have divorce her

    • Abi

      November 17, 2016 at 9:09 pm

      You silly large hipped man. Can you confirm that he didn’t injure her? Or are you insane enough to imply his ‘receipts’ are justification for his actions?

    • Californiabawlar

      November 18, 2016 at 12:37 am

      Lmao! you again?! ??

    • Ono

      November 18, 2016 at 2:08 am

      @Paul, his evidence nobody can read.

    • Dear Paul Adeyemo

      November 18, 2016 at 9:07 am

      ode! where is the evidence in all he has presented that he didn’t attack her? he has just simply explained why his marriage broke down but because you are cursed from your mother’s womb, your brain cells are dead. I read you comments all the time and i have come to the conclusion that you must been dropped in a pit latrine when you were born.Oloshi

  40. hadiza

    November 17, 2016 at 6:46 pm

    Foolish Nigerian women will never support each other na. That’s why they continue to suffer like fool. You hit ur wife because she allegedly had affairs, abortions, etc. Were u a faithful man?? didn’t u cheat on her and throw her out with ur kids? worthless man. Opening his dirty mouth to spew trash. Why couldn’t u pray for her or “manage” her like your fellow men tell women all the time?? disgusting beast. I hope u rot in jail. animal. Nigerian men and their shameless entitlement.

    • Ada Nnewi

      November 17, 2016 at 7:11 pm

      Don’t mind some of the crazy women with their slavery mentality…

    • A Real Nigerian

      November 17, 2016 at 7:16 pm

      Hahahaahahahaa!

    • gbaskelebo

      November 19, 2016 at 12:45 am

      Take it easy on the keypads dear, a name as beautiful as yours cannot be free with words like these, what I have come to find out ( not through experience but learning) is those that usually scream hate are usually those capable of great love, Hadiza let me show you what you are capable of.

  41. Ekaette

    November 17, 2016 at 7:09 pm

    This John Edobor guy threw Ivie out two years ago and even snapped pictures (posted on social media) with his new lover – Orezime Jockey who jumped into his arms immediately to spite Ivie. Ivie did not cough when he plastered pictures of himself and Orezime on his matrimonial bed on social media.

    Two years after he threw Ivie out, she decides to move out and he forms wounded Ishan man and decides to break her legs t defend his so called honour. John – you should have kept quiet. Breeze don blow, fowl yansh don open. You must dance to the beat of the drum of your actions. Your thoughts were I threw you out and you must remain desolate. I paid your bride price and no other man can have you even though I have thrown you out and jumped around with other women abi? I laugh in spanish….

    • Engoz

      November 17, 2016 at 9:06 pm

      This just filled in the gap I’ve been racking my head over. According to John…

      “Since Ivie was living in Surulere despite my several plead to the father to allow Ivie and the children to come join me in Yaba”

      Why was John pleading with the father of a daughter whom he says was a bad wife? Shouldn’t the girl’s father be happy that the husband still wants his daughter whom the husband brands as a ‘bad wife’? Shouldn’t it be the other way round i.e. the father pleading with John to take back the daughter who is the ‘badly behaved person’ in the relationship? Something doesn’t add up. From Ivie’s account, they were separated for two years, and he wanted to come back. Apparently Ivie had moved on and John wasn’t having it, despite him having his own affairs as well. I just googled John Edobor and I see a pic of him cuddled up in bed with another woman. Apparently John Edobor cannot swallow what he dishes out.

      Hehehe, Nigerian men really think we are stupid o, to really conjure up this nonsense to sidetrack the conversation to Ivie’s imaginary ‘adultery’! Every Nigerian man that is a failure in marriage always accuses the wife of adultery. You all better start fishing for another lie. Times have changed. You think you can publicly use society to lynch a woman and get away with it. Not gonna happen! The crime here was that Ivie’s legs were broken by John of which eye witnesses can attest to, of which John in all the ‘evidence’ provided (some of which are thoroughly illegible) did not provide any EVIDENCE TO SHOW HE DID NOT BREAK IVIE’S LEGS. The crime was not ‘abortion’ nor ‘adultery’ of which John is also guilty of. The location of the crime which is her house already puts John as the aggressor (meaning you came to look for her trouble in her house) and the motive for doing what he did has been provided for us in this article. I guess this is a win for Ivie.

      It’s great to see these stories unfold so that we can all see the hypocrisy behind the fraudulent advice dished out to women on how to cope with an ‘adulterous’ husband. This same men like Alibaba who give this sort of advice can’t take what they dish out. The other day paul adeyemo was boasting that Nigerian men will kick out any recalcitrant wife. Biko come and tell us what ‘ya’ brother was doing trying to win back a ‘bad’ wife after two years separation, that he had to even plead with her father to get her back? Lmao! All these men are bleeping cowards. Nigerian men are the easiest people to intimidate. Nobody should be deceived by the noise they make online, lmao!

    • Joy

      November 17, 2016 at 9:20 pm

      Be there laughing in Spanish. I can bet you that nothing will come out of this issue in the long run and at the end of the day, your friend Ivie would still be the bigger loser. The wages of sin is …

  42. madman

    November 17, 2016 at 7:12 pm

    WHY DIDN’T YOU DIVORCE SINCE NA…. YOU SHOULD KNOW SHE NEVER, EVER LOVED YOU. DIVORCE IS AN OPTION.

  43. madman

    November 17, 2016 at 7:14 pm

    What I want to know is why IVIE is using women’s empowerment to fight her battles. You cheated on your husband, you borrowed money that you could not pay back now you are using women empowerment to fight personal battles? This is NOT what women’s empowerment is for.

    • Rita

      November 17, 2016 at 8:22 pm

      So borrowing gives a husband the right to wait till 1am feeding area boys with alcohol waiting for his estranged wife to come back to a house she moved to two years after he kicked her out?

    • Rita

      November 17, 2016 at 8:24 pm

      Becaise he broke her legs and went to work sending threats to her even in hospital. He has money to fight she does not! The group heard her story and volunteered to help! All she ever asked for was for him to pay the hospital bills and fees for the kids

    • Abi

      November 17, 2016 at 9:12 pm

      Did he injure her? Yes or no?!
      And of course her recourse to the law should be through women’s empowerment. Wtf are you on about?!

  44. Eni

    November 17, 2016 at 7:17 pm

    This guy is the real Sociopath, blaming everyone but yourself. Being married to someone else b4, mismanaging millions of naira and other allegations are not the issues on ground cos u already sent are packing, right?. the main issue is you left your home waiting to injure the mother of your children in the middle of the night. the woman in question does not even live with u anymore so he was obviously stalking her to know she went out that night.
    Why wait till now to tell your side of d story?
    Sociopath says anything to appear innocent, they go as far as changing the whole story and rework facts. hmmmm….let’s see how this goes

  45. Rain

    November 17, 2016 at 7:19 pm

    My guy you should have walked out of the marriage with your head high long ago. You allowed many duck ups

    • madman

      November 17, 2016 at 7:43 pm

      Using the media to fight these types of battles is unacceptable.

  46. Ono

    November 17, 2016 at 7:21 pm

    @ Paul, he should have divorce her and returned bride price to her father, finish.

    • Bimbo

      November 18, 2016 at 9:58 am

      There is no satisfaction in returning the bride price of a woman who no longer wants you ! By the way he paid the bride price , why would he be the one returning it?

  47. Anonymous

    November 17, 2016 at 7:41 pm

    Went through the attached pictures, I didn’t see the receipts he talked about. His story is just a terrible fabrication.

  48. Beard gang

    November 17, 2016 at 7:46 pm

    what a mess!

    -why is so hard for the ‘feminists’ bellanaija commenters to not be influenced by irrational emotions when it comes to marital and family life issues?

    – was there a beating or a fight (possibly in self defense on husband’s path)

    – is ivie financially reckless? is she an adulterer?

    – did she comit bigamy? did she tell her husband she was already married?

    – what are the names of her witnesses?

    – husband why didn’t you walk away? why descend to fighting/beating?

    -mr. matthew, my people say ‘whatever a man sows he reaps’ be careful!

    – i hope ivie is not paralysed..
    ivie and estranged husband, please settle out of court.
    * the legal proceedings will drain you and your kids mentally (as it is now public knowledge)
    * you are both out of jobs, so the legal fees money could be put to resourceful use

    lastly, whatever the outcome make peace and get along it will be advantageous to the children

    • Curious

      November 17, 2016 at 8:20 pm

      Unfortunately with issues that involve Nigerian men its hard to get rational comments on BN. Two maxims which guide my life these days are
      1. Do unto others what you want them to do to you
      2. Don’t go about messing with peoples feelings and still think you retain the right to dictate how they react. There is something called “provocation”….people have different mental strengths. I know of people who if they find themselves in this situation, wouldnt lay a single finger on the woman. They might just get a gun kill her , her lover and maybe kill themselves. As a matter of fact I had a guy who made this promise to his wife after allegations of adultery between her and one guy started flying around. And having known him for a while I can almost guarantee its something he can do. On a normal day he is one of those easy going and friendly people…BT when they get angry, they go to the extreme. I have applied similar logic to my male friends too….don’t go about messing with a lady in whatever way and think that makes you the boss. She could just get crazy and put something in your meal or arrange boys for you. There was a a young man who died like that some years ago. He was sick and the places he went to, he was told he offended his wife…..he died…but there was no proof to hold the wife! You can’t go to the police station and say one pastor saw a vision.
      Having said that there’s also something “overreaction” and “being matured” or “taking the high road” or “taming your anger”….this things could save your life. It reminds me of Alibaba’s article on anger.

    • Hello DV Enablers

      November 17, 2016 at 8:42 pm

      Buhari is frustrating all of us and provoking us and testing out mental strength every day since he was sworn in. Men and women are suffering alike yet no one has taken a gun to kill him o. No one has braced walking up to him to slap him. You know why???? Consequences!!!!!! A police officer with a gun can harass you on the road, spit on you sef and slap you. You won’t dare beat him up. Whyyyy? He can shoot you and you die like a fowl, so please don’t give me that BS about mental strength. A man beats his wife or ex wife because he knows he will get away with it. People will call family meeting and blame the woman, transferring responsibility to her and he will come out on top saying she provoked him to it. Ask this man if this is henfirst time he has beat Ivie. I am willing to bet my savings that this isn’t the first time.

    • Curious

      November 17, 2016 at 10:10 pm

      @hello dv and @ijay….I couldn’t agree more with you guys on the “consequence” thing.
      I have seen several people who claim to loose their temper easily, but I am yet to see any of them slap a soldier out of anger. Having said that I know u too agree that there are times when u have done stuffs without really thinking about the consequences.
      @_ijay sorry to hear your story. I wish you the very best. Your best is yet to come dear?

    • Ijay

      November 17, 2016 at 9:20 pm

      My ex husband mismanaged my money, owed money everywhere, spread lies about me when I insisted he give account of money spent, lost his job due to fraud and finally started an affair with his ex wife who he and his family had said was an ex girlfriend. I saw them together myself. Did I want to hurt him? Hell yeah. Did I try to kill him? No. Why? Because I’m not a lunatic. I exited the marriage with 2 kids. Consequences.

    • Engoz

      November 17, 2016 at 10:01 pm

      Don’t mind them jare! We can see through all the “pseudo’ and ‘fraudulent’ rationality they claim they have. Thanks for sharing your story. It just destroyed whatever irrationality they are trying to pass across as logic.

    • Nitomeya

      November 17, 2016 at 10:47 pm

      @Engoz this is not a battle of the sexes. This is the devil playing tricks with marriages and relationships. I don’t know who to believe out of these two, I think it is sad the things that have been narrated by both sides.

  49. Ono

    November 17, 2016 at 7:46 pm

    I don’t want to know who is right or wrong, I don’t want to take sides….. If your left hand is causing you to SIN please cut it off. If he is found guilty he may go to prison, would it not have been better for him to divorce her?

  50. hadiza

    November 17, 2016 at 7:48 pm

    Don’t mind the bloody fool. Hr doesn’t want her to move on, but he posts pictures of himself and his hos. Senseless man. I really despise this beast. Oga, what’s good for the goose is also good for gander. olosho

  51. NYC

    November 17, 2016 at 8:06 pm

    SOME WOMEN AND IMMORALITY..PLEASE LEAVE IT FOR THE MEN AND RAISE YOUR KIDS WITH GOOD MORALS FOR THEM TO FOLLOW..SMH WHAT A WOMAN AND THEN THEY WANT TO PLAY THE VICTIM BCOS FOR YEARS THE WORLD ALWAYS TOOK THE WOMAN’S SIDE.

    • Ada Nnewi

      November 17, 2016 at 11:08 pm

      YOU ARE A MORON!

    • Bimbo

      November 18, 2016 at 10:14 am

      Why should women leave immorality to the men ??? You haven’t heard ‘ if you can’t beat them , join them ? We are joining you on this immorality issue, just welcome us .

  52. Darius

    November 17, 2016 at 8:08 pm

    Make no mistake about it, I don’t condone infidelity whether it is done by a man or a woman. I just think that nobody should put up with a partner(a man or a woman) who consistently cheats on them without remorse. My friend was accused of infidelity and battering by his wife. She plotted the story in such a way that, anyone who heard it believed her and took an instant dislike for her hubby. We all fell for her lies and cut off every relationship with her husband. When the truth finally emerged, that was when we all realised what a pathetic, big fat liar she was. We all looked stupid for not sticking with our friend till this day. SOME WOMEN are devil incarnates. If you have never been set up by a woman before, you won’t be able to fathom the extent a woman can go to make a man look bad. They say it’s a man’s world, but apparently, we have to beg to be heard, and even when our story is heard, it is always discredited and dismissed as false and an outright lie.

  53. Rita

    November 17, 2016 at 8:19 pm

    So the emails I have in my possession where u told her the children are girls and u don’t want them nko? This scan you posted showed singleton when did the imagined twins change from singleton to twins you liar! So if she aborted that gives you the right-brained break her leg? The same man who is blackmailing her is the same man you still met with her at 1am after you fed area boys alcohol to do your bidding. In case you don’t know. Emeka has just obtained a video plus audio of u having sex with a married woman and it’s about to hit the internet. Your full face and hers plus voices audible! We shall see who is telling the truth now. Idiot! So Zenith Bank knew all ivie did and they still sacked you? Why didn’t they stand by you? If somebody is owing does she deserve to die? Who is not owing?

  54. T

    November 17, 2016 at 8:29 pm

    I’m shocked at some of the comments I have read over this case. My simple question is to all of u that has commented for or against have u ever been a victim? I asked cos I am a victim. The biggest lessons I learnt from my past marriage is that women are the greatest liars that God created.Now let’s check this out. Try to visit any court in Nigeria where their is a divorce case sand check the files out u will notice that the woman is never at fault it’s a stereo type format of story u will always see. He was not taking care of us to he refused to pay the children’s fees to he was cheating to he is a violence person etc. The truth is that women can not stay in their marriages this days be cos of too many expectations and pair pressure or even they are busy comparing marriages etc. Not being contented with what they have has contented to play out some of the reasons why they can’t stay faithful in their home. Another truth is that while they where single they are busy collecting money from different men and using the money to maintain them self then by the time they are married and the guy can not meet up with her ostentatious life style then they start seeing marriage as a bondage and the man is seen from that moment as a pervert. Let the truth be told and I always say this to most women that care to hear wedding and marriage are not the same. Many a time women when u see the amount of energy ,resources, and time women give to planning their wedding it will surprise that they never give such to planning their marriage. Wedding is a one day thing and marriage is for ever. From my own survey I understand that what is causing most marriages to fall apart in Nigeria today is mostly because most women are already living above their means before marriage and find it difficult to adjust after marriage. The excitement of marriages in Nigeria die after the big wedding that’s it. Marriage is a two way thing. And for adults too. When u hear two adults playing the blame game u should know that their are undertones behind the whole saga. I still wonder the kind of journalist we have in this part of the world cos u can see they are not professionals at all abroad u see how investigative journalism play it’s part in this type of matter where some one will dedicate his or her time and everything to helping unveil the truth about the story of what really happen. I am talking cos I have been a victim of a woman lies before. From my own experience, that woman is the one lying against Mr. John. I beg to stop here for now with this saying ” that any one that walks away from u be it in marriage or otherwise let them walk as they where not tied to ur Destiny” thank u

  55. Kay

    November 17, 2016 at 8:44 pm

    Seems like this liar played his cards right by cooking up this infidelity story. I’m shocked that a lot of people reading this actually believe it. Do you realise people can fake receipts in any part of the world. For a mother to get rid of a 7 month pregnancy when not carrying 1 baby but 2 is surely unbelievable. So now her supposed lover boy was the one that broke her leg in different places and caused her to have a titanium rod put in. Why is it that Nigerian men use infidelity stories to get away with domestic violence. Same thing the man that killed his Ronke wife did. Lies lies lies. All lies!!!!! Liar liar pants on fire!

  56. tatafo!

    November 17, 2016 at 8:50 pm

    The story seems believable but then on checking some things don’t add up.
    1. I did not see the school fees receipts he claimed to attach for his daughters’ school fees. That was the biggest red flag for me
    2. He first said Ivie’s father lives in Surulere, then later said he lives in Orile.
    3. He first said they lived in Ajah, then later said he lives in Yaba
    4. A lot of the documents are very unclear, the only ones that are legible is the one claiming she had an abortion….again to cast doubt on her integrity

    I’m sorry but I don’t believe him.

  57. Beard gang

    November 17, 2016 at 8:54 pm

    i wonder what mr. matthew’s wife and kids are thinking?

  58. dada

    November 17, 2016 at 8:55 pm

    Please people every one has drama and wahala please and please keep your drama off social media

  59. Baba T

    November 17, 2016 at 8:56 pm

    I’m shocked at some of the comments I have read over this case. My simple question is to all of u that has commented for or against have u ever been a victim? I asked cos I am a victim. The biggest lessons I learnt from my past marriage is that women are the greatest liars that God created.Now let’s check this out. Try to visit any court in Nigeria where their is a divorce case sand check the files out u will notice that the woman is never at fault it’s a stereo type format of story u will always see. He was not taking care of us to he refused to pay the children’s fees to he was cheating to he is a violence person etc. The truth is that women can not stay in their marriages this days be cos of too many expectations and pair pressure or even they are busy comparing marriages etc. Not being contented with what they have has contented to play out some of the reasons why they can’t stay faithful in their home. Another truth is that while they where single they are busy collecting money from different men and using the money to maintain them self then by the time they are married and the guy can not meet up with her ostentatious life style then they start seeing marriage as a bondage and the man is seen from that moment as a pervert. Let the truth be told and I always say this to most women that care to hear wedding and marriage are not the same. Many a time women when u see the amount of energy ,resources, and time women give to planning their wedding it will surprise that they never give such to planning their marriage. Wedding is a one day thing and marriage is for ever. From my own survey I understand that what is causing most marriages to fall apart in Nigeria today is mostly because most women are already living above their means before marriage and find it difficult to adjust after marriage. The excitement of marriages in Nigeria die after the big wedding that’s it. Marriage is a two way thing. And for adults too. When u hear two adults playing the blame game u should know that their are undertones behind the whole saga. I still wonder the kind of journalist we have in this part of the world cos u can see they are not professionals at all abroad u see how investigative journalism play it’s part in this type of matter where some one will dedicate his or her time and everything to helping unveil the truth about the story of what really happen. I am talking cos I have been a victim of a woman lies before. From my own experience, that woman is the one lying against Mr. John. I beg to stop here for now with this saying ” that any one that walks away from u be it in marriage or otherwise let them walk as they where not tied to ur Destiny” thank u

    • gold

      November 18, 2016 at 9:40 pm

      See generalization!

  60. Pee

    November 17, 2016 at 8:57 pm

    Some say women are foolish for not supporting their own (Ivie). Others call women foolish for supporting for calling out John. Women! Women! Women!
    Bunch of confused judge Judy(s)

  61. copied from comments in linda

    November 17, 2016 at 9:10 pm

    Anonymous said…

    Part 1

    This Ivie lady has such a coloured past. A very long history of lies, lies and many more lies. She pretended to be married when she worked with in Econet (now Airtel) at the call center. With one story after another, she borrowed money from all of us and never repaid. We donated money for her “so called pregnancy” medical bills. Her tummy was growing daily before our very eyes. Her water even broke in the office. Guess what at the end of the day we found out she was never pregnant and the man she claimed was her husband came to say he was never married to her. Econet disengaged her because her lies were found out.
    I’m not sure her husband, John even knew about this because it was way before he met her. She was similarly thrown out of Stanbic for other sharp practices.

    Last I heard she owes a multitude of people over N50 Million. I hope she is paying her debt with all the monies she is getting from all this public support. She has caused her many creditors a lot of heartache.

    What broke the marriage was all this debt. Creditors were beating down their matrimonial home as early as 5 a.m. She could never explain why she asked for the money or more importantly what she used it for. John bailed her out as much as he could. She went as far as borrowing from his colleagues and stealing his zenith customers numbers from his phone and contacting them directly asking to borrow money and asking them not to tell John. John was forced to pay back the monies she ‘borrowed” from his colleagues and customers in order to save his job.
    November 15, 2016 at 10:57 AM
    Anonymous said…

    Part 2
    A month after the separation, she claimed she was pregnant with twins. Poor John was then ready to reconcile. Somewhere along the line, John found out that she had a long term lover MATTHEW AGBAIRE. They both went for counseling at St Dominic’s Church. John was ready to forgive for the sake of his children as the Church advised his only caveat was that DNA must be done on the pregnancy to ensure it was his. DNA can be performed on a pregnancy! It is believed that Ivie was not too sure so herself and Matthew terminated the pregnancy. She later claimed she had a miscarriage at almost 6 months.
    Matthew Agbaire is her nemesis. She can’t seem to do without him. He has the looks and he sabi the thing!
    Ivie and John still despite all that had happened, attempted reconciling at the beginning of the year. She helped John move into his new abode where they were eventually to move into as a family to start afresh in a new part of Lagos. John was spending time sleeping over at her place too. Only for that un-fateful night brought about by the innocent phone call of a child to her father, that they were alone at home with the young relative house help of about 13 years. I believe the oldest of the 3 girls is about 9 years old.
    Unbeknownst to Ivie; John was in the house with the kids when he called her and she said she was at home and that the girls were sleeping. He decided to stay outside and await her return, to once again catch her in a lie. By John’s account, Ivie and Matthew drove in way after midnight. Of course a fighting match ensued between husband and wife. Matthew Agbaire, a married man with 2 children, stepped in as the gallant boyfriend. A fight ensued between the 2 men. Matthew who works with Centrix Construction was the one who brought out the crowbar from his car to use on John. Ivie stepped into the mix and got hit during the scuffle. People around stepped in to restrain all parties. Ivie opted to be taken to the hospital by her loverboy Matthew Agbaire.
    November 15, 2016 at 10:58 AM
    Anonymous said…

    Part 3

    To date all Ivie’s medical bills have been paid. She never needed financial help from the larger society for her bills or for her kids. John pays school fees and has receipts. So all of you donating to her “cause” are being duped. You are just continuing to feed her incessant and dangerous need for money. What she does with it nobody ever knows. Its free money for Ivie, left right and centre. Christmas has come early for Ivie.
    Ivie use it to pay all your many creditors please and for once think of your children. What you are doing to them by destroying their father’s life, is it fair? Will they really forgive you for they will one day know the truth!

    • Jade

      November 18, 2016 at 12:12 pm

      Paul Adeyemo wrote it so calm down, he posted it three times on Ivie’s own story as well

    • gold

      November 18, 2016 at 9:35 pm

      Why is the account different from John account? 25million to 50million? Why was he d one dt ended up in the police station dt night and not the two fighting? Where is d receipt of hospital bill settlement?

  62. Aijay......

    November 17, 2016 at 9:34 pm

    Reading through the comments, some of them especially from some men make me really sad. If Ivie was committing adultery is that why her leg should be broken? Is John not supposed to provide proof that he did not break her leg? Why is he then talking about adultery, former marriage etc?

    I have noticed that some men are quick to call women prostitutes and people then start judging the woman. If she sleeps around please divorce her especially if you are not cheating too. John all you need to do is prove that you did not break her leg. We don’t need all these unnecessary explanation.

  63. Gbemi

    November 17, 2016 at 10:35 pm

    Bellanaija readers, why not open the Facebook post and screen the so called evidence eh. Receipts that are not even clear….. evidence that can be typed on a computer.

  64. john

    November 17, 2016 at 10:55 pm

    lol…where is ur proof. He has shown his

  65. bunmi1

    November 17, 2016 at 11:55 pm

    Hmmm….. very messy marital issue…. God please intervene!

  66. gabriel

    November 17, 2016 at 11:56 pm

    my dad is not the best human being in the world. He has slept with 3 of our house helps one which he impregnated and two of my aunts, I have watched my mum cry and take all this since i was 4yrs old for years. I have one brother and one late sister. I just discovered recently my junior brother whos now 31yrs old was fathered by another man. My mum had an affair with my fathers best friend when he was away for 8 months training in india when he worked for NNPC. He came back to meet my mum pregnant and because of the shame he accepted the child, No one knows about this. The point am trying to make is things are not always what they seem. Men go through a lot and most times we are the victims in marriages.

    • Amanda

      November 18, 2016 at 9:17 am

      Let me get this straight your father who is a dog and is sleeping around like someone on heat is better off than your mother who is doing same. I guess you are one of those men who think men acting like dogs is their proclaimed god given right and women acting like bitches isn’t. They are both whores whether you like it or not.

    • Bimbo

      November 18, 2016 at 10:05 am

      How was your father a victim ? Did you not say he slept with households and even impregnated one ??

    • Cindy

      November 18, 2016 at 10:33 am

      You lost me at “most times we are the victims”. Both your father and mother were victims of their marriage abeg.

    • Mscheew

      November 18, 2016 at 9:43 pm

      So your father who was behaving like a dog and sleeping with housemaids (some who were underaged I’m sure) is a victim?
      I’m sure your mother slept with his bestie to retaliate.
      Which yeye victim.

  67. live well

    November 18, 2016 at 12:10 am

    this man story is similar to mine. i drove the woman, took my kids and left nigeria. i have vowed not to marry a Nigeria woman again

  68. Moniker

    November 18, 2016 at 1:59 am

    Both sexes are tryna defend themselves. After all said and done, when the next story breaks, we’d all move on and then leave them to their cross. Everyone is guilty. Everyone but the kids. They let it degenerate into this and made us the judge. They won’t know what they have done until 10yrs down the line. Social media isn’t the solution

  69. Ono

    November 18, 2016 at 2:25 am

    John Edobor my Esan brother, congratulations. You are now a celebrity, a celebrity of foolishness. You see say other men dey punish their wives and call them to order, you go try yourself……… See now! You for go meet your papa to teach you how to call your wife to order.
    You think you will come out and say your wife did this and did and it will justify your actions? It just goes to show you are a very weak man that has no control over his home.
    So if you wife is sleeping around your family does not know how to call elders to settle the problems.
    You are a disgrace to the Esan land and men, we don’t treat our wives like this oh, please don’t come and give us bad name. Maybe you are having some bedroom issues if you claim your wife you are sleeping with is still looking for who will help her outside.

    • Paul Adeyemo

      November 18, 2016 at 7:28 am

      You are a bastard

    • Ono

      November 18, 2016 at 9:11 am

      @ Paul, looks like you need anger management classes. Please don’t learn from your mentor Mr John how to break wife leg oh……. You will just go to prison and loose your job for no good reason.
      When that happens all the shakara in your body will stop……. Say no to domestic violence, say no to abusive relationships, don’t take law into your hands, thank you.

    • gold

      November 18, 2016 at 9:27 pm

      I will agree that his foolishness does not have part2, if this story is anyway close to true….sharing your wife with blackmailer, wife aborted seven month pregnancy, you’re still running around her?. When did he become night guard staying up by 1am? If it is really about the kids he should be in d flat watching over them. The few truth has been overpainted to gather sympathy… Poor you.

  70. Benson Ossai

    November 18, 2016 at 8:41 am

    Kai issues dey this world ooh.Toh, i have read all people said about this matter.Some make, sense some doesn’t but all the same.All i know is that justice will prevail at the end, either for the guy or the babe.This should be a lesson to all, when water don dey pass gari for your marriage use common sense and not emotions to deal with it.Meen,if one think say na only him the world and issues of life dey deal with when you see things like this you just thank God and say you are not doing badly.Na waao.

  71. timmyblast

    November 18, 2016 at 8:57 am

    im not on anybody’s side here. from the write-up, there are many accusation ranging from mismanagement of funds, debt, infidelity. But you guys are all about the infedility forgetting the rest. That being said, these whole issue didnt happen in the space of a month, its been on-going for years.
    For all of you saying he kicked her out of the house, hope u read where he said she usually comes at weekend for love making as a result she got pregnant. “where is the kicking out ?” Nobody is even talking about the abortion here, its the right thing shey?
    I also read some comment saying he should have left. is it that easy? after 3 children. Lastly was there a divorce, if no, then shes is still answering to the husband which makes it wrong to engage in a sexual relationship with another man.
    lets even put it like these, what if this man pratice a doctrine where divorce is a Sin, hmmm? About the incident (bone crushing part) thats why we have a court. Things we need to know here is, who are the witnesses, dont tell me sisters, friends, or maybe hotel workers where the suppose “man friend” is a customer.
    These whole issue is a complex one. Lets not jugde.

    • gold

      November 18, 2016 at 9:16 pm

      The witneses will be Mathew and the neighbour that call police to arrest him. The social media hype is good, the court will have d final say.

  72. Anonymous

    November 18, 2016 at 10:27 am

    The whole truth someday, somehow will come to limelight. When it comes to marriage issues, you may never know what really transpired. Just wait for it. Be careful whose side you are on. God is the only righteous Judge.

  73. Chinyere Nwaoko

    November 18, 2016 at 11:13 am

    The woman has too many sides. A woman who formulates such stories in her office and to continuously borrow money can do anything to make money. Men should not only look at the physical part of a woman but should go for women with good inner qualities. The woman has too many negative sides. Infact i will see if the Mattew will still continue to date her with that legs.

  74. eesha

    November 18, 2016 at 12:56 pm

    What I can’t seem to wrap my head around, is the fact that she allegedly aborted 7-month old twin fetuses and didn’t have any health complication whatsoever. Already formed babies, that’s just cruel and heartless, if it happens to be true. Something still smells fishy.

    • gold

      November 18, 2016 at 9:19 pm

      My thot exactly, how will you be sharing your wife with the blackmailer for 2years? Since you have already know d secret why are you keeping up with it?

  75. Momodu Anani

    November 18, 2016 at 1:59 pm

    I am disappointed; how could Mr. Edobor (a Benin man) be claiming marriage to this lady (Edo girl) traditionally in Lagos. Most people make this mistake and claim that they are married under native laws and customs; a Benin marriage in Yoruba customs is invalid. I have great respect for the Igbos when it comes to this. Even if an Igboman live in a hole on a farm land, he will never be ashamed of giving his daughter to you right there with his kindred witnessing with the spirit of their ancestors present at the marriage. How could you do a Benin traditional marriage in a strange land? That is why your marriage was unprotected.

    • Anonymous

      November 18, 2016 at 8:45 pm

      Abeg delete yourself from here, make we hear word

  76. Momodu Anani

    November 18, 2016 at 2:43 pm

    Ivie! Ivie! Why, why! If all these allegations are true what respect do you have for this man and your 3 children? It is unfair. Were you carried away by your beautiful face? But you are not more beautiful than most women still in their marriage. No marriage is perfect. All marriages have one problem or the other, and every successful man or woman today own his pride to his parents who kept their home for them in respective of all the troubles. Most marriages of young people today are based on Nollywood and Hollywood and are bound to FAIL. All young people should learn never to imitate Ivie and John Edobor’s example. Both of you, John and Ivie should apologise and forgive yourselves for the children’s sake; there is nothing in this world. People will come to poison your minds, if you yield, you would have forever planted bitterness in your minds and you will remain unhappy forever.

  77. Another Ivie

    November 18, 2016 at 9:57 pm

    This Ivie
    Her mother is alive, her father is alive
    she get sisters, the sisters get husbands
    Yet nobody dey by her side
    Why? This kind of thing and she stands alone supported by strangers. Even if her parents are stack illiterates…Something is wrong here

    It’s is only a black sheep of a family that ever stands alone in a crisis

    People that don’t know her are carrying her problem on their heads
    I bet if you were her relative you would run far too!

    This Ivie, despite her beautiful name is a con-artist par excellence
    John blinded by her sex, Ivie a 419
    All this for money Ivie. Shame on you.
    I bet you if John comes to offer you money as you have demanded in private you will start to sing another tune and finally confess that it was Matthew that did it

  78. Naijamum

    November 18, 2016 at 10:36 pm

    One thing left that Ivie is yet to be accused of is witchcraft.

  79. Ivie Imobhio

    November 19, 2016 at 5:59 am

    Chai……… You people don’t Know Ivie Imobhio….. That is her maiden name. Go and ask her classmates from Abuloma….. The girl is a born liar and drama queen… I wonder why most of them are not commenting…. Ivie if you get to read this, you know your husband is saying the truth….. You are always lying and borrowing money…. People are believing you cos they don’t know the kind of lies that you can cook up….. You people should not mind Ivie oooooo….. Trust me, she loves attention and can lie for Africa. Ivie that acted like an asthmatic patient through out her secondary school days… Abi is it telling all and sundry how her mother was her step mother and was very wicked to her and wanted her dead…… She was in Primrose house and her classmates know her well well……. You guys have no clue who Ivie is. The chic needs mental help……. John needs to pray cos Ivie will bury him with her lies and she is ready to act out the script as long as it takes…..

  80. Great

    November 19, 2016 at 11:20 am

    Guys, let’s take an objective look at the issue and discard all he said and she said…
    The reason is in the end more of often that not, women and men align differently when it comes to domestic issues. What is clear is that there were cracks in the marriage which was not managed properly.Needless to say,as soon it gets to social media..it’s all oVer!
    Fact. A woman’s leg was broken in an altercation..who are the parties and were there witnesses?. the only evidence are pictures.
    Fact.The enstranged hubby came out with a defense . Providing receipts of school fees payment(this as nullified allegations of neglect earlier made) .
    Fact. There are long dialogues ( which should be corroborated by the network provider) showing clearly if you go through.that there is no record of previous violence, shows that there was a pregnancy(which was conveniently not mentioned ealier by lady) shows that the man has really emotional made the lady happen,hence her reluctance to move back home despite repeated pleas (ofcourse by her own words he pushed her into d arms of another willing man)
    Fact. if there is admitting of pregnancy b4, so where is the pregnancy now..
    Fact. IF there are issues in a marriage, why come to social media and activist. Is it to get justice,.you can get that by usuing quietly without funfair..why this..are there things that are hidden. What is the real motive…the last part of the chat is particularly of concern…The theat to destroy a man who is husband for 11 years..! Was the sex that good or is it just get attention.
    If this issues goes to court, witnesses will play key roless..and Mr Mathew will have to say what he knows,,unfortunately his wife will be forced into this telemundo!.
    We need a counter argument ffom the lady..can she get witnesses since she confirmed that there were other people around.

    It disheartened to see these things online..

  81. Uzomar

    November 19, 2016 at 1:23 pm

    These 3set of persons will always tell u the truth,anytime,anywhere or matter what…(1)An angry person (2)A drunk & (3)Kids….These innocent children have come out to say one uncle Matthew (they even called him uncle..lmao) buys them suya (bribe) and stays with their mother all night (doing what,vigil?) before leaving the next morning,you can imagine…There’s an element of truth in what Mr John has said…Women are terrible beings oo,buh John should have seen all these traits in her before he went ahead to marry (or was the love blind to that extent that u couldnt see the red flag waving??)….When you settle down with the wrong person,such is bound to happen..Fall in love but carry your brain along…hope u all av learnt a tin or two??

  82. Abee

    November 19, 2016 at 3:00 pm

    I am a member of Ivie Imobhio-Edobor’s family. We, Ivie’s family members have since known of Ivie’s Psychiatric disorder since she was a teenager. Every single member of our family knows this. Ivie was diagnosed with Münchausen syndrome at a very early age.

    Munchausen syndrome is a psychiatric factitious disorder wherein those affected feign disease, illness, or psychological trauma to draw attention, sympathy, or reassurance to themselves. Munchausen syndrome fits within the subclass of factitious disorder with predominantly physical signs and symptoms, but patients also have a history of recurrent hospitalization, travelling, and dramatic, extremely improbable tales of their past experiences.

    Ivie was match made with John by both mothers and no one informed John’s family of Ivie’s disorder. It has been one problem after another, which I have been personally involved in settling, since the day they got married.

    It’s a shame to see John Edobor in such a mess when Ivie’s entire family knows of her disorder. I have urged her mother, father, sisters and Aunts to come forward and end this mayhem immediately. I have given them a time frame which if they do not adhere to, I will air the families dirty linen in public.

    Ivie Imobhio attended Federal Government Girls College, Abuloma and University of Lagos, Akoka. Both institutions have documentary evidence of her disorder. Staff and ex-students can give accounts of episodes of Ivie’s disorder.

    Ivie Edobor has worked for Airtel Nigeria and Stanbic IBTC, and management and staff of both companies have documentary evidence and personal experiences respectively of Ivie’s disorder. If I was in Lagos I would have gone to court to tell every one to save them selves the trouble. We have been through this as a family too many times already.

    Contact me via email if you need to see government identification to verify my identity.

    Thank you.
    Abee.

    • Ono

      November 19, 2016 at 6:48 pm

      @Abee please tell me who mad pass, A mad man who walks around naked or a Banker dressed in a $1000 suit, coming out of his jeep to fight with a naked mad man that has not bathed in over 6months because the mad man use his jeep side mirror to check his mouth and even spit on the mirror after……..

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

Star Features

Recent Posts

Get The Pan-Atlantic Advantage

Advertisement
css.php