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BellaNaijarian John* is searching for his Old Girlfriend who was Pregnant for Him 13 Years Ago



Searching for "Ada": This Nigerian Man wants to reconnect with his Old Flame

*Photo used for illustrative purposes only

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We received this mail recently from a BNer who is trying to reconnect with an old flame that was possibly pregnant for him in 2005. He’s hoping to reconnect with his old flame and also meet his child.

Note: Post edited for clarity | *Writer’s real name not used


God’s blessing be upon you and your team.
You have really made great impact in people’s lives.
Please share my post and keep me anonymous.

There was a lady I met in Lagos in the year 2005, her name is Ada.We dated for a few months, then my mom died because my mom was sick. So I had to travel to the east for her burial.
While my mother’s burial ceremony came to an end, Ada called me saying that she was pregnant, which I didn’t take seriously and I wasn’t keen to find out if she was telling the truth or not.

As I came back to Lagos after the burial, Ada tried to reach me severally but I wasn’t giving in because all that was on my mind was that she was tricking me.

Later we lost contact and in 2011 I left Nigeria.

Fast farward to 2015, a sister of mine went to see a seer  who told her that a lady gave birth to a baby boy for her brother (me) somewhere and that that boy is not happy. My mind went straight to Ada because she was the only woman I had ever had such incident with ever. I remembered her telling me she was pregnant.

Since then I have been looking for ways to get through to her. Even though I don’t know so much about her. The little I know about her is that:

She’s from Nnewi in Anambra state.
She has a daughter called Erica who was about 2 or 3 years old in 2005
Ada and Erica were staying with Ada’s mum somewhere in Ikotun then, within the Synagogue Church All Nation (SCON) axis. I remember because she has taken me there once. In fact, that was my first time coming across the Synagogue church.

I and Ada would normally meet in hotels though she had been to my house once, at night.

Now I’m in Nigeria and I have tried to locate the house Ada took me to at Ikotun but I didn’t succeed  because it has been a long while and everywhere has changed.

Please people, if anyone knows any Ada from Nnewi, fair in completion and with a daughter named Erica.

Her baby daddy is a twin brother. They are also from Nnewi. I think their names are Paul and Peter (dark, not shirt). They used to sell motor parts at the popular Ladipo market in Lagos where they sell motor spare parts.

Please I’m really in need of connecting with Ada. I have also gone to the Ladipo market in search of Ada’s baby daddy (Paul or Peter) but all to no avail.

Please, fam, kindly help a brother.

If in any way my description matches with someone you know please contact me through my email.


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  1. Californiabawlar

    April 12, 2018 at 12:43 am

    To dey find Ada from Nnewi is like finding a Yetunde from Ondo town or Bello from Ilorin ??
    Peter and Paul the twins kwa? The plot definitely thickened with that one!
    May you find what/who you’re looking for o, cos ya situation is sketch small. Seer that can’t see location join ? he try small sha.
    The pseudonym BN gave you would not even help your case ? you better head to Linda!

    • Everything 's Rosie

      April 12, 2018 at 9:51 am

      …or finding Aisha in Kano. Hahahaha

    • teekay

      April 12, 2018 at 11:05 am


  2. Amebo

    April 13, 2018 at 10:20 pm

    When I saw the headline, I thought it was prbly a case of a guy who didn’t own up to his responsibility as a young guy got older and if looking for his child because some seer told him to and it looks like I was spot in.

    I wish this was less predictable.

    Dear John
    I am sorry to hear about your situation. Everyone makes mistakes and sometimes we can turn things around. However, in most cases we end up living with the consequences of our decisions. They say you shouldn’t leave ppl worse off than you met them. You chose to have unprotected sex with a woman with one child and got her pregnant without even hearing her out. In a place like LAGOS? The consequence is your son will be raised by a woman with two children without different husband which increases her chance of being ridiculed, disrespected and unable to marry making it unlikely that he will have a father figure. It that’s not karma I don’t know what it is. For his sake, I hope the boy is a fighter and turns out well against all odds. I hope he doesn’t have to pay for the sins and silliness of his mother and father

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