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Imoter Kpengwa: How to Achieve the Nigeria of Our Dreams

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We’re approaching the time of the year when we have the power to elect our leaders. This opportunity has been available to us every four years since 1999, and it goes without saying that we are still dissatisfied with the people we elect into power.

Nigeria is simply not working. Our systems are dilapidated, to say the least. We can’t boast of an efficient healthcare system, or a befitting infrastructural system, or stable power or a consistent educational system.

Once again, the party banners are flying high, manifestos are ringing. Politicians are doing what they can to lobby votes, and we, again, are faced with the task of choosing who we think is best for us.

What we don’t realize as we choose is that in a plethora of candidates, it’s possible that none of them are good for us. It could be just another case of choosing a lesser evil.

This is because leaders emerge from followers; and when followers are blind to their own shortcomings, it is more than likely that the leaders emerging therefrom will be blind too. Leaders are a mere reflection of the people in a way.

More than voting and hoping that we choose good leaders, it is important for us to hold ourselves accountable for the various ways that we enable a culture that thrives on oppression and deprivation.

There are never-ending debates on Twitter about who should cook egusi between a husband and a wife; debates about safe abortions; debates about the rich getting richer while the poor, poorer, and debates about the LGBT getting their basic human rights recognized by our legal system. The general tone to these debates is one of gross insensitivity to the plights of the minority groups (that is poor people, women, the LGBT). Far-fetched as it may seem, this response is crucial to how our leaders treat us.

Picture this: a wealthy person who instantly feels himself above a poor person will most likely feel that superiority to his followers if he becomes a leader. A poor man, who acknowledges that classism deprives him, but who turns around to treat his wife as inferior will most likely treat his followers as inferior if he assumes power. Similarly, a woman who acknowledges the ills of patriarchy and classism, but who thinks the LGBT are inferior and disposable will most likely think of her followers as disposable too if she assumes a position of power.

They are many systems of oppression ranging from classism, sexism, homophobia and so on. And while we’re mostly victims of some of them (if not all), we are also perpetrators of other systems of oppression. It is paramount that we hold ourselves accountable for those systems of oppression that we propagate because that is the way our own voice against the oppression we suffer can be valid.

In acknowledging the systems of oppression that we enable and working to destroy them, we win allies who will be crucial in helping us dismantle the oppression that we suffer. We also propagate a Nigeria where mutual respect and tolerance is a norm. A norm that is key to good leadership.

Imagine a Nigeria where everybody respects each other as full and whole human beings with unalienable rights that shouldn’t be negotiated. That Nigeria will produce leaders that will in turn respect the unalienable rights of the citizenry and treat us as deserving and worthy people.

“Remove the plank from eyes before you remove the speck from the eyes of another,” Jesus famously said. It is about time we removed that plank, stood up against the forms of oppression that we actively enable, joined our collective voices, and ensure that each last one of us is treated with the same dignity and respect that we want for ourselves.

 

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Imoter is a dreamer who loves to read, write, listen to music (mostly Beyoncè), and just find happiness and joy in everything and everyone around him.Contact: [email protected] @imoter.kpengwa on Instagram

4 Comments

  1. Emeka

    January 22, 2019 at 9:40 pm

    This article made very little sense

  2. MelaPop

    January 31, 2019 at 11:29 am

    Nice read!

  3. MelaPop

    January 31, 2019 at 1:06 pm

    Nicely written. Nigerians are people who have selective eyesight. As long as it benefits them, they don’t have a problem with oppressive systems. What they don’t realise is that the leaders are Nigerians too, and also choose to have selective eyesight and see only how the government can benefit their selfish needs. Holding ourselves accountable is how we start to end that culture of deprivation. Too bad not very many people are sensible and honest enough with themselves to see the message in this article. Thank you for this.

  4. James ChukwuJindu

    January 31, 2019 at 1:56 pm

    Nigerians have to wake up to the fact that the choices we make today will have ripple effects on the nation in the next decade.
    If we beleive all lives matter , then qw should elect leaders that will protect lives of Nigerians, no matter their tribe , race , gender or sexual orientation.
    Sustainable development for all and an all inclusive government is what we need to move to where we should have been. That said , this piece spoke a lot of sense on the discussions we are all running away from.
    The time is NOW or never

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