Tribute to Remi Lagos by Emmy Collins

On Saturday, 3rd of November 2012, Nigerian designer Remi Osholake of Remi Lagos passed away after a short but valiant battle with cancer. The 51 year old designer’s influence went far beyond the world of fashion. Tributes have been pouring in from all around the world. Friends, admirers, colleagues and so many others are paying tribute to the beloved designer. Below is a tribute from designer, Emmy Collins.
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At about 6pm on Sunday I received a BlackBerry message from my stylist Cornell Mcessien who was not acquainted with the name Remi Lagos prior to a couple months ago when we were searching for a venue to do fitting with TV presenter and Adora Oleh as I presently don’t have a showroom in Lagos.I decided the most conducive venue would have to be Remi Lagos’ showroom at the Mega Plaza,Victoria Island primarily due to its proximity to Adora who was at that moment involved in a rehearsal at Lekki Phase 1 for the finale of the Project Fame which she was co-presenting but had so fastidiously agreed to do the fitting in-between.

Cornell is an individual who is very enthusiastic about fashion and eager to improve his knowledge of how the fashion industry functions and I am always happy to pass on any information I deem necessary to him so I remember quipping “You are a stylist and you don`t know Remi Lagos? ”,we laughed about the joke while I frantically searched for Remi`s number not sure if I had it on the same phone that was with me in Lagos at the time but as luck would have it, I had the number so I put a call through and after a few minutes of bantering I drove to the point and asked if I could use her showroom for just an hour and her answer was “Of course Emmy. Take as long as you want. I might not be there but I will set it up so you don’t get disrupted”. Unfortunately this was to be my last conversation with this brave, unassuming and ever smiling lady that was Remi Osholake aka Remi Lagos.

Now let me backpedal to the last time I popped into Remi’s showroom while she was actually on seat, I walked in and she flashed that toothy smile which I am accustomed to and I suppose it is fair to assume everyone who have encountered Remi must be used to that toothy smile as well. I believe she never ever left home without the smile because Remi was the smile and the smile was Remi. Her smile was the sort that always comes from the heart. If one searches through the pictures of her on the internet and elsewhere, the first thing one is bound to notice is that broad smile, full of sincerity that always lightens up her face and then instantly she becomes one of the most beautiful persons you ever met.

Well, I spent just about a couple of hours at her showroom during which we chatted about numerous topics including her Abuja showroom and why she shut it and my next project in Nigeria which is integrating Nigerian payment system into my online store so Nigerians can shop from it with their ATM cards and the challenges I was experiencing with the project. During our conversation I managed to convince her to research online retailing because it is my fervent conviction that that is the direction Nigeria is headed at the moment and had to go due to traffic and other innumerable reasons. We also discussed my reasons for shutting my former showroom, her new puppy which she jokingly complained was more expensive to maintain than she initially envisaged but in the same breath she emphasized that the puppy brought her luck, plenty of luck so the puppy wasn`t going anywhere. As I sit on my bed now typing I couldn’t help but think of what will become of her beloved puppy and of course her family.

I have met and lost good people but what propelled me to write this tribute is Remi`s unassuming nature and braveness. In an industry where people work so hard at being supercilious and unreal she was one of the few designers I have met who is so real to the bone and that always resonates with me. After our meeting we took the lift downstairs from her third floor showroom , exchanged hugs and she casually hailed a rickety yellow without being bothered with the state of the cab and off she went. That was how unpretentious she is.

She never felt too important to extend compliments. Being a designer I have heard countless people tell me they are proud of my work and am always humbled to hear that but here was a pioneering Nigerian designer constantly telling me with that toothy smile of hers that she was proud of my work, so, yes, it felt totally different coming from her and I will always appreciate her for that. There is nothing as inspiring as receiving compliment from a fellow designer especially one that has blazed the trail for many to follow. I am a huge fan of her originality of attitude and designs and I will be ever so appreciative that I had the opportunity to tell her that before she departed this world. I believe in fashion she created her niche and never wavered from it and that is what fashion is about and should be all about -ORIGINALITY,ORIGINALITY and ORIGINALITY.

The best memory of her that I will cherish the most was her expression when I explained the advantages of launching an online store in Nigeria, she automatically switched from English to pidgin and said “Emmy I no understand how una dey to do this online thing o”,the way she said it was so naive but yet soooooo COOL and so unpretentious. We both laughed and then I went further to explain that just like her, IT isn’t my forte, I just pay my people to set it up and all I have to do is to ensure I design great pieces to be uploaded which I believe she could equally do. I haven’t known Remi for eternity but you don’t need eternity to know her or to feel her positive energy because she was just an open book with no ambiguities.

My first thought when I confirmed she was indeed gone from us was that if the lady that was so cheerful and appeared devoid of any worries throughout the two hours we chatted was battling any form of cancer, then there was none braver than Remi Lagos.

Unlike most she never craved fame.

The fashion industry has lost a pioneer and I have lost friend.

Adieu Remi Osholake(Remi Lagos).
EC

17 Comments on Tribute to Remi Lagos by Emmy Collins
  • anthonia Oguah November 5, 2012 at 2:43 pm

    Oh my God Remi Lagos dead, ? no wayyyy, common you monster called death how dare you, Oh Jesus Remi Lagos, i had an encounter once with her during the preparation of my traditional marriage 16yrs back. since then we became casual friends, …oh nooo cant say it all in here, what a lose. Oh dear. R.I.P Dearie, R.I.P

  • adelegirl November 5, 2012 at 3:57 pm

    A wonderful tribute to a wonderful lady. Reading it, I felt as if I knew Aunty Remi Lagos personally and felt humbled by the warmth of her character. Felt the same way reading Funmi Iyanda’s tribute, which gave such personal insights to the lady called Remi Lagos. May God rest her soul in peace and comfort those left behind to pick up the pieces and carry on.

  • Retrochic November 5, 2012 at 4:17 pm

    OMG this is so sad, may her soul rest in God’s bossom, very touching

  • Maria November 5, 2012 at 5:08 pm

    RIP Remi Lagos. The love you have been shown is amazing. I hope that youre somewhere up there smiling like they say you always did. :(

  • Obehi Okoawo November 5, 2012 at 5:46 pm

    May her gentle soul RIP.

  • Trendysturvs November 5, 2012 at 7:21 pm
  • Jatropha November 6, 2012 at 8:39 am

    Indeed a great loss.I am humbled by the good life she lives here on earth.

  • Jatropha November 6, 2012 at 8:40 am

    Indeed a great loss.I am humbled by the good life she lived here on earth.

  • Idak November 6, 2012 at 10:08 am

    Isn’t this the whole essence of living?
    That when you leave, a few folks can genuinely say from the heart that you touched their lives in a special way. It often does not take much. Just doing the simple things well and doing it from the heart.
    My thoughts and prayers are with those she has left behind and the lives she touched.

    *btw, the eccentric ones like Emmy Collins and Denrele seem to be the ones who appreciate the simplicity of friendship and tend to value it. Just a view from afar.

  • anslem Albert Bello November 6, 2012 at 12:53 pm

    oh death! Where is thy sting? Though, I never met u in life personally but i ve been in ur Mega plaza show room and that in Wuse 2. I loved everything i saw there, RIP Remi Lagos.

  • versence November 6, 2012 at 1:04 pm

    RIP Dear Remi Lagos.

  • Mabel@ www.facebook.com/pomeysplacelimited November 6, 2012 at 5:30 pm

    RIP Remy Lagos!

  • Yvonne November 6, 2012 at 6:19 pm

    What a sad sad thing. I had the oppurtunity of meeting Remi a year ago. She was truely a beautiful soul. She personally came to deliver the items I bought from her mega plaza boutique. May her soul Rest in Perfect Peace.

  • Sade O November 6, 2012 at 7:49 pm

    RIP Remi Lagos. Nigeria’s first fashion designer and pioneer. Very humble and true.

  • HOUSE OF ZINNO November 7, 2012 at 1:01 am

    RIP Remi

  • Couture By Makioba November 7, 2012 at 10:45 am

    RI Remi Lagos…. She opened my eyes to the Nigeria Fashion Industry…….

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