28 Years & Counting…Tunde Obe Shares the Secrets of his Successful Marriage

Tunde & Wunmi Obe

Tunde & Wunmi Obe

One half of popular music couple T.W.O, Tunde Obe, in a recent interview revealed that he and his wife Wunmi often made sacrifices for a better future. That is one of the secrets of their marriage.

The veteran musician and dad of 3 also advised men to get hitched to women who would support their plans and also help them make good decisions for the future.

He said “Marrying this woman helped me to be able to become who I am today, in the sense that we were living beneath our means for over a decade. There are many women who will never ever ever ever agree to live beneath their means. I will deny them of holidays, I will deny them of new cars, of clothes, I will deny them of everything because I was trying to build for tomorrow and she has so much faith and belief in me and where I was taking us. Because I’m the captain of my ship, I can’t lie, I am the captain of my own family, I’m the head of my family and I believe that whether we sink or swim is my responsibility.”

Tunde also added that” If you are unfortunate not to have a wife who wants to encourage you, you can have a hundred million and say I’m not spending a kobo of this. We are going to continue to live like paupers because I want to do this and she’ll be like fine, and without that peace of mind, of knowing that I was putting things in place for our future, I couldn’t have ever achieved it.’’

23 Comments on 28 Years & Counting…Tunde Obe Shares the Secrets of his Successful Marriage
  • Somadina March 9, 2016 at 5:05 pm


  • Jaygirl March 9, 2016 at 5:11 pm

    Ohh I loved him in the movie ‘The Gardener’. Many happy years ahead.

    • Pat March 9, 2016 at 9:17 pm

      That movie sounds familiar .Is The Gardener an old movie that Bimbo Akintola also acting in?

  • Drknite March 9, 2016 at 5:33 pm

    All this time I being doing the opposite. I need to be the captain of this ship. SMH
    She must be a good cook too. He has been eating well.

  • orange March 9, 2016 at 5:51 pm

    A Couple that Eats together, Stay together

    • Jezebel March 9, 2016 at 6:00 pm

      BN way to go on binning my comment?. How is it different from what orange said ??

      • I just waka come… March 9, 2016 at 10:42 pm

        Darhhling, you didn’t say it in a posh way.
        Das why. ?

  • Ada Nnewi March 9, 2016 at 6:26 pm

    He forgot to add she holds the money purse…

  • aikay March 9, 2016 at 7:12 pm

    I remember when the news of their engagement hit the air, I was the first to scream dt she was too old and fat for him cos back then this guy was fine as hell. But see how far they have come together proving the likes of us WRONG. I’m so happy for them but I must add that the reverse is becoming the case now as the Guy kinda looks too fat now cos wumi has maintained her stature cos she has been like this since 1990.Tunbe puleaseeeeee hit the gym and shed those lipids cos you are really out of shape. Take a look at RMD now and back wen he was a commissioner in my state. He was even bigger than this and now he has worked on himself and reclaimed his mandate as nollywood’s hottest veteran…

  • Biker Chic March 9, 2016 at 7:15 pm

    This guy used to be hot. Whatappun?

    • indigo March 9, 2016 at 7:59 pm

      He’s been eating with his wife..

      • Drknite March 9, 2016 at 8:13 pm

        LOL! You wrong for that.

      • KMT March 9, 2016 at 8:59 pm


      • o March 9, 2016 at 9:41 pm

        buhahahahahahaha…. eh buru sir! lol

  • Tee March 9, 2016 at 7:38 pm

    What else does she put up with? Hmmmm Marriage is what any one defines it to be. 28years is a long time though and I wish you all the best. One thing I don’t believe is that one person’s marriage is the best, everyone or woman have one thing or the other they are dealing with, and knowing how to manage it for a long time is the Joy of it.(in my African tone). Love you guys still for letting us know that perseverance is a true virtue.

  • Moyo March 9, 2016 at 7:53 pm

    Shade shade

  • huh March 9, 2016 at 8:10 pm

    What’s with all the shades on “eating”, has that stopped them making their marriage work?! No. All manners of pettiness on BN these days, shior

  • Kolade Bayo March 9, 2016 at 8:18 pm

    Nice. A nice couple that shows true love still exist.

  • i no send March 10, 2016 at 8:36 am

    *sigh*…i bet the “slimmer and hotter’ couples have long since divorced..i guess the “slimness “didn’t impact on the success of the marriage….but what do i know

  • jummai March 10, 2016 at 8:59 am

    me thinks the secret behind their successful marriage is being FAT…. they are bought fat and fit each other

  • oddy March 10, 2016 at 10:09 am

    28years of marriage or something else? Bella i just need to know

  • Tobigirl March 10, 2016 at 12:09 pm

    I believe they have known each other for 28 years not that they have been married that long. Ah han.. But the report is from NAN so no surprise there.

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