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Tonto Dikeh-Churchill has a Message for Men & Women Suffering Domestic Violence



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Nollywood actress Tonto Dikeh-Churhill shared this lovely message on social media today. She advised men and women to run away from toxic partners and she encouraged that praying together is the most intimate act a couple can engage in.

See her post below.

Praying together is the most intimate act a couple can engage in. My husband and I do nothing without hitting those knees on the ground to God Almighty..Its better than Sex I tell ya, But also give ur spouse good TLC always..

It’s time for women to stop entertaining the boffinry of satisfaction that comes from mere social media posts Or the envy that comes from those images you see showcasing the picture perfect couples.

Men who prey on women view their victims as less than human..Run Away from such human••In his mind they’re just variables in a math equation to get to a desired result or conclusion.
Ladies there is no reasoning with him or appeasing to his sensibilities, because you’re only a nut in his mind and falling in love is the last thing on his mind.

He will say whatever u want to hear and become the man u always dreamed about to suck u in his world , and once ur locked in he will unleash the wrath of who he really is .
The more u try to get him to be accountable for his behavior , the more he will have u thinking ur losing ur mind , as he attempts to blame you for his cheating and putting his hands on u .

He can’t reciprocate ur love , because he disconnected from his own moral compass along time ago . He doesn’t operate in right vs wrong , only wins vs losses. Every woman that gives him his way and let’s him treat her like shit is a win & when she finally wakes up and no longer allows him to control her it’s a loss.

#SAYNOTODOMESTICVIOLENCE #StayawayfromvoilentMen/Women
#Love yourself enough to know when to take a bow
#RIP TO WOMEN lost in domestic violence


  1. Fola

    May 12, 2016 at 1:15 pm

    Nice one,Marriage and motherhood can be calming,New version of humanity from Tontolet.

  2. Jolaolu

    May 12, 2016 at 1:25 pm

    True talk Mrs t Churchill,that was sensible,I go love.

  3. Becky

    May 12, 2016 at 1:38 pm

    Wow. Tonto speaks like one who has experienced abuse in a relationship. This is so spot on. Especially the part about win and loss.


    May 12, 2016 at 1:45 pm

    Waiting for oga Freeze to weigh in….

  5. Dentale

    May 12, 2016 at 2:00 pm

    Thanks Tonto. This is a powerful message that may be lost on those who focus on the “messenger”. Especially the part about “He doesn’t operate in right vs wrong , only wins vs losses”. This is so true. When you meet a man fixated on winning, he will hurt you! Real love does not want to win over you, it wants you both to win together! I pray for strength for our women to overcome all forms of abuse. It’s time to take back our lives and dignity, while guiding our young boys towards becoming better men.

  6. Inspiring !!!

    May 12, 2016 at 2:50 pm

    Tontolet has blossomed into a wise woman,mother, and counsellor. Wow Tonto! I love this new you that has left materialistic show-offs and drama to be a social commentator . I will be looking forward to your next comment on social issues.

  7. Oshee/Tontolet

    May 12, 2016 at 2:55 pm

    More reserved,motherhood is different.may the Lord keep your home intact from the hands of marriage is not important sisters and brothers association,looking for members seriously.

  8. nene

    May 12, 2016 at 3:47 pm

    it’s good to see tonto change for the better. i hope others follow suit and change and become wiser in life. theres nothing as good as having peace of mind, living a peaceful and good life,and feeling content withing yourself

  9. Tontolet changed?

    May 12, 2016 at 4:22 pm

    We don’t know if she changed,or is the media negative gossip that moved on to other people.they know the sympathy as changed now since she got married,also since clapping back at that other aunty,no more bad news alert on her.

  10. blueivy

    May 12, 2016 at 4:41 pm

    this tonto sef…………………………has she stopped smoking yet?

    • good girl

      May 12, 2016 at 5:40 pm

      trying to distract from the message ehn blue ivy?? gerrarahere

  11. Do you mean her well?In the voice of Omowunmi.

    May 12, 2016 at 5:47 pm

    All those people that don’t mean well for Tonto,Sango send them on a we know Jesus is too mercifully minded.

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