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#BBNaija’s TTT: “Don’t swallow Panadol for another person’s headache” – Ali Baba to Instagram User

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Ali Baba has responded to an Instagram user who criticized BBNaija‘s TTT after he wished his wife a happy birthday on Instagram.

TTT had shared a photo of his wife of his wife on her birthday, calling her his backbone.

A user had criticized him in the comments section, telling him: “After messing with @iambisola on international tv, Abeg sit down.”

TTT’s wife had replied the user, saying: “And you haven’t moved on because? Wish me well or shift and let others do so…”

Ali Baba shared a screenshot of the discourse, with the caption:

Remember I told you all marriages are not the same? The issues one partner in a marriage can tolerate, another will find it totally unacceptable. I also told you of the Auntie that advised her niece to move out of her matrimonial home when a lady got pregnant for him, just to teach her husband a lesson. She listened & moved out. 1 wk. 3 wks, 3 months, 6 months, 1 year. Na so marriage scatter. The marriage, that was not up to 2 years packed up. Then some years after, she attended the Auntie’s husband’s 70th, & at picture sessions she noticed a small boy join the nuclear family. Whose child is that? She asked. Answer was given to her in whispers. Auntie’s husband had fathered a child out of wedlock. AUNTIE didnt leave. Angered, She confronted Auntie & it fractured the family. Another strong feminist on Facebook, in 2005 or 6, can’t remember now, called a lady who said she was pregnant for a marriage man and didn’t know what to do, all kinds of names plus home breaker. Only to see her pregnant & it was for a Senator friend of mine. And I happened to know that the Senator was married. Come and see explanations. “It’s not like that. I found out after it happened. They were separated. He wanted to divorce her. It was nothing serious. We are in love. I am ashamed of myself, blah blah blah”. Trust me. I wrote about her hypocrisy. If you haven’t reached the bridge don’t cross it. Don’t count your chicks before they are hatched. Don’t swallow panadol for another person’s headache. Let the person wearing the shoe tell you where it pinches. That is why some people will continue to hold grudges against a partner in a relationship and the partners have made up and moved on. Is it your marriage?! Over sabi! If anything like that happens to me, & my wife decides to do anything, she is my wife. That’s ok. Why will you now carry it on your head even on her birthday? Mscheeeew. Oya, go and seek to dissolve the marriage na. As e dey pain you so! Wait ooo! How do you feel when people quarrel and you take sides. Then see them together after all your bad mouth? Mine is get upset. But move on. Just move on. Especially if the parties involved moved on.

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Remember I told you all marriages are not the same? The issues one partner in a marriage can tolerate, another will find it totally unacceptable. I also told you of the Auntie that advised her niece to move out of her matrimonial home when a lady got pregnant for him, just to teach her husband a lesson. She listened & moved out. 1 wk. 3 wks, 3 months, 6 months, 1 year. Na so marriage scatter. The marriage, that was not up to 2 years packed up. Then some years after, she attended the Auntie's husband's 70th, & at picture sessions she noticed a small boy join the nuclear family. Who's child is that? She asked. Answer was given to her in whispers. Auntie's husband had fathered a child out of wedlock. AUNTIE didnt leave. Angered, She confronted Auntie & it fractured the family. Another strong feminist on Facebook, in 2005 or 6, can't remember now, called a lady who said she was pregnant for a marriage man and didn't know what to do, all kinds of names plus home breaker. Only to see her pregnant & it was for a Senator friend of mine. And I happened to know that the Senator was married. Come and see explanations. "It's not like that. I found out after it happened. They were separated. He wanted to divorce her. It was nothing serious. We are in love. I am ashamed of myself, blah blah blah". Trust me. I wrote about her hypocrisy. If you haven't reached the bridge don't cross it. Don't count your chicks before they are hatched. Don't swallow panadol for another person's headache. Let the person wearing the shoe tell you where it pinches. That is why some people will continue to hold grudges against a partner in a relationship and the partners have made up and moved on. Is it your marriage?! Over sabi! If anything like that happens to me, & my wife decides to do anything, she is my wife. That's ok. Why will you now carry it on your head even on her birthday? Mscheeeew. Oya, go and seek to dissolve the marriage na. As e dey pain you so! Wait ooo! How do you feel when people quarrel and you take sides. Then see them together after all your bad mouth? Mine is get upset. But move on. Just move on. Especially if the parties involved moved on.

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Don't swallow Panadol for another person's headache - Ali Baba advices angry Instagram User

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28 Comments

  1. Alex

    July 14, 2017 at 11:11 am

    A word is enough for the wise!

  2. missnk

    July 14, 2017 at 11:53 am

    This is why nigerian men have the kind of power they do. supporting nonsense, this alibaba fellow is not well

  3. Sheneneh Devonte

    July 14, 2017 at 12:06 pm

    I am not sure what point Alibaba is trying to make? While I would never be the girl who went and wrote the messing with Bisola comment, TTT’s wife needs to know this is never going away. It happened on International TV and worse, in recent history! She may be okay in her bubble where she has moved on from it but there are evidences lying around in the form of clips/videos all over the Internet. So she needs to understand the world will never forget and almost anything her attention seeking, philandering husband does will remind everyone. Unfortunately, it is what it is. That’s the lesson everyone should be taking away from this not whatever Alibaba is trying hard to say.

    • bbz

      July 14, 2017 at 4:42 pm

      After everything that has been said, omg, please leave them oo. AHHH BUT IS IT BY FORCE?
      Must you talk? Must you have an opinion about anything and everything? most especially when it has nothing to do with you present or future.
      Keep taking Pandol for another person’s headache when you do not know the battles you yourself will face….
      If you cannot pray for peace or unity for them in their marriage, then you do not have the right to do otherwise…
      Yes cheating is very wrong, and yes SHE has every right to carry the cross whichever way she is able to, and for that reason its either you help her with this cross by making it less burdensome or let her be for God’s sake!

  4. Sunshine

    July 14, 2017 at 12:15 pm

    This post by Alibaba is very disappointing to me. A man cheated publicly, his wife ‘forgave’ publicly. Someone called out the husband’s hypocrisy publicly. the wife ‘clapped back’ publicly. And Alibaba has joined them in celebrating nonsense, pepese what one marriage can tolerate another cannot. In the words of one of my favourite Life Coaches Iyanla Vanzant; we must learn to ‘call a thing a thing!’ This man did wrong, period! Yes he has sought ‘forgiveness’ and his wife has ‘accepted’ and we are happy for them, but can we please stop making villains out of those who point out blatant hypocrisy? THIS is what is wrong with our society, when we join hands to crucify those who try to hold us to higher standards, calling them ‘haters’ or ‘feminists’ and playing the ‘shebi he has said sorry’ and ‘only God can judge’ card. Those of you supporting Alibaba’s line of thinking might as well support the ‘Free Evans’ movement; afterall ‘shebi’ he has said sorry, his wife and children have forgiven him and only God can judge? Nonsense!

    • TouchOfSpice

      July 14, 2017 at 1:49 pm

      The owner of body said that body is not paining him but you keep telling the owner of body to take paracetamol.

      Forget what you life coach said. His own life sef is not perfect.
      If I want to cook for my wife…FINE!
      If she wants to cook for me….FINE!
      If she wants to kneel down while serving me food….FINE!
      If I want to serve her while I’m kneeling down…..FINE
      If I forgive her for cheating….absolutely FINE.
      If she forgives me for cheating it’s freaking FINE.

      What is you people’s own with her marriage. Let her complain to you first before you jump in. Maybe you have a room next to their ‘matrimonial’ room that’s why you know it’s hypocrisy. He didn’t commit a crime, Evans committed a crime…see the difference?

    • xxx

      July 14, 2017 at 4:25 pm

      my dear …..evans committed a crime against the STATE and would be tried according to the laws of the state. If the state finds him not guilty..then he would be set free. Its way different from adultery…the person who the crime was committed against…has forgiven and moved on…debating this issue and dragging her and her husband out is unnecessary….maybe we should learn to mind our business. She and her husband celebrated on their own personal page..they didn’t take a page on a national daily inviting the world to their business. its the people who stalked and follow them and end up making stupid comments that are hypocrites. These

  5. Truth

    July 14, 2017 at 12:22 pm

    So sad! Clearly no ones business but if the wife had acted the way he did, all hell would have broken loose right?

    Women you really need to empower yourselves, the time of men ruling the world and acting like kings has long passed! Respect is reciprocal

    • The Truth.

      July 14, 2017 at 12:41 pm

      Clearly no ones business, end of discussion and no but.

  6. Omodolapo

    July 14, 2017 at 1:21 pm

    Alibaba be talking like a fishhead, can he please go and have several seats please!!!,,!

  7. kenz

    July 14, 2017 at 1:35 pm

    NICE one Alibaba, the summary of his speech is that, if the wife could get over it and tolerate his act, then is none of your business to judge him. forming here as if you people dont cheat… oya go find another husband for the wife na or carry that ur own perfect husband give TTT wife…

    • xxx

      July 14, 2017 at 4:20 pm

      thanks @ kenz… you summarized it well… i don’t understand what those simpletons are trying to say…he cheated on his wife and wife forgave him…then we should kill ourselves over it on her behalf…can’t people learn to mind their own business!!! you go on someone else page to monitor their lives and insult them….it you who is an hypocrite then…

  8. Do Better

    July 14, 2017 at 2:21 pm

    I think it’s well established that Ali Baba is a misogynistic douche bag who refuses to accept that he isn’t as funny as he used to be and therefore now suffers from verbal diarrhea. Such men ehn! Go to his house and his wife is probably the boss. Empty barrel oshi! Meanwhile, women like TTT’s wife are the reason why Nigerian woman will never be truly liberated. So fixated on society’s stale notion of marriage defining a woman that she is unwilling to see that she deserves better. How typical.

    • Mama

      July 14, 2017 at 3:35 pm

      I’m officially hopelessly in love with you,

  9. Cocolette

    July 14, 2017 at 2:24 pm

    I don’t understand why people are carrying this woman’s case on their head. Everybody has a cross they choose to bear in any relationship or in life for that matter, she has chosen her own and is not complaining. Some people that are drinking panadol on her behalf have their spouses cheating on them in private yet it’s her own they see… “ovu nkem eje, nke ya ana anyiji ya olu”. (you’re carrying my load comfortably on your head whilst your own load is breaking your neck) why not drop the woman’s load and carry your own?
    And for people that say it’s people like her that give all men license to cheat, I say NO! That she has given her man license to cheat does not mean she has given same to YOUR own man. I believe every man knows what his woman can or cannot take in a relationship… If you will not tolerate cheating and your man does not know yet, Guurl you better make it very clear.

  10. sdee

    July 14, 2017 at 2:53 pm

    Basically what he said is different strokes for different folks…. do you think marriages that stand the test of time didn’t have issues that could have ever dissolved the marriage? But both parties decided to make it work… if it doesn’t break the marriage it makes it stronger no one is perfect his wife has forgiven him so whose approval should he be asking for again…abeg peeps should take a chill pill and move along

  11. nene

    July 14, 2017 at 2:55 pm

    if his wife is fine with what her husband did, she is an enabler. I don’t see anything wrong in what ali baba said. let people handle their lives how they want, they pay for it if everything fails, not you, the outsider.

  12. [email protected]

    July 14, 2017 at 2:59 pm

    Aproko people looking for perfection forgetting that a perfect person does not exist.

  13. Ottawa Queen

    July 14, 2017 at 3:01 pm

    People have time o! I’m more concerned about the success of my marriage than knock heads in arguments on another person’s. Whatever rocks their boat. . .

  14. Mrs P

    July 14, 2017 at 3:26 pm

    Whether they made peace or divorced, TTT should be able to wish her a HBD in peace.

    In your house, or with your friends you can analyse the matter and what you would have done differently but not going on his page to comment on the birthday post.

    You cannot force her to liberate women or take a desicion to make a point for the women folk by divorcing TTT!

    How about we focus on the lessons. Period!

  15. Chichi

    July 14, 2017 at 3:38 pm

    i honestly dont get the outrage with what ali baba said
    he is not saying TTT or his wife are right or wrong
    he is just saying that at the end of the day because we are all human, we are flawed
    life is often more complex than it seems
    so with that in mind, what you absolutely value might not be the same for someone else
    different strokes for different people, just focus on living your best life on your own terms

    so now how is that a problem for some of you??? smh

  16. Ijs

    July 14, 2017 at 5:24 pm

    Perfect relationships don’t exist, fine. But beneath all of these talk, there is a notion that its OK for a man to cheat on his wife, where will a woman go to after a divorce based on cheating? If not a life of sorrow. men having children outside wedlock is bad but tolerable.However, this is impossible for a woman to do to her husband and get away with it by begging. Suggesting that women, who are contributing immensely all over the world and held as equal to their male partners, are somehow lesser beings here. This would’ve been fine if it was just relational issues we apply this too; but this upside down dysfunctional injustice system where people are OK with crap is why Nigeria is fucked. Nobody has integrity because its OK to take bribe, its not the best but its tolerable. Nobody looks at you anyhow if you throw thrash in the gutters because everyone is doing it and its OK. Our culture is fucked and that’s why we are where we are. Bullshit is OK to us.

  17. Vic

    July 14, 2017 at 9:55 pm

    Alibaba and his fake stories of nonexistent people. Tueh!

  18. Idomagirl

    July 14, 2017 at 9:59 pm

    I just want to know why Ali Baba dedicated such a long post to a comment by an unknown person that isn’t even up to 3 lines long.
    Must you and that other agbaya comment on everything?
    Fly passes una go right thesis.
    Person mess una go write dissertation.
    Odiegwu.

  19. Ayo

    July 15, 2017 at 7:02 am

    Must you insult him? That’s his opinion. Learn to accept others opinions without raining insults on them.

  20. madam peace

    July 15, 2017 at 6:50 pm

    Please my follower Nigerians, DO married poeple follow for the big brother?. Ha na woo.
    I think say na single poeple business. Is actually unethical for married man or woman to do that kind of live show. You see what the thing don cause na.

  21. Person

    July 17, 2017 at 3:27 am

    I think all Alibaba is saying can be summarised to “different strokes for different folks”. He did not say it it was okay for TTT to disrespect his wife on international tv but rather if the wife who was offended has moved past it why should anyone hold on to it?

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