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Man threatens to Beat Woman Up after she reportedly asks him to move his Car



Man threatens to Beat Woman Up after she asks him to move his Car - BellaNaija

You’re hungry so you decide to go get food at a nearby eatery. It’s dark out, you’re dressed casually – you’re driving after all.

You arrive at the eatery and maybe you get your food first, maybe you don’t, but you need a guy to move his car.

You see him, dressed down, too, in a tank top, his muscles bulging. You walk up to him, and, well, he’s not very receptive.

A Twitter user shared a video of a lady being harassed by a guy at an eatery in Lagos.

She had needed him to move his car, but the simple request somehow led to him threatening to beat her up, calling her a prostitute, an ashawo.

See the video below:


  1. Rosey

    November 27, 2017 at 3:23 pm

    This guy is a foolish tout,what has ashawo got to do with her walking steps?plus who told you she intimidates her husband at home?

    • Lilo

      November 27, 2017 at 4:02 pm

      When a man comes from a lineage of wrapper tying bush illiterate women, she will think the modern day woman is an ashawo….

    • kila

      November 27, 2017 at 8:07 pm

      I won’t lie I was scared for the lady. Especially when he raised his hands. If he slapped her and she hit her head and died nko? If I were in her shoes I won’t have bothered exchanging words with such a deranged man. I would have tried walking out and if he had come near me I would have used my pepper spray( yes I got one after a danfo driver harassed me). Shameless coward

    • Fleur

      November 27, 2017 at 11:48 pm

      The guy is clearly a tout who is most familiar with prostitutes. You have to forgive him because he is not used to ladies who have not had 4 big stouts and have a broken piece of one of the bottles in hand ready to go.

    • Felinda

      November 28, 2017 at 7:51 pm

      Bruno and John relatives. Useless illiterate agbero

  2. Deleke

    November 27, 2017 at 3:25 pm

    Why people dunno how to act? Behaving like an Anuofia

  3. Okay na

    November 27, 2017 at 3:33 pm

    What irritates me in situations like this is that people will start begging the perpetrator. Person wey you suppose gather round and flog. Reminds me of a similar incidence while in school. The guy slapped a girl cos she refused to dance with him, na so so everybody they beg am come ignore the victim. Irritating behaviour. I have faced similar situations, instead of Nigerians to stand up together against the bully, they’ll start begging them instead. Further inflating their already inflated egos. I’d rather you stay out of it totally than adding salt to my injury.

    • Jules

      November 27, 2017 at 4:28 pm

      This is so true, we should learn to stand up against bullies and not beg them

    • A Real Nigerian

      November 27, 2017 at 4:33 pm

      Thank you.
      They are begging him because most of them actually love what he is doing and want him to continue. Some of the stupid women are envious of the victim because she is well-to-do and has a car, and the other men there obviously hate the sight of an independent, outspoken woman who knows her rights.
      The Nigerian society is a truly messed up one.

    • Jummy

      November 27, 2017 at 4:40 pm

      I believe they may be begging because they’re intimidated by his size.

    • Commentator

      November 27, 2017 at 11:50 pm

      But for someone who is clearly wired and high on drugs, you dont want to engage in an equal manner. Unless you are equally stoked. If you fight with a mad man, you will always lose because a mad man feels no pain or shame and has nothing to lose. He is talking of killing, he is clearly a hired assassin that was taking a lunch break between blood baths.

  4. Asa

    November 27, 2017 at 3:35 pm

    Jesus, I am not even the woman and tears have welled up in my eyes. How in God’s name could I have borne something like this. This man might have killed me o. Chai!

  5. Asa

    November 27, 2017 at 3:36 pm

    Ashawo because she has a car abi? Or because her arms are showing? Which one is it?

  6. Wendy

    November 27, 2017 at 3:39 pm

    Ladies… I present to you, the barbaric Nigerian man in a nutshell!

    … and number 1 reason why every Nigerian girl/woman should carry pepper spray or tasers.

    • A Real Nigerian

      November 27, 2017 at 4:29 pm

      Well said. This is what the beasts who call themselves Nigerian men are like. A bunch of insecure, entitled, bratty, mannerless, slut-shaming rapists and abusers.
      I pity any lady who hooks up with a Nigerian-bred man.

  7. Wendy

    November 27, 2017 at 3:40 pm

    Ladies… I present to you, the barbaric Nigerian man in a nutshell!

    … and number 1 reason why every Nigerian girl/woman should carry pepper spray or tasers.

    • Lilo

      November 27, 2017 at 4:01 pm

      See i didn’t even see your post before I posted. Ladies- baseball bat, pepper spray and bottles are essential rapid response kit in your car trunk. Stay woke and ready to defend yourself.

  8. Sarah

    November 27, 2017 at 3:43 pm

    Big man like this with inferiority complex, thats why he is so big as he is, she obviously made him feel small thats why he is lashing out like this…he used ashawo thinking it would hurt..Mr low self esteem ugly bully, the ashawo word is like pomade, it don mean shit..

  9. Amber

    November 27, 2017 at 3:45 pm

    I blame his upbringing…Nigeria we need to do better with raising male children, they are not any more special than female children. When fathers and mothers start to train male children with equal or more effor they put into raising female children, the world will see less of these entitled overgrown senseless excuse for men…….and to think someone will marry this animal and tag him ‘MCM’… cringe!

  10. Mahka

    November 27, 2017 at 3:54 pm

    No restaurant security?…this is disgusting, him looking like thug calling someone ashawo…Entitled man!

  11. Lilo

    November 27, 2017 at 3:59 pm

    No wonder my sister carries a baseball bat, pepper spray and empty bottles in her car trunk while driving around Lagos. Her theory is that it’s not America where someone assaults you in traffic and and arrest is made. She stays ready to stab a mofo that Dare lays hand on her

  12. Mrs chidukane

    November 27, 2017 at 4:01 pm

    See how that person in blue is just eating even gleefully and bouncing on his chair. Person because I refuse to call him a man. The bully in black is agitated because the woman has a car. Driving as a woman, there’s no insult you won’t get from everyone. Madam,if the guy slaps you just grab his junk,na him go finally beg. Idiot big for nothing. To think he has a girlfriend.

  13. TFK

    November 27, 2017 at 4:12 pm

    There has to be someone, somewhere who knows this pond scum. Please name and shame.

    • PeeCeeCee

      November 28, 2017 at 1:07 pm

      UPDATE: He’s Don Jazzy’s body guard. He’s been sacked…

  14. Jabby

    November 27, 2017 at 4:14 pm

    Chaiiiii! One of the things wrong with our system!! idiot of a man!! And they are everywhere!!! Everywhere!!

  15. PH Boy

    November 27, 2017 at 4:24 pm

    I actually see plenty positives here and the new generation Nigerian women should be proud!
    For the 1st time in like forever, Nigerian women are getting more emancipated, independent and weak men like this cannot handle it and are obviously very threatened. Lol!
    Women should not be cowed by idiots like this. Times are changing very fast; there are now more laws being introduced in Lagos to protect women.
    Even if she was an ashawo; it’s still not an easy trade at all, make em ask em mama.

  16. Mama

    November 27, 2017 at 4:25 pm

    Very razz behavior. He obviously has no regard for women. You don’t even need anyone to tell you that the women in his life walk on egg shell around him (and i doubt that will even guarantee their safety). Classic image of a bully and an abuser!

  17. Moniker

    November 27, 2017 at 4:35 pm

    And him wife never kill am. This life is funny. Tout

  18. Jummy

    November 27, 2017 at 4:39 pm

    The fact that those men are sitting down doing nothing to help the young lady is sad. Perhaps they were intimidated by his size. Still, 2 or 3 of them would have been able to take down the man.

    So that man would have slapped the woman and those people would have still remained seated? Shame!

  19. Lamit

    November 27, 2017 at 4:47 pm

    I seriously pity the unfortunate woman that marries this one…

  20. Loki

    November 27, 2017 at 4:55 pm

    John, Chief, Baymax won’t say anything now. But when she stabs him with a broken tire iron now, all them crazies will come and start spouting nonsense from the four cardinal points of their mouths…

  21. BlueEyed

    November 27, 2017 at 4:59 pm

    Foolish man! Small minded man, it’s ontop of a woman you’re raising your voice, this kind has a woman he is already intimidating and beating up at home so he thinks every woman is like that, shame on him and all the men in that restaurant, small minded Nigerian men, don’t worry more and more women are opening their eyes to how small minded you guys are, we will no longer cower behind like our predecessors, this idiot of a man with all his muscles and small dick is there intimidating a woman and joyfully admitting to wanting to slap her. Disgraceful entity!

  22. Sere

    November 27, 2017 at 5:00 pm

    This man is a disgrace

  23. Sakura

    November 27, 2017 at 5:29 pm

    Big fool he thinks he’s bulging biceps will intimidate her, insecure ass wipe. Ashawo? Agreed. Move your bloody car. Her car is probably better his. I’m tired of all these uncivilized people!!!! God!!!!!

  24. Ms B

    November 27, 2017 at 5:37 pm

    What a pity! This should be shared until he is named and shamed! When 5 million women pounce on him with words and curses. He will respect himself next time! Nuisance!

    • John

      November 27, 2017 at 10:46 pm

      Calm down Online keyboard warrior…that is the only power u have

  25. zzzzzzzzz

    November 27, 2017 at 5:37 pm

    Typical bush Nigerian man for you. see a woman who has achieved more than himself and the woman is branded ashawo. It has come to a level where if you insult me ashawo I don’t even feel bothered because that is one way these me feel they can get to you. Poor lady

  26. Lailatu

    November 27, 2017 at 6:14 pm

    He publicly threatened to kill her, he should be arrested. What does “waka like ashawo” even mean? This is so wrong, i don’t know what I would have done in her shoes. What a creep.

  27. MIA

    November 27, 2017 at 6:20 pm

    Me I’ve learned anyone that calls me ashawo I tell you na me and your mama be ashawo. No time. The thing can pain men. Rubbish!!! Because his voice is louder he thinks he can walk all over her.

  28. OA

    November 27, 2017 at 6:38 pm

    It’s the bush ones who just have no idea how to comport themselves. And then have the audacity to start yelling at someone. But for the fact that I was at a prayer program once, I would have twisted one fool’s shirt around his neck and head (thank God for self control), after he removed my spacesaver and when he was caught in his lie, started saying “shebi…blah blah, why are you shouting at me?!” I looked left and right and said, if I am shouting in this kain place, then I must be a mad woman and the last time I checked I am not. Are you angry because a woman dare confront you and catch you in your dishonesty? Is that what is paining you?” I just hissed and walked off. From where I was seated, I could see him dancing as if it was his wedding day and jumping up and down while praying. I snickered and mumbled, “you dare take God for a fool abi; none of your prayers will be answered today, because you are a thief and a liar!”

  29. John

    November 27, 2017 at 6:56 pm

    lol…look at them ..all coming out of the caves screaming like banshees…another opportunity to bash men…..meanwhile an article about a woman that was arrested for domestic violence receive 0 comment…yawnnn…how I wish he slaped the hell out of her and nothing will happen..oops ..nothing is happening ..Good

    • Frank

      November 29, 2017 at 2:45 pm

      I wish I could slap the sht outta your ignorant mouth. This just shows that you were probably dropped on your head as a baby or you came out of your mother’s anal hole rather than _____ Get your retarded. Ignorant , have nothing going for you a$$ outta here. Go get a life loser.

  30. bey

    November 27, 2017 at 7:16 pm

    Someone has called me ashawo at lekki toll. With a ring clearly on my finger.
    Nigerian men once they see you driving a nice car and you are youngish and look well off.
    Next thing is ashawo. Even with a wedding ring on. Stupid touts.
    I wish this was America so he can be found and arrested for threat of life .
    Imagine threatening to kill a human being over parking .

    • hmmm

      November 27, 2017 at 7:50 pm

      Most young, married women living in lekki are ashawo or gold diggers, do not blame them

    • bey

      November 27, 2017 at 9:45 pm

      @hmmmmmm there must be smthn wrong with you. You are part of the problem we have in this country. you must be poorly brought up just like this tout.
      Where did you get your bloody statistics from about the women living in lekki.
      And you have to live in lekki to pass lekki toll ba?
      Small minded men abound. Low iQ coupled with lack of exposure.
      Always ready to call certain women ashawo just cos they have a complex. I redirect them to their mothers anyways.

    • Amanda

      November 27, 2017 at 10:25 pm

      @hmmm Just the same way most Nigerian Men are Paedophiles, molesters and great facilitators for child incest.

    • Frank

      November 29, 2017 at 2:46 pm

      In America he might have been pumped filled with lead

  31. June

    November 27, 2017 at 7:19 pm

    This was so sad to watch . We need to do better .

  32. One4All

    November 27, 2017 at 7:58 pm

    All the men in that restaurant ……… SHAME ON YOU!!! If the five men in that video had stood up to the guy, would he have the guts to continue his ranting. When we stand by and let incidents like this prevail, the society gets worse. If the lady had a military man at her side, would the fool run his mouth?!

    • John

      November 27, 2017 at 10:38 pm

      women!!..why would men stand up for her again..are we not equal again or are u not strong and independent again?..2 adults are fighting , so why should any sabe man brains …logic = 0 ..always needing men to fight for their battle for them while at the same time claiming strong and independent and equality

  33. Ada

    November 27, 2017 at 8:34 pm

    A month ago I was driving….approaching lekki phase 1 roundabout a car shoved me and stopped…I was perplexed…A rough looking man got out and I asked if he was alright brushing my car like that…Ahhhh the man started claiming right and I straightened him out and next thing he said”is that how you talk to your husband? ?I was like what the hell????????…When he said that I knew I couldn’t argue with the nuthead so I went to back….he came to my car and started shouting and blocking me from moving….I warned him hmmmmm get out or I am going to run you over…He thought I was bluffing so he stood still…I started my car and he was almost knocked down and he ran off….

  34. Miss Anoni Moss

    November 27, 2017 at 8:54 pm

    This video is really paining my spirit chai!! Look at the oversized vagabond, the steroid he is taking for those useless muscles must be affecting his brain

  35. Anonymous

    November 27, 2017 at 9:33 pm

    “Empty vessels make the most noise”. Oga it’s not by barking like a toothless bulldog.
    Low life scum of the earth, badly behaved, ill-bred ton of steroids who obviously lacks respect for himself else he would have conducted himself better.

    Moreover the use of the word “ashawo” has lost it’s potency, (ability to hurt) quite boring to hear and makes absolutely no difference.

  36. john

    November 27, 2017 at 10:11 pm

    Look at them all coming out of their cave screaming like the usual banshess they are. Another excuse for them to bash men…meanwhile their was an article about a woman ( glee actress) arrested for domestic violence against her husband ..Their was 0 comment on that…how I wish the man beat her to stupor and nothing will happen apart from you banshess screaming online..oops nothing happened…hypocrites…now let the shrieking and name calling and baning began..come and beat me….where is all this outrage on women abusing their maids or on that deranged woman stabbing her husband, all u sentimental fish brains were doing was finding ways to justify her evil…until you women stop being hypocrites ,nothing is gonna change..u can bet on that

  37. John

    November 27, 2017 at 10:43 pm

    Wendy and real Nigeria …the same person commenting and replying herself. just imagine the high level of frustration in a woman …who are you deceiving..kai ..thr is nothing I won’t see …I have a feeling the 3rd account “Hadiza”will soon make a debut here.

  38. John

    November 27, 2017 at 11:05 pm

    On a side how all those guys were busy eating( lol,even though I think it was out of fear of that huge guy..if he was a short guy..I bet all the guys would have jumped on him) …if I was in that resturant I would order for more food self and some toothpick.

  39. LOL

    November 27, 2017 at 11:43 pm

    Actually YOU are part of the problem we have in that country.
    You refer to your ring twice as justification for why you should not have been labelled an ‘ashawo’
    That is type of reasoning is so flawed… the ring does not grant you one over another who has no ring. In short you are saying ‘how dare he have called me an ashawo…I’m married.’

  40. LOL

    November 27, 2017 at 11:47 pm

    @bey, Nov 27th, 7:16pm

  41. john

    November 28, 2017 at 12:01 am

    In short you are saying ‘how dare he have called me an ashawo…I’mmarried.’ …..
    and what is wrong with that?……why are u beefing the married woman….if I label you as one those frustrated single, embittered dry husks that flock here in BN ..You start screeming like a banshee..u even go as far as labelling her as the problem we have in this of all the things happening in Nigeria, Bey comment is one of dear, you have issues , u better check in to a rehab..or just shout men are scum 10 times daily, You may feel better temporarily.

  42. john

    November 28, 2017 at 12:03 am

    on BN*

  43. pele john

    November 28, 2017 at 4:22 am

    Aww, everyone’s ignoring john so he/she has to comment like 10 times!!!!!! hahahahaha! Eya pele o john, we get it, no love in your life and you try to rile up strangers to release your pent up issues. Whatta pity.. We can’t solve it for you boo, find a shrink before it’s too late. It’s not healthy ; (

  44. Livewelll

    November 28, 2017 at 4:48 am

    THE GUY WAS MAXIMUMLY UNRESONABLE – iLL tempred and brought up with some very poor manners, coz not many man would call a woman an Ashawo right off the jump like dat, Or maybe he is just gay, in which its possible with lesser crowd he woulda landed that slap on that female. and followed to ‘KILL’ her yes! BUT something about her approach clearly set him off badly!

  45. CrazyWorld

    November 28, 2017 at 8:16 am

    Ladies here want to equate verbal assault with physical assault. Someone insult you and you are suggesting baseball bat. If you try to hit him and he overpowers you nko. What he did isn’t right but comments show women are just as violent as the man.

    Lots of women getting away with nonsense everyday too just so you know.

  46. mua

    November 28, 2017 at 12:36 pm

    Comments here are wild and scary especially from fellow women. women learn to support each other. What difference does your negative comments to one another make or change in the life of an idiot man who can publicly harrase a woman. and call her names for what ever reasons he thinks is right. The lady in the video did wondefully well. She exhibited all forms of maturity and skills on how to handle a mad man. For those who don’t know and understand the right and worth of woman, wait till a total stranger hits your mother, sister, daughter or wife and even call her names for what ordinary can be taken care of without imposing any negative vibes. Then you will learn to stand for what is right. Call WRONG WRONG and CALL RIGHT RIGHT. However there are some real men.

  47. stacy_kema

    November 28, 2017 at 1:31 pm

    This kind of men deserve mid night stabbing

  48. Shelice

    November 28, 2017 at 3:26 pm

    Thank God I live in an open carry state. That’s all she needs to humble him immediately. Oshisko.

    • Frank

      November 29, 2017 at 2:34 am

      You already know. Lol. They just don’t know

  49. jade

    November 28, 2017 at 9:01 pm

    He’s an animal who needs to be caged. Was he high on something? insecure, useless man.
    This is how some naija men assert their masculinity.
    I do believe a lot of Nigerians, men and women suffer from anger management.
    starting from Mothers who beat, insult their children for no reason.
    To men who are angry and never addressed it.

  50. Manny

    December 6, 2017 at 2:23 am

    Probably compensating for his small member

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