Tagged ‘Ifesinachi Okoli-Okpagu’

Ifesinachi Okoli-Okpagu: Boys Are Raped Too

Ifesinachi Okoli-Okpagu: Boys Are Raped Too

Thursday, March 13th, 2014

If your Facebook wall has not been crawling with heated arguments these past few weeks, it’s either your friends are ignorant or you are living in ignorance. The Obesere rape accusation has also opened a can of slithering worms such…

The Next Big Thing! Discover 5 Secrets to Brilliant Million-dollar Ideas

The Next Big Thing! Discover 5 Secrets to Brilliant Million-dollar Ideas

Tuesday, November 19th, 2013

With the easy access across distance and markets the Internet gives us, it’s easy to see how anyone can become a millionaire overnight, but it’s terribly frustrating when you can’t seem to find the next big idea that will rock…

Ifesinachi Okoli-Okpagu: Money, Peace or Family! How Do You Define Your Success?

Ifesinachi Okoli-Okpagu: Money, Peace or Family! How Do You Define Your Success?

Friday, September 20th, 2013

Recently, I was asked a question that had my tongue tied in knots. The question was simple, but as it demanded a straight forward answer, I realised it was not as simple as it sounds.
What is your definition …

Dear Fear, Let’s Talk…

Dear Fear, Let’s Talk…

Wednesday, June 26th, 2013

I wish I can tell the exact moment I became aware of the emotion called fear. Not the type you feel when you are young and left in the dark; I mean the type that grips your throat tight when…

Who Says Gender Doesn’t Matter?

Who Says Gender Doesn’t Matter?

Tuesday, May 28th, 2013

A few days ago, I was chatting with a dear friend and referred her to my website to have a look-see. Few minutes later she was back on the chat, bristling with excitement, and then she used the dreaded word.…

7 Things Married People Won’t Tell You about Marriage

7 Things Married People Won’t Tell You about Marriage

Thursday, April 25th, 2013

In this part of the world, we are more idealists than realists. If we face setbacks in business, we are comfortable with reciting the famous words, “it is well’. If rain soaks you on the way to the office, it’s…

“Whom Do You Know?” – 3 Tips for Building Your Business Network

“Whom Do You Know?” – 3 Tips for Building Your Business Network

Monday, April 8th, 2013

Many of us, especially youths, chase after big aunties and uncles to help in the pursuit of our goals. They are there to connect us with one of their old friends or to get us that contract that will give…

Why Are You A Woman Anyway?

Why Are You A Woman Anyway?

Thursday, March 21st, 2013

Last Sunday, the priest in my home church announced that a church member had put to birth. Before he could complete his statement, some church members finished for him “Boy! Boy!” After which the priest got angry and announced that…

4 Reasons Why Your Hard Work is Not Getting You Anywhere

4 Reasons Why Your Hard Work is Not Getting You Anywhere

Tuesday, March 5th, 2013

Imagine you have a race to run. The track stretches out before you. You do a little jogging to warm up. You are ready. You go down on one knee…on your marks…get set…go!
You run, you run really hard. Half…

Life, Goals & Achievements! Things I Wish I Knew Before I Turned Twenty-Five

Life, Goals & Achievements! Things I Wish I Knew Before I Turned Twenty-Five

Wednesday, February 20th, 2013

Looking back at the years since I left the University, I ask myself if I have achieved much. The answer is YES. Have I achieved the goal I set out for myself at my present age? The answer is NO.…

Understanding the Woman With the “Attachment Complex”

Understanding the Woman With the “Attachment Complex”

Wednesday, February 6th, 2013

I recently watched a television series where a beautiful woman lost her ticket to the glamorous life because she got divorced. She was married to a wealthy man who had no time for her but provided her with the benefits…