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Nigerian Pastor in the UK warns Married Couples – “Missionary” is the Only Holy Sexual Act



Married BN-ers do you agree?

UK-based Nigerian pastor Pastor Olugbenga Oladejo warns married couples against unholy sexual acts in this viral video.

It was published in November 2014, but we only became aware of it when a BN reader – keen to read your views – sent it to us.Olugbenga Oladejo

NB: This content may not be suitable for minors.

The head pastor of Complete in Christ Church (CICC), claimed he saw people being punished in hell for immoral and unholy sexual acts that include oral sex, masturbation, acts of bondage and positions like ‘doggy’ and ‘cowgirl’.

Here are excerpts of the video transcript, where he shared the revelations –

“The Lord told Pastor Oladejo that His children are confused, so they must be warned about these sins that are taking them to hell, so they will not perish.  He visually showed him these people’s sins on the “judgment screen” and audibly warned against married couples masturbating on their beds, looking at pornography, oral sex, trying different styles of sexual intercourse to “spice it up,” such as “doggie style” penetration from behind, and various positions, including the wife on top (e.g., so-called “rocking horse,” “cowboy,” or “cowgirl” positions), and hanging your wife (a type of domination and bondage position, involving tying her down, intended to simulate rape). He said the only position that is holy in God’s sight is the face-to-face position with the husband on top.”

On Missionary as the Only Holy Position

It is well known what the “missionary position” is and why it is called that, for the reason this pastor explained.  Missionaries of old who taught their converts about true holiness would teach them that in the marriage bed, face to face with the husband on top is the only position that God has sanctioned. That is a landmarker or boundary stone that was laid by people before this evil generation was born that you and I who live today are a part of.  That was a boundary stone.  We have moved that stone, so we could try new things to fulfill our lusts.”

He also quoted Bible scriptures to support his views.


Transcript Source: Eternal Destinations Blog


  1. Thatgidigirl

    February 16, 2015 at 6:49 pm

    Are we being punked?

    • dara

      February 16, 2015 at 9:10 pm

      Thank you o!!!this must be a huge joke!it’s people like them that many get caught red-handed in “sinful and hell-bound” acts….i don tire for these pastors sef, twisting the bible, adding to and taking away from it

    • oy

      February 17, 2015 at 3:43 pm

      that’s the only sane thing to assume here

    • b baby

      February 17, 2015 at 4:27 pm

      how do you have sex then when you are pregnant cos i know you can “missionary” on your bulggy stomach wife

    • b baby

      February 17, 2015 at 4:29 pm

      * how then do you have sex with your pregnant wife with her bulggy stomach? you “missionary” on her and kill the baby?

    • Shannie

      February 17, 2015 at 5:41 pm

      LMAO…….You people are gonna kill me! Hilarious!

    • Tobi

      March 1, 2015 at 4:40 pm

      It’s tough to say but truth be told, Christian couples are allowed to enjoy themselves sexually since sex originated from God but can’t practice any form of sexual act. Oral sex, porn etc couples who watch other people have sex for purposes of increasing their own sexual experiences are actually inviting demons into their lives and marriages. Before it was not so, but perverseness translated into all spheres of human affairs. If you are a born again Christian, you are separated unto God and can’t do what everyone is doing just because it feels good. I never knew all that until I became part of a church and attended their marriage seminar where I learnt that you can’t cross sexual boundaries under God even though you are married. Instead of criticizing a message upfront just because it stands contrary to what you have been doing, why not become scientifically minded and do your research from the word, help from the Holy Spirit and talk to genuine men of God. A lover of knowledge will take this message and go find out properly if these things are true. Remember that when it comes to heaven, majority does not carry the vote since the road is narrow. I will personally do further Christian research on the other things he mentioned since I don’t know everything.

    • Tola

      March 1, 2015 at 11:05 pm

      I personally don’t know this pastor but I agree that if someone says something contrary to your beliefs. You should go on a fact finding mission and I am talking about life’s grey areas, if somebody tells you there is nothing wrong with killing someone else, of course you won’t need to interact too much with the person before you send him to a psychiatrist. Personally, I didn’t know God cared about the kind of sex I practiced as a married Christian until one day my pastor said that God didn’t create your mouth for that purpose, also he spoke about a non-Nigerian celebrity who attributed his lung cancer to the practice of oral sex. I never heard all these in my life. Pleasing God is not a day’s affair. You need to keep getting closer to God and knowing more of him. In high school, my nick name was ‘Mocker’. I could mock anyone even to their hurt, in fact some students planned to deal with me at a point,I knew who had a big head, thin legs or murdered the English language and didn’t keep the facts to myself. I just enjoyed it yet I was a Christian. After I left school, God spoke to me and said it wasn’t a good Christian testimony picking on people, mocking them and causing others to mock them. For the first time, my eyes were open and I saw it as ridiculing people and laughing them to scorn. . If you are going to move beyond a general level to a higher level, you must be a seeker of God’s wisdom and lover of knowledge. You must ask God questions like what’s your word on this matter sir. Are you the one talking through this person? Please give me a revelation on this issue?

    • Deeaa

      March 3, 2015 at 7:05 am

      This pastor try to con his followers for money. He is committing sin himself

    • Deeaa

      March 3, 2015 at 7:11 am

      This pastor must be new in church business. Money making scam. Followers must stay away from these type of pastors

  2. me

    February 16, 2015 at 6:57 pm

    Pastor are you a learner?

  3. June

    February 16, 2015 at 6:59 pm

    I’m here for the comments. Lol

  4. nameoh

    February 16, 2015 at 7:02 pm

    I pity his wife. I guess majority of us are going to hell then

    • MC

      February 16, 2015 at 8:02 pm

      I don’t pity her…he clearly knows all the positions and more! She is alright where she is

  5. Carliforniabawlar

    February 16, 2015 at 7:07 pm

    lmao!! Wow…. Ara me riri, mo rori ologbo late! OMD… I kept laughing each time he said abbatoir…Frank Donga part2. I don’t know where to start from…anyways, I thank God his vision wasn’t for sisters who wear weaves and use makeup this time around, cos na that one all these people wey go hell come back dey see all the time…
    Abeg over to my married BN’ers, wilsh one is HANGING? Before i go and do it o! Please save a sister’s soul from eternal damnation!

    • Taiwo

      February 16, 2015 at 7:33 pm

      Loooool!! your comment had me in stitches.

    • Thatgidigirl

      February 16, 2015 at 8:37 pm

      Beht why are you like this? why??? ROTFLMAO

    • Carliforniabawlar

      February 16, 2015 at 10:27 pm


    • ogeAdiro

      February 16, 2015 at 10:20 pm

      Please, can someone translate “Ara me riri, mo rori ologbo late!”? lol… On the Frank Donga issue, I actually thought “abbatior” was a place in Lagos until I read your comment. Somehow the light bulb came on. LMAO! Chineke mere umu ya ebere.

    • omo yoruba ponbele

      February 16, 2015 at 11:47 pm

      Wonders shall never end. I’m seeing what I’ve never seen before, a cat’s head displayed for sale on the table. Have you ever seen a cat’s head the way you see goat heads etc? Priceless =))))))

    • Person

      February 17, 2015 at 6:07 am

      ‘I have seen a great wonder; the head of a cat being hawked for sale!’ Transliteration, but you get the idea!

  6. Clo

    February 16, 2015 at 7:14 pm

    (Straight face) Sounds like “Pastor” don’t want me to go and get saved (baptized)/Married….Lol

    Must be a myth

  7. *Real* Nice Anon

    February 16, 2015 at 7:17 pm

    The thing is whatever views you have, they can most definitely be supported by one verse or another in the Bible. Let us all interpret them how we deem fit.

  8. Carliforniabawlar

    February 16, 2015 at 7:26 pm

    ghen ghen! ORAL SEX…yo! yall need to stop creeping… stop creeping with your mouth!
    I’m laughing so hard, i’m crying.

    Choi!! Me that I just refused a guy’s ‘proposal’ because he said no head when he gets married…. I will send this to him to help reinforce his believes….

    • MC

      February 16, 2015 at 8:05 pm

      *being nosey*
      But he is ok with head before marriage?

  9. lanya

    February 16, 2015 at 7:26 pm

    rotflmao, according to what scripture sir? People be focusing on sex positions a man and his wife who are ‘one’ take. Ok o.


    February 16, 2015 at 7:30 pm

    THis man must be high on puff puff!

    • vicki*_*

      February 17, 2015 at 12:57 am


  11. Rose

    February 16, 2015 at 7:31 pm

    Ha! Couldn’t resist commenting on this one. Pray tell, where in the Bible is this sexual position written or suggested? This Pastor’s comments now can go and cause quarrel in some people’s marriage.

  12. Taiwo

    February 16, 2015 at 7:40 pm

    *wailing* Loooord save me I’m going to hell!! Chai!!!! and i told this man (my husby) that i didn’t wan to do o! *sob sob sob*

    • June

      February 16, 2015 at 7:48 pm

      Lol ! There, there ( in my soothing voice)

  13. Ay

    February 16, 2015 at 7:52 pm

    What a joke! When young men and women all over the world are making ground breaking discoveries to help save humanity and even more are risking their lives, parting from their families and facing death by fighting enemies in the form of ISIS and Boko Haram. This joker conviniently sits in the comfort of his house shooting a video that will further put his dumb followers in mental slavery. The sad part is marriages will break because of this. The joke is on anyone who believes this. *Sick*

  14. Queen

    February 16, 2015 at 7:54 pm

    Sick ‘pastor’. The type of things – wipes like this get up to behind closed doors would be nothing short of sickening.

    His has found his ‘selling’ point and before you know it a congregation of brainless sheep to fund his lie-lie ministry.

  15. kaya

    February 16, 2015 at 7:57 pm

    my only question is how he got to know the names of the other positions?!?… seems he might have been indulging in some of these “unholy” sexual acts

  16. Author Unknown

    February 16, 2015 at 8:02 pm

    Single Christians finally have a lot to be thankful for, since this message is for the married ones. At least they can actually enjoy sex. LOL. God’s angel took you on a tour of hell? Better keep quiet and stop imagining things.

    • Nkechi

      March 1, 2015 at 11:13 pm

      That’s a figure of speech right. Single Christians can’t have sex. It’s an abomination. Stay off it, bed undefiled is what the Bible says. Flee fornication, immorality and lust is the standard of the word. Don’t even wait to pray about fornicating. FLEE like Joseph is what the word says. God bless you.

  17. No name

    February 16, 2015 at 8:06 pm

    I hope someone out there isn’t giving your wife the “real deal”…..I feel bad for the both of you.

  18. MC

    February 16, 2015 at 8:07 pm

    Well aint no one round here trying to have ‘holy sex’ anyway…. thanks for the advice though, it certainly tickled me

  19. Missappleberry

    February 16, 2015 at 8:15 pm

    lwkmd! Nothing i won’t read online…lol

  20. sleek

    February 16, 2015 at 8:20 pm

    Buh he knows all them styles, isokay! Mak rick ros type dey ontop person everydaay..hmm u better do what works for u

    • erinma

      February 17, 2015 at 12:30 am

      LOL!!! That image is just hilarious!!

  21. bruno

    February 16, 2015 at 8:48 pm

    this is what happens when u watch too much mojo.

    you christains are a case study.

    • Mo'blezzin

      February 16, 2015 at 9:19 pm

      Ewww! Did you just say mojo? Really?! With all the open-eye you dey form for here …hehehe…bushman like you… to top it all up you fitn’t spell Christian! Shior!

    • vicki*_*

      February 17, 2015 at 1:01 am


  22. honey

    February 16, 2015 at 8:50 pm

    Are you sure this guy isnt suffering from Malaria or some form of brain issues that causes hallucinations?

  23. Joan85

    February 16, 2015 at 8:56 pm

    LMBO! BN, please kindly put this up on your BN Weddings Instagram page. I have a feeling the comments will be epic!!!


    February 16, 2015 at 8:58 pm

    If missionary was the ;last position on earth I won’t have sex anymore. Pastor please!!!!!

    • imose

      February 16, 2015 at 11:14 pm

      Hahahahahahhahaha talk to me!!

  25. BB

    February 16, 2015 at 9:01 pm

    Well I never really got to have that discussions with my parents how I came about (style wise that’s and they are both gone).. May be if our pastors here could confirm that he had such discussions with his parents how he was conceived then I might believe him but until then I will keep wondering why anyone won’t like doggy or giving head!!!

  26. nwakaibeya gburugburu

    February 16, 2015 at 9:02 pm

    tell the nigerian pastor Olugbenga Oladejo that JESUS CHRIST dont know him as pastor at all and JESUS CHRIST never called him,rather he called himself and he does not know the Jesus Christ he is using his name to make merchandise of his belly and we could proove this to him if he is in doubt as we are open to confrontation,The Nigerian Pastor has no liberation to offer himself and his spiritually blind followers who make love in their dream and cannot sleep at night and are under very serious evil spiritual attacks and he is talk about missionary sex and there are very many like him around who claim what they are not as far as JESUSCHRIST is concerned and using the name to deceive people all over the place and when you tell them the truth about the kingdom,the light,the mantle and the power that be that has come which they never knows till this day whiles still claiming to know JESUS CHRIST they will never agree and just like when JESUS CHRIST came before many like these pastors and prophets of this day never agreed that JESUS CHRIST has come then rather they balanced in their various synagogues then and was claiming that they too knows GOD?

    • Deeaa

      March 3, 2015 at 7:15 am

      This Nigerian pastors try con his followers. Try to feed his family with followers money.

  27. ceecee

    February 16, 2015 at 9:10 pm

    the moment when the pastor confuses “wet dreams” with “revelations”……..

    • tunmi

      February 16, 2015 at 10:24 pm

      lmaooooo….(kevin hart voice) nooooo noooo he wasn’t ready
      He knew it was an angel ehn? Vicky’s angels?

  28. faith

    February 16, 2015 at 9:35 pm

    What is he even trying to say?
    Very soon there will be classification of lies.. minimum lies, average lies and maximum lies too. Keep it coming.. pleasure is totally bereft from people’s understanding.
    The way they try to make as if it’s only sex will lead you to eternal damnation.
    There are other sins… greater than sex positions. The blasphemy of the Holyspirit.. focus on other sins too.

  29. bruno

    February 16, 2015 at 9:44 pm

    just look at the way he’s talking like a fool with a sick imagination just like every other nigerian pastor. sick people.

    pastors are uninformed, out of touch, dillusional people. you pastors read that dillusional fairy tale book too much and it starts to get to you head and mess with your brain. that’s why many nigerian pastors have erratic behaviours.

    • Mo'blezzing

      February 16, 2015 at 10:25 pm

      Delusional?? chai…oh boy, just type the word into google to double check the spelling first na…

    • vicki*_*

      February 17, 2015 at 1:03 am

      Lol!..ahbeg waytin dis Bruno guy do u na @”Mo’blezzing

    • vicki*_*

      February 17, 2015 at 1:04 am

      It seems u av an ish against Christianity?!..bruno

    • o

      February 17, 2015 at 11:11 am

      are you new to BN?? everyone knows this na!

    • Fact

      February 17, 2015 at 1:00 pm

      Oh Bruno is actually a satanist. That ain’t new

  30. Nahum

    February 16, 2015 at 9:53 pm

    Pastor please quote the exact bible passage that says doggie and cowgirl is unholy, then I will buy what you are selling

  31. Toju

    February 16, 2015 at 10:03 pm

    This dude is a stand up comedian

  32. ada nnewi

    February 16, 2015 at 10:14 pm

    This is the funniest thing i’ve heard this year!!!!! LMAO!!

  33. School fees

    February 16, 2015 at 10:20 pm

    The pastor lives in Engalnd where everything in life is free. So u cany blame him. Any man living in Nigeria paying crazy school fees in Greenspring, British international schl, Atlantic hall or Daywaterman deserves an overdose of doggystyle from his wife, plus 5am head in the morning to top it. Anything short of that won’t cut it!!!

    • Anon

      February 16, 2015 at 10:49 pm

      England where everything in life is free?

      Really? Some people pay for air at the petrol station to inflate their tyres…

    • MC

      February 17, 2015 at 10:42 am

      Wait! air to inflate car tyres is free in some places?!
      I feel like I’ve been cheated!

    • Stephanie-feld

      February 16, 2015 at 10:55 pm

      LMAO @ ‘an overdose of doggystyle from his wife, plus 5am head in the morning to top it’

    • imose

      February 16, 2015 at 11:16 pm


    • Duru John de Beloved

      February 17, 2015 at 9:00 am

      hahahahhahahahahahahahahha I am dead..

    • ThatAbiribaBae

      February 17, 2015 at 12:42 pm

      Do you actually live in England or at least visited because even the air we breathe, e remain small make we pay for am…
      School fees aren’t by no means free, ask those still paying student loans…

      Research before you open your mouth abeg

  34. Iris

    February 16, 2015 at 10:28 pm

    Ahn ahn. Where are all the so-called born again Christians that show up to say “Touch not the Lord’s anointed.”? LOL. Y’all be silent because this scenario isn’t working for you? All you “depraved” humans acting like a dog.or like a goat, or like a cow, or like a chicken or practising hanging …you shall all be roasted upon slowly by demons with all gay people, right?
    LOL he needs to go and find his equally unwell “eat da poopoo” counterpart in Uganda..

  35. *curious*

    February 16, 2015 at 10:54 pm

    whether God showed him or not, i don’t know. but i do agree with what he has said. Read your Bible, get to know God better. In knowing Him better, you’ll get it right almost everytime regarding what He approves of and what He doesn’t approve of. Everything is not going to be spelled out for us in the Bible.

    • *curious*

      February 16, 2015 at 10:58 pm

      oh the part about who’s going to hell, i don’t know about that one.

  36. imose

    February 16, 2015 at 11:17 pm

    Waiting for more robust replies lmbo! *runs away* ain’t no body got time for this!

  37. kemi

    February 16, 2015 at 11:38 pm

    Who made all these people pastors sef

  38. wizzle

    February 16, 2015 at 11:54 pm

    joke of the year … hahahahahah i cant laugh smh for pastor seeking attention

  39. jide

    February 16, 2015 at 11:55 pm

    Do people still take these hungry pastors seriously? Most of them don’t. Seem to know what the heck they are doing anyways.

  40. toyosi

    February 17, 2015 at 12:39 am

    ”Blow on my garden, that its fragrance may spread everywhere. Let my beloved come into his garden and taste its choice fruits”.- Songs of Solomon 4 : 16.

    • MC

      February 17, 2015 at 10:43 am


  41. nikky

    February 17, 2015 at 1:00 am

    So God did not show him the cure for ebola, cancer, Aids, even hepatitis or even show him how to defeat ISIS and Boko Haram it’s the ‘suffering of the children of God who are not having missionary style sex.

    I think this guy is tired of giving his wife head. He’s probably not sexuality attracted to his wife. And his constant reference to animals dey make me look this guy with side eye.

    • imose

      February 17, 2015 at 7:28 am

      Damn!! What a robust reply!! Rotfl…pastor oh pastor see what you have caused /causer

    • niks

      February 17, 2015 at 2:47 pm

      You have killed me o namesake. .chaiiii

  42. Peaches

    February 17, 2015 at 1:30 am

    I thought watching Emmaohmygods Beyonce video was funny… but this just put a cherry on top. Mehn… These pastors want to kill us… o ga o….

  43. Peaches

    February 17, 2015 at 1:32 am

    I guess I can still go and watch 50 Shades of Grey… right….. i mean there’s S&M and kinky sturvs in that movie….

  44. Laura

    February 17, 2015 at 1:39 am

    Pls did they per chance tell you God’s chosen speed we should move at when we are doing the holy missionary be4 we move too fast or too slow now and go and have the flesh on out souls hacked off lol

    • imose

      February 17, 2015 at 7:28 am


    • Ebony

      February 17, 2015 at 10:08 am

      You’re really here for the comments. Lol


    February 17, 2015 at 2:00 am

    Hahahaha…funny indeed

  46. The Seeker

    February 17, 2015 at 2:23 am

    Let’s all chill for a second video….i think he’d shoot another to say he was jus joking.
    He’s either sex-starved, over-sexed, or tried scissors position and embarrassed his soul before a hot, curvy, fleshy-legged gal with a callipygian -, den bcame ds bitter n took to ds treacherous campaign.

  47. Aisha Ibrahim

    February 17, 2015 at 3:19 am

    Wallah, this is one of those moments I appreciate Islam. Allah in the Quran says for husbands and wives to go into themselves whenever, wherever and however they please as long as they don’t go the anal route. If God is encouraging you to ENJOY, then who is man to say no? Allah says that he is not ashamed to say the truth even in man is, so, take that!

    • imose

      February 17, 2015 at 7:30 am

      This is another robust reply *laughing out loud*

    • Manny

      March 14, 2015 at 4:48 am

      Islam forbids oral sex too

  48. nwa nna

    February 17, 2015 at 3:35 am

    So, no doggy or 69 position?! GTFOH 😀

    • imose

      February 17, 2015 at 7:30 am


  49. ceetoo

    February 17, 2015 at 3:50 am

    How about Jihad style…

    • imose

      February 17, 2015 at 7:31 am

      This is cray!! Got more robust replies than I bargained for!! Made my day and night *laughs out and bye*

    • niks

      February 17, 2015 at 2:50 pm

      Which one is jihad style oooooooooooooo? Dead…much

  50. Jane

    February 17, 2015 at 7:15 am

    So if the thing hook husband and wife for mattress around#side style and bend down low is also sin..lolzxx common pastor..dont preach nonsence to me.

  51. Fleur

    February 17, 2015 at 7:31 am

    A beg, did I miss the book, chapter and verse in the bible where other positions besides homosexuality are condemned?

  52. BlueEyed

    February 17, 2015 at 8:17 am

    What of us that that kinky sturvs? Na our own hell worse pass abi? *throwing away my sex toys*

    • Taiwo

      February 17, 2015 at 8:57 am

      Please pass them to me! thank you for helping a sister out!!!!

    • Ngozi

      March 1, 2015 at 11:21 pm

      You are crossing sexual boundaries in the spirit. No sex toys or masturbation permitted In the presence of God. God originated sex and was there when Adam knew his wife but not every sexual practice is allowed even if you are married. It’s a hard meat to chew for baby Christians but the Lord will help us in Jesus name.

  53. Simsi

    February 17, 2015 at 9:31 am

    So after being a virgin, and keeping myself till marriage.. Someone will now come and tell me to practice missionary sex for the rest of my life. He must be joking

    • deb

      February 17, 2015 at 12:41 pm

      i wonder o!

    • Green

      February 17, 2015 at 6:38 pm

      Sincerely. Theses are part of the things I’m looking forward to.
      As long as he didn’t give scriptural back-ups, we’re still safe!

  54. Lady

    February 17, 2015 at 9:35 am

    Please where in the bible is it written that “missionary” is the natrual way or holy way??

  55. Tiffy

    February 17, 2015 at 10:08 am

    i’m crying, why? the comments are too hilarious
    i love BN!

  56. Queen Spicey

    February 17, 2015 at 10:15 am

    This reminds me of a story I was told about a pastor of one of these unpopular churches that prays before and after having sex with his wife. The wife complained to her friend who happens to be my colleague, that the husband prays before sex asking God to show him how to “Do” the deed so it won’t become sinful. And prays afterwards that God should forgive him and his wife if they enjoyed it, screamed too much and moaned aloud cause sex is for procreation not to be enjoyed..

    I had tears flowing down my face due to excess laughter while listening to the gist.

    • Merveille

      August 27, 2015 at 12:29 pm


  57. Igbagbogbo

    February 17, 2015 at 10:18 am

    See my naija women o!!! The freaks have come out o ready to be voltrons for our kinky ways. Dirty dirty girls.. Lol. Come on go forth and enjoy your missionary jare

  58. Saved

    February 17, 2015 at 10:29 am

    For those saying this will break pple’s marriages, any Christian who takes dis video serios must be a ‘learner’. We shud know jokes wen we c one. Fake prophets abound.

  59. Duni

    February 17, 2015 at 10:39 am

    I laughed hysterically initially…but now I’ve started wondering at the origin of these other ‘positions’. Didn’t most of them originate from porn? *justthinking*

    • Queen of the Coast

      February 17, 2015 at 2:35 pm

      Right Adam and Eve left the garden of Eden then decided to shoot a porn video to educate the children of men abi. KMT.

    • niks

      February 17, 2015 at 2:53 pm

      Nope. If you are pregnant how can you do missionary mbok? Some of them came from plain necessity and comfort.

    • ft

      February 19, 2015 at 6:03 am

      Where did missionary style originate from.?

  60. Ola

    February 17, 2015 at 10:41 am

    Does this pastor has is uk paper or he is just one of them that can lead him to hell n I think he should worry abt that more

  61. Mrs Christopher

    February 17, 2015 at 10:42 am

    Nobody has mentioned somerin very important ni. Missionary position even with a pregnant wife abi. E be like your wife never get belle before. Even my pastor daughter friend gets head from her husby, so she going to hell too. SMH.
    The only way I know is wrong is to go against nature which is called( very disgusting word ” anal”).

  62. Ebony Alabi

    February 17, 2015 at 10:46 am

    An Angel was taking Pastor around hell’s departments like, “here sir, they have the mild torture. Now if you will follow me I’ll show you the rest room.” He needs to stop eating cheese before bedtime. And stop watching Charlie and The Chocolate Factory.

  63. Toks

    February 17, 2015 at 11:59 am

    Hahhahahahahhaha I have no comment to contribute oh! I am purely here for the laughs, what the heck! This pastor na wa! Nigerians ain’t having it! Lmaoooo

  64. Gloria

    February 17, 2015 at 12:00 pm

    What if the man of God is right. Man know God for thyself…. Father, pls help us, may we not make hell. May we not miss heaven in Jesus name. Amen

    • Queen of the Coast

      February 17, 2015 at 2:38 pm

      Na una type the guy bin they find. Now forward 50% of your monthly earnings to his bank account just to be safe…weyyyydone ma pikin

    • Idomagirl

      February 17, 2015 at 9:06 pm

      Better go and read the bible for yourself and stop believing every nonsense because a ‘man of God’ said it.

  65. New bride

    February 17, 2015 at 1:06 pm

    Well considering that a few years ago in Open Heavens Daddy GO (aka Pastor EA Adeboye) wrote about oral sex being a sin and that we should not indulge in it, I’m not surprised this joker has put icing on the cake by saying missionary is the only acceptable position by God.

  66. Nelly A.

    February 17, 2015 at 1:14 pm

    Oh Yes! His members have arrived! Reasons why Nigerians are suffering from building churches and empowering pastors while their own family members, community members and loved ones lavish in abject poverty.

  67. Theresa

    February 17, 2015 at 1:16 pm

    There are no rules for married people regarding sex in the Bible. We are called to respect and love each other, and not deny our bodies unless it is in agreement. So go for whatever rocks your boat as a married couple. Pastors steer clear of the matrimonial bed of your parishioners please.

  68. Jagabal

    February 17, 2015 at 2:13 pm

    Its not fair o, una Don spoil. So no1 won give up the styles, even d kinky way girls
    Were u born with d styles ni…..lmao

  69. oy

    February 17, 2015 at 3:42 pm

    pekele pekele arugbo je gbese tani yo san

  70. Vicky

    February 17, 2015 at 6:42 pm

    I’m just going to drop this here:

    The Bible says that “Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral” (Hebrews 13:4). Scripture never says what a husband and wife are or are not allowed to do sexually. Husbands and wives are instructed, “Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time (1 Corinthians 7:5a).
    Whatever is done, it should be mutually agreed upon. No one should be encouraged or coerced to do something he or she is uncomfortable with or thinks is wrong. If a husband and wife both agree that they want to try something (e.g., oral sex, different positions, sex toys, etc.), then the Bible does not give any reason why they cannot.

  71. Oyiza

    February 17, 2015 at 6:56 pm

    These comments are more hilarious than the pastor dude in question…….kwakwakwakwkawkwawawa…..abegy

  72. Akin

    February 18, 2015 at 10:14 am

    “How terrible it will be for you, scribes and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You give a tenth of your mint, dill, and cummin, but have neglected the more important matters of the Law: justice, mercy, and faithfulness. These are the things you should have practiced, without neglecting the others. Matthew 23:23….

    I dare him to make a video about Leviticus 18:22…..

    This guy is a village pastor abeg. He can’t even form a British accent……hiannn!!!

    I know the truth and the truth as set me free from this kind……

  73. Abbey

    February 18, 2015 at 11:12 am

    Can someone please ask the idiot calling himself a pastor… how did the sexual act called Missionary style get its name? he should stick to evangelism with his local hood.

  74. Grace

    February 18, 2015 at 2:26 pm

    Pls brothers and sisters I just read this and it is the holy truth the pastor is saying. Let us not scold the pastor. If u still don’t understand let the holy Spirit direct you. Especially the oral sex is serious and not clean. God says if He is going to put ban on all things, all of us will rot in Hell. But He is faithful and just to forgive. Pls let us be watchful. Thank you

  75. TalesbyMoonlight

    February 18, 2015 at 7:31 pm

    As a married person who has plenty guilt on the occasional self pleasuring separate from their spouse, I listened intently to this video. Masturbation, on your marital bed or otherwise, is listed as a sin in the Bible so my rapt attention was beyond 100%. I however had to latch on to the unspoken in this video – the heart of Christ for the unsaved – which sadly was never conveyed. As a Christian I believe heaven is real and hell is real, based on the Bible so his premise when he set out to do a video is understandable. I honestly feel like this was lost altogether along the way though. I mean there is more to Christ and the Bible than whipping people’s emotion up for the eternal damnation looming, correct? The uncomplicated life one could live here on earth if we rid ourselves of greed and pride (also sins) is also a great reward, right? Couldn’t help but think the Bible also says sin can be found in a multitude of words or in the repetition of a select few, as was the case in this video. That is not to say he didn’t have a dream and saw what he claims but dreams like all spirits must be tested especially in the times we’re in. I digress… the moot point here is the fascination of all human beings with our stunted three lettered friend – SEX. It’s been from time and doubt it will ever change until Jesus comes. I love a better and more simplistic premise which is the relationship we can all have with Christ. One that says we can all come as we are and sin no more; if that sin be lying, adultery, pilfering or more. All sins are the same in the eyes of God unlike the pecking order we humans have come to list/have them in. In addition to Christianity, it could also be the African mindset and closeted abominable relationship with sex – I’d leave its subjectivity to the individual mind – and some acts being despicable that ultimately led him to manipulate his thoughts into the end product we watched. I could be entirely wrong on the bulk of my thoughts except for the surety of Jesus and the mercy He has available for all. I refrain on saying anything about the various positions (isn’t doggy the last resort size-wise in some marriages?), many comments covered that thoroughly and as much as I lol to those rapid/robust comments, many asked us to be led by our individual persuasions just like the Bible implores. I am the average Joan on the block, californiabawler past, future leaning towards Grace and currently everything in between…so no stones, I come with no judgments.

    • Eseosa

      February 18, 2015 at 10:23 pm

      Hian…….when did Obiahagbon start commenting on BN.
      The summary of all of these is that you masturbate abi

    • Ngozi

      March 1, 2015 at 11:27 pm

      Masturbation is sin and I am glad about your honesty and the fact that you feel guilty. Please don’t allow demons into your life. The Lord will help you in Jesus name. You can also go for deliverance. Honest people find help.

  76. demashi

    February 18, 2015 at 11:12 pm

    Wow, time to do some serious bible study cos am guilty on many counts. Irony is, engaging in these proscribed acts has enriched my sex life and in turn my marriage. What does a brother do now?

    • Colour Purple

      February 21, 2015 at 6:46 pm

      Brother abeg don’t allow all these fake pastors scatter your marriage. The bible says “the marriage bed is undefiled”.

    • misses

      March 11, 2015 at 3:12 pm

      Before you know, this pastor will give you areas in your house where to make love or not.

  77. CEO

    February 22, 2015 at 6:04 am

    He lives in the UK abi? That’s why. If you were here in Nigeria, mosquito was biting you, you’re drenched in sweat in your sleep because of the heat, NEPA didn’t give you light, Internet is a highly overpriced commodity so you had to mise it, he would be praying very hard and getting deeper sound revelations other than missionary style being the only way. That’s what happens when Road is smooth and no traffic, too much time on his hands for stupidity. Idiot! Doggy style is my favourite position with my husband. I hope I see you at the pearly gates, Mr. Cos I’m a be there!

  78. robo

    February 23, 2015 at 7:40 pm

    this man has mental problems, why is it that it is always hell that nigerian pastors visit. I ve never heard of any one that has been to heaven and back. Of all the bible verses he quoted which was actually talking about sex? He is on his way to hell cos he is actually lying cos he did not see any such vision. And he is just bent on breaking marriages, tell him to quote d bible portion that state missionary as the official sex position of married. He has obtained the cheap popularity though. But wait a minute i hope this man is not doing some cheap drugs oooo, if u must high, high responsibly

  79. Nick

    February 24, 2015 at 4:33 pm

  80. Yohanan

    February 24, 2015 at 7:07 pm

    Heb 13:4 Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge. If you are married don’t listen to this nonsense. God says marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled; as long as you aren’t breaking God’s laws, like cross dressing Deut 22:5, having sex on your wife’s menstrual cycle Lev 20:18, or anything breaking the sexual laws of Leviticus 18, it is lawful to do what you want in the bedroom regardless of whatever position you like.

  81. misses

    March 11, 2015 at 3:06 pm

    The bible say, Eat Drink and Enjoy because everything else is very useless. The very many styles in sex is part of the enjoyment. These naigerian pastors want to limit people when bible is clear!

  82. misses

    March 11, 2015 at 3:09 pm

    I forgive him coz he is a lazy man on bed and supporting laziness on bed, Men who follow this will never satisfy their wives and cheating comes iin including STDs-HIV.

  83. ola steve

    April 23, 2015 at 12:51 pm

    (Response to Nigerian UK Pastor)
    In reference to recent Video published by a Nigeria UK Pastor, condemning different sexual position apart from “Missionary” as shown to him in Hell, I have watched, listened and took some time to revisit and meditate on the scripture as it relates to sexual position in marriage.
    1. What is God purpose for sex in marriage?
    2. What sex position God approve or condemn?
    1. Purpose of Sex.
    a. Procreation. Gen 1.28
    b. Pleasure. 1cor 7.3-5
    c. Purity.1cor 7.2
    d. Physical intimacy tool. Gen 26.8
    2. Sex Position God Approve / Disapprove.
    From the Scripture, there is no specific sex position recorded for couples that God commanded, but sufficient warnings against marital infidelity. Therefore, if God created sex to be enjoyed by couples, why should a man imagine another law restraining himself/ herself from enjoying God’s gift?
    Let’s imagine this, a newly wedded couple, whom before their wedding were virgins or Born Again who have not been influenced with porn video, will surely exploit all styles that come their way. Sometimes Sex can be spontaneous, and this arises due to domestic posture of the wife, bedding, careless sitting, and sex appealing standing/ walking, all these will lead to different sex position.
    It is important to note that the position/location of Female organ suggest different positions, rear or front entry are easily exploitable, this shows God may have consider this at creation.
    In Scripture, sex is being refer to as food, 1cor 6.13, Prov 30.20, a man can use different style to eat his plate of rice, some use fork, spoon, knife, even hand, none of these style is a crime, but it is, if the source of the food is through stealing, likewise, it is not a sin to eat/ sleep with one’s wife with different style but it is a crime if it another man’s wife or daughter.
    If different sex position is enough to send Christian to hell, God could have mentioned it in the scripture, because HE took time to explain various sex we must not have. Lev 18:20-25, Lev 20:10-21. It is not difficult for God to add “thou shall not sleep with your wife with different style” Christ, in the New Testament was asked various questions about marriage and He gave the most insight revelation about it, Two shall become One, He says. No law was given to these 2=1 on how sex (token of their bond) should be performed.
    However, various style I believe is permitted by God, but Anal sex is unnatural, awkward and sodomy, there is no natural relationship between anus and penis, I give this judgment because, the style is peculiar to homosexuality/sodomy.
    I submit that this idea of bringing new things through revelation that is not in the Bible it is Satan’s effort to bring our tender heart into bondage, make us feel condemn when we are pure before God and put many homes into problem. Getting/ missing heaven is very clear in the Scripture , Gal 5.19-21 listed the works of the flesh that will make a man to go to hell,(none mention “wrong” sex position) Gal 5.22-26 listed the fruit of the spirit that guarantees heaven. Therefore this revelation should be discarded and rubbished since it has no basis from the Scripture.
    Ola Steve.

  84. Merveille

    August 27, 2015 at 12:26 pm

    OOOOOOOhhhhh my God…!!!!
    Why then did the Idiot marry her …!! Dam it …!!

  85. D T

    September 2, 2015 at 6:42 am

    Hi Guys,

    I thought about this, and my wife really freaked out. I felt like if this is true then it’s practically impossible to know what is right, because there’s no way in a million years I would have thought that doing only “Missionary” style is ok. I was a virgin when I got married, and that just seemed crazy. So I wondered how to live the Christian life with this new info. Well I brought out the bible and flipped to Galatians, and saw that what this man teaches is going against the good news of Christ which is that we are saved by FAITH, not by obeying rules. The church in Galatia was trying to become righteous by obeying Jewish laws like circumcision, special feasts, etc. Paul vehemently told them not to listen to anybody who said they needed to do that. They were trying to avoid hell by obeying a set of rules. Paul says:

    I do not set aside the grace of God, for if righteousness could be gained through the law, Christ died for nothing!” -Galatians 2:21

    That’s right. If we get saved, as this pastor suggests, through works of the law, then Christ’s death is useless. This pastor says that a lady went to hell for wearing ear rings. But Paul has a much different take on it – righteousness comes by faith. As for preachers like this who preach that we go to hell or heaven based on our works, Paul writes in Galatians:

    As we have said before, so I say again now, if any man is preaching to you a gospel contrary to what you received, he is to be accursed! -Galatians 1:9

    Paul goes on to say that it is absurd for them to think that they would somehow earn more merit or favor with God through obeying the law. He points out that they received the Holy Spirit not through works of the law but through faith. Almost nobody in the old testament got the Holy Spirit – but here God was pouring out the spirit on them all. Paul says it’s crazy for them to think that they will get something more by going back to a works-based system where the best you could get was less than they had now. He writes:

    This is the only thing I want to find out from you: did you receive the Spirit by the works of the Law, or by hearing with faith? 3 Are you so foolish? Having begun by the Spirit, are you now being perfected by the flesh?
    So then, does He who provides you with the Spirit and works miracles among you, do it by the works of the Law, or by hearing with faith? Even so Abraham believed God, and it was reckoned to him as righteousness. – Galatians 3

    This letter to the Galatian church was written specifically to address this kind of false teaching that people were trying to foist on the church. We would do well to remember that none of us gets to heaven by works, but rather by believing in God.

    On another note, I also thought about what I learned about God growing up. And what does every Christian kid learn? John 3:16! God so LOVED the world that he gave his only begotten son so that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life. God did not send his son into the world to condem the world, but that the world might be saved through him. OBVIOUSLY GOD SAW THERE WAS A PROBLEM, SO HE SENT HIS SON TO ***SAVE*** EVERYBODY, NOT THROW THEM IN HELL. God’s not some mean, freakoholik that’s trying to throw everybody in hell for every wrongdoing. Instead, we now have the Gospel, which translated means the GOOD NEWS that everybody, sinners like you and me can get to heaven because God made a way through Jesus! “Whoever believes in him shall have eternal life”

    I hope that helps somebody who may be having trouble with this. God loves people and sent his son to save them! What happened to this guy, I don’t claim to know, but I do know that if I shouldn’t believe an angel speaking to me something different, I sure shouldn’t believe some guy on youtube.


  86. Tony Conrad

    February 1, 2016 at 7:54 pm

    What a load of tosh. We must stick to the word of God which doesn’t legislate what one does in the bedroom. We would be pretty stupid to rely on one man’s so called vision to rob and legislate on our bedrooms.

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