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“There is no such thing as ‘Casual’ Sex or ‘Friends with Benefits'” – Ik Ogbonna



ik-ogbonna-sex-postActor, Ik Ogbonna has penned an interesting piece on sex and its effects on the human body.

In his latest Instagram post, he says “There is no such thing as ‘Casual’ Sex or ‘Friends with Benefits’,” adding that partners leave their “life form energy” in each other, and that this “energy is behind the elements of all flesh”.

Read what he wrote below:

See What Happens Each Time a Man and a Woman have Sex

Each time a man connects with a woman sexually and releases his life form energy within her, he leaves a part of his information (DNA) in her birth canal. If she doesn’t clean herself, his energy remain inside of her. That imprint can often create illusional sexual addiction to the individual.

When someone decides to have multiple partners, it can sometimes send mixed emotional signals within the inside of the body’s vibration system. Women must be careful of different energies or spiritual forces polluting their internal temple. You are a sacred doorway, where life is intended to pass through, respect yourself, use your gifts wisely!

Just think about it and ask yourself… Ever wonder why they call it sexual intercourse (INTER-Course)? It’s an inter(nal) course that unites man and woman, mind with mind, spirit with spirit, or energy with energy. This is something that a condom can’t protect you against because energy is behind the elements of all flesh.

There is no such thing as “Casual” Sex or “Friends with Benefits”… No, No, No, I Don’t Think So!!! Intimate activity intricately entwines the energies between two people.

Sex creates a powerful exchange of energy between those involved. These connections, imprints and debris are left upon the mind, soul and spirit for a long time because they are not easily purged or cleansed.

‘Casual sex’ with multiple partners can intertwine the energies and spirits of a lot of people into your own aura if they are not severed and cleansed. You become joined to every person with whom your partner has slept, as well as all the partners those people had.

This type of “soul clutter” can be felt by your partner’s subconscious. Even if they are not completely in tune or aware of the extra-curricular s.exual activities, they still are able to sense the subtle disturbances of multiple energies and/or familiar spirits that have entered causing restlessness and inner turmoil.

The longer and more intimate the contact with another person, the more powerful the reinforcement and the interaction of the bond becomes, and all the more difficult it is for them to untangle and leave.


  1. Marian

    November 24, 2016 at 3:31 pm

    Oyinbo don release condom since now

    • Marian

      November 24, 2016 at 3:52 pm

      Lol, Read the whole thing now so he made a case for condom too. Nice one, but why can’t the guy respect himself and not be sharing his energy around? When God said your body is a temple, He was talking to both sex. Guys! “You are a sacred doorway, where life is intended to pass through, respect yourself, use your gifts wisely” for without your sperm, life can not grow in the woman.
      Since this energy thing is immune to condom shouldn’t that mean both parties are at risk. Why advice the females alone when it obviously takes 2 to tango?

    • TeeS

      November 24, 2016 at 4:37 pm

      Happy Thanksgiving
      It’s 34F and people like myself who aren’t getting none ??? are under the blanket keeping ourselves warm.
      It’s 9am. What to have for breakfast ? Oatmeal , honey bunches or Cocoa Puffs ???
      Kolaches sound nice too???
      What are y’all eating for thanksgiving ?

    • tunmi

      November 24, 2016 at 5:14 pm

      I really want some swallow foods: ego with egusi would be so good right now and some catfish peppersoup

    • Hermione

      November 24, 2016 at 6:15 pm

      How about some eggs, toast and tea. Happy Thanksgiving……

    • Tiv Girl

      November 25, 2016 at 9:42 pm

      Live in Houston?

    • fleur

      November 25, 2016 at 7:30 pm

      Ok oh Dr. Ogbonna. I will have to return to the laboratory to test some of ya theories cos they are clearly new areas of research on the intersection of reproduction and spiritual being. On a serious note, there is a lot of merit to what he is saying. I just dont agree that when you shower properly you erase the imprint of your sexual partner. That is the part I shall apply for funding to pursue.

  2. oo

    November 24, 2016 at 3:40 pm

    Why so graphic though?

  3. Stella

    November 24, 2016 at 3:42 pm

    This atical is too good to pass it by, nice one IK

    • A Real Nigerian

      November 24, 2016 at 4:13 pm

  4. Ms_Eleeza

    November 24, 2016 at 3:46 pm

    This article was originally penned by someone… Can people just give credit for things they share on their personal social media handles already? Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhba

    • Who cares

      November 24, 2016 at 5:23 pm

      I was going to say the same thjng. There is even a video of the guy that said all this. Personally, I think people should mind their business about other people’s sexual habit and devote their times to doing things that enhance their personal lives, whilst at that, they should also give credit to where they get their “brain waves” for posts from and not write it like it’s the gospel and they came up with it on their own.. ah mean, we burn people for theft.

    • EFIKO

      November 24, 2016 at 5:42 pm

      True, cus i know i read it in one christian book like that. can’t remember the name.

  5. Roro

    November 24, 2016 at 3:49 pm

    Where is he getting his info from? I’ll just ignore the partriarchal tone of this message which only emphasizes on women receiving energies into their “sacred pathways”. People buy into all sorts of pseudo-science without thinking if it makes sense or not.Come to the Western world and see people who have multiple one night stands with strangers, these people are still doing just fine without any of this energy clutter B.S. Abeg if you talked about how having multiple sexual partners can increase one’s chances of catching an STD, then you would be making sense, not this specious tale you’re spinning.

    • Bimbo

      November 24, 2016 at 7:39 pm

      This is not even up to the level of pseudoscience, abeg! Just jargons ! Hypocritical and sexist too !

  6. Sheeba

    November 24, 2016 at 3:51 pm

    so why do people break up after years of dating?

  7. Sheeba

    November 24, 2016 at 3:54 pm

    So why do people break up after years of dating?as per the last paragraph”” the longer and more intimate, all the more difficult to entangle and leave”…….I thought it gets boring over time ….

  8. Sheeba

    November 24, 2016 at 3:55 pm

    *untangle and leave

  9. A Real Nigerian

    November 24, 2016 at 3:56 pm

    This is one of the most idiotic things I have ever read.

  10. tunmi

    November 24, 2016 at 3:59 pm

    It is still very one-sided in focusing on women. Men… Control your penises.
    Everyone… Let’s try to avoid sexual lyrics transmitted infections.

    Happy Thanksgiving guys. What is on the menu for today?

    • Marian

      November 24, 2016 at 4:10 pm

      Happy Thanksgiving. I started early so i had Turkey, mashed potatoes, green beans, corn and pumpkin roll at midnight courtesy of the kitchen staff at work and one of my favorite coworker. It’s my work week so coworkers who are off are cooking and bringing part two in later today.

    • tunmi

      November 24, 2016 at 4:33 pm

      Awwwww that’s awesome. My boss (Salone) has an event layer today. I’m bringing homemade Amish white bread.

  11. A Real Nigerian

    November 24, 2016 at 4:11 pm

    See the kind of foolish, ignorant men that make up the elite class of the Nigerian society. From elected officials to celebrities, you can barely count 20 people that have sense.
    Look at the foolish, senseless logic that an adult is shamelessly putting up online for people to see. Na wa o. Later, someone will give this one “Celebrity of the Year” award.
    Stupid country with stupid people.

    • Nene

      November 24, 2016 at 4:36 pm

      He is certainly not elite. He’s not even an a list celebrity

    • Sharrap

      November 24, 2016 at 8:03 pm

      Shut up your dirty mouth there, you are always quick to talk down on Nigeria. Besides that’s his opinion, and celebrities in the US also have dumb opinion. You don’t appear smart yourself for the record you fool..

    • Dan.

      November 25, 2016 at 12:25 am

      @a real (you’re so FAKE!) Nigerian: You are “”STUPID”” personified. You are STUPIDEST and MOST STUPID OF THE MOIST STUPID incarnate. Even the “”stupid”‘ know you and mock you as “”STUPID”” and shake their heads at you and jeer and point out you to all the world as “”THE STUPID ONE”‘. STUPIDITY is your past, STUPIDITY is your present and STUPIDITY will forever be your only future unless and until if and when you fully and publicly repent and make complete restitution for all your curses on Nigeria, Nigerians, and Africans (which were actually curses on yourself, boomeranging and backfiring on your head and never once touching those you thought you were cursing/speaking against, but then, of course, your STUPIDITY never allows you to recognise that).

  12. Anonymous

    November 24, 2016 at 4:21 pm

    Real true bro. #Respect. Many Pple don’t know. It takes the experience to know. It was directed to females more bc they are more emotional than men and at the end of the day more vulnerable.

    • Bimbo

      November 24, 2016 at 7:41 pm

      More vulnerable to spirits ? Lol

    • Anon

      November 25, 2016 at 2:59 am

      Women are not more emotional than men. Women are AS emotional as men. People can be emotional and logical at equal measures or differing measures, based on their individual personalities and environment. Men’s reactions to football, when fighting with their friends, starting wars, domestic violence etc is that not emotional? Psychologically, historically and biologically it has been proved false. People just go their whole lives repeating what they hear without thinking about whether it makes any sense at all

  13. Busarni

    November 24, 2016 at 4:26 pm

    This is plagiarism na; give credit to whom it’s due. You don’t just lift articles without referencing. Smh…

  14. Nene

    November 24, 2016 at 4:34 pm

    I beg to differ

  15. Bunmi

    November 24, 2016 at 4:48 pm

    Lol!!..what is this ni to ri olorun Ehn!!
    Never read so much crap in my life!!

  16. Sonia Paloma

    November 24, 2016 at 4:55 pm

    some people get married and all of a sudden turn into Genesis and revelation of relationship matter
    Abolo go and sit down abeg

  17. Ikeji Adams

    November 24, 2016 at 4:59 pm

    Utter NONSENSE, stole from some where and trying to tell his dumb moronic followers he’s so smart, gonsit your sorry a** somewhere and let’s see how long your partime marriage will last. By the way who is guy…

  18. Ads

    November 24, 2016 at 5:17 pm

    Once Nigerians get married they become experts on all things

  19. Lolita

    November 24, 2016 at 5:58 pm

    Very sexually active, been fuccng for 10yrs + & not once has anyone jizzed in me. How does that fit in with you this gibberish? And i can fuc em and leave em, no emotional ties, sex is just like food. All the sexual spirituality mantra actually hails from paganism not christianity, just another pagan concept absorbed into christianity.

    • J J

      November 24, 2016 at 8:22 pm

      Lolita, how can we hook up? I like eating a lot too

    • Nene'sMa

      November 24, 2016 at 9:14 pm

      Hahahahahaha Just negodu sharp guy!! Becareful of awoof o!

  20. Suga

    November 24, 2016 at 6:42 pm

    Dear Ik Thanks for the message. I Understand Why a lot of People are bashing you because a lot of people don’t like to hear things as it is nowadays and what ever happened to advise….. If it’s a half naked woman pictures, a lot of us will come here and write “slayed, sexy, etc. For me the message is very clear and simple, avoid multiple sex partners and avoid having casual sex because it also matters even though you may not realise it. I must say that I’m really impressed that this is coming from him (he looks as good as a player) and for some people that have said that he is writing this because he is now married, its better late than never. You too can change for the best today. It can never be too late whilst you are still alive. He who have ear let him hear. So long!!

  21. fancynancy

    November 24, 2016 at 7:07 pm

    Was IK a virgin before he met Sonia?If i hear! Please stop trying to sound educated and intelligent , it doesn’t fit you! stick to licking your lips and flaunting your chest.

    • Xoxo

      November 24, 2016 at 7:56 pm

      You mean dry chest ????.. But he made some sense tho. Just that the article seems one sided. And give credit to the real writer of the article.

  22. J J

    November 24, 2016 at 7:36 pm

    Lolita, how can we hook up, I like to eat a lot too.

  23. FeeFee

    November 24, 2016 at 9:11 pm

    IK…keep your unsolicited advice to yourself.

  24. bonnie gee

    November 24, 2016 at 9:41 pm

    dis is wah my supervisor will call plagiarism…. u copied n no refrencing 4 further readin….

  25. Fifi

    November 24, 2016 at 9:48 pm

    So all those married mummies he is still gbenshing for small small change i hope he is breaking the soul ties ooo ☕️☕️☕️

  26. Marlvina

    November 24, 2016 at 11:51 pm

    ? This post and write-up by IK will upset so many. Kpele o. True words tho IK.

    • Anon

      November 25, 2016 at 3:03 am

      All these self-proclaimed holy people and good Christians like IK and marlvina that only go online to judge people for listening to secular music, having sex and wearing weaves. If only you people spent the time you used for judging to preach God’s word and His love. You guys would rather preach about Hell and how everyone (except you guys) will end up there for breathing, than preaching about the redeeming beauty of God’s love and why they should pick heaven instead. Marlvina that only knows how to insult people and use harsh words and names on them is now acting like that is a lesser sin than fornication

    • Marlvina

      November 25, 2016 at 10:17 am

      Eh yaaaahhh the post is paining you too? Kpele o! ??? I’m blind to you Anon. Your words don’t even define me. Not one bit, so I ain’t moved. But jst for the records, You don’t know me personally, so you have no right coming here to spit out rubbish. But then it’s ur own stinky view, so suck it in dirty. Also if your conscience pricks you as its doing at the moment, why don’t you sit and have a reflection on your life rather than finding ways to divert the subject matter and justifying ur actions. Im not a pretender, to hide my views or bother what people wld say. If I see something that’s against my values and what I stand for, I speak on it. It’s left for you to pick your side. No vex ehnn. Be bold and come out. ?

  27. tamunotonye

    November 25, 2016 at 2:43 am


  28. Ememobong

    November 25, 2016 at 8:10 am

    The Bible already gave us the policy manual ions ago, thou shall not fornicate nor commit adultery. Mankind is just in the habit of breaking laws and being led by our flesh. Bottomline, if we all decided to close leg until legally married, it would help us avoid unnecessary heart break and tears ? especially on the feminine side.

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