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Woman Raises Speculations Online after Sharing Videos of her Deceased Brother in a Dispute with His Wife



The deceased, Chuks Okebata

A Nigerian man was murdered a couple of days ago in Imo State by unknown gunmen.

According to his sister, he had served in the U.S military and recently “completed his mansion” in his hometown.


The sister said on Facebook:

What a wicked world…. who has done this to My BIG BRO? A USA veteran who just came back this Xmas after building his beautiful house(mansion)in the village not knowing that the enemies has an evil plan against him.

They abducted and shot him dead yesterday night. I Can’t believe this, can someone wake me up from this nightmare? Who did this to u Bro?????? ?

I could remember the last time we spoke on phone that whn u come bk, we will visit the LESS PRIVILEGE nd nt knowing dt this will be the last call we made. Can’t stop crying for you BRO CHUKS . An iroko has fallen. Those that killed you will never know peace and their generation will never go unpunished. GOD WILL AVENGE FOR YOU R.I. P (LA NA UDO)???????

While nothing is yet known about the deceased’s murderers, one of his sisters has gone on to Facebook to share videos of an altercation between him and his wife (who is also a Nigerian) in the U.S.

Clearly, the couple had issues with custody of the children, as his wife ordered him to leave the house otherwise she will call the police. He also attested to the fact that he had no right to be in the house at that time as he told the children to call the police if they want to come with him, otherwise he’ll go to jail.


Watch the videos below:


While Ada made no allegations, some commenters have alleged that the woman had a hand in her husband’s murder.

Others say the videos are not enough evidence to claim that she had a hand in his death.

It is also fuelling discussions on whether the sister should have posted the videos online instead of taking it to appropriate authorities if she had any allegations.

What are your thoughts?


  1. Madman

    January 17, 2017 at 2:34 pm

    Evil woman

    • Teetee

      January 17, 2017 at 3:43 pm

      What an apt name for an [email protected] – so a 30second video is all it takes to convict of murder??? I’m glad the wife isn’t in.nigeria cos it can be a very backward place this looks like normal argument between couples no big deal at all

    • Binam

      January 17, 2017 at 6:37 pm

      She shouldn’t have told the man to get out of the house or she would call the police in front of the kids, as if she was talking to a criminal. He shouldn’t have called her mad either. Since the kids love their dad so much, I think she is the one with the problem. Shouldn’t they have spoken Igbo? From their accents, one can tell that they understand Igbo. Why speak in fake American accent in front of the kids, when they could’ve spoken Igbo. This video does not point conclusively that she is responsible for the death of her husband, but she is clearly a suspect. The venom in her voice showed how much she hated him. She could’ve easily made arrangement for him to be assassinated. Why did he feel the need to make a video of their quarrel? Did he feel threatened in any way? Maybe he wanted to show his friends and family members how ungrateful the woman he married and took to America had turned out to be because she realised that as a woman, the American justice system favoured her. One thing is crystal clear: this man was killed by paid assassins. We can only speculate as to who is responsible. We shouldn’t dismiss this video as an attempt to demonize the woman and implicate her in a crime she knows nothing about. She COULD be as guilty as sin( “could” is the operative word) or innocent. I pray the truth comes out someday.

    • moi

      January 18, 2017 at 4:41 pm

      so because the children love their father she’s the one with the problem, pls wen u become a mother come back and comment and stop saying things u don’t know about children. Children mostly love their dad even wen they don;t see him cos fathers hardly beat their children but most mothers are saddled with the responsibility of disciplining their children , most children end up loving their mom wen they grow older cos thats wen they understand the sacrifices she made, so pls withdraw this ur conclusion.

  2. Madman

    January 17, 2017 at 2:36 pm

    It is better not to marry and to be at peace than to marry a bitter, angry and mentally retarded woman.

    Poor man. May be RIP. No investigation in Naija. Only God can avenge his death.

    Sometimes family will warn us not to marry mad women but because of societal pressure we marry them anyway. Then reality sets in.

    • Teju TJ

      January 17, 2017 at 2:41 pm

      Is this one normal. That you name is what suits you.

    • Madman

      January 17, 2017 at 2:56 pm

      Normal enough to not visit a therapist.

    • Mark

      January 17, 2017 at 6:18 pm

      Stay single and die single then you pathetic soul. Due to know the core reason behind the argument. Are you involved in the marriage in anyway. People paint you the picture they want you to see and interpret and you jump on the bandwagon like the lost little child you are. Better pray ignorance becomes you distant relative, else you’d have a lot of explaining to do when your offspring come of age as to how and way stupidity was that sibling that got the best of them!

    • Madman

      January 17, 2017 at 10:32 pm

      Another roaming MAD man. Welcome to the club.

    • Big lad

      January 17, 2017 at 10:15 pm

      Marriage is overrated rather co-parent baby mama things

  3. Tiwa

    January 17, 2017 at 2:37 pm

    Is really not fair to post this kind of video of private matters between husband and wife on SM. All homes have their issues and no sister has any right to post this on SM in a bid to disgrace anyone. I’m not even going to judge because there are two or more sides to every story. RIP Mr Chuks; may God comfort your family and father your children IJMN.

    • Mama

      January 17, 2017 at 5:07 pm

      Madam Tiwa may you not lose a loved one let alone a blood brother!!! A woman who is full of hate can do anything. Nigeria is the best place and by far the easiest to have him killed as there will be no trace. May he continue to rest in peace!!!

  4. Teju TJ

    January 17, 2017 at 2:40 pm

    This really made my blood boil. What the absolute f! What foolish hell did she put her brother through? Couples fight. So what she called the corps? What I can not comprehend is how women are saying the sort of rubbish they are saying about this woman. What a correlation – he fought with his wife while he was in the U.S…..we don’t know how long after he went to Nigeria and happened to be assassinated and somehow his wife is responsible? How do we think in this part of the world?
    Not to speak ill of the dead but what kind of man tells his kids to call the police on their mother. Why are you bringing the kids into your drama? You and your partner are fighting, fight your fight. Leave the kids out of it.

    • TeeW

      January 17, 2017 at 3:16 pm

      Happy someone just typed with sense. Like this video is enough to conclude she killed him really just really, why do Nigerians like to take the myopic lane. Not saying anything against the dead but we don’t know what he must have put her through. He is big she is smallish he might have bullied her enough we don’t know. What kind of father tells the mother of his children mad you are mad in front of the little children. Also we don’t know how long he spent in Nigeria last year, what if he had an altercation with someone at the club or at a bar and they sought out to revenge. Not because we don’t have CCTV doesn’t mean we should not use brain and think outside and inside the box.

    • Adanne

      January 17, 2017 at 3:39 pm

      Thank God for thinking people like you. I cannot believe the comments on this thread. She is an evil woman? How did we reach that conclusion? From a a snippet of a fight that started before the camera was turned on? May God console this family for their loss but the dead are not automatically absolved of every wrongdoing they did before the died. They both are responsible for the breakdown of their marriage; it doesn’t mean that either one wanted the other dead.

    • maren

      January 17, 2017 at 3:46 pm

      exactly oh! in nigeria when a man dies, then it must have been the wife who killed him. what couple doesn’t have problems? which married couple hasn’t fought? foolish sisters now are insinuating that a wife killed her husband based on a fight they had. nigerian in-laws sha!

    • A Brother

      January 17, 2017 at 4:30 pm

      While I am not insinuating that the woman was involved in the assassination but a few things need to be observed.

      I happen to live in a western country and a man (I might be seen to be biassed) but lets look at things objectively.
      The man recorded a series of videos of their arguments. Why will he do that?
      In the western world, the women have the upper hand in this kind of situation. The police or authorities normally will believe them more than the men.

      I suspect that the woman might have told a lot of lies against this guy that he started recording some events to defend himself. Did you hear the part where the police officers arrived and was asking about a gun in which he replied that he did not bring out any gun…..he asked the officer what is he talking about? Could the woman have told them he pulled a gun (as a US military officer, he most likely will have a license to carry)

      On the part of getting the son involved, am not sure if you hear Igbo (which I do), the woman told him categorically in Igbo that he will put him into jail…….that was when he told his son to call the police and tell them what his mum was saying………he was basically holding to anything he can to get access to his children. If the son speaks to the police, the police will listen more than himself speaking to the police. Saying that the kids should not be involved in my opinion was already late because the kids were already involved and the older one is definitely old enough to understand everything going on.

      While there are always two sides to a story, I suspect that the guy recording these events is his own cry for his innocence (whether he is ‘innocent’ or not, I do not know)

      Many Nigerian wives take advantage of the women friendly law of western nations and abuse it. At the slightest provocation, they threaten to call the police or kick the man out of the house (a house most likely he even got before marrying the woman). This is so annoying and very sorrowful (I have seen friends sleeping in vehicles or outside because their wives kicked them out so I know the experience)

      Hope the sisters will stop that abuse. Infact when my wife came over, I told her that while we can argue, quarrel and have misunderstandings about anything and settle (well am honestly not the violent type so her life will never be in danger with me) but two no go areas are calling the police for me or throwing me out of the house because any day that happens, I will definitely take a walk.

    • A Brother

      January 17, 2017 at 4:49 pm

      And why I will not be quick to accept that the man was evil (he might be though) is that I know a different case of a close relative in Nigeria. I know the couple very well and the story but by the time the woman goes to tell her friends and relatives (including social media) on how such an evil man the husband is and turns stories upside down with so much lies, I will be wondering if it is the same case that I know or another one and there is a general tendency for the woman to be believed because the society see the men as the stronger sex and therefore will always be the one trying to bully the woman.

      There are many evil men out there just like there are many evil women……we just pray we do not fall into the hand of the wrong one

    • fola

      January 17, 2017 at 5:09 pm

      A man that doesn’t want to go to jail can make the kids call the police and tell them the truth.

    • DEB

      January 17, 2017 at 5:46 pm

      That’s true. And moreover who knows ? It might even be one of his family members that killed him. Maybe they posted the video in order to distract the public.

  5. shady

    January 17, 2017 at 2:48 pm

    What hurts the most is that those boys luv their father. U can see that they became distress when the wife asked him to leave. The fact that they will not see him again is gut renshin . I hope the heal.

  6. Chydee

    January 17, 2017 at 2:58 pm

    Exactly! Couples quarrel, why are we seeing just videos recorded by the man. What was his intent. We have a funny way of thinking…we get so emotional about things and fail to be objective. It is a pity the man died, but their should be enough evidence that it was caused by his wife before we all prosecute her.

  7. No name..

    January 17, 2017 at 3:11 pm

    Someone wants that property after the divorce, so someone arranged for someone to be killed.

    • Author Unknown

      January 17, 2017 at 3:39 pm

      Maybe I’m not getting your comments, but you don’t divorce someone by killing them, and neither killing nor getting a divorce guarantees she gets the property.

    • foxy gal

      January 17, 2017 at 5:59 pm

      that is exactly what I was thinking. they know there is no way in hell his American kids would come back to claim property in the village. so they killed the poor man.

  8. NIRA

    January 17, 2017 at 3:13 pm

    When you people read the wife’s version, or read the late guy’s posts, you’ll recoil in shock. Forget the videos, the woman had suffered so much in the man’s hands. More stories are available online.

    • Blueberry

      January 17, 2017 at 5:36 pm

      Online where? Please give us a source for fair judgement.

  9. Nurse Jandel

    January 17, 2017 at 3:25 pm


  10. Sisi

    January 17, 2017 at 3:30 pm

    This is sad. Those children have no father now regardless of all this noise and drama.

  11. ec

    January 17, 2017 at 3:38 pm

    what is this now. oh my God. The children!!! Why put them through this. There is obviously another side to the story. From the video the woman seemed calm, and the deceased seemed to be trying to prove a point.

  12. Sisi

    January 17, 2017 at 3:38 pm

    See the childrens different reactions, why can’t parents see that the long term effects are not worth all this. This is truly sad.

  13. Mahka

    January 17, 2017 at 3:40 pm

    What was the intent of this video? unfortunately, we might never know. Its very clear this couple fight often and probably violent fights, hence ‘calling the cops n get out of my house’. When couples fights, why not privately or at least not in front of kids that way memories of their once happy home isn’t scared and why instigate them to choose sides/ spread the word. .’tell your school teacher’. Such an unhealthy environment though he seems like a loving father, the boys were excited to see, they would have just sought help to resolve their issues,
    We really don’t know the back story to this event but I don’t see how the wife ‘killed’ her husband while in 9ja, plus this just highlights one side of the story( consequences of a single story).
    Chilling video, how will poor Obinna n his brother take the news that daddy isn’t coming back again, they probably were used to his jail trips at least they knew he will always come back.
    Again, he s ex military, will the US investigate.
    RIP Chuks…so sad.

  14. angelic

    January 17, 2017 at 3:51 pm

    This video really made me sad…i don’t even know what to say. I just feel so much pain for those boys. why do adults have to put innocent children through such nonsense! Father Lord, heal our homes and our hearts. plus what kind of man records everything that happens in his home like that *confusedface* I don’t want to preach, but my dear sisters and brothers, please know God and allow him work through you.

  15. No name..

    January 17, 2017 at 4:00 pm

    People forming intellectuals now…… waiting for the other side of the story, …truth is, someone ordered that guy killed,… that someone knows herself…… at least he is dead now, you too don’t die, stay and live forever na……….those who know definitely know….BN intellectuals carry on o…

    • Jade

      January 17, 2017 at 4:13 pm

      Clearly you are the sister that leaked the video online, tell us what your brother must have done , tell the story from the beginning so that we are sure. Those videos don’t prove jack!

  16. Chu

    January 17, 2017 at 4:01 pm

    I was spitting mad when I read this on fb and fought everyone I could fight over it. There are so many myopic Nigerians, especially women who should stand up for one another. I’m too weary to speak on this matter again. But if I were the lady I would sue the poster of the video for defamation of character.

  17. iyke

    January 17, 2017 at 4:24 pm

    Chaiii… igbo nation has lost three igbo sons.
    No way will these kids ever return home again…
    And that big mansion will be take taken over my either the late guy’s greedy/lazy elder brother or his crazy younger brother.
    Marriage ehhhhh…Hmmmm…..Marriage obodo oyibo ehhhhh…Hmmmm. O di kwa egwu o.
    Why can’t people just walk away if love doesn’t dwell in their hearts anymore?
    Na so one Yoruba accountant that I know is now sleeping in his car – His wife kicked him out of their home….a home (Mortgage) the he is still paying for. And to make matters worse, wife’s boyfriend, another yoruba dude had moved in with his wife.And he dare do anything….
    Marriage!!!It’s not BOYS!

    • Paul Adeyemo

      January 17, 2017 at 4:56 pm

      Are for real, is that US or UK

    • iyke

      January 17, 2017 at 5:29 pm

      Seriously …dude’s case get as e be.. …wife couldn’t give him a baby boy after two girls coupled with other usual domestic wahala in marriage ….he went to naija and secretly got another lady. pregnant. Somehow, first wife found out and na so wahala start…Their redeemed pastor if dat one no do for am, he impregnated one asylum seeker for their redeemed parish who desperately wanted to have an anchor baby. Dude, due to his influence in church tried to talk/persuade her to abort the baby….asylum seeker disappeared and appeared after 9 months with a carbon copy of the man – A boy. Meanwhile lady in naija had also put to bed earlier.
      Wife abroad found out, and all hell was let loose – he was kicked out from his three bedroom home and warned never to come close to the house by the authorities.
      He now has two boys – one with the girl in naija and this one with the asylum seeker who had already applied for leave to remain based on having a EU child. She is not even interested in marrying this dude ..
      Dude is now left with paying for a mortgage that he would never live in and having to see another man sleep in his home.And catering for kids he didn’t wish would turn out this way…
      This case is just one of thousands of cases of Nigerian marriages abroad….Most are messed up big time and it’s pretty scary.

    • Akin

      January 17, 2017 at 6:19 pm

      Guy na u dey talk truth for here, all these people wey never live abroad b4 they talk anyhow…some girls abroad will so frustrate a man life abroad all bcos the laws favor them. thats why i am not buyin any house here.

  18. Iou

    January 17, 2017 at 4:24 pm

    @Chu you are so right, she needs to sue the person who posted this, I cannot begin to imagine what this poor woman is going through. So she is now a mustered because of a personal quarrel between she and her best ranged husband????I hope she has a strong support system.

  19. Iou

    January 17, 2017 at 4:25 pm

    ** murderer**

  20. Paul Adeyemo

    January 17, 2017 at 4:27 pm

    There is something fundamental wrong with the Igbo culture, their women are stubborn naturally when they get abroad, the become something else. Their men unfortunately wants a submissive wife, the mix of these 2 contrast is a recipe for disaster. There are Igbo spousal killing than any tribe in the western world for Nigerians. Hope the wife won’t show face in Nigeria.

  21. Annie

    January 17, 2017 at 4:40 pm

    Biko, don’t come back to Nigeria, cos i know people…

  22. YYC Mama

    January 17, 2017 at 4:41 pm

    I will not be surprised if the sister who posted the video is the one responsible for his death. A family member is surely involved in the guy’s death, now they can take over his ‘mansion’. Luckily for them, the guy left a video for them to easily cover up their tracks. No be Nigeria?

  23. TEES

    January 17, 2017 at 5:01 pm

    All you unsolicited voltrons please shut up and sit down .

    First ,this woman had reported her abusive husband before now ,she was advised to call the police when next he goes violent on her.

    Before now he paraded himself as single on Facebook,put up other women’s pictures and promised to put a compare and contrast picture between his wife and the women outside so people can see the other women have a better backside than his wife .

    He knew what was up as he had left home for days only to return and started taking a video,did you hear her talk to her sister to move back in case he became violent on her .

    He knew what he was doing when he tool that video so if you were fooled by his saintly act ,then you need some brains fast .

    His sister was quick to share the video but forgot to mention how much her brother showed off in a club in Nigeria .

    I don’t understand people,you know Nigeria is very unsafe especially during the Christmas holidays,then you came home to open your house ,spend millions at the club according to some and got kidnapped .

    What has getting kidnapped got to do with a bad marriage? Or hell at home as the sister put it .

    Please if you picked up someone’s daughter to marry at 19, you think you have got a fool,even fools get wise ,she has two boys ,she is of age and she lives in America so sorry unlike your Nigerian counterparts ,the cops will be called on you .

    Kindly bury your dead in peace ,this woman did no wrong ,all she did was marry your brother who has publicly disrespected her ,the boys need their mother as that’s who they have and may God and the authorities arrest the killers asap. Stop looking for a victim in his wife the woman has suffered enough.

    If she killed your brother nemesis will caught up on her but stop pointing to her as you are too useless to caution your abusive brother

    • truth

      January 17, 2017 at 7:17 pm

      My dear, just because she reported doesn’t make it true, I have witnessed a nigerian igbo woman get screamed at and shoved out of the way when she blocked her husband from coming into the house and then she was advised by her American friends to call police and claim he beat her and locked up for days. The police came, and as we know, saw a black man and decided, oh he must be guilty and arrested him. And once he had a record, he was fired from a his job as a lecturer. And all she can do is claim she didn’t know he would lose his job when a domestic violence charge was brought up against. She begged for forgiveness saying she was trying to teach him a lesson that it was the devil and bad friends. He was instructed by his family to divorce her before he loses everything he built before she came into his life. He did so and remarried an american born nigerian girl and is happy has been happy with his new wife for 7 years now without problems. There are people who bring only the worst out of you and when you continuely see that, please leave that friendship or relationship. So my dear when most nigerian women cry foul, I say show me prove, and their words are not good enough.

  24. Beyonce

    January 17, 2017 at 5:23 pm

    its only in Nigeria that the dead automatically becomes Saint. ..*may his soul rest in peace. …that video doesn’t prove her guilty. ..They had a quarrel like every other couple. ..she asking him to leave her house shouldn’t be deliberated on…I hope the murderers behind his death are found soon and dealt with. ..

  25. truth

    January 17, 2017 at 5:23 pm


    • A Real Nigerian

      January 17, 2017 at 5:51 pm

      Is that why you are shouting?

  26. Blueberry

    January 17, 2017 at 5:35 pm

    OMGGGGGG! Are you kidding me?!!!!!! No disrespect for the deceased but when he was taking these videos was he in his right mind? What mature person takes videos when they are having an argument with their spouse infront of the children. My God!!!!! What world do we live in?!

    So it is because of this fight, that the sister now wants to tag her sister in law, a murderer?!!!! I don´t get it?! So what? If you fight with your husband today, and he dies tomorrow, you become a murderer?! This sister better watch out with her indirect allegations o! A fight between a married couple is not enough proof. Let´s be fair in judgement.
    In anycase, I always believe in karma.

  27. Amaa

    January 17, 2017 at 5:36 pm

    Dear sister inlaw what you have done is all shades of wrong this is a an argument that was shot in the privacy of your brothers home with your nephews. If you were in some parts North America you will be in jail for this and get a fine. You brother had issues with his wife no biggie everyone goes through stuff in relationships. Picture this that your tech savy nephews got hold of this video on line what will they think of their aunt. You have let your hatred and spite for your wife’s brother consume you. Your ill adviced action will bear serious consequences to your relationship with your brothers family. Thankfuly she is in the states where laws protect her . You have just lost your brother and by extension his kids because of hate. Hopefully you will receive some sense after this

    • foxy gal

      January 17, 2017 at 6:01 pm

      Gbam. Hate has consumed her. she has also come off looking foolish.

  28. Weezy

    January 17, 2017 at 5:47 pm

    The video does not prove anything other than that the husband and wife hated each other and she wanted him to leave the house. Does that mean she somehow arranged for somebody to kill him in Nigeria? I doubt it. I don’t trust the sister who posted this video one bit.

    All I will say is be careful who you marry or have children with. This man’s actions and way of talking remind me of Nigerian and Cameroonian men I’ve gone on dates with in the US. The kind that mocks you because you dare to be just as or more intelligent than him or you dare to tell him no. Thd kind that is used to being worshipped by the women he has dated or the women in his family. One guy seemed to think because his family were chiefs in his village, that he could talk to me however he wanted and mess with my mind (lying over stupid things,etc)
    They are always shocked when I end things by date number 3. Relationship is not by force. Nigerian women (and men) you need to shine your eye. Ask questions from day one, pay attention to how this person talks about himself how he talks to you, how his family behaves and how he handles his family’s behavior. If you think singleness is bad, try being married with impressionable children to someone who despises or disrespects you.

  29. Naba

    January 17, 2017 at 5:51 pm

    Before u marry a woman and take her abroad if she is a wayward bitch, have her sign a prenup stating if you divorce, she leaves with what she brought in to the marriage only

    If she doesnt sign dont you dare take her to the airport talkless of abroad

  30. Tee

    January 17, 2017 at 5:57 pm

    Hmmm i am not sayin she kiiled the man, but its not today that guys are scared of even shouting at their spouse abroad bcos of the i will call the police syndrome. my uncle wife will pursue him all over the house just so my uncle will be pushed to the wall to touch her so she cud send him to jail..eventually my uncle left the house he bought for her. guys if u wan marry abroad be careful ooo and if u wan bring girl here make sure she is God fearing and not arrogant oo, bcos the moment she knows the law favors her and it get into her head u wont rest again. I remember i went to a girl i was datin and we were just playing touch me i touch u game..the next tin she said is if u are not careful i will call the police..o boy after the banging i spoke to my legs and i no gree return there. this is very common with girls in the UK and US…thats why they are all single mothers.

  31. Corolla

    January 17, 2017 at 6:26 pm

    Wow! It’s those kids I feel sorry for. Witnessing their parents fight, being dragged into it, and now having an aunty post it online is enough to damage them for life! The wife may have been physically abused by him, and she may not have. She may have ordered hitmen to murder him, and she may not have. Seeing as Igbo women rarely inherit their husband’s property, he may have been killed by a family member who stands to gain something from his death, and he may have really been killed by kidnappers.

    That video shows the level of hatred in that marriage, but does not prove that she murdered him. It however to an extent, provides motive on the wife’s part. At this time, only God knows the truth, but I just hope those beautiful children are not damaged for life.

    • Prince Charming

      January 17, 2017 at 6:44 pm

      @Kolo, what will damage the kids for life? Don’t lay a curse on innocent children oh. Sicko!

  32. Cynthia

    January 17, 2017 at 7:03 pm

    His village people killed him to collect that house in the village. Cos madam and kids are not coming back. That poor woman must have gone tru a lot too. He’s also very arrogant. Calling her a mad woman. I pray those umunna that killed him, will know no peace in that house, and will die in that car. They should look inward. She can even kill him in the USA . May he’s soul rest in peace.

    • ao

      January 18, 2017 at 11:59 pm

      I suspect that you may be right about collecting a home in the village.

  33. temitops

    January 17, 2017 at 7:30 pm

    Honestly im not surprised at the late guy’s family claims, cos its usual of blacks to always claim that the wife killed the husband and shes always gulty of anything that happens to him.
    This reminds me of my very terrible MIL who said that my husband was hitting me because i provoked him, even after narrating all that happened.

  34. Observer

    January 17, 2017 at 8:15 pm

    I suspect the sister is trying to deflect attention away from herself. She needs to be investigated.

  35. ab

    January 17, 2017 at 8:18 pm

    Look how the man is even talking to her…’get out’ .’you are mad’, ‘i bu onye ala etc… well all I know is that ‘Something happens when a man refuses to treat his wife right! The minute you start disrespecting your wife by engaging in activities that does not honour your marriage, be it cheating, beating etc you cross the line and God can never be in that matrimony. Ofcourse we know what happens when God isnt in something…death, lack of prosperity, misery, pain etc. The same goes to a woman too, do what you have to do as a woman whilst in there (if you choose to endure oh) as much as it is painful to watch him dip on the family, shed those tears before God oh and just watch things unfold! God is your husband and will surely fight for you! if there is anything I have learnt in this my young life, it is not to strive with man…God wont either because he has said his spirit will not, but that man or woman (if they do not change) well we know what will happen and please we cant blame God when evil, bad things begin to happen because God wasnt there in the first place!

  36. Me

    January 17, 2017 at 9:44 pm

    Marry well, men eager to marry home trained naija young girl- This is what happens when the story of their love becomes sour.

  37. nene

    January 17, 2017 at 11:12 pm

    nollywood story line. for all we know, the killing might’ve been planned by some close family or extended family members. we can’t blame the wife.

  38. Nahum

    January 17, 2017 at 11:35 pm

    Wow!!! So things have gotten so bad for Nigerian women that if you have a fight with your husband and he dies, it means you killed him… First of all, the fact that dude was filming the argument obviously shows that he was provoking her into a fight to record her response, why? What was he hoping to use the recordings for? Anyone? Does anyone have an answer to that? Second, men are always running into shady deals and characters, did anyone check to see if he was owing someone money or if he duped someone out of a deal? Anyone???? Of course not!!! In typical Nigerian fashion, we further traumatize a grieving widow and her kids by airing her dirty laundry on SM and calling her a murderer. SMDH!!!!!

  39. Nahum

    January 17, 2017 at 11:37 pm

    And the worst part is, it is a fellow Nigerian woman doing this, i am just disgusted and fed up with you lot

  40. Tatafo!

    January 18, 2017 at 5:38 am

    In-laws….fear them

  41. misssofty

    January 18, 2017 at 9:21 am

    Whether she had a hand in his death or not,but she is a wicked woman,heartless.

    • mela

      January 18, 2017 at 6:15 pm

      Just because you watched a few minutes video. I pity you really!

  42. moi

    January 18, 2017 at 4:52 pm

    the guys sister who posted this video is the evil one, that my opinion

  43. ao

    January 18, 2017 at 11:55 pm

    The video does not prove that the widow killed the deceased.

  44. Judgejudyjudy

    January 19, 2017 at 1:48 am

    This is really sad. May his soul rest in peace??.
    I am struck by how much his kids loved him, in spite of it all. But, you see, this is the Western world and a “good father” does not necessarily make for a healthy, stable environment for the child and THAT is the first thing the authorities would look at and worry about. Clearly, something had happened to get them to that point and I suspect there had been domestic violence against the woman. When this happens, the violent partner is removed from the premises until they can work something out- either they live separately or the violent partner “does something tangible” as evidence that they are working or have worked on themselves and are now better individuals. It could be going to a government recognised Anger management outfit and showing proof that you’ve gone through rehabilitation sessions with them, etc.
    I suspect that after they had had whatever altercation that caused the police to come and physically remove him, he came back after having “gisted” his family of the “abomination” that had occurred. At this point, everybody is in “disbelief” of what has happened and are shocked at how their iroko’s wife could now, after having been lucky enough to marry their US based iroko, turn around to become an ungrateful, wicked, evil and selfish woman.
    To show them just how “wicked and ungrateful” the woman he “picked up” had now become, the man goes back to his home, knowing very well that the instruction normally given to the partner asked to retain the home with the children is that they call the police immediately the violent partner tries to come back, and proceeds to “show” them exactly what he means by videoing the whole incident.
    I don’t think that these videos have anything at all to do with the sad incident that happened in Nigeria. It could be related, but I seriously doubt that. It is tough to be fair. I feel sorry for all the parties involved because those children have become scarred. I wouldn’t advise anyone to get the police involved in their marital issues in the Western world as it opens up A LOT in your home that you may find difficult to extricate yourself from. It’s fifty-fifty, sometimes it helps both parties realise that they cannot act anyhow and they decide to do better, other times, the level of abuse uncovered when the authorities get involved might be such that they insist that the abusive partner have no/supervised access to the kids so the family automatically becomes broken. I feel sorry for them. ?

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