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“Ask God for strength to stay faithful” – Nike Adeyemi on Infidelity | WATCH



On a new episode of her weekly “Conversations with Nike” vlog series, Pastor Nike Adeyemi discusses infidelity in marriages.

The ‘Conversations with Nike’ series feature short, down-to-earth and impactful encouragement from Pastor Nike.

In this episode, she has a message for people who struggle with infidelity in their marriages, both men and women, discussing how it begins and how it may be stopped.

Watch the episode below:


  1. Chief

    November 29, 2017 at 1:28 pm

    Nike, i respect your opinion but please don’t use bible quotations or religion to tame/advise men the way God created us..Religion introduced marriage and marriage cannot change the way God made us.Ask God why he created us to be promiscuous and why we seek multiple partners?? Anyway,it is for biological reasons..We are living in a society where women are trying to take away our natural instincts as men.Women should understand men’s nature.Men do have much testosterone crucial for sex drive.High testosterone in men makes it hard to limit ourselves to one woman.Men did not evolved to be sexually monogamous species which is evidenced by the fact that we rarely only have one sexual partners for our entire life..

    Male libido drops when we commits to one woman.We do lose sexual interest in our women easily in marriages/long term relationships but that doesn’t mean that a man no longer gets aroused or attracted by his woman but it’s just the fact that lack of novelty lowers male libido and reduces sexual desire..I’m getting tired of saying this over and over…Men were polygamous throughout history,even our ancestors married many wives..modern men in the recent era just become monogamous due to modernity,religious values,western civilization and social pressure.

    Pastor Nike talk to women that are programmed to be monogamous to stay faithful.Anyway,my comment doesn’t imply under any case that cheating should be accepted but just an attempt to give you a better understanding of the male brain.Self control is a difficult task for most men especially in marriage.Thanks

    • Lola

      November 29, 2017 at 2:13 pm


      Women also love attention AND affection from more than one man.

      Women also get bored in monogamy.

      Women also have hormones that can trigger feelings to be explored.

      Gender makes little difference. Societal norms make all the difference. And this is why you believe what you do. Go and live in the UK and see how the females aren’t afraid to discuss their sexual needs and escapades. If we try it here, “ashawo” will become your pet name.

      Don’t get it twisted Sir. People who cheat, do so because they want to.

    • Ade

      November 29, 2017 at 6:09 pm

      Chief, just because you typed something so long doesn’t mean you made any sense sir! Try again and this time come correct

  2. Engoz

    November 29, 2017 at 2:26 pm

    Monogamy is for civilized people.

    • Chief

      November 29, 2017 at 3:43 pm

      Lola ..

      Most studies suggest that lustful tendencies including spontaneous sexual thoughts,uncontrolled or unwanted thoughts and spontaneous physical arousal are a lot more common in men than in women.Women tend to be less interested in sex theses days after birth.Men are naturally more promiscuous,women are biologically prone to monogamy(hard wired for monogamy).Women sex drives are influenced by social and cultural factors.we all know that women sex drive are more vulnerable to influence.

      Since you want to talk about women hormones,do women search for drugs to boost their sex drive??.Men have shown to have more frequent and more intense sexual desire,number of partners,frequency and variety of sexual fantasies than women.We produce millions of sperm everyday and our penis must ejaculate on a regular basis to create fresh sperm.Women don’t cheat for biological reasons like men do.period!


      Your ideal of monogamy for civilized people is an irrational one because the truth is that all men(civilized and Uncivilized) sexual appetite are such that the majority won’t be satisfied spending a life time being faithful to just one woman.Insisting on monogamy at all costs and ignoring the truth about men sexuality,we as a society are rather putting burden on marriage/relationship.I truly believe it would be easier if men and women learned to accept the truth that a man’s love for a woman is not dependent on his fidelity.And sex is not necessary better or more exciting with someone you love.Believe it or not,this doesn’t not usually mean that cheating men didn’t love their wives/girlfriends.Finally blame it on men’s nature.Thanks

    • Engoz

      November 30, 2017 at 1:38 am


      What differentiates us from animals, is not giving into our base instincts. Base instincts is a subconscious urge, behavior, or intuition directed by primeval, animalistic, self-serving, and/or ignoble motivations. The ability to control our base instincts makes us civilized. There is even research to prove intelligent men are more likely to practice sexual exclusivity to one woman.

      Monogamy is for civilized people.

    • Lucinda

      November 30, 2017 at 11:46 am

      Hey chief, you are borderline retarded. It’s a suggestion not an insult and I think you should see a specialist who will make sure your quality of life is not affected. Just because something takes effort doesn’t make it unnatural. Right now my knees and ankles are on fire from doing 5km runs daily. I have family history of endometriosis, diabetes and heart disease and after several health scares I have decided to learn self discipline and control. This is taking into account that I have very slow metabolism and it takes time to lose just 1lbs in comparison to other people. I can take it as the way God created me or work harder on self control. Monogamy is not a myth. It is real. Men are lazy. This childish narrative must be discontinued immediately.

  3. bored sombori

    November 29, 2017 at 3:25 pm

    Is it just pastor Nike’s time to shine or has Uche now joined day star? i ask because i believe she has always being doing her sessions on Instagram without BN going to down load same for its readers and there are other messages there as well.

    Please help my curiosity by answering my questions.
    thanks for answering in advance
    God bless you

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