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“Anger only hurts you” – Lola Omotayo-Okoye shares Tips on how she Rises above Negativity



Lola Omotayo-Okoye, the wife of music star Peter Okoye, is sharing some Tuesday evening nuggets on how to rise above negativity.

In a post on her Instagram page, she explains how she is able to stay sane and composed even when so much negativity is thrown her way.

She says:

People send me DM’s asking me how I remain sane and composed when so much negativity is thrown my way and my answer to you is simple: Anger only hurts you! What people think of you is none of your business, you just need to live your truth! When your sense of satisfaction and self worth is derived from the opinions of strangers then truly you are not in control of your happiness. This constant need of validation from randoms is so unhealthy. We are always told to stay away from negative vibes or negative people but then how will you grow your Love and Compassion if there is no one to upset you, hate you, hurt you or rub you the wrong way? Only YOU are responsible for your pyschic hygiene, only you can clear and fill your energy with love and goodness everyday, no one can do it for you and you can only do so through life experiences good and bad. Aim to be kind to your enemies and haters. Your acts of kindness are never wasted because ultimately, God sees your heart and that is really what matters at the end of the day. Wishing you a blessed week my Insta-fam! ??????❤❤❤???? #lollipop #truth #love


  1. Smh

    November 27, 2018 at 9:23 pm

    BN, how does it make sense to prioritize creating new posts whilst holding up people’s comments for hours, it’s like you people don’t understand the business you are in at all.

    • yes maam

      November 28, 2018 at 4:05 am

      They know their business. People pay for posts. If the comments are not positive., They could lose money 🙂

    • lol

      November 28, 2018 at 4:50 pm

      YOU don’t understand their business if you THINK comments puts money in their pockets lol

    • Smh

      November 28, 2018 at 6:57 pm

      If YOU understood their business, you would realise people COME here to read comments, i.e. comments drive traffic. Afterall what’s new in what BN posts? Nothing

  2. Sammy

    November 27, 2018 at 9:59 pm

    That truth

  3. Yawn

    November 28, 2018 at 4:14 pm

    I think this girl should stay off social media. You can’t keep indirectly responding to your Inlaw drama online. Just not cool, you begin to look and sound bad.

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