TJ O’Karo: Born Ready, Born Sexy

Posted on Monday, November 19th, 2012 at 1:20 PM

By TJ O'Karo

A few weeks ago, one of my guys had a dilemma.He had been dating a girl for a while. He really liked her and was thinking of taking things seriously. She had told him that she was a virgin and he had no problem with that. According to him they finally had sex and it was okay considering it was her first time. However, by the second time they got down, girlfriend had seemingly acquired some skills, for in his own words “she was everywhere!” Now my man is down with the “lady in the streets but a freak in the bed” thing but what unsettled him was the fact that she appeared a lot more experienced sexually, given the fact that her experiences were almost non-existent. He told me that she swore she had only seen porn once and he was just at a loss to explain her sudden sexual experience!
So the issue raised the question of whether some women are born to be sensual/sexy while some are not.

I have a friend who complained that men just see her and the first thing that pops into their minds is “Can we hook up?” “Can you come over to my place?” Whether she’s wearing that “I’m-off-to-the-market” bubu and has her hair in a scarf, the guys didn’t seem to mind. I laughed at her story but truth be told she does seem to have this extra sexiness about her. I then had a conversation with my colleagues (three women) about why some certain women (who sometimes may not be particularly fine) seem more sexy/sensual than others. We came to the conclusion that some women just naturally ooze sex and seemingly attract more men to them than the average girl.

I daresay that some women are naturally i.e. born sexy and ready. They may not be the prettiest or wear Brazilian weaves or dress expensively. No, their sex appeal goes beyond the physical, which might be attributed to their giving off more pheromones than the average girl. They are those kinds of women that would walk by and all a guy can think about is how to get with her.

I had a classmate like that in school. I would not say that she was particularly pretty or my type but for some reason I just wanted to have sex with her! We would talk and joke about it and I would invite her over to mine but she always laughed it off saying, “TJ! You eh!” I shared my feelings with another one of my classmates and he said he totally understood. In my mind, this is nature’s way of evening things out, of making things fair. For we all know of gorgeously beautiful and sexy women who were revealed to be frigid, they just do not enjoy sex.

On the flipside of things, I have heard so many women go gaga at the sight of a certain Idris Elba, who to quote one of my colleagues is “a beast”. According to her and a few other women, the first thing they think of when they see a picture or image of him is ripping his clothes off. There are women, married and single, who would gladly let him have his way with them. I ask why and they say there is just something about him that screams “sex!” and good sex at that. Now I do not think Mr. Elba is as gorgeously handsome (not my words o!) as Denzel Washington but I think that with respect to sex, most women will pick Elba over Washington.

So back to my friend’s dilemma: we figured out that maybe she had learned a few tricks from M&B books, movies and other material. Or maybe she was the kind of girl that sex comes easy and naturally to, so that even by the second time, it is like she has been having sex for years. So I chastised him and begged him not to scare her away with his apprehensions. For I think that many women learned to be less expressive than they would be because of fear of what their men would think of them.

In all, as highlighted above, this is just nature’s way of balancing things out (read as differences) and of making sure that things go on as planned. While some women are born this way, some are not.

PS: I have a couple of theories that may explain nature’s role in ensuring our dominance as a species. Time and BN permitting I may just share.
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    • Dayo November 19, 2012 at 1:32 PM

      Bro, are you per chance related to the O’Duwoles (or perhaps the O’Koros)? LOL… Naijas and form!

      • Nawa November 20, 2012 at 6:25 AM

        Idris Elba is not sexy and his d* ck is small,I know someone who knows someone who’s sleeping with him.he is not sexy at all

    • Garner November 19, 2012 at 1:34 PM

      interesting write-up!! some people are just born that way!!

      • anon November 20, 2012 at 12:15 AM

        I agree some people are that way thats why some inspite of all the movies or past experience are still rigid

    • nems November 19, 2012 at 2:17 PM

      TJ, I would love to hear some of your other theories. I think some people are born that way, I personally think other than pheromones there are some certain features like fuller rounder lips or the way some girls walk that make them instantly sexy.
      Calabar women especially the ones from the village have a reputuation of being great in bed and not all of them are beautiful according to today’s standard or have a lot of experience or access to M&B or porn, they have these features and are very expressive maybe there is something in their water OR they are born that way.
      http://www.anemistyle.blogspot.com

    • hmm November 19, 2012 at 2:37 PM

      woule love to read peoples comment ….because i have this problem…most guys i meet…..usually want to sleep with me….and me im not ready for that…..and the annoying thing is i dont expose myself …usually the covered/conservative type….i want a serious person…not someone attracted to me for sex….

      • Beau November 19, 2012 at 7:08 PM

        Girl my advice for you: move to mars! Because that’s where u’re probably gonna find a man that’s not attracted to u for sex. Man=Sex! They can’t help it, too much testosterone.

    • Penshy November 19, 2012 at 2:42 PM

      Hey guys. Well 
      i agree with the women in your office. Some women are just naturally sexier than others.its the same reason why mila kunis was placed as the sexiest woman alive. She just has something that other woman don’t (sexually). Nice piece Tj.

      • bcgeorge November 19, 2012 at 3:20 PM

        Penshy, hmm ;)

    • T Baba aka Pres OBAMA is my cousin on my sister's husband's Uncle's Aunt's GrandMas side 4 times removed... O_o November 19, 2012 at 2:43 PM

      I think some people just ooze sexiness… O_O
      I don’t consider myself the finest horse in the stable, but the ladies always seem to wanna jump my bone… #TrueStory

      • Bleed blue November 19, 2012 at 3:31 PM

        Maybe because you’re Obama’s relative na

    • 'A November 19, 2012 at 2:50 PM

      You just talked about me. I’m a bit plain (I know I’m not a beautiful girl,not even pretty but just there). While growing up, even till now, I never and still do not have guys walk up to me to ask “can we date each other”. Nope,it has always been “hey,you’re sexy,let’s hook up”. It was always a source of embarrassment to me cos i felt it was cos I’m a plain chick and there was nothing they could do with me aside have sex with me. I was raped at a very young age and i still tell myself prolly that was why also.
      Coincidentally, my fiance wanted sex from me when we first met also. I was just coming out of a relationship and he waited (thinking I would give in) and before we knew wassup, he’d fallen in love. He says it everytime that I ooze sex but I just never understand. Guess that’s why he’s quick to tell me “ah,that guy just wants to be your friend, he wants something else dearie.Tell him you’re engaged o!”
      I think guys are in the best position to explain this sexual thing they see in women. That’s why folks will say beauty is way different from sexy.
      I’m sorry i wrote an epistle.

      • hmm November 19, 2012 at 4:19 PM

        Oh my …you just wrote my story ….was also raped young,, and used to think that has to do with it a b it……hopefully I would meet someone soon too……

        • Funmi November 20, 2012 at 1:56 AM

          ‘A and hmmm… Your attractiveness does not explain why you were raped. PLEASE do not live your life thinking this. The allure you have as a woman is a great and positive thing. Rape is evil; an act carried out by monstrous animals. Do not allow the horrible actions of some monsters who could not control themselves to taint your opinion of what is truly an amazing quality that you have. Someone else deciding to misuse it at a time when you could not fight back does not take away from what you have. Children with absolutely no sexual awareness or appeal get raped too. All this means is that some people are twisted and deserve to rot in jail, then hell- not that your appearance or attractiveness is responsible. What happened to you is in no way your fault or that of your appearance.

    • Tiki November 19, 2012 at 2:58 PM

      I know for a fact that I’m not the prettiest girl on the block, but I get propositioned a lot more than my more ‘conventionally pretty’ friends! Someone told me a long time ago that I’m so unashamedly confident in what charms I have and totally unapologetic for what I don’t, that people can’t help but feel the same way about me!

      Disclaimer: this was not an advert! lol

    • Diva November 19, 2012 at 3:12 PM

      I can totally relate with this article beacuse i have had similar issues in my relationship. i consider myself a very sexual person but i guess when one says that, people think “promiscuous”. Im in my 20s and ive had two boyfriends. My friends tease me sometime s for being a “no nonsense nanny” but the two boyfriends ive had cant understand why im sexually skilled and extremely passionate. People need to realise that sexiness is inborn. Some people have a fiery side, others are not so lucky….and those with this inate fire are usually those guys and girls alike, find extremely sexually attractive. Finally,that sex appeal has little to do with looks…even though im a knock out..haha

    • Lucy November 19, 2012 at 3:24 PM

      Funny analogy. Why is it that its the not so pretty ones that oozes sex. I don’t think, they do. I think its guys that think hey, they don’t need to stress themselves wooing them, because there isn’t competition. I’ve heard guys tell me that before. I hear,lucy, u know u r a very fine girl ehn, you fine girls, your wahala is too much, too much competition from other guys, you expect to be romanced, wined and dined, cos that’s what guys do, to win you over. Even when they have become boyfriend sef, they have to be on their toess to keep you happy, cos u won’t be single for long. With unnattractive girls, guys don’t have to form swagger, or try to impress or go all out. They get straight to the point, cos such women, are quite easy to please and simple. I’ve heard not one two, or even 10 guys tell me so. A few of them have even said they will not marry a fine girl, cos they can’t be having high BP, wondering who is toasting her when they r not there, and they can’t be wanting to punch every guy that smiles at their wife even when she’s standing right beside him. With a not so pretty girl, they’ll have peace of mind. Let’s just say, i’ve lighlty kicked or punched them when they’ve said so. And yes, those of them that said so, an d are married now. U guessed it, madam aint so all that. The only sad thing is, these men that wanted peace of mind, are chasing after pretty girls after marriage. You can’t please some men. Honestly

    • Dee November 19, 2012 at 3:36 PM

      Even as a woman I notice that some women ooze sex appeal. As I get older I’ve also noticed that I seem to come across as more sensual and I thing it has a lot to do with how comfortable you are in you body. By the way men should please stop suspecting women when we demonstrate good skills in bed. These type of attitude is responsible for most women pretending to be passive in bed. At the end of the day its the same. And say Nigerian women are unadventurous in the bedroom.

    • Mz Socially Awkward... November 19, 2012 at 3:36 PM

      I agree with the above theory and have always known I’ve exuded a certain amount of sensuality ever since I was younger but thank God I was never raped, like ‘A was above (my heart goes out to you, sister, how very devastating but I thank God you sound like you’re on your way to being healed from that).

      Maybe for me it’s the big lips, big bum and curves but whatever it was, straight off the bat in Uni, even when I knew I wasn’t giving it up for anybody, that didnt stop the propositions from rolling in and yep. like a few of you already said, I never got the “will you be my babe?” propositions. It was always the offers to hook-up but now looking back, I kinda see why. Only wish the younger me had the benefit of this insight then… would have saved a shedload of heartache :-)

    • 'A November 19, 2012 at 3:37 PM

      I sort of agree with you Lucy as regards men not having to stress themselves wooing them. But you’re coming from the point of probably an attractive girl. Trust me,you should see how guys with way beautiful girlfriends/wives still go after some plain women. What could be the attraction? Is it still the case of ‘easy to woo’? I don’t think so. Some girl ooze sex and some don’t. It’s not every plain girl that oozes sex and not all beautiful girls are not sexy. I’ve seen a thousand and one beautiful girls that are damn sexy.

      • Lucy November 19, 2012 at 4:40 PM

        Well i think its the philosophy of, if uve been having filet mignon all the time, sometimes you just want to have a plain ol’ burger. I didn’t make that up, i heard that the very first time from a guy. I grew up with brothers, so i have more male friends. Lol. Show me a beautiful woman, and i’ll show u the guy who is tired of sleeping with her. That phrase sure scares me shitless sometimes, but bros knows he has it good, and we are great together. A man who will cheat, will cheat, whether he is married to miss world or her plain jane 3rd cousin. One thing we may have to agree on, is that men see not so attractive girls as fair game, and i think it is insulting. A man should make the effort to woo a woman, whether she’s hot or not. Hotness should not equate worth the trouble.I’ve heard it too many times, and i’ve seen it too many times, its not just a myth. Plus i’ve observed it with the girlfriends and wives of my guy friends who said, they can never marry fine girls. They get treated better than their finer ex’s and the guys revel in it, and sometimes tell me, I told you so lucy. I didn’t have to work too hard for this one and i still get treated like a king in the bargain. She’s loving, kind, she’s sweet, very appreciative, didn’t have to chase to get sex, she’s willing, bla bla bla. WTH, kuku label her boring and get the hell with it. Later u’ll start itching again, and go after the fine ones. Some men, love the chase. Mschew. So you see, its the men, that can really honestly tell the sex appeal thing. Cos when u find out the real reason behind it sometimes, its not so pure and simple. Don’t even get me started on the story about one guy and his village calabar girl, that’s when i knew the myth about them, may just be made up

        • Mariaah November 19, 2012 at 5:05 PM

          Aunty Lucy gist us naa poppy dog eyes******

    • zino November 19, 2012 at 3:41 PM

      i totally agreeeeeee….some girls just ooze sex appeal. I have a friend whose like that, and shes ok facially, body wise she ok. but when she walks into a room, or grocery store(EBEANO) all heads turn, LITERALLY. My friends ask if she went to finishing school… lmaoo

    • Anonymous November 19, 2012 at 4:01 PM

      Well……. I suppose some women are sexier than others. But I’m more concerned with your friend’s response to his girlfriend’s sudden sexpertise; why the apprehension? So she became amazing after one go-around; so what? If it were the otherway round, would he expect her to be ‘apprehensive’? Or just accept the fact that he’s a guy and has proably been around the block and back again? And he wanted to sleep with he in the 1st place so shouldn’t he be happy that she’s great in bed? Your frined should relax. Wome have just as much right to be sexually experienced and enjoy sex as men do . It may come as a shock to him, but women aren’t here just to reproduce and make sex enjoyble for the guy; we want to have fun in the sack as well . Also, correct me if I’m wrong, but a guy( at least an experienced guy) knows physically when a woman’s a virgin. So, it’s not like she lied about it. When she suddenly ‘improved’ why the askance?Is he accusing her of cheating on him? When a woman’s good in bed, she’s a slut; when’s she’s not , she’s frigid and boring. Abi, he wanted to be the one to teach her all the ‘moves’? Your friend sounds like he has issues with a woman’s sexuality. Tell him to get with the programo orr go and find some woman he can teach about sex. That might make him less ‘apprehensiv’.

    • Anonymous November 19, 2012 at 4:11 PM

      Besides, the topic and the contentent are at odds with each other. Younever said your friend’s girlfriend had that ‘come hither’ thing that makes guys want to sleep with a girl. You simply said she became great after one go-around. That has nothing to do with sex appeal. The ‘come hither’ girls aren’t necessarily good in bed, they just have looks that make men sleep with them. So one doesn’t necessarily equl the other.

    • Chydee November 19, 2012 at 4:34 PM

      Hahahahahah,Guys and their plenty Wahala….

    • Naija Realist November 19, 2012 at 5:12 PM

      Er…some of you apparently need to disinguish between being seen as sexy and being seen as easy.

      • Que November 19, 2012 at 6:59 PM

        hahahhahahahahahahahah….ROTFL!!!! Best comment ever……GBAM!

      • Lani November 19, 2012 at 8:16 PM

        True that! The line between sexy and easy is very blurry. On another note, I have a slightly similar problem. Whenever guys see me, the first thing they think is wife! Its like I was born with many yards of wife material. I am not trying to be funny, its rather irritating. Cos now I have 4 guys who are very convinced I am their wife. This is besides my official boyfriend, who treats me as his wife. I am always trying to get him to calm down and not run ahead of himself. E tire me o, wetin I go do?

        • liily November 20, 2012 at 6:07 AM

          My dear you are not alone. In fact, there was one that was chasing me oh and before i would say jack, the guy starting telling him he wants me as a wife. He sees something different and very mature about me. See women are all different. Some ooze sex appeal, some ooze “easy” while others ooze “wife” material.

    • Berry Choco-Latté November 19, 2012 at 6:50 PM

      Story of my life. I routinely ban my male friends from using the word ‘sexy’ in association with me cos it gets tiring. I’m like I’m witty, funny and intelligent sometimes!

    • I_I November 19, 2012 at 6:59 PM

      Reminds me of when I was still in school some years back: I had this chic in my class who just oozed sex appeal . . . so this day, I was on a queue to pick up a package along with some other students and she happened to be the one distributing the package. As I ogled the chic, I remember musing to myself of how I would like to bang her – just then, the Guy standing behind me muttered out my exact same thought – and as if on cue, the guy behind him exclaimed “I swear!”; almost immediately, a trio burst into raucous laughter – and all 6 of us shared a knowing smile . . .

      Same chic in question gave my room-mate night-mares and he often told her jokingly (at least I hoped . . .) that if he ever got a chance, he would rape her).

      Funny business, this sex appeal thing.

    • The original Beebee November 19, 2012 at 8:48 PM

      @naija realist….. best comment ever………LMAO

    • Dilemma November 19, 2012 at 8:56 PM

      Ok story, of my life, and I am not trying to be funny. So someone or people should please analyse. In naija, I wasn’t regarded as fine, like that like that. I was just told, you have a fine face, but it doesn’t really show, cos you don’t dress the part, or pay more attention to your appearance. Worse of all, you aint got the body at all. You have a white girls body i.e average boobs, flatter than flat tummy, and no discernible ass. So guys, will just give you a passing glance and waka pass. I heard that from females, and close male friends. Let’s just say it affected my self confidence A LOT, and I didn’t bother with my appearance at all, cos i thought, what the heck, no one will notice. Went through the whole of 5 years at Unilag, not one serious toaster. I was the goody goody girl. Fast forward moving abroad. Oh dear Lord. White men, have a thing for me, I don’t know o. I started noticing it at Uni, and I was wondering, i’m dressed in a top and jeans, my braids are tied up in a scrunchy, i’m looking like a worn out Masters student. Shu wetin. Una never see black girl before. Men smiling at me, offering to pay for my coffee, asking me if I have a minute just to chat over coffee, hatting me up at the bus/train station, helping with grocery bags (one walked 20mins with me, I had to stop at the wrong house, in case he was a stalker). You see, I wasn’t used to male attention, so i thought it was very strangeI chucked it up as curiosity, they r trying to toast a black girl. I’ll smile and politely decline

    • Dilemma November 19, 2012 at 8:58 PM

      Come spring break, my girlfriends and I decided to tour Europe. For the trip, I went shopping for summer clothes (clothes I didn’t wear in 9ja – halters, tube tops, mini skirts, shorts, spaghetti top and dresses, colourful fun and flirty stuff), fixed my hair, packed make-up. We landed in Italy, and the harassment started, everywhere we went, it was as if i had a bulls eye on my head. Before anyone says ehn Italy. In a group of 5 girls, it was just me they were targeting. Bellissimo everywhere I turned. Your smile, your smile, come let me take your picture, take a picture with me. We’ll go to eat, and they’ll pay for our food, drinks, I was looking at an expensive watch in a store with my friends, and this guy wanted to pay for it for me. Ha, the girls were saying, what cream did i use on my body, abeg, I should not use it again o, before someone will kidnap me. We shopped at this open market in Naples, and half of what I went back to the hotel with, I got for free. We entered France, don’t get me started on French men. Oya move to Spain and Portugal the same thing – in fact there was a guy i sat next to on the plane, who wanted to follow us to the hotel. Some scary shit, I made sure I was never alone. Cos to the point some guys will grab my arm, and start smiling sheepishly and chatting in their language. English, English, I may as well be speaking Greek, cos they didn’t relent. I have pictures of strangers on my camera from that holiday, it cracks me up, anytime I look at them. Let’s just say it boosted my self confidence as a woman. It felt good for once, in a group of girls, its me that gets the attention. IT’S NEVER HAPPENED BEFORE.

    • Dilemma November 19, 2012 at 9:07 PM

      So, confidence boosted, I got back home, and decided to keep the clothes for summer and buy more, apply minimal make up regularly and see whether it was just a Continental Europe thing. Ko jor, it continued. The British are just not as exuberant, but you can see from their eyes, and their smile. I can’t count how many coffee, lunch, dinner offerings i’ve turned down. To the point some have said they’ll cook for me. Someone explain how i’ll walk into a coffee shop, and there’ll be black men there o, they’ll just look briefly and pass (just like 9ja), but the white men, oh no, its appreciative smiles and nods. I’ll sit down and of all the empty seats, it’ll be mine they’ll come and ask, is this seat free. I’ll be walking in a mall, even in a group of girls, the worst part is even with a 9ja guy. The positive side though is, I used to be so shy, and timid, now I can chat up a storm with random strangers, anywhere. We’ll laugh and gist like we’ve known each other forever. I can confidently flirt at a party or office function, it just doesn’t work as well with 9ja guys. With oyinbo guys, its magic. My family came visiting and my sister noticed it and mentioned it to my mum. She said Lord forbid, Oyinbo ke, she’ll start fasting and praying. I told her to fast well well o, cos at this rate, black guys don’t really dig me like that. Before i relocated, I would have said oyinbo, lai lai. I’m beginning to consider now to the horror of my mum. Cos there’s one really cute and sweet one on my case. I tire. So why do I attract another race, and not my own?

      • T Baba aka Pres OBAMA is my cousin on my sister's husband's Uncle's Aunt's GrandMas side 4 times removed... O_o November 19, 2012 at 9:55 PM

        O_o

        • Person pikin November 19, 2012 at 11:04 PM

          hahahahaha! as in seriously!

        • intheoverseas November 20, 2012 at 3:51 AM

          LOL!!!

        • sefi-ann November 20, 2012 at 5:04 AM

          asinnnn, babe wrote another BN article on top simple comment.

      • nana November 20, 2012 at 12:19 AM

        its a good thing you have your confidence boosted up :D. and whatever race approaches you dont matter!!!! love doesnt know color. if you guys have a good chemistry and religious faith is on point carry go.

      • Nice Anon November 20, 2012 at 5:38 AM

        O_____O Like your ENTIRE European trip has been narrated in this comment section and I’m over here cracking up. True true you can chat with random strangers non-stop indeed.

        Meanwhile I’m over here side -eyeing all these cool tales. I was thinking more men will comment o and not so much the women. Too funny! LOL!

      • Pd November 21, 2012 at 6:54 AM

        Na the cream…….abeg give me some…all the mini skirts i no fit wear for naija For daylight……..my own na construction workers,bus drivers and arabs! The fear say arab fit get juju pass my black peeps no even let me try them.

    • notaplayerhater November 19, 2012 at 11:09 PM

      Idris Elba…. Oh Idris Elba *hot flush* getting really hot here bruvva!! Sorry hubby!!! tee hee

    • lucabracee November 19, 2012 at 11:13 PM

      if your friend’s main concern in a fiancee is the fact that she is a virgin or not and her seeming experience or in experience then he is not ready or matured enough for marriage..
      of the main requirements for an ideal wife you have not mentioned one but seemed to be overly concerned about irrelevance…
      these are some of the reasons people get married lovely wedding but 3 yrs down the line they r heading for divorce cause they got married for the totally wrong reasons..if your friend was really ready for marriage and was matured enough the concerns infantile you have highlighted will not even be an issue considering some people fall in love with a prostitute,a lady who has already had a child an older more experienced lady e.t.c

    • I'M SEXY AND I KNOW IT November 20, 2012 at 12:12 AM

      wiggle wiggle wiggle yeaaaaah:) Some of these comments are cracking me up, Dilenma before you marry the one that loves your body marry the one that you love and loves you. I am beautiful and sexy and no bagger can tell me otherwise even with my very decent assets. Do you girls know there is a whole lot of sexinees in a smile, or in the eyes or….. ? BTW Idris who? pls pls Denzel anytime, anyday, anywhere, even with all that grey I will. :)

    • I'M SEXY AND I KNOW IT November 20, 2012 at 12:18 AM

      Beware of the ones that love your bodies mostly, because 90% probability it will soon be a memory. Did I also mention confidence is sexy, not arrogance, confidence, I get drooled after just for that, even when I don’t make efforts. Try it! These men smell and see like dogs.

    • Primrose November 20, 2012 at 3:18 AM

      Yeah. My bf did that to me. He said I was too good in bed. He never thought that perhaps he was just the right thing for me. Eventually he concluded I had to be acquiring skills somewhere else. Well look whose laughing now? Got him a veiled virgin for a wife and I got me a sane man who respects and appreciates me. The virgin’s factory aint working. So much for that theory. Not to gloat about someone’s downfall but I was pretty broken by the experience cos that was my one true love. Oh well. I moved right on and I am happy.

    • Msunderstood November 20, 2012 at 3:29 AM

      @Dillema, oyibos like slim chics with some boobs and I think the idea of a black guy is also intriguing to them.
      I get that a lot too tho not as much as yours.
      I think Great body = sex appeal in Africa, boobs, hips, ass but doesn’t necessarily translate to being good in bed.
      I ve only been wit 2men in my life but I know I give it good(if I may say so myself) LOL. As long as u are in tune wit ur sexuality, u will enjoy sex, wen u enjoy sex ur partner will as well. The gal in d story could be very sensual so even if it’s d second time, she enjoys it. And about doing all kinds of stuffs in bed, even a 15yr old virgin knows wat to do in bed except she’s shy to try them.
      About

    • missy November 20, 2012 at 10:03 PM

      LOL I have a friend who is a DD cup she has a flat stomach and she is a UK size6 she just oozes sex I tell u.

    • ken November 21, 2012 at 10:16 PM

      there is something about scarlett johansson …that lady just triggers sex

    • Ife November 23, 2012 at 2:07 PM

      lmao @ all these comments. Well am 28, not much experience and i dont ooze sex in any way! Am a pretty girl,very shy with all my lady lady prim and proper ways. Infact i come off as inexperienced and naive but get me in bed with the man i love and i totally transform into this fierce sexual bomb that even scares the heck outta me sometimes. My man says am a lady to the world but a tigress in bed…and in his words ”thats the best combo i can ever ask for!”

    • naana May 31, 2013 at 4:19 PM

      riminds me of my friends who always tell me that , if there should be a day declared for rape at the hostel, my room will be the first they will come to. hmm this sex appeal stuff.