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The Vagina Monologues have been running in Nigeria for some years now.
This year, organisers are saying that it has got a Nigerian identity because they are using real stories submitted by everyday Nigerian women.
There have been 3 shows already this month in Abuja and Lagos but you still have the chance to catch 3 more.
The play includes stellar cast like Kate Henshaw, Funmi Iyanda, Stella Damasus, Yinka Davies, Bimbo Akintola, Omonor Imobhio, Ashinoye and Tunde Aladese. Directing is acclaimed writer and Director Wole Oguntokun (Laspapi)

The V Monologues: The Nigerian Experience i had been waiting to see since last year when i heard that it was going to be Nigerianized and would have a male director. I saw Eve Ensler’s version in New York a few years ago and found it unlike anything i had ever seen before. I didnt see last year’s production though i heard from friends that Joke Silva did a marvellous job and it was very similar to the original.

So on Tuesday, I was at Muson Center with my friends – Daddy’s Girl, Ms Travis and her daughter.

I loved it. I cried and i laughed. The actresses were truly amazing. Some more amazing than others: Omonor (what a talent), Kate Henshaw (not much of a stretch from what i have seen her in but strong none the less), Bimbo Akintola (always delivers), Ashinoye (a revelation indeed, this child can act), the ladies from Renegade Theatre – Kemi and Jennifer (always fantastic), Yinka Davies (delivered one of the most intense scenes i have ever seen) and Tunde Aladese (not as strong as the others and her dimunitive frame and voice was almost lost several times but she delivered)…

The Monologues were very relatable. Every monologue struck a cord in me. Some were personal experiences that had me sobbing really hard and Ms Travis who sat on one side of me held my hand wordlessly. Some of the scenes were hilarious..The Monologues touched on everything from child abuse, to widowhood, to physical abuse to masturbation. The scenes represented the rural and urban. In a particular scene about a very very well off woman being abused, i looked around the hall and thought to myself: a lot of these Prada carrying, $1500 weave wearing women are going through this right now…..

What i especially loved about it was the fact that Vagina was used quite a few times, song and dance was used appropriately and the pace of the show was perfect. The first part of the show – so heavy, i was ready to slit my wrists because i was so sad and depressed. Daddy’s Girl said she was just ready to go home and cry her eyes out…just when i thought i couldnt take it anymore, the tone lightened. The issues were still serious but the tone lifted a bit.

Like all things though, not all perfection. I would have preferred that the male voice over not be used. Would have prefered a female voice over. I think that in an attempt to not go full frontal with the messages of each monologue, some of the dialogue was watered down but not too much.

All in all, i enjoyed the show immensely. I didnt learn anything new because i am passionate about Women’s Issues and have written about some of the issues before, i have lived through some of the issues and my work with NGOs has exposed to a lot more than were even covered during the show but i know a lot of people were stunned by some of the things they saw and heard.

The show ended with a standing ovation and the cast took their bows. The lights came up and i saw it was a full house and i spotted a lot of ‘known people’ leaving the hall. The foyer was buzzing and as i walked through, i heard praise, some people saying they didnt get certain scenes, one person echoed how much he hated it (some expatriate from Shell) et all. I saw the director Laspapi surrounded by people congratulating him while he smiled, saw people surrounding Amy from Kind etc.

My view on women’s issues is too draw attention to these matters and make changes where we can. I dont do male bashing nor am i a bra burning feminist. The Monologues made THE point. While some of the issues are perpetuated by tradition and even legislation, the fundamental issue is that women for many reasons dont have the will, the voice or the power to change some things meted out to them. Women must know their rights, know what they are worth, value themselves, have tons of self esteem, think of them as queens and life givers and have support. Abusers back away when you fight back, blood sucking relatives back off when you dont cower in shame, the gods of the land and elders will not smite you if you stand up to their traditions..and if a woman is in danger and she cannot find succour with her family, then there should be centers and safe houses that can take care of these women. Believe me, i speak from experience.

The Monologues are worth seeing in my opinion. I shall be at Terra Kulture next week to see the final show.

Much Love!
Thanks to Uzo for the review!
I saw some snippets of video from the Abuja show and it was really striking.
Omonor Imobhio was acting a skit, it was really comical and the crowd was laughing along, then she gets to a key juncture of the story and there was dead silence. Such a poignant moment.
If you are in Lagos, get out and waatch it! Send us your reviews as well.

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  1. Uzo

    March 13, 2008 at 9:40 am

    Saw it yesterday. How have you been?

  2. Unbiased

    March 13, 2008 at 10:08 am

    Bella please send me those snippets of video. Please (blink blink).
    I wish they could carry this thing all over the world. I miss lasgidi o!!

  3. HAppy ANonymous person

    March 13, 2008 at 10:34 am

    3rd LOL

  4. Pink-satin

    March 13, 2008 at 1:47 pm

    i made top 3…anonymous doesnt count so i am 3rd

  5. sTeLlAsGrOoVe

    March 13, 2008 at 2:06 pm

    hey am i 4th or what?isnt that a pip?lol

  6. 1stpet2v9

    March 13, 2008 at 2:34 pm

    @ Uzo… u’ve seen it? How jealous I am!

    Please write a review!

  7. mum

    March 13, 2008 at 4:48 pm

    I wish i could go to Naija to see it. Anway i hope i could get it on dvd coz one of the performers (Ashionye) is a friend we went to school together. Anyway check out my blog

  8. Jaycee

    March 13, 2008 at 5:01 pm

    I wish I could travel right now to Naija just to watch it, and fly right back the next day….dreaming on…

    Top 10…noice!

  9. Anonymous

    March 13, 2008 at 5:13 pm

    babe, u didn’t mention, “Funmi Iyanda”, anh anh! a whole anty Funmi! lol


  10. Anonymous

    March 13, 2008 at 5:17 pm

    bia, anonymous 4 oclock, u dey okay so??

  11. Kpakpando

    March 13, 2008 at 5:46 pm

    RE: Vagina monologues, bella ogini k’am mekwa gi? Biko nwanyi oma post the videos, for those of us who cannot get back to watch th V monologues abegii. if you post it I’ll give you cabin biscuit and choco milo.

    Jesus take the wheel!
    “Fighting on the internet is retarded.” Y’all get a grip, get a life, get Jesus, just get something.

  12. BacktoNaija

    March 13, 2008 at 6:27 pm

    My review and one pic of the show is on

  13. koshie

    March 13, 2008 at 6:48 pm

    W.T.F! who the hell is this anonymous person addressing “desperate lady”

  14. Bella Naija

    March 13, 2008 at 7:17 pm

    anonymous must have gotten the wrong blog.

    @nma – i actually thot i put Funmi Iyanda’s name up when i mentioned the v performers…my bad…anyways i’m so sad i missed the show… would have loved to see her, kate, ashionye and stella perform!

  15. Vera Ezimora

    March 13, 2008 at 9:09 pm

    S’up Bella baby!!!

    Missed ya. How body?

  16. dat one okrika

    March 14, 2008 at 6:31 am

    Times like these i wish i was back in naija,I know of atleast 2 of my cousins that have seen it. I know of Kate Henshaw, Funmi Iyanda, Stella Damasus, Bimbo Akintola, but the other ladies you mentioned I have never heard of them before Omonor Imobhio, Ashinoye and Tunde Aladese.

  17. Naijasutra

    March 14, 2008 at 7:24 am

    This looks really interesting, i want to watch!!!!!!!

  18. flabby

    March 14, 2008 at 11:31 am

    I’ve heard so much about these shows over the years..i’m dying to see one!!

  19. tankojjetty

    March 14, 2008 at 11:53 am

    so you’re based in nigeria…
    no wonder u’re always up to date…
    cause u reviewed it, i’ve got to see it this weekend

  20. Anonymous

    March 14, 2008 at 12:26 pm

    my opinion on women, females, is that we can love ourselves, love the sisterhood – by stop fighting ourselves, also, stop believing the worst about ourselves.

    start within ourselves, first. as whitney houston sang in one of her tracks, “….. learning to love urself, it is the greatest love of all….” it can be difficult but it is not impossible. ‘Cause with God all things are possible. self-love is one of the keys ’cause if one, as a female is in hatred of self or is in denial about so many things wrong going on about herself – then she would not have the strength to think about loving a “mirror” of herself.

    charity work and all, are all good, another addition is if the older females would learn to, and could live right, then it would inspire the younger females to live right as well – then maybe the cycle would stop. mentoring is the word. “know one, teach one.”

    vagina monologues is an eye opener, though. thanks to the organisers.

    @ kpakpando, girrl, you are an american, “jesus take the wheel,” and an igbo girl, “biko nwanyi.” you make me laugh – happy girl.

    Nkiru Judith.

  21. doll

    March 14, 2008 at 3:39 pm

    nice review

  22. 1stpet2v9

    March 14, 2008 at 4:24 pm

    WOW… thanks for this…

  23. Anonymous

    March 14, 2008 at 9:34 pm

    have to disagree with your reviews. I think Ore Notes and Naijablog actually gave better review or critique to the issue. Your review is just typical naija style of celebrating pedestran. I saw it in Lagos and couldn’t understand what the fuss was all about. Why the standing ovation. I hated the whole thing from start to finish. But some of the acting were just outstanding.

  24. NigerianDramaQueen

    March 15, 2008 at 1:41 am

    gosh I soooo wish I was in Nigeria now! Abuja NEVER has any shows…okay I exaggerate, but theres hardly any good entertainment in Abuja, then when a show like this comes, I cant be there! Sigh………….

  25. Hair Azara

    March 16, 2008 at 4:46 am

    I just love the degree of upgrade that our entertainment sector has been getting in the past years. I wish I was in Naija to see this, and the show has all my favorite ladies!!! awesome

  26. eFJay

    March 17, 2008 at 3:14 am

    pls whn is the last show, may be i can run home quickly to catch it!

    ‘ef babe’

  27. 1stpet2v9

    March 17, 2008 at 3:13 pm

    @ efjay.. r u really going 2 go home 2 see it? lol…

    March 19th and 20th

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