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For the past couple of days, there have been various reports alleging that Nollywood actress, Ini Edo‘s marriage had crashed.

BN did not publish the story, as reports were unverified at the time.

However, Ini has finally broken her silence, verifying the reports, and revealing why she filed for divorce from her U.S based husband, Phillip Ehiagwina.

Here’s what she tweeted:

Ini Edo (@ini4phil) - Twitter 2014-10-02 16-30-25INI 2

Ini and Phillip were married for 5 years.

157 Comments

  1. maame ekua

    October 2, 2014 at 4:49 pm

    WHATEVER IT IS MAY GOD HELP YOU TO GO TRU IT. MARRIAGE IS NOT EASY……

  2. Audrey

    October 2, 2014 at 4:52 pm

    I usually don’t care about these celebrity divorces but this one……… I kept screaming oh my God.oh my God. this is so sad. wow,I hope they find peace with their decision. so sad ,wow.

    • Mercy

      October 2, 2014 at 5:57 pm

      @audrey y d sreaming? She wrecked another woman’s home! she is reaping the fruit of the pains she caused the other woman. Karma!

    • Audrey

      October 2, 2014 at 6:14 pm

      My sister,I never heard about the fact that she wrecked another woman’s home oh. I don’t know the details,I can only feel sad for them and wish them well

    • ekalor

      October 3, 2014 at 7:49 am

      Mercy, No one can wreck your home unless you give them permission to do so….

    • C'est moi

      October 3, 2014 at 9:43 am

      You’ll find it was the husband that wrecked his own home!!!

      No woman can wreck any home without the husband’s consent so stop blaming the woman!

    • pat

      October 3, 2014 at 3:08 pm

      So true she married anoda womans hubby a known fact cos I know d ist wife

  3. Annie

    October 2, 2014 at 4:53 pm

    All i can say right now is ‘na wa sha’ ……

  4. Veevian

    October 2, 2014 at 5:03 pm

    I really feel sorry for celebs sometimes, marriage is not easy generally, then having to deal with all the gossips and talks of your marriage cos you are in the limelight is another headache. This is just sad, i hope they find happiness.

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  5. chum chum

    October 2, 2014 at 5:05 pm

    Well, you are the one wearing the shoes and you know where it is pinching you. All the best Ini.

  6. CocoI

    October 2, 2014 at 5:08 pm

    Well let’s see. The man was already married when she started fooling around with him, They don’t live together, The man is a broke looser and Ini Edo is addicted to petty petty runs with married old men. Did anyone ever think that a marriage between these two ridiculous human beings was going to last? I hope he starts bashing her the same way she helped him bash his ex. I keep telling these Nollywood mgbekes you can’t gain your happiness through others’ misery.

    • nene

      October 2, 2014 at 5:17 pm

      gbam

    • Leah

      October 2, 2014 at 5:26 pm

      Thank you!!!!! I am so glad someone has the nerve to speak the truth. God NEVER gives you someone else’ husband, but the devil will. And I’m supposed to be sorry for a woman who had it coming to her, please. That “marriage” was a sham from the very beginning.

    • Mama

      October 2, 2014 at 5:34 pm

      Let’s see how your own marriage plays out in life…..bloody hypocrite u won’t face your skeletons bursting your cupboard but u can come and analyse their marriage when I can bet my royal arse u don’t even know them one on one…..

    • Bokun

      October 2, 2014 at 7:23 pm

      This your motherly advise would have made sense if you had given it to ini when she was busy ignoring her own skeletons and hitching up with a married man .right now this your rant is Back to front and upside down . Doesn’t make any sense. But it’s good you stand up and be counted amongst your fellow husband snatcher. Yeye dey smell by their toothless smiles we shall know them.

    • jummai

      October 3, 2014 at 5:47 pm

      lol at royal arse

    • iba

      October 2, 2014 at 5:54 pm

      They virtually lived apart the whole time; its alway a recipe for disaster and thats minus the ex wife saga trailing them. Oh well good luck to both of them.

    • Black Coffee

      October 2, 2014 at 5:55 pm

      “You can’t get your happiness through others misery.”Gbam! I’m putting this on my bb status immediately.

    • Kina

      October 2, 2014 at 6:29 pm

      Mbgeke, is about right!! Looool.

    • khaleesi

      October 4, 2014 at 7:02 pm

      gbam!

  7. Flo

    October 2, 2014 at 5:13 pm

    Some people are so cruel… Most of them have never met this lady or the husband but sit behind their computers or phones to type nonsense .. cooking up fake stories to tarnish people’s image. Do unto others as you would have them do onto you.

    I can only imagine what she is going through. sometimes we forget celebrities are human as well.

    May God help us all.

    • Spectator

      October 2, 2014 at 5:54 pm

      Madam, let somebody steal your husband you love and cherish and bash you openly then come back and say how cruel people are to point out that she wrecked a home. I think it is a life lesson to ladies out there who are planning to or have already wrecked homes by snatching SOMEONE’S husband. What you steal can never be yours. God is watching

    • C'est moi

      October 3, 2014 at 9:52 am

      Men at not property! No one can ‘steal’ your husband without his consent so if your hubby is nicked from you then the blame lies with him not the woman! It is his job to tell the imposing party to bugger off. If he doesn’t then the problem lies within your own relationship.

  8. Louda

    October 2, 2014 at 5:15 pm

    I felt sorry for Ini. Her marriage had never seemed real to me. God punish this thing called IRRECONCILABLE DIFFERENCES that has been breaking down marriages. But can there ever be a marriage without a difference? Marriage is for lifetime, but these days its the same story. Whenever I hear people gushing of their love on social media I will be like, there goes the lies again. God help you Ini.

  9. nene

    October 2, 2014 at 5:17 pm

    BN why put up a story like this when you’ll end up censoring/blocking comments that expose the truth. i won’t waste my time giving a detailed comment anyway. this news is not shocking one bit.

    • Busarni

      October 2, 2014 at 5:50 pm

      @nene; examine your own life, be truthful and honest to yourself. Dont you have skeletons in your cupboard. That one thing you fear people knowing about you. Nene that deep secret that you have been hiding for years. Be warned or we will expose your silly a**. Give her a break , whatever info you think you have; you do not know INI EDO’s story. She is entitled to her decision.

    • Bokun

      October 2, 2014 at 6:43 pm

      I think Inis ex ex and other women who have had their homes divided and scattered by conscienceless jezebels will actually sympathize with nene and not you. S’all am saying plus wait till some ‘poor person’ like ini breaks your home, and then becos you have skeleton under your bed you will congratulate the poor person who snatched your husband . Maybe your sins are three much therefore you most offer the other cheek.

    • nene

      October 2, 2014 at 8:07 pm

      let me adress a few things: i only have one avatar. i won’t waste my time going to another computer just to have a different avatar. if you read my comments you would know i comment as many times as i like with my avatar. secondly, i don’t comment on what i don’t know;i have had encounters with ini edo and a lot of nollywood people a few times, but i’ve never met her husband. thirdly and lastly, i am not a friend to any celebrity or a frenemy either. lastly, i speak the truth, call me a hater, call me depressed, call me whatever you like, i write what i feel and i never insult/attack others who have an opposing comment. everyone is entitled to his/her opinion.

    • Nene

      October 2, 2014 at 8:18 pm

      I dunno if u’re refering to my comment o…but i am a different Nene. Didn’t even know of the nene above or i wouldve used a different name. Just setting the record straight

    • Busarni

      October 2, 2014 at 7:23 pm

      @nene; you are just an empty vessel. You hate her so much that you have to create anode avatar; i wonder how you sleep at night. This is the digital age; we shall seek you out and expose you. You always drop silly comments here and feel cool with your depressed life. Carrying ini edo’s matter like gala for your head; that is why you are still unmarried. mumu

    • Nene

      October 2, 2014 at 8:19 pm

      I dunno if u’re refering to my comment o…but i am a different Nene. Didn’t even know of the nene above or i wouldve used a different name. Just setting the record straight

    • Grown Woman

      October 3, 2014 at 7:07 am

      @Busarni give nene a rest please and no i do not know her but she has every right to have an opinion,it’s very uncalled for to look down on someone with that kind of statement….and just so you know, Marriage is not for everyone, if you are married and happy you should be thankful and stop bashing people who are not.Never look down on someone.Whatever you have Today, you might not have it Tomorrow.

    • the Truth

      October 3, 2014 at 2:46 pm

      Busarni, give it a rest please! Oh and stop liking your own comments to give the impression that your view point is popular when we all know it is not!

    • Busarni

      October 2, 2014 at 8:18 pm

      @nene; you are entitled to your opinion does not mean you should pull INI EDO down. I am not here to give you 1 min fame. You have been warned; thread carefully.

    • The other Nene

      October 3, 2014 at 4:02 pm

      But why are u such an Ode?! I am not the Nene u are attacking for no damn reason, and have no reason to lie because either way u cant do ish! WHo da hell are u? What can u oi? My friend go get a damn life and stop overliking all ur stupid childish comments!

    • Busarni

      October 3, 2014 at 6:29 pm

      @the other Nene; you are as fake as they come. We will sort you out through your email. By the time i open your nyash here; you will be sorry for messing with the wrong person. Liking my comments? you disgust me; i am a busy executive not an idle soul like you..Confused being with no identity; discover yourself first instead of impersonating other people. Your dirty laundry is coming; –

    • jummai

      October 3, 2014 at 5:53 pm

      please tell me more

  10. Leah

    October 2, 2014 at 5:18 pm

    LMAO! Wasn’t that guy married and was cheating on his wife with her? This is what happens when two idiots decide to get married. Don’t worry madam kezaya, your “image” remains the same.

    • Green

      October 2, 2014 at 7:35 pm

      Choi! Your comment was very mean. Yes, we all heard the rumours; yes, you might know the true story and why her marriage wouldn’t have lasted but dear Leah cut Ini some slack, people make mistakes unfortunately she made hers in her marriage.

  11. BC

    October 2, 2014 at 5:19 pm

    They have never looked compatible to me. As in I have never been able to picture them as friends. I can’t see them joking, laughing and being playful together. They always seemed kinda uncomfortable in each other’s presence and rarely did I see pics of them making eye contact. Philip usually looks away, even when he is facing his wife. He pics a spot to look at somewhere else and I see her doing the same. It was never a good union to begin with.

  12. Vanessa

    October 2, 2014 at 5:34 pm

    Thank u BN for not publishing the rumours. I feel really sorry for Ini at such a young age. Divorce is not easy, whoever is crucifying her right now were not there when she met her hubby to hear what they discussed. I believe the more people stay away from gossip, the better.

  13. Nene

    October 2, 2014 at 5:34 pm

    Ha Ini u can lieeee! My friend saw u with her two koro koro eye at a hotel in Lekki with an older man grabbing ur toosh. She watched u too checkin and then went upstairs. She even snapped the pic of u two going up with her cam…tho blurry but i could make out it was u.

    • naomi

      October 2, 2014 at 5:42 pm

      what was your friend doing in a hotel in Lekki? #But its none of my business.

    • Nene

      October 2, 2014 at 5:51 pm

      She was visiting Nigeria, and stayed in one of the hotels in Lekki. Her family either live abroad or in the east so she had no close relatives in Lagos. She came with the prospects of launching her own business in Lagos.

    • Bleed Blue

      October 2, 2014 at 6:27 pm

      nene up there, Nene down here … Will the real nene please stand up?

      We can’t be having two of you oh…abi my BN sistren can we cope with such a somtin?

    • jummai

      October 3, 2014 at 5:55 pm

      laughs is Spanish

  14. Nessa

    October 2, 2014 at 5:35 pm

    So what is the news here? Did any one seriously see somebody like Ini Edo with her busy body in a lasting relationship. The only reason they even lasted this long is because they never lived together. Garbage attracts flies, CLOSE YOUR LEGS TO MARRIED MEN.

  15. Nene

    October 2, 2014 at 5:35 pm

    Ha Ini u can lieeee! My friend saw u with her two koro koro eye at a hotel in Lekki with an older man grabbing ur toosh. She watched u too checkin and then went upstairs. She even snapped the pic of u two going up with her phone…tho blurry but i could make out it was u.

    • nina

      October 2, 2014 at 5:54 pm

      What makes you feel she and her husband at that time where still together? just because the news is out now doesn’t mean the marriage didn’t end since. God help us… some people are bitter!!

    • The other Nene

      October 2, 2014 at 8:22 pm

      What is wrong with u? I state a FACT and u are calling me bitter? How daft are u? U nko that came in here to see the demise of her marriage, aren’t u bitter to come in here and read about her failed marriage? Carry ur nonsense myopic thinking and shift from me biko! Look up the word bitter ad next time use it where it applies.

  16. J

    October 2, 2014 at 5:52 pm

    BTWN man and woman no put ur mob deh…..
    Marriage is not easy period.
    No matter how the courtship began, controversial or not… there are countless stories of high school sweethearts still packing up their marriages.
    the only Celeb whose marriage is still intact despite lots of controversies is Mercy Johnson…
    At this moment in time… May God heal both parties. I bet they are both hurting… so that this cycle is avoided. God bless Ini and husband.

  17. Black Coffee

    October 2, 2014 at 6:00 pm

    I’m sad that this happened again in our society because its making some of us scared of marriage. I hope Ini can heal, learn her lessons and move on just like anyone else who goes through a hard phase.

  18. bruno

    October 2, 2014 at 6:04 pm

    A Nigerian girl’s number 1 priority is to be married, by force by fire. See the outcome in the end ,divorce.some women/men are better off single. Uche ogbodo’s married lasted 1 month, (that’s a new nigerian record) LOL. By the way Ini edo looks so fat in that wedding dress. Hahahahahaha.

    • Olori Tari

      October 2, 2014 at 8:16 pm

      Lmaooooo why did this crack me up so much. I actually laughed out really hard at the new record part and maybe I feel bad for finding such funny. Who is Uche Ogbodo please ? They didn’t do any honey moon (at least that”ll take like 2 weeks oo). Heading to Google right now to confirm this..Lol

  19. Tunde J

    October 2, 2014 at 6:19 pm

    This is really sad news and if it is true she snatched another womans husband then she had it coming. Although I am of the opinion that no man can be snatched or taken without his own free will.

    • Khaleesi Herself

      October 2, 2014 at 7:40 pm

      Tunde J, you are de only person with a reasonable comment iv seen so far. I do agree with you…. No man can be stolen without his consent and agreement. it just so happens that there really was nothing in the relationship, beside sex, and maybe just the thrill of the chase, that drew them together. All in all, it’s just a sorry state of affairs. Hope they both find peace.

    • J

      October 5, 2014 at 5:30 am

      spirit of lust hasn’t been addressed by both parties

    • Ada Nnewi

      October 2, 2014 at 9:42 pm

      Thank You!!! I don’t understand some woman. .No man can be taken from you except he wants to be taken from you (except in cases where babalawo’s are involved) if your husband is attracted to garbage then he’s a pig or a housefly……If u marry a good man and not a pant, you won’t be afraid of “husband-snatchers”….

    • Bokun

      October 2, 2014 at 10:06 pm

      Really. Okay let ini get her hands on your man then let me hear this your talk. It is people like u who vouch for husbands that get the shock of their lives when u find out what the maid has been up to. All a man needs is a willing receptacle it can be yours or any other willing woman. A man with an erection has no sense. Your mama no teach you. Your man no be jesus e go fall to temptation if offered on a silver platter. If you are so confident set a honey trap for him and see how he will fall head long into the hole. I sorry for you. If women learn to close their legs men will HAVE TO STAY WITH THEIR ONE AND ONLY. Thank me later when you get over your shock.

    • Chy

      October 3, 2014 at 12:14 am

      To be honest, only the fear of GOD will keep a man faithful. NOTHING else will. Let him be the ‘best’ man in the world, or love you like crazy…He can and will still cheat given a clear chance.. If not for GOD.

      That’s why I pity women that marry men that don’t have interest in the things of God. I cry for couples that don’t pray. 99.9% chance of future unhappy home.

      Ladies don’t say I never told you.
      BTW, I’m from Nnewi too Ada! 😀

    • Mz Socially Awkward...

      October 3, 2014 at 9:43 am

      Ada, I’ll have to agree with Chy on this one. Na only God wey fit help man wey don purpose in his heart say he no go ever waka between another woman’s legs. If na just human will-power … o.y.o.

    • anwuli

      October 4, 2014 at 9:26 am

      thank you, Chy. God bless!!!

    • Rational Man

      October 3, 2014 at 6:16 pm

      I agree. All the people saying you cannot be faithful without God are helping all the men that cheat. Deciding to have sex is a decision, like deciding what to wear. You do it consicously, So why would a man not be able to control himself? Are you a robot that everytime your dick gets hard you must have sex? Aren’t the men in control of themselves as they track the woman, chat her up, and go to the house/room to have sex?

      Honestly this men cannot have will power is a ruse that allows men to cheat and trick women. My sisters any man that says he cannot control himself sexually is giving you the greatest form of disrespect – he is calling you a fool. If you can hold yourself from public urination and defecaton you can hold yourself from sleeping around. Do not be deceived! Anyone who cheats decided to cheat. No be rape.

    • Concerned_Boyfriend

      October 3, 2014 at 8:33 pm

      Well said… But this got me cracking up as hell “A man with an erection has no sense. “… LMAO…Which maybe the reason why some felt it would take a man with a fear of God to act right with these thirsty ass women.

  20. kuuks

    October 2, 2014 at 6:27 pm

    There’s a Gh adage that says “if it has not happened to u, sleep” .
    People are always quick to comment, insult and judge others., sometimes in a very nasty way. That is very bad. Most of the commenters do not know her personally but only know her story from rumors on social media. But do not forget the Bible teaches us not to judge others so we may ourselves not be judged.

    Secondly, it may be true that Ini must have dated her ex hubby whilst he was married or not but how sure are you of your knowledge of what both parties were going through. Mind you I am not condoning adultery. But we must not forget that Ini is as much a human as we all are. If God is capable of forgiving us and not reminding us of our sins, then what right do we have to spew so much hate or judgement on Her.

    Let he who is without sin cast the 1st stone. Yes we may not have cheated or committed adultery, but we are all sinners. Mind you, every sin is a sin. Its only we humans that give it a certain kind of degree. Even Saints cannot claim to be sin free.

    The point I’m making here is, let us not hasten to judge people’s wrongs. We may not know of yours cos u are not a star/celebrity. How does it feel when people who hardly know you well pass silly comments about you. Do unto others what you want others to do unto u.

    *my 2 cents*

    • chinny

      October 3, 2014 at 2:34 pm

      100% correct

  21. Changing Faces

    October 2, 2014 at 6:28 pm

    And of course only Ini deserves to be bashed for “stealing someone’s husband”. What of the man that was stolen? No words for him… too many women with unfaithful men always out to blame the other woman; what of the man you took vows with? I’d always see the cheating spouse as the main problem, after all you don’t know what he said to the other woman!

    • Ada Nnewi

      October 2, 2014 at 9:45 pm

      You are one of the few people commenting here that make sense…

    • Bokun

      October 2, 2014 at 10:06 pm

      Someone’s servicing your right now.

  22. Shadie

    October 2, 2014 at 6:35 pm

    Bia nwa nene how many avatars do you have. Ini marriage hurt you to the core that you had to stab her so many times using different avatars to leave comment. You are a very sad empty person and you need serious mental help.

  23. anais

    October 2, 2014 at 6:41 pm

    How did our grandparents manage to last that long in their marriage? There were misunderstandings, cheating, children outside marriage, family and work pressure, even sexual incompatibility and yet they never asked for divorce or share their trouble with the rest of the world. These days everything marriage has past its sale out date! And as for those celebrity who like to show off their perfect love affairs with the opposite sex, there is nothing such as a perfect courtship, relationship…Skeletons everywhere O, no lies, just welcome to reality. I hope Ini finds happiness in the end come what may!

  24. Beeee

    October 2, 2014 at 6:54 pm

    Gosh the amount of hatred spewing out of our hearts…Geeeez…and most of the evil comments are from fellow women. it’s a shame o, that’s why we are not taken seriously in male-dominated societies, we are seen as emotionally unstable beings. Commenting here as if they are best friends with the girl and know all the details. Were you people there when she snatched the man? And the one who took the picture at the hotel should please post so we can see. Look at us rejoicing over someone’s downfall. Shame on us. I’m sure half of the ones saying evil things are not married. People think marriage is easy, until una enter first. Shey Jessica Simpson was a virgin before she got married? She still end up divorced abi? It’s to pray for God for wisdom to sustain and not sit behind our gadgets condemning people we know nothing about. God have mercy on us all

    • Tunde

      October 3, 2014 at 12:53 am

      That’s Jesica Simpson and that’s Yankee. I am a Nigerian man and I want you to take this to the Bank. 95% of Nigerian men would never let go of a woman they deflowered as their wife. Note- not deflower as girl friend but as wife. You can sample 100 men for their opinions and I am certain at least 95 of them will attest to this. I am not saying they wont cheat on her o but they will adore and cherish her die!

    • Zero

      October 3, 2014 at 7:58 am

      Speak 4 urself oh

    • Tope

      October 3, 2014 at 8:24 am

      1.) what is the relevance of this ur statement to the topic.
      2.) how stupid are you and your fellow nigerian men? “They can cheat on her o but they wIll love and cherish her”. You don’t cheat on someone you love. That is betraying their trust and putting them in danger of a lot of diseases. Again I ask how stupid are you and you fellow nigerian brothers?

    • Sassy

      October 3, 2014 at 8:26 pm

      Well, I know a man who deflowered his “wife”, kept cheating on her even when he was flat out broke and as soon as he landed a plum job, threw out his “virgin wife” who I might add, is the closest thing to an angel on earth (popular opinion), and no, no “babalawo” was involved, neither was there a particular woman. I guess he belongs to the 5 percentile then.

    • PD young Billionaire

      October 4, 2014 at 4:02 pm

      @Tope……..1000likes!

    • Diya

      October 6, 2014 at 3:27 pm

      Question: who will cherish and adore the girls those men deflowered as their girlfriends?

    • Chinedu

      October 3, 2014 at 1:26 pm

      Please leave Jessica S and her Virginity out of this. Beeee, your comment made sense until you added virginity. That was her peephole decision and even though the marriage didn’t last, I respect her decision.

    • Chinedu

      October 3, 2014 at 1:27 pm

      Personal* death to auto correct.

    • Beeee

      October 3, 2014 at 7:22 pm

      Actually peephole applies in this case doesn’t it…hehehehe..I only mentioned Jessica as an example. I don’t care about her virginity…the only reason her name is even in this convo is to show that divorce does not happen to only “bad” people. She went into her marriage as a “sweet and angelic” girl and still ended up divorced. Divorce is not a respecter of persons.

    • Chinedu

      October 4, 2014 at 2:43 pm

      Still your reason for bringing her and her Virginity and divorce up doesn’t make sense. So Ini is a virgin and sweet girl that got divorced? Girls that aren’t virgins and are bitter about it try to discourage other people from keeping theirs; I’ve noticed this. Her life her decision, your life, yours. If you decide to sleep around, your decision. If someone decides not to, their decision. Leave virginity out of it, that was lame and off point.

  25. AW

    October 2, 2014 at 6:56 pm

    All those who are contributing their two cents(including, plus me). We have heard from the proverbial horse’s mouth. Ngwanu, Biko, the horse has spoken, so let us not make up our own stories. Marriage is a very personal thing, only those inside can tell you how it is, even then, they will both have different versions.

    • Doxa

      October 3, 2014 at 9:47 am

      A baby would only have complicated matters. Two adults who no longer want to be together will not consider a baby’s interests, examples abound. Unless you mean that the reason she left is because they couldn’t have a baby.

  26. Araba

    October 2, 2014 at 7:06 pm

    Am sad to read of ini edo’s divorce. Well all I can say is we all do make mistakes and wrong choices at a point in our various lives so old don’t bash her too much I believe a baby or child could have saved the marriage. Good luck to both of them.

    • Tunde

      October 3, 2014 at 12:55 am

      Mose sensible comment. Like you spoke it from my mind. A baby could have saved the marriage. Looking for a baby is an experience no one wants to go through. Plus all the celeb thing and all that…it would only take a miracle to survive.

  27. Yacaa

    October 2, 2014 at 7:12 pm

    I wonder when it was a crime to have a happy marriage and talk about it wow @ all those hating on people who gush about their marriage. Even if people are going through hell in their marriage, allow them to gush and speak positive words in their marriage. Don’t hate, just appreciate!

  28. Ifunanya

    October 2, 2014 at 7:16 pm

    Am not surprise,the end sha always tell n dis is a warning to all those actresses marrying pples husband,u can’t rely on a foundation u neva know hw it was made, dts y u all end up trying to build on a shaky foundation

  29. Mystique

    October 2, 2014 at 7:17 pm

    1) this is not my business
    2) she already feels bad about everything; what sense is there in kicking someone who is already down? she’ has learnt her lesson….. Time to make amends and move forward. God heal them both.

  30. peace

    October 2, 2014 at 7:39 pm

    I smell Green card…Am sorry i might sound harsh but its the truth. I know alot of people, both men and women that are used to get here (US) and then these “spouses” out of no where scream divorce. I have a friend in the same predicament right now, i feel so so sad for him. Anyways sha God dey!

    • step77

      October 2, 2014 at 10:18 pm

      Thank you for your comment! I was just about to post the same thing. USCIS has served the green card so kini remain ni? Meanwhile on that note I dey here dey watch Uche Jombo… naija babes are way too slick for one to imagine anything less.

    • Ik

      October 3, 2014 at 7:21 am

      First off how do you know Ini has a U.S. passport ? Your comment was totally off because She lives and work in Nigeria all through her marriage and as for the uche jombo part? Totally disrespectful

    • Ib

      October 3, 2014 at 12:42 am

      My dear iv been thinking the same thing. It’s all about papers. She is saying the truth when she says she never cheated on her “husband”. They really werent married. She’s got her green card and she is out!

    • Beauty

      October 3, 2014 at 12:45 am

      Bia Nne, if they started the process right after marriage then Ini already has her Blue pali (US Passport/Citizenship)

    • Chinedu

      October 3, 2014 at 1:32 pm

      Although I don’t like Ini, your comment makes no sense. There’s no guarantee her ex hubby has a US passport or green card and even if he does, you should know that even though your spouse has a passport or has residency, if you don’t live there for a stated number of years, you won’t get a passport. Ini lived and worked in Nigeria throughout their marriage so marrying him for that is out of it. Let me add that not everyone is crazy about passports. Many people are worried about passports and forget about having a solid career and financial life; total foolishness.

  31. suzan anderson

    October 2, 2014 at 7:45 pm

    no body is perfect , we all make mistake , i pray for God'”s intervention the healer of marriages

  32. Crocs....

    October 2, 2014 at 7:50 pm

    Ini is a – abeg….know how she stalks married men.don’t know why she won’t look for single guys whether rich or poor to stalk like that…if you are close to her,ask her about one of the oil guru she stalked for like forever just because he got her a jeep….wonder why she felt she would be happy in another woman’s home(place she snatched)….Truly what goes around comes around…..To the so called husband,whether y he was so dumb to have divorced his wife for Ini Edo….Clueless fellow

  33. Angel

    October 2, 2014 at 7:56 pm

    In Nene’s (of real housewives of Atlanta) voice, LADIES CLOSE UR LEGS TO MARRIED MEN! Hehehe karma dear, karma…..

  34. tayo

    October 2, 2014 at 8:01 pm

    sigh….i dont like divorce *sobs…

    sugarlately.blogspot.com thanks

  35. Bokun

    October 2, 2014 at 8:22 pm

    An adulteress meaning someone who sleeps with a married man deserves every kind of misery they brought down on the other woman. They deserve the pain, heartache and misery period! Karma is a bigger bitch than you. Husband snatching – be warned

    • Ada Nnewi

      October 2, 2014 at 9:43 pm

      wow! you sound pained…did someone snatch your husband?

    • Bokun

      October 2, 2014 at 11:08 pm

      and you sound naive and clueless like the sort dat bring maid to service their husbands.

    • Diya

      October 6, 2014 at 3:40 pm

      my dear,wait until they snatch yours! mine hasnt been snatched yet i can imagine the pain.

    • Bsbuster

      October 2, 2014 at 11:05 pm

      Bitter, VERY bitter!!! Ini steal ur husband?????

    • bokun

      October 3, 2014 at 8:25 am

      No my dear but thanks for giving the green light to all husband snatchers free road to your bed.

    • Tope

      October 3, 2014 at 8:30 am

      But the man also committed adultery of his free will unless she forced him so why are u not calling or cursing him out. Why is it only ini edo taking the blame for the inappropriate relationship. No woman can snatch a man unless he is wondering around and wants to be snatched.

    • Nike

      October 3, 2014 at 9:04 pm

      I don’t understand why people keep missing the damn point. Biology makes a man the way he is. A mans genitals hangs outside for goodness sake men get hard ons first thing in the morning for no reason. Sistas can close their damn legs and help the unfortunate creatures but No ! mothers of tomorrow will open their legs to wayward dicks. Women have more control over their private parts if they close their legs wayward dicks cannot wonder into it. Ladies be your sisters keepers and save the souls of broads by closing your legs

    • Bokun

      October 4, 2014 at 6:42 am

      Yes men commit adultery most times instigate it but a woman has the POWER to shut that action down immediately. Maybe you never hear of ikeba super power. It’s the power women have over men. A woman can control men with her ASSsert Potential AP. It takes a GOD FEARING MAN to resist that demon. Even Solo, sammy and papa J from the bible were victims. Why do you think Aunty Jesse from the biblical times was given such punishment. Why blame women? Becos woman got to consent to adultery before it takes place. A broder gotta to try now they are polygamous by nature. Broders ‘ain’t loyal’ in the face of ass all served up for devouration. If a broder is loyal to CHRIST he might be able to resist where the senseless dick leads. However in the case of Rape broders be hung. So ladies close your market to married men.

  36. Dainty

    October 2, 2014 at 8:28 pm

    Na wah for all these people feeling all sanctimonious and calling out people who mention INi’s WELL-KNOWN promiscuity. Where were u when she was sleeping with this her ex while he was still married? Whether u like am or not the truth remains that Ini is a well-known runz babe. Plenty people know her matter. Lemme not add to the story cos BN might not even post….but i hope she calms down and closes her legs to married men. If u’re ok with Ini sleeping with other people’s hubbies than i pray with all my heart she sleeps with urs too. She’s making other women cry and u’re here talking rubbish. These are confirmed gists not hearsay.

    • Tope

      October 3, 2014 at 8:35 am

      Why can’t the men “zip up” tho. I’m not justifying ini but the blame is not only for the woman. It was the man that took a vow with his wife n not ini. The men should keep their vows and zip up because if it’s not ini they sleep with then it will be another girl.

  37. Stella Kashmoney

    October 2, 2014 at 8:45 pm

    I hope she left with the green card. If not, this would have been in vain sha.

    • Mz Socially Awkward...

      October 3, 2014 at 9:46 am

      I had to laugh. ‘Cos you ain’t never lied.

  38. AA

    October 2, 2014 at 8:50 pm

    May all of you that are commenting that do not know either Ini or Phil personally, but feel u know it all, and ranting insults on the poor girl. Why the do u judgemental Anuofiass always feel u have a RIGHT to comment on other peoples problems. Why? Why do u feel u are ENTITLED TO MAKE A COMMENT OF SOMETHING YOU KNOW NOTHING ABOUT 1ST HAND. When u hear of someone sad or unfortunate news just wish them well or shut tge hell up and dont say shyt at all. As mama will say say something nice or do not say it at all. Ini ASKED for divorce from Phil not the other way round, I know the whole story and wont reveal it to any of you judgemental mofos. Keep assuming and making all your wrong assumption. For any wrong assumption u make may u be cursed 10 generations.

    • Bb

      October 2, 2014 at 9:13 pm

      oya na when they ask for husband snatcher put up your hand and shout out O BU Anyi. Anumpam. Sisterhood of the husband snatchers . Keep your hands up o and show yourself and make it easy for that bitch called karma to catch up with you. Ewu.

    • chacha

      October 2, 2014 at 10:12 pm

      LMAOOOO

    • Passingby

      October 2, 2014 at 10:31 pm

      i just loooool on ward . Gosh you guys won’t kill me or help me loose my job. Closing up bella for the night.

  39. Rubies

    October 2, 2014 at 9:17 pm

    Hmmmmm! Moral of the story; say no to husband snatching, it doesn’t and will never bear good fruit!
    I have a strong feeling she’s not feeling bad about the whole divorce Ish anyways, so all does taking paracetamol for her headache… sorry o!

  40. teekay

    October 2, 2014 at 9:22 pm

    if you are praying for the rain prepare for the mud. she shud ve seen this coming i just pray for her to ve strength. i just keep keep getting scared of marriage sha

  41. Just me

    October 3, 2014 at 12:50 am

    Very sad indeed.
    So sorry ini.
    Did they have kids?
    If no kids involved, it’s usually much better to sever the tie and move on better and stronger.
    I wish her peace of mind and more happiness from here on. She must have thought about it carefully before going forward with the divorce.
    Best of luck sister, marriage e no easy.

  42. fine legs

    October 3, 2014 at 1:48 am

    This babe INI was looking for the card and Phil was looking for a celebrity. This days most people get married wit out knowing their patner or putting God first.. Thk God they didn’t have any children, hahaha

  43. Ijebu Boy

    October 3, 2014 at 3:03 am

    Maybe she got her greencard/US citizenship… and it was time to bounce!!! 5 years seems just about the right amount of time required for that. #justsaying

  44. smooth

    October 3, 2014 at 3:31 am

    so men are hand bags now and they are snatched(i don;t like those words “snatched another woman’s husband”

    • Grown Woman

      October 3, 2014 at 7:33 am

      lmao your comment made me laugh can you imagine?just the thought of snatching someone’s husband does’nt make sense to me but anywats to each his own.

  45. Author Unknown

    October 3, 2014 at 3:44 am

    So why is she stammering now? My my ex husband. I didn’t realise she was scandalous like that.

  46. BB

    October 3, 2014 at 6:36 am

    Why are ppl blaming Ini for stealn anoda woman’s hubby as if u were der? Ppl shd learn to be reasonable n speak wisely.
    Firstly, do u kno wat Phil told her? Also how cud she hv stolen him wifout his consent?
    Secondly, do u kno wat his wife then, Ruth was doing dat pushed him into da hands of anoda woman? If u marry n u dnt do ur job well, ur hubby will run to anoda woman who will now be in charge of sth u didnt value… Its dat simple!
    In my opinion, her marriage has crushed nt bcs of karma or wateva u call it bcs we are all sinners, no sin is greater than da other. Her marriage crushed bcs dey live apart, how can da man live in US, while she lives in Nigeria. I personally dnt blv such marriages last. Ofcourse der might be oda reasons such as money, behaviour, misunderstanding etc.
    Also a gud woman builds her home, every married woman shd tk her hubby as her first child. Wheda u lyk it or not, men are lyk babies.

  47. maguire

    October 3, 2014 at 7:04 am

    Oh dear! Just pick the broken pieces of your life and move on. ONE LOVE!!!

  48. Ik

    October 3, 2014 at 7:24 am

    It’s interesting how everyone here knew about Ini’s marriage and what went wrong more than her I think.

  49. Grown Woman

    October 3, 2014 at 7:38 am

    These divorces are just becoming worse, Ini and the hubby both know what went wrong…Lesson to be learnt to both future spouses and current spouses, never discuss your home issues with outsiders.See the amount of people claiming to be knowing what really went wrong??If she didn’t discuss her issues with outsiders, all this wahala won’t have happened at least everything would have been low key.People should learn to stay out of people’s business.My two kobo

  50. Zero

    October 3, 2014 at 7:50 am

    Pls BN : ignore previous msg.. Typing errors.. This is the real msg:

    Na Naija guys dey toast 99% of the time. If Guy say e no dey relationship or marriage, babe go take him word now, relationship continue, she like am, dem marry, and then one woman come from no where dey talk say she be wifey especially when d relationship don reach another level and then d man deny d other woman making allegations. Tell me.. How this innocent woman take snatch d guy? She fit even know say d guy dey relationship before but if he say dem don break up, she go take him word. Most of these yeye women complaining dat their husbands have been snatched r just liars. Men r not snatched, they know when they want to leave and their former babes or wives go dey do shakara at dat point bcos dem think say d guys go come back.. And when them notice say d guy don move on, especially when they do so very quick, these exes go dey para. Them no fit take d shame at dat point and then, they go begin dey spread lies say dem snatch their guys, especially if d guy go for person wey she know. Women who say that have no self confidence and maybe there really isn’t anything to be confident about bcos she probably knows how bad she is and that it will be extremely hard for her to get another. Spreading lies na consolation prize for am so dat d other babe won’t appear so appealing to others. How egoistic and self centered can u be? People!!! Desist from this them snatch my husband mentality!!! It doesn’t exist. He left u bcos he felt u weren’t what he really wanted and decided to find happiness in another… I’m Sure u’d do the same if u weren’t happy where u are. Stop spreading false lies.. Ur heart beats while it judges ur lies.. U can get seriously high bp for that alone. May I note: it is usually ugly ladies who come up with such accusations. Fine gehs move on and don’t say a word. I be man.. Speaking from experience!!!! Loool… Nonsense…

    • Lady Mo!

      October 3, 2014 at 10:30 am

      Dear Zero, jor nitori olorun. If u must write pidgin or vernacular in general, kindly make it just a few words. I had a seriously hard time reading all u wrote and honestly, I dint comprehend it.

    • Black Coffee

      October 3, 2014 at 12:00 pm

      The long and short of Zero’s rant is that he dates ugly bitter chicks. He said “”from personal experience”” Wrong is wrong. People stay calling good evil and evil, good until it happens to them. Let your wife cheat and move on with the man and see if you won’t be hurt. Is the ex-wife expected not to react? If Ini is human, she is too. Anyway, she has been vindicated. We can all judge how we want but God is the ultimate judge and He has spoken against Ini. Sorry dear Ini, its not too late to change.

    • Fisa

      October 3, 2014 at 11:55 am

      @Zero i feel ure stella Damascus with this ur comment. I just have that strong feeling ure trying to disguise

  51. babysmiles

    October 3, 2014 at 8:12 am

    Not trying to bash people here (well maybe I am), is this not the same woman who was accused of bringing other men into her marital bed including the Jim Iyke and Emeka Ike saga, while she still married to Phil…. people need to chill on this holier than thou attitude. Some of ur skeletons can cause people to have a heart attack if brought out to the public. Remove ur logs of wood in both eyes before trying to blow of someone’s spec of dust.

  52. Han4

    October 3, 2014 at 11:13 am

    Too bad. Its not the end Ini, dont give up. Please no one should judge, only God has got the right to.

  53. Betty

    October 3, 2014 at 1:03 pm

    But, marriage would remain marriage… The vows people make would have remained the same. For better for worse…heeee…… Forget about divorce … it a shame.

  54. ada

    October 3, 2014 at 1:44 pm

    Our generation and what we have turned Marraige into…God help us all., give us wisdom to pick the right partner and prayerfully understand marraige..dont criticise anybodys own.. e no easy…when i hear old couples talk about what saddnes them in our generation is how we have abused the word love and marraige…

  55. Sule Felix Enehe

    October 3, 2014 at 2:15 pm

    It’s so sad…. I thought it’s only ladies that gossip common..

  56. Priscy

    October 3, 2014 at 2:33 pm

    This is sad…

  57. Nelly

    October 3, 2014 at 2:34 pm

    mm

  58. Nelly

    October 3, 2014 at 2:35 pm

    ”Irreconcilable difference”? Whatz diz?

  59. LightBulb

    October 3, 2014 at 3:06 pm

    What bothers my spirit is actually not so much the act of Ini being involved with a married man, witnessing his disloyalty to his previous wife first hand and then going on to marry him. What bothers me is the state of one’s soul, the numerous insecurities, the emptiness, how lost we as humans can be, when one decides to betray God like that.

  60. pat

    October 3, 2014 at 3:09 pm

    She married anoda womans husband wot goes around cums around

  61. Angel

    October 3, 2014 at 4:01 pm

    This mercy girl or whatever you call yourself just shut up! And y’all judging hypocrites…is it because ur lives aren’t out there in the tabloids or magazines,and we don’t know what’s happening in them and u think urs is better so u have the right to judge INI or others? If we give it a check,your lives are so rotten and messy..so just shut up,i too know people…the worst part is that. u ain’t even as successful as she is,yet u stay there and run ur mouth…u don’t know what she is going through,so please to add to it,the man u say she stole,if he is a real man he won’t allow himself to be stolen by any woman from his wife,he should know that he is married!

  62. baboushka

    October 3, 2014 at 5:47 pm

    Clearly BN readers do not read SDK coz the amount of nyash opening that went on there no get part two bottom line both husband and wife are serial cheats, if Ini married for green card her husband did the same to his the first wife. I don’t feel sorry for any of them this was just a marriage of convenience otherwise all those people some claiming family oh that have evidence with dates, times and hotel and people’s names of both their runz while married to each other cannot be lying.

  63. lily

    October 3, 2014 at 8:53 pm

    I have been married for 11 years and I have to say this [email protected]### is freaking hard. People are supper judgemental when it come to women and marriage. It’s like men can do no wrong in marriage. As a marriage woman who is in constant contact women their is one one thing I noticed. before an African woman will file for divorce she thinks about it long and hard for years when she is feed up of the situation because of stigmatisation. What people portray in public is different from their when they are alone. We all read things people write about this “stars” on the Internet. Articles and literatures don’t forget are people’s opinions not always the truth.so let’s not jump to conclusions. Because of social media people think they know people because they follow their accounts. Divorce is not easy for no one. I won’t wish it on my enemy not to talk of someone I don’t even know except on TV. .i hope they both get out of this with forgiveness and not hate and resentment. Because hate just eats you up from inside.

  64. Tolu

    October 3, 2014 at 11:26 pm

    heheheh bella girls I cannot read you castigating this woman whom her ex have accused of been a serial cheater, where are the men are good for nothing girls here. No one reechoing her husband’s allegation here its a woman cheating now no noise lets see what happens if its the other way round.

    • J

      October 5, 2014 at 6:10 am

      both of them are adulterous… men will sow a seed and when the plant grows and bites them. they cry the loudest ahhh see what this plant has done to me…. yam… r u sure he isn’t the one who brought the spirit of lust into the relationship? if the allegations are true Ini is just a product of his adultery. Him as the head of the house has to take authority before God to deliver both of them. I pray they r guided to good council. It takes discernment for alot of things within each marriage.

  65. Mabel

    October 4, 2014 at 12:16 pm

    Ladies the moment we realize that blaming other women for our misery is not the solution. Can you actually steal someone’s husband? Are men babies. We need to STOP making excuses for grown men. If your husband starts running after another woman and forgets his vows to you, don’t blame the other woman that fell in love the way u did. Blame your stupid senseless husband who doesn’t know that they should respect in the sit tuition of marriage, I am tired of women calling other women home wreckers. What of the useless cheat of a hubby. He should take most of the blame for Gods sakes!!!!!!

  66. Bella

    October 6, 2014 at 1:54 pm

    Seems like there is a hotbed of haters on every nigerian social media or news site. People abusing each other, lying on their computers etc.
    I don’t know Ini personally but even if she made a mistake, why laugh and revel in someone’s downfall?
    Even if Ini were Mary Magdalene? And so what? Why would people be so mean and callous? Who amongst the many commenters here know them personally? Why are people so quick to spread rumors and judge? Are you God? I can imagine that if so many commenting here were Jesus, Mary Magdalene would be in the hottest part of hell. But then if Jesus were to be like all these “Pharisees” most people commenting here would also be in the hottest part of hell
    Her marrigae failed. And she has to live with the pains. No one should be the one to “crush the broken reed or put out the flickering flame”
    BTW divorce statistics among young Nigerians is begimning to catch up with that of the develped world. Let us be careful at the how we laugh at others. Marriage and family life is under siege and it is only God’s grace that is holding up a lot of families today.
    lastly i would like to remind BNers of Proverbs 6:16-19
    There are six things the Lord hates,
    seven that are detestable to him:
    17 haughty eyes,
    a lying tongue,
    hands that shed innocent blood,
    18 a heart that devises wicked schemes,
    feet that are quick to rush into evil,
    19 a false witness who pours out lies
    and a person who stirs up conflict in the community.

    • Bb

      October 6, 2014 at 7:04 pm

      When Mary magdaline comes and breaks your home please kneel down and wash her feet and your run away husbands own too. Then come and write an epilogue of love your husband snatcher as you love yourself. EWU

  67. Bella

    October 8, 2014 at 2:20 pm

    Thanks…and you are wise wonderful person . Your comments only portray you as having an insolent and abusivepersonality .

    • Bb

      October 8, 2014 at 5:42 pm

      You are welcome. Your comment portrays you as a holier than thou hypocrite. Just saying it as it is, babe;))

  68. Mine

    November 16, 2014 at 7:33 pm

    I accidentally liked your comment. The 95% of men you quoted are probably the majority of you all that we know are immature, feel entitled, think they have a right to what they don’t deserve, are feeble-minded, and lack integrity. Real men don’t measure a woman’s worth by her vagina, and they know that promiscuity is not a good look for anyone, man or woman. I personally deem promiscuous men in the same light as i do promiscuous women: both types are cheap.

  69. fearGog

    September 11, 2015 at 12:29 pm

    I think government shoud try n stop this film industry of a thing coz it has bring much coruption, sexual immoralities exposin bodies indecent dressing mode, infact sturboness amongst d youth, more stealing $killing skills. Nowadays children don’t wnt 2be responsible again why? Bcoz they wnt2becom a celebrity, musicians. They turns out 2b rude, self- indecipline becomes d order of d day. I always wonder how this stupid film industry came 2existence in Nigeria and how youth dat r invole in actin rubush will av 2 face God at d last day to give an account. But if u tink all this stupid actin has change ur lives u suPport it ,coz as for me n my generation it means absolutely nothing 2me.

  70. Brian

    September 22, 2015 at 3:53 am

    It is her option to divorce her husband. Her decision and life to take deal with.

  71. ME

    May 23, 2016 at 6:19 pm

    Comments are always more entertaining than the story itself. Let me pour me self some juice.

  72. ME

    May 23, 2016 at 6:24 pm

    And to all the ‘this none of my/your/our business’ people:
    When they got married & had it in our faces through various platforms (printed & online) = our business.
    When they be posting about loving each other to the moon & back = our business.
    When they divorce = not our business… yet you took the time to read the post and then the comments.
    Oya clap for yourself Mtchwww.

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