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Are The Odukoya Siblings The New Face of Relationship Talk Shows? Watch Their Webshow – ‘Real Talk Relationships’

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Tolu Odukoya-Ijogun and Jimi Odukoya, children of late Pastor Bimbo Odukoya seem to be toeing the footsteps of their mother in the field of relationship discourse on television.

The siblings released the first two episode of their show ‘Real Talk Relationships’ on YouTube. Their discussing having friends from the other sex especially in a relationship/marriage.

Check it out and share your thoughts below:
Part I

Part II

48 Comments

  1. Ona

    December 11, 2014 at 8:17 pm

    The shouting and talking over each other could be toned down…..besides that, so far so good.

    • Keke

      December 11, 2014 at 11:31 pm

      The shouting was just too much, I couldn’t finish part one of it and will not be watching part two. They need to relax a bit please.

  2. Onyi

    December 11, 2014 at 8:21 pm

    Loved it! loved it! loved it!

  3. jcsgrl

    December 11, 2014 at 8:32 pm

    Sighs…this is the year of online talk shows o and vlogs thanks to Toke. Make I go start my own

  4. Val

    December 11, 2014 at 9:16 pm

    All I can say is that when I get married all my husbands female friends should thank God because they’ve automatically gained another friend. We’ll all be jolly together!

  5. Peperempe

    December 11, 2014 at 9:25 pm

    Too much yelling!
    No coordination
    talking out of turn!
    Please don’t scatter my ears!

  6. Eno

    December 11, 2014 at 9:33 pm

    I am happy to see that the kids are continuing where their mum left off. Gosh…I am sure that woman saved a lot of relationships with her sound advice. However, I think the show is a bit too rowdy and I could not even finish the fist part of the video based on that. I want to believe that with time and experience they will be improvements. Kudos to them!

    • Queen

      December 11, 2014 at 10:43 pm

      I’m impressed too. Pastor Bimbo was my mentor and I’m forever greatful I got the chance to listen to her live at the one time she visited my then Uni at FUTO. I’m proud to say I lived a sensible youth thanks to her messages, videos, and books I read with real live examples she always gave. She was such an intresting preacher and you couldn’t get enough. I could listen to her a full day.

      I’m happy too that her children are living her legacy. Yes the vlog was a bit rowdy but I’m such will improve with time. The message was delivered all the same. Moderation and boundaries are key.

  7. el patron

    December 11, 2014 at 10:01 pm

    Awon Rookie! they need to chill and get the message across better.

  8. Somebody

    December 11, 2014 at 10:06 pm

    Loved every bit of it. Looking forward to the next episode.

    Potential topic to discuss: Please how do you meet Mr/Mrs right biko? It gets harder after you’ve left Uni 🙁

    • JT

      December 11, 2014 at 11:10 pm

      Darling, you pray hard and believe your time will come. God makes no mistake! Whether you left uni yesterday or 10 years ago if God says you will meet you man/woman he will perfectly align your paths to cross and the rest will be history. Just hold on steadfast to your faith and occupy yourself by developing yourself and enjoying your single days… travel, read, hang out w/friends, shot hoops with the boyz, start a biz or two, attend kiddie bday parties, etc the list is countless Just enjoy yourself b/c when MR/Mrs. right comes and babies thereafter there wont be too much time for that.

    • Chifulumnanya

      December 11, 2014 at 11:36 pm

      Harder is an understatement.

    • Winner

      December 12, 2014 at 3:25 am

      Strip club.

    • Tosin

      December 12, 2014 at 8:50 am

      What do you want? Write it down. Consult me if you need extra help. I need money and I’m really good at this lol.

  9. Spicy

    December 11, 2014 at 10:23 pm

    I really feel like counting how many times they said “real talk”…sorry that’s my only contribution lol

  10. Miss b

    December 11, 2014 at 10:50 pm

    Well done to these guys for trying to contribute to Nigeria in a positive way. .

    ..family life in Nigeria is in disarray at the moment. Weddings are multiplying however marriages are Crumbling. We are a generation who must intentionally equip ourselves to be better spouses mothers and fathers. Many of us have so many challenges, you don’t know how to communicate to your wife properly, you don’t even know how to express emotional words…

    We spend hundreds and thousands of pounds and sleepless nights trying to attain MBA’s, however when it comes to developing a strong marriage and family we think “it will just happen” you go on a one week fast before the wedding thinking that is all you need.

    Let us continue to seek growth in becoming better women..a better communicator , a more patient woman, less selfish more gracious, forbearing more…

    Let us be the women who are romantic, be the lady who buys him a present and hides it in his bag. Not because you are playing a game. But because you choose to be a woman filled with love

    Let us continue to grow…

    • Queen

      December 12, 2014 at 11:07 am

      I do all these and more for my hubby! Lol @ “buying a gift and hiding it in his bag”…

    • Thelma

      December 12, 2014 at 2:37 pm

      And do not forget sex !!! It’s as important as any thing else in marriage, cooking his food and being a good wife is not enough. If you lack in this department, even the holiest man will cheat! Even if it is emotional cheating. Cheating isn’t always physical. I don’t know why People do not openly discuss this but in marriage it is 100% a requirement. Even the holiest of man or woman can fall if this area of the marriage is lacking or poorly served.

      Infidelity in marriages by both the man and woman is at it’s peak and I’m talking between two married couples also, but it’s hardly ever spoken about cos it’s like taboo and shame. But hey! It happens and I think happens even more than when unmarried but it’s highly coded and subtle you will heardly hear about it! Even after the end of the affair.

  11. uzems

    December 11, 2014 at 11:06 pm

    It is not everyone that is cut out for talk show….you need go for proper training before you jump out….this episode is absolutely rowdy, loud and disorganized. Crappie

  12. Esther

    December 11, 2014 at 11:12 pm

    Interesting, as much as it’s a chilled and relaxed setting. Orderliness is required. They need to device a means to reduce the troll and all the unnecessary shouts and noise. It’s a very good thing they are doing, the noise is too much. Thanks guys

  13. Molly

    December 11, 2014 at 11:22 pm

    Didn’t watch everything but some of what I did sounds like living in fear. Sad if u can’t leave ur wife alone with ur brother!!!! Sad if u can’t have friends of d opposite sex just because you got married! What happened to the gift of the spirit of self control?

  14. Molly

    December 11, 2014 at 11:23 pm

    Didn’t watch everything but some of what I did sounds like living in fear. Sad if u can’t leave ur wife alone with ur brother!!!! Sad if u can’t have friends of d opposite sex just because you got married! What happened to the fruit of the spirit of self control?

  15. Joan85

    December 11, 2014 at 11:29 pm

    Awwwww Tolu has her mum’s voice. *sigh* RIP Pastor Bim.
    They have great points though 🙂

  16. Esther

    December 11, 2014 at 11:34 pm

    There’s so much to learn from this show but the noise is too much, allow each finish their point. The lady in black dress seating next to pastor J is good at cutting people short before they make sense of their point. A bit feisty. No offence, they are doing a good job. But orderliness will make it better and I must say there are elements of originality in this show. well done guys

  17. aiify

    December 12, 2014 at 1:07 am

    It’s great.its fun,its educating.i love the fact that pst jay used young ” swaggy” couple.bravo

  18. Chilolo

    December 12, 2014 at 2:33 am

    Oga jimi giving us lekki british accent. Yes sir

  19. Talkamjare

    December 12, 2014 at 2:48 am

    I actually liked the rowdy, decentralized nature of the video. it made it more genuine, and gave the naija argument aura. This is usually the argument setting amongst naija people

  20. Mimi

    December 12, 2014 at 3:00 am

    The guy needs to get his thoughts together before his speaks. At first, he said its not about frequency and later he says it is. Typical, all talk over each other. Why do need so much people on the show?

  21. aunty

    December 12, 2014 at 3:50 am

    the moral of the story is …. REAL TALK! cos thats what they yelled all the way through.
    but REAL TALK, they need to chill with interrupting one another and yelling so much.

  22. Que

    December 12, 2014 at 4:53 am

    Rather noisy! Couldnt finish the first video…. on the topic though from d much I watched I think the cute red head lady seemed a bit unrealistic ….I guess its just my way of seeing things…

    Side bar….the Sista Tolu comes across like she enjoys amebo gist well…awon Wendy William type of pple.

  23. J

    December 12, 2014 at 5:03 am

    Nice one…. Keep at it you guys can only get better

  24. Just me

    December 12, 2014 at 7:03 am

    Coordination is missing but i think they all have valid points in their discussion topic.
    I hope to see some improvement in the next valid, limit the yelling and talking over each other…whewwww….

  25. Arin

    December 12, 2014 at 7:35 am

    Stick to one accent British or Nigerian. Don’t be British in one second and Naija in another. I think that’s why I like Toke she’s real all the way. Over all its a good start, I understand the concept, and just like life, there’s always room for improvement.

  26. Tosin

    December 12, 2014 at 8:48 am

    It’s like a cult, or a religion, this whole one man one woman thing. Pretty interesting. I blame Jennifer Aniston and romantic comedies lol.

  27. 'Oma

    December 12, 2014 at 10:20 am

    I think the major distraction for me is the background noise-dogs barking, babies crying and all
    Its a nice program.Fact, people in relationships need to create boundaries for their friends of the opposite sex.Because you dont know the intention of the other person.
    If you must have friends of the opposite sex”(whether married or unmarried cos even married peeps cheat) then involve your partner in the friendship.Why have frequent lunch dates alone when you cn ask your wife or husband to be part of it

  28. mizzbee

    December 12, 2014 at 11:14 am

    so many gsl people. Good show i like the concept and the lax environment but i agree that the shouting and talking over eachother is a bit much. Let it flow naturally… otherwise good job guys

  29. Tolu Odukoya-Ijogun

    December 12, 2014 at 12:17 pm

    Thank you all for the feedback and suggestions. We had 1 long recording session and split the videos into shorter ones. This is our sample video, so we can take into consideration all the feedback.. But most importantly we hope you learn 1 or 2 things from our videos. if you have any question please write us [email protected] Thank you

  30. Mimi

    December 12, 2014 at 2:48 pm

    Well done Tolu. Feedback is a gift and i like the fact that you are taking it in. Just let it foe. Balance the views, keep the vision and be real. We’re proud of you guys.

    • Mimi

      December 12, 2014 at 2:49 pm

      Sorry just let it flow

  31. Sugar

    December 12, 2014 at 4:04 pm

    Please, clouds, don’t rain!” It’s not going to work, is it?

    Just like any other relationship trust is earned, and like they say “Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgment that something else is more important than fear” which is self-worth, and like one of the speakers said you cant give anyone that just as you cant change anyone, its something you have to desire and work at getting.
    Feeling insecure in a relationship is horrible for the one who is feeling the insecurity. The burden – of fear and obsessive thoughts, of feeling powerless, of awful awareness that all this insecurity may actually itself be destroying what you treasure most – can feel pretty unbearable.
    There are principles that every relationship strive on, and those should be in place before commitments are made, then let eachother the freedom of running their lives, except of course you’re married or dealing with a child, you can start to set boundaries and review them on a daily basis.

  32. Sisi

    December 12, 2014 at 10:17 pm

    I actually enjoyed watching. More please!

  33. Bolanle

    December 13, 2014 at 3:16 am

    Greensprings family!

  34. Free

    December 13, 2014 at 7:59 am

    I really loved their mom’s advice and views on relationships. Still have some stuff I wrote down (like 12 years ago!) while watching her on TV speak on marriage and relationships.
    Also, I like the concept of these youths expressing their various opinions on a topic that affects a lot of young people. They are having the conversation that gets us thinking. Looking forward to hearing more from them.
    My opinion though on having a bff of the opposite sex when one is married is, while it is possible to maintain a close friendship, I would rather not encourage it. Based on my personal life experiences, people change, relationships grow and the dynamics could take an unexpected direction at any time. So why tempt yourself?

    • Thelma

      December 14, 2014 at 3:10 pm

      I agree and it’s based on experience. But I conquered it. Lesson learned: Do not put your self under vulnerable situations.

  35. Busola Adedire

    Oluwabusola Adedire

    December 14, 2014 at 2:22 am

    Self worth is not something that can be handed to you. It is everybody’s duty to find themselves prior to a commitment with another person. If you know you are worth something, it reduces your chances of ending up with a joker. Personally, I have no intention of (having or wanting) to keep tabs on a man. It is too demanding.

  36. Beauty

    December 15, 2014 at 3:25 pm

    Well done guys, I enjoyed every minute of the show. When is part III coming out biko? Instead of listening to issues that doesn’t add value on YouTube, this are the real issues we need to discuss. Well Done!

  37. laureanne

    December 16, 2014 at 3:42 am

    It was really interesting, but they need to find a way to control the roudiness…. It looks like whoever says “real talk” is supposed to have the floor, so they should make it a strict rule. Great convo tho! Looking forward to more…

  38. Ajiro

    December 17, 2014 at 4:09 pm

    Which one be “oh your guy is here, so I can go out” at all o! I’m not leaving my husband with any woman! Friend or no friend! Experience has thought me. If they were ur bestie, why u no marry them? Abeg! Spouses should be each other’s confidant. All the guys I was close with, once they married, I respected myself. In fact I’m closer to their wives now. I can tell them what’s going on in my life but I don’t pry into their personal life anymore. If you are taking it outside, then that will become a problem sooner or later. I’m not saying there are no genuine friendships out there, but please the devil is a very smart guy, don’t give him room in your marriage. Be wise!

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