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IK Ogbonna Shares 10 ‘Relationship Mistakes You Must Avoid in 2015’



Ik Ogbonna & his girlfriend, Sonia Lareinaa

Ik Ogbonna & his girlfriend, Sonia Lareinaa

Everyone has got a view on how to make relationships work.

Model and actor IK Ogbonna shared 10 relationship mistakes to avoid in 2015 via his Instagram account. According to him, he has been through different relationships so you can now call him a ‘prof’.

See his tips below:

  1. Stop fighting for a spot in their heart when you know there’s no space for you there.
  2. Never assume a position in someone’s life if they haven’t made it official.
  3. Never give them the privilege of a life partner when he or she is just a sex partner. Guy, stop spending on her. Girl, stop giving him sex. Equation balanced!.
  4. If they are not adding any tangible value to your life, kick them out of your Life. Samson lost his eyes cause he toiled with a woman who had no tangible value to add To his Life.
  5. Go and Check your HIV status. Its an error not to. Health is Wealth.
  6. Never Let this month pass without being a devout Christian
  7. If your heart is set for someone, you will hardly notice anyone no matter how many Beautiful & Gorgeous faces you set your eyes upon daily.
  8. You only notice because your heart is set on many faces that’s why you are a chronic flirt. Hmmm! Sorry if I Just hurt you. But its true
  9. True love isn’t Romeo & Juliet who died together. True Love is Grandpa & Grandma who grew old together.
  10. Marriage is not a must , its better to stay single than rush into marriage and Rush out . If u fight with ur man or woman everyday that’s a sure sign u heading for a divorce when u marry keep ur emotions aside and fix it BFr u take the ring.

Do you agree?


  1. thatikwerrebabe

    January 14, 2015 at 10:38 am

    Forget the look of the preacher and take the message

  2. linda

    January 14, 2015 at 10:38 am

    Nice one IK. So true…….

  3. Rynyx

    January 14, 2015 at 10:55 am

    *yawns*, Same old recycled gist abeg. I cant deal with you and Praise Fowowe, Am sorry.

  4. Hugo

    January 14, 2015 at 10:57 am

    LOL…. these chaps are so BASIC. Don’t come off trying to sound intellectual, deep and shii cos it really shows when you aint and that sucks too. IK should stick to modelling or whatever it is that he does for a living and leave the deep talk for folks who know how to get the msg across.

  5. biols

    January 14, 2015 at 10:58 am

    okay na!!!!!!!!!!!everyone don turn relationship experto……….#writingmineASAP

  6. Hugo

    January 14, 2015 at 10:58 am

    Can someone tell me what No. 6 even means?

    • D Main Man

      January 14, 2015 at 9:17 pm

      Hahahhaa….at a time i thought i was reading a doctor;s note.

  7. jessica

    January 14, 2015 at 11:04 am

    We have all been there LoL…how many of us have hustled a nigga even when we know he ain loyal haha….those days are gone now, thank God for blessing em with my own man….

  8. [email protected]

    January 14, 2015 at 11:09 am

    He does make sense. And i always assumed he was shallow based on his looks…see why its wrong to judge people by looks.?

  9. No 7 and 8 : my best.
    And yes i completely agree with evey thing he said. I hope he applies the rules to his life though.

  10. mockingbed

    January 14, 2015 at 11:13 am

    All of a sudden, so called celebs are becoming relationship experts and be all up in our face like, do these and don’t do these. if we give sex they’ll call us easy, if we don’t they’ll say we are not worth the frontin’. can we be allowed to breathe please?*rolling my eyes*

    • biols

      January 14, 2015 at 12:33 pm

      my dear i tire ooooo talk talk too much i guess when they are bored the next thing their brain reasons is “advice on relationships” hioooooo

    • D Main Man

      January 14, 2015 at 9:22 pm

      if you give sex…where are u giving the sex. you? stingy person. pls!

  11. shantel

    January 14, 2015 at 11:19 am

    too many cliches on this relationship talks……who doesnt know all these things….#rolling eyes#

  12. chioma afonne

    January 14, 2015 at 11:19 am

    soo true.. On point.

  13. Ifunanya

    January 14, 2015 at 11:37 am

    Yes, I agree.

  14. bussy

    January 14, 2015 at 11:40 am

    nice one bro

  15. chica

    January 14, 2015 at 11:40 am

    I Trully did not want to open this post because I personally don’t take any thing about Ik seriuosly.but this is food for thought..well written like a wise person,nice one..

  16. Jessica Alarspon

    January 14, 2015 at 11:42 am

    I totally agree with him… #thumbsup Ik

  17. cocozee(bellassimo)

    January 14, 2015 at 11:48 am

    nice 1

  18. bruno

    January 14, 2015 at 12:09 pm

    any body who will take relationship advice from ik ogbinna has some loose screws in their head.

    what a narcissist. I feel like slapping that smug of his face.

    • biols

      January 14, 2015 at 12:35 pm

      yours is slap? mine is to oinch his face till he goes red


    January 14, 2015 at 12:13 pm

    Do these 10 reasons illustrate why you and your baby mama ain’t together anymore? But the way, how far with that your hispanic chic, bro?

  20. missappleberry

    January 14, 2015 at 12:39 pm

    No 11. Try holding your girlfriend on the red carpet whenever you both go out. Don’t stand as though you would prefer to be alone than with her. Don’t be that vain!

    • bruno

      January 14, 2015 at 12:47 pm

      the girl looks miserable as hell

    • biols

      January 14, 2015 at 1:03 pm


    • Personally

      January 14, 2015 at 1:24 pm

      Must a man hold you on the red carpet? Why are some people so unsecured? So you can tell others to stay away and feel ownership over the man?

      Kai, the way sum ladies reason and their perception of themselves and perception of men in their lives….i cant deal!

  21. faithyberry

    January 14, 2015 at 12:58 pm

    nice one ik, and i agree wit u 100%

  22. Gutcy

    January 14, 2015 at 2:30 pm

    BN , please when will u be posting wedding trends for this year? Some of us 2015 brides are anxiously waiting. Lol

  23. Fashionista

    January 14, 2015 at 3:24 pm

    Well, no 5 is critical! Anyone having sex (married and single) should check their HIV status at least once a year. Not knowing is what will kill you. The only thing is that waiting for the results can give you cardiac arrest; it easily is the longest, most excruciating wait of your life (was for me ).

  24. Eni

    January 14, 2015 at 4:27 pm

    I don’t know but why do people always think that girls are “giving” sex to guys. Don’t both parties enjoy it? I am a girl but I don’t accept that mentality cos the girl equally benefits from the pleasure just like the boy. Unless they’re are using it as if they’re in a barter transaction.

    • cindy

      February 4, 2015 at 12:11 pm

      It’s because it’s been scientifically proven that it’s easier for a man to reach orgasm than women. So generally, I think men enjoy sex than women. I have a lot of friends who gist about their sex escapades and how they have never really enjoyed it an all. Just my two cents.

  25. MisJae

    January 14, 2015 at 4:59 pm



    January 14, 2015 at 5:03 pm

    Same old same old! No one will take you seriously IK.

  27. Huhn?

    January 14, 2015 at 5:06 pm

    Okay but what he said made sense though, so how does your comment have anything to do with the 10 tips he gave?

  28. Olamide

    January 14, 2015 at 5:51 pm

    I totally agree. Thanks Ik

  29. chioma

    January 14, 2015 at 7:25 pm

    Cut and paste!! Have had these for sometime now..

  30. felinda

    January 15, 2015 at 2:26 am

    Would rather listen to an old couple than your gigolo no acting punk Ass

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