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A Must Watch #BNBling Video! Wale & Dami’s Flash Mob Proposal to “On Top Your Matter” by Wizkid in Times Square, NYC



Dami and Wale got engaged in August 2014 with this exciting proposal at New York City’s Times Square with a flash mob – a seemingly random group of people dancing along to the same song – in this case, On Top Your Matter by Wizkid.

They were walking out of a store, then … watch the video for all the heartwarming moments 🙂

Here’s How They Met!

“Sometimes, God just smiles at you and grants you a precious gift you didn’t even ask for. It’s beautiful to have someone that gets me inside out, loves me unconditionally, has my best interest at heart, and constantly challenges me to be a better person” – Wale, the groom-to-be


10th September, 2013 – Wale arrives Nigeria for the first time in 11 years. A serious relationship is the last thing on his mind.

12th September, 2013 – Wale’s brother, introduces Dami and Wale to one another. They get along like a house on fire.

13th September, 2013 – Wale and Dami’s first date. Location: a peppersoup joint in Surulere, Lagos. Also in attendance were their friends Banky, Fola, and Morakinyo. Wale invites Dami on another date.

14th September, 2013 – Dami meets Wale at a wedding he is hosting. Even though there are other people at the party, Dami and Wale zone into one another, enjoying each other’s company and chatting intensely for about 3 hours.

16th September, 2013 – Dami and Wale’s first solo date.

17th, 18th, 21st, 22nd September, 2013 – More solo dates, punctuated by long phone calls lasting late into the night.

23rd September, 2013 – Wale returns to the US. Wale and Dami agree to keep things open and see how things go after Wale’s departure. They are both reluctant to commit to a long distance relationship.

17th October, 2013 – Many Skype calls, voice calls and instant messages later, with tears of joy in his eyes, Wale asks Dami to be his girlfriend. Dami accepts. She has no doubt this is “The One”.

17th December, 2014 – Dami lands at the Hartsfield-Jackson International Airport in Atlanta, Georgia, USA to meet Wale, for the first time in three months. Wale is waiting with open arms and a bouquet of flowers. He literally sweeps Dami off her feet as they hug. Dami and Wale spend 3threeweeks together over the Christmas holidays – their best time ever. By the time Dami is returning to Nigeria, they both know in their hearts that they wanted to spend the rest of their lives together. The rest is history.

The couple is getting married this August.

Proposal Choreographed and Directed by Derek Mitchell |
Proposal Video Produced by Big Hit Events


  1. Lovestruck

    June 5, 2015 at 6:32 am

    This made me cry. Just totally amazing. Every woman deserves to be blown away like this. I pray for everlasting love, joy and peace in their homes.

    • Mama

      June 5, 2015 at 9:45 am

      I am in tears toooooo…. This is so awesome. What a beautiful way to propose. May God bless their union and feel it with happy memories in Jesus Name.
      Thank you God for that man who will love me as Jesus Christ loved the Church.

    • An

      June 5, 2015 at 11:59 am

      See them forming MORAL….you cannot kiss in public abi? Instead ko kiss the hell outta each other…won wa forming reserved!! Anyway my Bobo Lekan take note….please dont propose to me under that your Mango tree beside your house and be forming that is “my most favourite spot on earth…that was where i first set my eyes on you”….bro reset and unset that eyes….time square is real! Congrats…lemme sip on my KCider.

    • LmaoooODEOF LIFE!

      June 5, 2015 at 12:01 pm

      You cracked me up real good. Lmao at MANGO TREE

    • blackcoffee

      June 5, 2015 at 1:23 pm


    • bukola

      June 5, 2015 at 1:40 pm

      Lmao….u r too funny!

    • Anonymous

      June 5, 2015 at 1:54 pm

      lolll………..sure he wont do it under the mango tree

    • Belios

      June 5, 2015 at 4:30 pm

      hhahahha… this cracked me up really well @ reset & unset

    • frances

      June 8, 2015 at 5:00 pm

      Hahaha! You’re so funny

    • ATL's finest

      June 9, 2015 at 3:44 am

      Omg!!! I’m so done not the reset & unset.. God bless them besides, the kissing part hmmm if it was me, his lips wouldn’t remain. Public or no public

    • `JOY

      July 9, 2015 at 3:01 pm


    • B

      June 5, 2015 at 8:41 pm

      U rigght I criied too had to send to my friends botth male and female

    • Miss_Elle O

      June 6, 2015 at 2:06 am

      God bless you for that comment. Every woman deserve such love

  2. Missy J

    June 5, 2015 at 6:36 am

    So if she had said NO that is how those dancers would have jejely pocketed their flowers??
    So cute and intense. As the moment was drawing near my liver already failed me and e no consign me ooh.. The guy try ooh.

    • Seriously

      June 5, 2015 at 9:52 am

      Lol…that was so thoughtful wale. I like men who think outside the box and act on creativity. Anyone who can pull off such proposal in ever busy, crazy Times Square deserves lots of credit. And Dami is so pretty. Beauitiful couple, congrats. Maybe we’ll see their wedding photos on bellanaija.

  3. Sparks and Tingles

    June 5, 2015 at 7:05 am

    Sweet! Uber-romantic.

  4. Nne

    June 5, 2015 at 7:17 am

    The best wedding proposal

  5. Lea

    June 5, 2015 at 7:21 am

    This was very cute. I would have been so shy.

  6. me

    June 5, 2015 at 7:43 am

    Awwww.I wish Dami nd wale d very best
    Dami is super pretty nd nice I think
    Nd wale looks super calm and roma
    Wale do u av a brother*tears

    • Paloma

      June 5, 2015 at 10:24 am

      Heya…. lol

    • fapi

      June 5, 2015 at 9:01 pm

      I am his brother. Well this proposal is something to be proud of but there is a cough(oops clearing my throat cus it’s winter where I am). I love my brother, leader of the wolf pack.

    • ATL's finest

      June 9, 2015 at 3:47 am

      Lol @ Fapi #Shades# …. Clear your cough or hit the ER ASAP with it..

  7. Mpoita

    June 5, 2015 at 7:52 am

    sweet Mpoita: awwwwwwwww soooo sweet

    mean Mpoita:
    1. this high jump you set for others isnt ok at all
    2. Na God help you; she no yarn you one heavy NO after you don shut down Times Square …. your eye for clear
    3. so clearly una don chop complete and when una wake this morning una no get to on gen to iron ya cloth

    CONGRATS all the same… God bless you both

  8. habibi

    June 5, 2015 at 7:52 am

    Pls what kind of question is did you pee in your pants????

  9. Isioma

    June 5, 2015 at 8:10 am

    This definitely brought tears to my eyes. So lovely and real. Am a sucker for that song too.

  10. sussy

    June 5, 2015 at 8:37 am

    Lovely proposal and story, but Bella una no try o, first post i see this early and cold morning, kotinue o

  11. moi

    June 5, 2015 at 8:51 am

    I am not really a fan of public proposals but watching this alone made me cry, love they say is sweet when you are with someone that love you more than you do, i wish them the very best.

    • iyke

      June 5, 2015 at 10:34 am

      @moi love you more than you do, for real????

  12. *gbemi*

    June 5, 2015 at 9:04 am

    Pls wat song was playing when he proposed? Thanks in advance

    • Ima

      June 5, 2015 at 10:16 am

      You are by Charlie Wilson.

  13. chi-e-z

    June 5, 2015 at 9:09 am

    aww yea 2 cute 😀

  14. Olufunke

    June 5, 2015 at 9:22 am

    this proposal literally brought tears to my eyes…. wow! this shows how much Wale adores and want to be with Dami. Every woman needs this at some point in their life, for real! congratulations Dami and Wale. I pray your Love will continue to wax stronger in Jesus name, Amen

  15. pretty young thing

    June 5, 2015 at 9:32 am

    Didn’t realise when tears rolled down my face. Beautiful proposal

  16. evah

    June 5, 2015 at 9:35 am

    Awwwww. …*tears*..I didnt realize I was holding ma breath till d end….omg….This is too cute.

  17. Ivy

    June 5, 2015 at 9:46 am

    *faints* **faintsagain** ***faintsagaiiiinnnnn***.

    • Mimi

      June 5, 2015 at 10:22 am

      *pours cold water*

    • o

      June 5, 2015 at 11:08 am

      “starts fanning her”

    • Missy J

      June 5, 2015 at 11:46 am

      Which ‘pours cold water’?? take Mimi to the nearest Lagoon

    • Missy J

      June 5, 2015 at 11:47 am

      Lol Ivy I mean’t. #Don’t cry#

    • Dom

      June 5, 2015 at 3:34 pm

      lolllllllllllllll that’;s nice of you.

  18. sumz

    June 5, 2015 at 9:57 am


  19. spicy

    June 5, 2015 at 10:13 am

    The way I’m cheesing so hard right now, trying to keep the tears away cos I’m in public *sniff sniff

  20. Paloma

    June 5, 2015 at 10:21 am

    Wow! i love sunrises! so romantic!

  21. Berry Dakara

    June 5, 2015 at 10:35 am

    Why are you making me cry this early morning?!

    This was so sweet to watch. Congratulations Wale and Dami.

    • Nezzzzzzz...

      June 5, 2015 at 1:44 pm

      @Berry, I’m crying with you…..again. I can’t wait for people to cry with me too(in a sweet way). God please send this Bobo asap. This Babe is set.

  22. iyke

    June 5, 2015 at 10:43 am

    Interesting and courageous! This made me smile. The bride seems like a very freaky girl that you can bring home to momma. Nice …Lovers gonna love.
    Mz Socially Awkward, you know it’s time we decide that we want this more than we are afraid of it?

    • Bleed Blue

      June 5, 2015 at 11:56 am

      LOL Iyke. Let Idak catch you.

      Mz. Socially Awkward ngwanu do and return from your South of France waka-about (yes I’ve been side-eyeing your oppressive pictures up and down) and come and answer Iyke oh!

    • Person

      June 5, 2015 at 3:18 pm

      Idak has been sleeping on a bicycle!!! Where is Idak, ehn? Been a while! LOL

    • Iris

      June 5, 2015 at 10:39 pm

      Wait, why did I think Idak was a guy?

    • Dee

      June 5, 2015 at 11:34 pm

      Idak is a guy na. lol. What’s making you think otherwise?

  23. Eyitayo

    June 5, 2015 at 10:47 am

    Wow!!! Wish them endless Joy and Love in their home. Congratulations

  24. Ms_oyinkansola

    June 5, 2015 at 10:54 am

    So touching! some guys are just too sweet. MT pls take note biko!

  25. yeancah

    June 5, 2015 at 11:01 am

    OMG… See me grinning from ear to ear as if I know the couple personally… This is so sweet.., as much as I detest public proposal but I love surprises and I can imagine the butterflies in the lady’s belly. Congrats to you both

  26. o

    June 5, 2015 at 11:09 am

    Love, love, love this….it made me cry. But i would have fainted with such a public proposal if it was me, or would have turned to water….lol

  27. See dem

    June 5, 2015 at 11:29 am

    aww,omg and sweet, eeh?. I thought you ladies said naija’s men aren’t romantic?

  28. Fols

    June 5, 2015 at 11:31 am

    As in Times Square….! That moment when it seems the whole world stops just for you! What a beautiful couple. I wish you all the happiness in this world and the next. You will never regret this day in Jesus’ Name!

    P.S. Nothing this “fantastic” has ever happened to me; my husband proposed to me in a dark corner by my car @ Shoprite Lekki 🙂 but i thank God for EVERYTHING I have. Every moment I have been able to breathe and have a heartbeat and share with people I love has been a blessing! And it’s the same for us all. Thank You Lord.

    • Beautee

      August 5, 2015 at 6:03 pm

      I totally love these two so beautiful chai love oh love! God bless your Union!!! For the rest of us single people it makes it hard because you might have a nice guy that is not thinking like this…it makes it hard because it’s easy to start thinking something is wrong (even when nothing is) if your man doesn’t live up to these expectations.

  29. oluwaSeun

    June 5, 2015 at 11:54 am

    Lovely! Wishing you an eternal blissful life together.

  30. Noms

    June 5, 2015 at 11:56 am

    I like, I like , I like
    May your home be blessed.

  31. Temitope

    June 5, 2015 at 12:12 pm

    So romantic and it really make me cry. Congrats to you both.

  32. christabel

    June 5, 2015 at 12:22 pm

    Wow wow wow wow wow, beautiful I can’t stop crying, the best proposal ever. I wish you all the best.

  33. nnenne

    June 5, 2015 at 12:24 pm

    Let no one tell me Nigerian men aren’t romantic
    Congratulations Wale and Dami.

  34. [email protected]

    June 5, 2015 at 12:30 pm

    It was so real!!!!!
    You can see that he put so much thought into planning the proposal.

  35. looters

    June 5, 2015 at 12:32 pm

    Don’t get it twisted love is a burriful thing

  36. Akosua

    June 5, 2015 at 12:45 pm

    best wedding proposal ever .totally made me cry

  37. k

    June 5, 2015 at 1:21 pm

    so sweet!!

  38. sophia

    June 5, 2015 at 1:34 pm

    OK am not gonna cry *tear* this is jus totally cute…..I sooooooo want if possible more & better…..*wishful thoughts lol congrats darlings

  39. fête

    June 5, 2015 at 1:34 pm

    Sigh!! Couldn’t even watch this to the end cos I was just crying like an idiot and I didn’t want to ruin my make up. Hopelessromantic .com. God bless you guys for showing us true love still exists.

  40. Priscy

    June 5, 2015 at 1:37 pm

    God…this made me so emotional
    So men like this are still existing?
    Why are they so scarce na?
    I know mine is out there…but he is taking so much time
    I am ready

    God bless your home already

  41. bukola

    June 5, 2015 at 1:44 pm

    Awwwwr, this just too beautiful….WasNigerian guys r trying to be more romantic these days…am impressed! r expecting them to kiss tho, white pole ain’t got time for forming, Wish Wale and Dami a blissful one.

  42. Mrs A.

    June 5, 2015 at 1:46 pm

    Awwwwr, this just too beautiful…Nigerian guys r trying to be more romantic these days…am impressed! Was expecting them to kiss tho, white pple ain’t got time for forming, Wish Wale and Dami a blissful one.


    June 5, 2015 at 1:59 pm



    June 5, 2015 at 2:00 pm


    • Oyko

      June 11, 2015 at 10:03 pm

      Like: he proposed to me amidst the hustle and bustle of obalende market

  45. Queen Spicey

    June 5, 2015 at 2:16 pm

    Am not a fan of public proposals but this right here I can accept, and it brought tears to my eyes. May God bless your home Dami and Wale.

  46. yetunde

    June 5, 2015 at 2:23 pm

    This totally blew me away…..congrats to wale and dami……God bless ur union……
    future husband, do take note….I want to be swept off ma feet

  47. desireayo

    June 5, 2015 at 2:31 pm

    SO so beautiful.. wish Wale and Dami a blissful marital life ahead and i pray my man find me soonest ijn.

  48. babym

    June 5, 2015 at 3:38 pm

    awwwwwwwwwwwww, this was sooo beautiful and surreeaal. chai Love is beautiful ooo. God bless you guys very very well. Make I go show hubby tell am say make he propose to me again hehehe

  49. Xty

    June 5, 2015 at 4:17 pm

    I cried like a baby. This was beautiful!!!!! God bless their union.

  50. Pabara

    June 5, 2015 at 4:40 pm

    Remember me oh Lord…. God bless your union.

  51. 1 + The One

    June 5, 2015 at 5:32 pm

    Awwwwww, such a beautiful proposal! Wale must have put incredible thought and time into it! I’m sure she won’t forget this. God bless their union!!
    … And yes, our Naija brothers can be very ‘romontic’.. 🙂

  52. Flowerlady

    June 5, 2015 at 5:38 pm

    Aw this got me teary eyed! Such a fun way to propose to your lady! She was too surprised to look at that rock on her finger lol. He did a good job! May God Bless your Union!

  53. Ebony

    June 5, 2015 at 6:00 pm

    Why is Hartsfield-Jackson International Airport in CAPS?

  54. kassy dameji

    June 5, 2015 at 7:42 pm

    I lost hope n everyday l c dat all Is nt lost.My ur lv last as long as u live.

  55. B

    June 5, 2015 at 9:01 pm

    Honestly I cried it was just too romantic and u will know this is true love. Had to share this with my bf so he will know to to propose may we will go to China lol. All the best for dami and wale. Keep prayin hard cos that’s. The key. God bless u both

  56. daisy

    June 6, 2015 at 1:00 am

    Wizkid promised on twitter to perform at their wedding for free. Anyone who knows them should inform them

  57. Papacy

    June 6, 2015 at 2:54 am

    Bella naija weddings! Oppressing boys since 2000. I cannot come and go and kee myself away abeg.

  58. Abbey

    June 6, 2015 at 3:56 am

    Not even an emotional person but I teared up watching that. I wish you both the best!

  59. haardey22

    June 6, 2015 at 9:52 am

    aaawww wale this is so nice , wish u both all the happiness in your marriage. plzz anyone who knows wale or dami should inform them that wizkid promised to perform for them free at their wedding

  60. Opyli

    June 6, 2015 at 10:02 am

    Woooow! This is just too romantic, I can’t deal ! *tears* need my hubby to show me some romantic side of him. I totally love pleasant surprises!

  61. when will my own turn come

    June 6, 2015 at 3:16 pm

    Why are some girls just sooo lucky??? How long o lord?? *crying deep tears*

  62. B.E

    June 6, 2015 at 8:52 pm

    Amazing! just amazing! speechless watching the video so I can imagine how the lady felt with all that attention……

    To the bride to be- always remember this moment in the not so amazing times in marriage that your man adores you!!!

  63. aeesha

    June 6, 2015 at 8:58 pm

    Mehn… Did proposal is bam. Me luv it like kilode! It was a mind blowing and one of its kind! Wish dem blissful home ahead.

  64. Deedara

    June 6, 2015 at 10:21 pm

    Awww… so sweet. Made me cry. They look so happy together. God bless them.

  65. [email protected]

    June 7, 2015 at 3:07 am

    I see beautiful kids in future.Wow!Beautiful proposal!Meanwile seeing damilola so pretty and lepa I made a note to self -Ibk you need to shed this fat*sad face*so you can look sexy when you get the proposal.Oh boo!Where art thou?

  66. Dee

    June 7, 2015 at 10:38 am

    Hmmm, this wedding proposal really got me so emotional. I wish you the very best, my prayer is that you live together happily ever after.

  67. Suwa

    June 7, 2015 at 2:30 pm

    Dear God if you’re listening now, please I am ready to get married. Congrats Wale and Dami

  68. torbey

    June 7, 2015 at 5:10 pm

    This is so nice…The only reason am not in tears right now is becuz I just dried them to comment…wish them a blissful marriage

  69. ayo

    June 8, 2015 at 12:55 pm

    brought tears to my eyes. single, pretty, hardworking with brains and waiting for mine to come. whao just 1 yr and all this ,its well. Beautiful

  70. black nubia

    June 8, 2015 at 4:52 pm

    amazing love story. best of luck to them.

  71. Bis

    June 8, 2015 at 6:56 pm

    Totally beautiful! The thought and time that Wale must have put into this……just amazing! And Dami is sooo pretty! I wish you both God’s blessings always!

    And by the way, Mr. Husband, hear the word of God! Hear the word of God! A man who finds a wife finds a beautiful thing! Find me, biko! #betheregoingupanddowndoinganyhow

  72. tade

    June 8, 2015 at 9:59 pm

    Congrats Dami and Wale.Folake Atos,your sister is so lucky ooooooooo.

  73. ATL's finest

    June 9, 2015 at 3:55 am

    Omg!!! NYC, Time square.. In as much as I can’t imagine me living in NYC, I love it because everything is possible in this State especially @ Time square.. but I will always visit.. Congrats Dami & Wale

  74. Kaychi

    June 9, 2015 at 7:42 pm

    Scenes like dis jst mk me want to fall in love again..i watched wit teary eyes and kept smiling lyk a fish as if I know d couple..God bless u both.

  75. Oluwakemi

    June 10, 2015 at 8:23 am

    This was really intense and amazing ….how beautiful, i wish them the best a blissful marriage

  76. Gracie

    June 10, 2015 at 11:56 am

    This proposal is amazing, I like it. The part where her cousin asked her “did you pee on your panties” made me roll my tongue uncontrollably. Hahahahaha

  77. Beby

    June 11, 2015 at 5:57 pm

    I’m so #teamnopublicproposal,but this absolutely got me….this has to be the best wedding proposal ever?????.God bless your union

  78. peo

    June 11, 2015 at 11:44 pm

    wawuuuu I just shed a tear adonbillivit

  79. nk

    June 16, 2015 at 6:46 pm

    ahahahaaaaaahahahahahaahaahaa babe u no well at all

  80. esther

    October 20, 2015 at 2:08 am

    Chai I need dis in my lyf, watching dis at midnite just got me tinking, the guy seriously wanted to kiss bt e be lyk say he no wan make babe faint finally cos she was literally shaking all over.

  81. bukunmi

    November 14, 2015 at 9:58 pm

    HML cos i know this amazing couples are married now. i cried when i saw the video. best proposal i av ever seen and watch, i got so emotional, i pray God settled me too. God bless your union.

  82. olsa

    January 29, 2016 at 10:13 am

    Gosh! This really got me thinking about the mother of kids. If you see her, show her this for me, I hope she thinks about me too. Can’t wait to finally meet her…

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