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‘Children are a Product of Love, Not Marriage’! Damilola Adegbite on Dealing with Backlash of Giving Birth before Marriage & More for Blanck Digital Mag



Chris Attoh & Damilola Adegbite for Blanck Digital Magazine - BellaNaija - June 2015Yesterday we shared first photos from Blanck Digital‘s new issue with hot couple Chris Attoh & Damilola Adegbite showcasing their sexy love. Now we have more images of the hot couple as well as some inside shots of the issue.

From steamy love in the bedroom to blossoming love in the garden, they sure do make a hot pair.

In an interview with the magazine, Dami talks on how dealing with the backlash of having a child before marriage. According to Dami;

We love our fans and supporters, without whom we won’t be called celebrities. But here’s the truth; our work is our work and our personal lives are ours to deal with, hopefully none of the people who love our work are completely emulating our lives, so I’m hoping that they can accept and respect what our choices and decisions are. Without letting that get in the way of how much they appreciate our work.

The truth is I have my personal life to live. My partner and I have made decisions based on how we deem fit and I will totally take having a baby out of wedlock than having an abortion. The baby came at the best time he was meant to come. We love each other and already had plans of being together so why not. Thankfully our families and those who their opinions really mattered were okay with our decisions.  

I recall in a recent article, where the same question was thrown at the musician Brymo and he said that – children were a product of love and not marriage and I completely agree. I’m not one to live my life based on other people’s standards. Fortunately for me, I didn’t get a lot of heat from people, in fact most people who knew about us were very happy about everything. The people who knew the journey that we passed through called it a miracle that we could come this far.

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I remember when I told Chris I was pregnant, he laughed uncontrollably… I was shocked. He was so happy and that was all that mattered to me at the time. My family is doing great and I hope that everyone can respect that. Like the saying goes – whoever wears the shoe, knows where the shoe pinches (laughing). Bryan is a miracle and was given to us for a reason we both know. He came at the time we didn’t expect but it was such a beautiful timing. I wouldn’t trade that feeling for a million fans.

Some people have asked me if having a child obligated Chris to marry me and here’s my answer, there are a lot of baby mamas out there who their baby daddies didn’t marry, so having a kid for a guy doesn’t guarantee anything.

To us, Bryan sealed the deal for us – his coming made us know that God was leading us to the path we had always wanted and it would have been foolish for us not to jump on it. And Bryan brought a lot of change, redirection, focus, organisation and unity.

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The issue also features a fab beauty editorial titled “Vibrant Dust”. The talked to the New York based photography duo Ada and Manre Ebhomielen about finding love in life and work; featuring a special beauty editorial titled “Vibrant Dust“.

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Visit and click on cover to read full issue.

Credits: Chris & Damilola Attoh
Words: Franka Chiedu
Photography: Apag Studios
Photography Production Support: Teresa Meka & Ben Bond
Styling: Sandi Owusu
Hair & Makeup: Lawrencia Owusu
Location: La Villa Hotel, Accra, Ghana.

Credits: Blanck X Adidas
Photography: Ademola Odusami
Styling & Art Direction: Bella Adeleke
Makeup: Toni Kemi

Credits: Vibrant Dust
Photography: Ada & Manre Ebhomielen of Avaloni studios New York
Makeup: Abi Yussuf

Jennifer is the Beauty Editor & Style Representative of Get in touch - Send an email to: beauty(at) or style(at) | Follow us on Instagram: @bellanaijabeauty OR @bellanaijastyle | Follow us on Twitter: @bellanaijastyle


  1. Anonymous

    June 2, 2015 at 8:10 am

    Children a product of love and marriage is the proof and the seal of love. A process of producing the product before the seal is fornication- sin that the parents alone are guilty of before God. The child ( the product) remains innocent of whatever sin was committed by the parents in bringing him or her to life.

    • baba

      June 2, 2015 at 11:59 am

      Gbam!Well said! The most annoying bit is when people make comments like ”I love this couple”…I have given to them a reprobate heart that they do what is pleasing to their eyes and worst still is to defend it with mumbo jumbos…

    • Amaka

      June 2, 2015 at 1:34 pm

      Dear damilola, you got pregnant, that’s nobody’s business but coming out to say things like “children are a product of love not marriage” to back up your – out of wedlock pregnancy is not acceptable. Of course abortion is not what I’m suggesting here but please don’t say twisted trash that makes things like fornication look okay. Young girls will soon start quoting this to their parents now. Please don’t be that person.

    • Becca

      June 2, 2015 at 10:18 pm

      Big Fail.
      Your holy book says even babies aren’t innocent but born with original sin. Apparently from their greatest ever G-mama Eve who ate some fruit. FML

    • Tosin

      June 3, 2015 at 10:17 pm

      i love everything about the article. Go blanck!

  2. kelechi

    June 2, 2015 at 8:16 am

    I love this couple. Beautiful and all. I am proud of you for not taking the abortion route. Having said that. Abeg if you/we/I /they say we are christains can we please live like christains…… it is never Gods plan that a child be born out of marriage whether you are in love or not!
    God planned sex for married couples who are obligated to love one another pure and simple. This is what Gods word says even if we/the world do not like it.
    Thank God beautiful Brian is alive and well but please babies are supposed to be products of a loving marriage and not love alone.
    children should be raised in a patnership and not solo movements. Thank God Chris decided to marry you. God bless him for that.
    PS men if you know you have no intention to marry a lady you are sleeping with please wear a condom bikonuuuuuu

    • C'est moi

      June 2, 2015 at 12:36 pm

      Oh ye of little knowledge. The family unit has been around before records began. However the Christian idea of marriage as a necessary religious ceremony performed by God’s rep (a priest or pastor) in God’s presence, publically before witnesses only was only enforced in the 16c when the catholic church needed more income streams. Christian ceremonial rites is a man-made construct not a biblical imperative. The early Christians, our ancestors & families around the world are primarily formed by custom not religion.

    • Nina

      June 2, 2015 at 6:01 pm

      And your point is? because I lost it at your 3rd sentence… what were Noah and his wife in then? or maybe Jacob in the early days BC had a partner, not a wife? How about Abraham? Sarah was his GF right…..your comment is superfluous!

    • Funms

      June 2, 2015 at 5:15 pm

      @Kelechi, I disagree with you a bit on this one.

      When did Adam and Eve “marry” before he had sex with her?

      To be honest its all very complicated and its takes grace, wisdom, and life’s experience to figure out what works best for each individual. I believe God can help each of us to make sense of it all.

    • niri

      June 3, 2015 at 2:10 am

      Adam married eve when he took her to be his wife by saying “this is the flesh of my flesh nd bone of my bones” it was after that d Bible recorded that adsm “knew” his wife


    June 2, 2015 at 8:18 am


  4. Olufunke

    June 2, 2015 at 8:28 am

    awww… Mr. and Mrs Attoh. i totally agree with your stand that your decisions are your and you’re happy with it. But please don’t confuse people that “children are product of Love not Marriage”. As a Christians, we believe as God commanded us that fornication (sex outside marriage) is sin. So, please don’t try and justify your decision and confuse innocent minds.

    • Fountain of Paper

      June 2, 2015 at 9:27 am

      See, your comment right here is the real problem.

      Why do you assume that everybody is a Christian? Why do you keep touting the Bible as the grundnorm? To whom?

      At what point are y’all gonna realise that 1. Religion is PERSONAL 2. Not everybody is a Christian. 3. Your stupid intolerance of people’s rights to believe what they want about the ‘supernatural’ is a contravention of your Christian faith. 4. You sound like a sanctimonious person who believes that sex (outside of marriage) is the one thing that make you a good ‘Christian’ .

      Excuse me, please pull your heads out of those asses long enough to see that the BIBLE applies to only people who have made THAT CHOICE!

      And this applies to the rest of you commenting about the BS of ‘right’ and ‘wrong’ as prescribed by your Christian Jesus!

      Geez! Bloody hypocrites!

    • Paloma

      June 2, 2015 at 10:47 am

      Mr. Fountain of Paper must you insult people before you make your points clear??? i just wonder how some people relates smh….

    • Olufunke

      June 2, 2015 at 12:36 pm

      and of course you speak like you name, Mr. Fountain of paper.

    • Blah blah

      June 2, 2015 at 12:45 pm

      VOLTROOOOOON!!!! Defender of the universe. You were so quick to make your comment you completely missed out Damilola referencing God.

      “To us, Bryan sealed the deal for us – his coming made us know that God was leading us to the path we had always wanted and it would have been foolish for us not to jump on it. And Bryan brought a lot of change, redirection, focus, organisation and unity.“

      She clearly is religious so Olufunke had every right to say what she said.

    • Fountain of Paper

      June 2, 2015 at 12:49 pm

      @Blah Blah… since when did a mention of God become synonymous with Christianity?

      You dey hear yourself so?

      Religious does not mean Christian! Get yourself some education, Chil’

    • Blah blah

      June 2, 2015 at 5:38 pm

      I said she was clearly religious. I didn’t say christian. I purposely didn’t say christian. Most religions preach against premarital sex. She could be Muslim (which also preaches chastity) or she could even be Buddhist which preaches that one should not indulge in sexual misconduct. I don’t care! You are so eager to fight your little corner you didn’t assimilate what I wrote. The essence of my comment was to show that your argument was unnecessary, pointless. Thanks though for the education.

    • Mogbo moya

      June 2, 2015 at 6:26 pm

      What kim kardashian will cause in this generation choi

    • Seriously

      June 2, 2015 at 8:19 pm

      Marriage is not only Christianity ideology. Other religion and cultures believe in marriage. My Vietnamese close friend is a Buddhist. And, she mentioned how she has to be a Virgin before marriage. And children must come after marriage. Children out of wedlock is wrong. She’s not a Christian and she shares the same principles as Christianity.

      I find it interesting how some people get so angry when others use the bible as their standard but let a Muslim use Quran, nobody has the guts to get angry let alone attack him/her. Just bcos you are quoting the bible doesn’t mean you are being judgemental or hypocrites. Christianity is still the most lenient, free religion out of all of them but gets the worst wrap. It’s ok, the more folks attack it, the more it confirms it being the truth.

      P.S everyone has right to live their life whatever way, however, don’t distort the truth to justify your action.

    • Onye

      June 2, 2015 at 12:12 pm

      They talk about having a personal life and are flaunting their relationship on the cover of a magazine. Abeg siddown!

    • C'est moi

      June 2, 2015 at 12:30 pm

      Where does the bible define fornication to mean per-marital sex? Or even state that per-marital sex between consenting unrelated adults is a sin.

    • Dolly

      June 2, 2015 at 2:54 pm

      You need to read your Bible again,that is if you have one and proly studied it before..
      N.B: And it is pre-marital…..You have a lot to educate yourself on….God help you!

    • C'est moi

      June 2, 2015 at 8:55 pm

      So Dolly or anyone else, care to locate where the bible defines or even implies premarital sex to mean fornication & thus a sin. Or even a biblical definition for sexual immorality? One church said oral sex & toys were sexually immoral! are pastors just making this up as they go along? Fornication didn’t even mean premarital sex until a few centuries ago & scripture has been around longer than that.

  5. ssah

    June 2, 2015 at 8:41 am

    people sha and their backlash…*eyes rolling* everyone chooses their path in life so whats our own fa?

  6. aisha

    June 2, 2015 at 8:47 am

    you are all talking like you don’t have sex. pls pls pls. its her life and her family. no moral compass here abeg. you can all quote the bible and quran or whatever book or doctrine you want. the truth is people are having sex and having babies and living their lives. na una wey fuck pass go talk bible. do you my sister. if anybody is not comfortable….transformer dey. go hug one.

    • tish

      June 2, 2015 at 9:43 am

      Not everyone is having sex outside wedlock, believe it or not. We are in the era of its your life, do you etc, as much as that is true, to what extent? How does doing you affect others? She has given birth to a beautiful boy, and I believe most people are happy for her, but as a Christian it is wrong to have sex before marriage. Plain and simple. There are people that will read this interview and take the wrong from it.
      You know the thing about good and bad? The frequency of its occurrence doesn’t change a thing. That people do it every second changes nothing.

  7. dee

    June 2, 2015 at 9:14 am

    this caption is MISLEADING, because you gave birth out of wedlock doesn’t make it right. and God made the institution of marriage for love and then to have kids. thats how it should be, dont justify your sin please i know anyone can fall but dont encourage other people to fall. hold your sef before marriage AIDS is real. most people dont even know their status till the church asks them to go for a test during pre-marital classes .

  8. kikaki

    June 2, 2015 at 9:19 am

    There is a difference between living your lives as you please and preaching a false message. It all depends on their faith. If they are not Christians, then you can’t expect them to live to the standards of Christianity but if they are, let’s not get this twisted. Children are a gift from God regardless of the circumstance but they are supposed to be received in marriage. Having said that, well done for providing a stable environment for him to grow up in.

  9. Olori Tari

    June 2, 2015 at 9:23 am

    “Thankfully our families and those who their opinions really mattered were okay with our decisions”…. GBAM! Na that be the koko, the rest Na opata. And even when family doesn’t agree, me I believe one should be able to be thankful for their personal decisions!

    That reference to Brymo’s “children are a product of love not marriage'”….I like! When I read that his interview, it stuck with me. And by all means if you think it’s vice versa then DO YOU and get married first. But to hold people to your own standard is ridiculous abeg, I have never understood it! Let people choose how the child comes, this policing on who opens vagina and blokus to who, how and when is funny. It’s even funnier when you hold them to the standard of the bible…like hallos remove thy log first. And the condemnation…LOL

    • i no send

      June 2, 2015 at 9:34 am

      which one be blokus ehn olori tari..havent heard that in a bit …Looool

  10. Debs

    June 2, 2015 at 9:37 am

    Having said… I don’t feel this magazine photo-shoot is appropriate either… wonder what message are you trying to pass across…hiss

  11. Enehezei

    June 2, 2015 at 10:16 am

    This is a very crious somtin o!ittiz nor a jolkin stuvs..Nigerians sha!even after bin told dt thr opinion don’t count,they wee sha stil talk…y don’t ya’ll let God b da judge and allow Mr & Mrs Attoh breathe fresh air?evry man is entitled to his or her own perception abwt ‘sex b4/after marriage’..if both had whole heartedly prayed to God b4 they started ‘datin’,wat makes it less dan a marriage?d unnecessary ‘owambe’?lol…newaiz,may daa Almighty direct our affairs right.Anty Dammy God bless ur home!

  12. labyrinthe

    June 2, 2015 at 10:37 am

    Please a child is a result of a male spermatozoa coming in contact with a female egg. It has nothing to do with love or marriage.

    If a mad woman with a functional reproductive system have sexual intercourse on her fertile days without any form of barrier, she’ll have a baby!
    In the same order if a male rabbit copulate with a female rabbit during her heat period, a kitten will be the result.

    In this way species can preserve their kind. So you all can stop arguing.

    • Marian

      June 4, 2015 at 8:45 am

      Lol, was about to write something similar to this.

  13. cleo

    June 2, 2015 at 10:49 am

    Correction!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! “children are as a result of sex”. Even when sex is involved without love, children still come forth. Fornication, adultery, rape and love making in marriage all lead to children. It is your business how you wish to bring children to the world so let be your business and yours alone. WHatever rocks your boat.

  14. Paloma

    June 2, 2015 at 10:49 am

    They are just trying to justify what they did!

    • MC

      June 2, 2015 at 9:47 pm

      Justify to who!???

  15. Idomagirl

    June 2, 2015 at 10:54 am

    Dem no dey fear overexposure?

  16. concerned9a

    June 2, 2015 at 11:01 am

    Wonder what Tuface..Davido….Whizz..and most of the male artists have to say about their one night encounters…just as well he dignified you cos boys take a long time to wife up after dropping one!!…and talking from the African perspective.

  17. Ebony

    June 2, 2015 at 11:16 am

    She’s quite intelligent and puts her thoughts across nicely.
    This is by no means a backlash but sex should be after marriage. If you however find yourself pregnant by doing it before then, then by all means have the child and not an abortion.

  18. Mummybubu

    June 2, 2015 at 11:35 am

    Whatever happened to losing virginity on the wedding night or after. I don’t think its old fashion I think its a virtue.

    • MC

      June 2, 2015 at 12:55 pm

      Then you do it then.

  19. Olu

    June 2, 2015 at 12:00 pm

    Women are their own enemies!

  20. Princess Lulu

    June 2, 2015 at 12:24 pm

    i just find nigerians abit too much, so judgemntal and they want to force push believe their believes down everyone’s throught….Marriege that marriege this, cant a human being be complete without marriege?.. Many so called christians yet they judge, Jesus never Judged…Iam sure Jesus was refering to Nigerians when he mentioned Pharisees.
    You are fornicating 24/7 on contraceptives,aborting, getting drunk everyday, gossiping all day, stealing and lying,Judging,visiting spritualist and all sorts of evil…. but just because u dont have a baby outside wedlocks you think you are the most holiest….
    Beside not everyone’s dream is to get married…. you do you, get married if you want to,wait until you get married to have babies if you want to,wear long gowns if you want to(dont be bothered by those that dont want to fully cover their bodies)…..God sees the heart not the outside #PhariseesPharisees# Please pharisees repent and rather pray for the salvation of those that you consider sinners…

    • haris

      June 2, 2015 at 2:19 pm

      you want us to praise her for the sin of fornication, my friends this forum is for truth. if she or he had contacted HIV AND PASS IT UNTO ANOTHER BY NOW YOU KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS.

    • jojo

      September 1, 2015 at 5:05 am

      tanks so much for your comment princess lulu………………. i don’t know why some people are judgmental ,if we were to hand pick ladies who have commented on this article , i don’t think there would be a virgin. almost all the ladies in this world are guilty of fornication. let he who is without sin be the first to cast a stone. It is their life and their business with God.

  21. MC

    June 2, 2015 at 12:57 pm

    There are way too many people in the world for me to ignorantly think we are to all live life the same way.

  22. Dija

    June 2, 2015 at 1:00 pm

    Guilty conscience! Why go the extra mile to justify your actions.

    For those saying everyone sins, you are right, but why preach your message of sin for others to follow!

    And for those saying people are forcing Christianity on others. Go to her social media accounts and you will see Some Praise God and Thank you Jesus post. So no one is forcing Christianity on her.

    Comfortable Christianity is as good as none. You either serve God completely or not. You can’t be lukewarm.

    Beware of the New Age Deception!

  23. sika

    June 2, 2015 at 1:16 pm

    I hate how people like to quote the bible and then pint fingers at others sinning. Dont judge a person just because they choose to sin differently than you. All of you on this thread are pls shut up and let people make their life decisions. But sha damilola..i dont agree with your justifications hun…but thats okay. Do you dear

    and all of you so caalled christians need to chill on whipping the bible out as reference for any darn argument. its bloody tiring. Do you even know who wrote the bible? it came with colonial was used to control a people. so stop making it seem as if God wrote a diary and threw it on earth for you to read. MAN wrote the bible ..whether its a true account of what really happened no one please shut it.

  24. Bellemoizelle

    June 2, 2015 at 1:32 pm

    @fountain of paper, not only christianity say no to premarital sex , par exemple Islam,Judaisim,Amish culture,Mormon and even some cults.But I always say if u have sex before marriage ,then get pregnant I’ll rather u keep the baby than abort,so if u practise any of these religions we all know that pre-marital sex is not allowed,no justification for it.
    Again we all live for ourselves and no one else,so whatever rocks ur boat!
    La vie est belle…..

  25. fête

    June 2, 2015 at 1:34 pm

    Thou protest too much damilola. Let’s call a spade a spade. It was an ooops baby. Thank God Chris loves you enough to have married you which I’m sure you drummed into his ears that he must stop all this story we are not children you don’t need to just yourself to anybody, we all have sex okay? Let’s leave God out of it because we all know what the bible says about this issue

  26. jummai

    June 2, 2015 at 1:36 pm

    ….but they should keep what ever goes on in their bedroom private and not bring here for the whole world to see, Not a fan of the half naked photo shoot.

  27. truth

    June 2, 2015 at 2:03 pm

    People sef just a simple I wish it could have happened differently but it all worked out in the end is fine. Doesn’t mean you don’t love your son. What’s all this defending of the universe for. It just shows you feel somehow about the situation which is normal every woman wants a ring, marriage and babies in that order, but it doesn’t always come like that. The part of you saying Chris was laughing when you told him is a lie. Every man will shake small when delivered that kind of news, a baby is a big responsibility especially when it’s not planned. It’s okay hun with understand your life not ours

  28. haris

    June 2, 2015 at 2:16 pm

    God is just ssssssoooooo mercyful!!!!!! what if one of you happened to be HIV POSITIVE as you decided to fornicate, would you still say children are product of love. I want to believe you have ask God for forgiveness.

  29. racks_racks

    June 2, 2015 at 3:30 pm

    im sorry but this actress just said its okay to have bastards. Yes people look up the word ! what is wrong with this showbiz people. You”re lucky he married you or your “love” would have made you a single mother.

  30. MJoy

    June 2, 2015 at 3:39 pm

    I didnt know there were so many virgins and christians in Nigeria. So many christians who have never sinned. Casting stones at Dami. Am sure if Jesus was here writing on the ground, by the time Jesus finally look up, you all will all be gone.

  31. Shannie

    June 2, 2015 at 3:58 pm

    Damn there is A LOT of judgment in these comments. Nigeria have over at least 175 million people and I know plenty of them were not from wedlock……

    All of you people condemning this women. Let people live their lives. Most Christian people I know is the devil personified and they need to look into the mirror instead of preaching the Bible and riding on their high horse.

    She had a baby out of wedlock. The baby is happy and healthy and so are they. Everybody lives their life differently and should be able to justify their actions how they see fit. Babies are a product of love because as a parent that is what you provide and marriage does not mean that that the relationship will work. As long as two parents are committed tot he child, they will be alright; with or without marriage.

    Since I laid eyes on these two, I’ve liked them. They seem to really love each other and they have a beautiful baby. I wish them the best and hopefully they ignore all these Bible touting insects with the devil riding on their back.

    • Lisa

      June 2, 2015 at 6:43 pm

      we are not condemning oh my sister.. we are saying you should not call bad good. We all have sinned but being defensive about it is the issue here. I think it would have been better that they admited that out of wedlock births its not ideal but this is our situation instead of sying its good. There are young children looking up to us. We need to do better for the young children

  32. Bitter Truth

    June 2, 2015 at 4:41 pm

    Na on top gossip matter you go find them all


  33. fleur

    June 2, 2015 at 4:46 pm

    Damilola, your explanation is amiss. Just say that you and your hubby wanted things the way it turned out. Children are NOT ALWAYS the product of love. Some are the product of rape. Some are created at times when people did not even think they were rolling in the hay for more than 5 minutes of forgettable pleasure. Marriage does not create children either. SOme marriages are childless – deliberately or otherwise. In your case, you and your bobo wanted to have a kid before marriage, you did, and so what? Aint nobody’s business. Your decision and it seems to be working for you. Dont try to justify it with what does not make sense. Chikena.

  34. Lisa

    June 2, 2015 at 4:48 pm

    There is a way that seems right unto man.. But the end thereoff is death. Confess your sin of fornication instead of covering it up. No repentance and thats a problem

  35. Tiny colored miracle

    June 2, 2015 at 4:53 pm

    All dose who r saying,”hypocrites r judging,stop using d bible,it’s her life ,ur in nd hers v greater punishment ati bee bee lo” shut up!!!!!….wat z nt good z nt good,stop making nd convincing pple around dt fornication ain’t sin,if she got stds,y”all wud have been saying sumtin different mshew………tell her d truth z bitter…beta tnk God we ain’t in d Old Testament times,u tink dy wud have gone scot free,nd over to u dami,am nt happy at all it came frm u,cute nd wonderful,o ko ba project mshew,on top disastrous,u r defending urslf,wat u said shoroniyen,be making it look all good,sin o!!!…baby amass and baby daddy’s everywhere oshi raise to power 153

  36. concerned 9ja

    June 2, 2015 at 6:03 pm

    Hypocrites watch them gosh when Bella puts up those glossy Church weddings and hoping for forming not everyone is a Xtian…
    Justifying what Boys want sex and possible child before any commitment! !

  37. nene

    June 2, 2015 at 6:48 pm

    whatever. i don’t see the marriage lasting. children are not made from love madam damilola, a lot of one night stands produce children, however children deserve to be loved.

  38. Just another girl

    June 2, 2015 at 7:38 pm

    @Cest moi, princess lulu and fountain of paper 10000000 hugs to you both! Thank you for checking all those over sabi Nigerians with their holier than thou attitude forming religious even more than the white man who brought the religion sef!! To all those who believe in Christianity/bible sin is sin o there is no greater sin or lesser sin so if you have ever lied, stoles, judged, coveted with your eye etc you are in the same boat as the so called fornicators you are no better than nor worse than them.

    • Just another girl

      June 2, 2015 at 7:45 pm

      Chei see typos anywhoo all those asking about HIV you do realise that they are some couples who are faithful to each other right? FYI These couples also can decide to voluntarily go for a joint HIV test and do it raw you do realize that that happens right?

  39. Temi

    June 2, 2015 at 7:43 pm

    I would have respected her bit if she had spewed this garbage before the guy proposed to her and married her. Abi weren’t we all here when they guy ran and bought GL ring to propose to her so that Shame won’t kill her? Cos I bet if she had said this before the guy proposed Chris won’t. Have bothered . Ain’t like Ghana men like to be tied down .

  40. Who cares...

    June 2, 2015 at 7:59 pm

    Dami..chick She talks too much and whole bunch of rubbish. First of all had it been you didn’t get pregnant the question is would he have married you? Let’s start from there. I agree with the person who said the baby was an oops and you probably planned it. Yes you not him. And drummed it into his ears about marriage after it happened. Out of desperation to be married. Yea shit happens ..Defintetly know what his thought process was behind all that but how could he have laughed? Tomorrow you’ll say bought you a car. If he was just that happy then perhaps he wouldn’t be chasing after other women yea while with you. Yea he probably loves you enough to just marry. OK. So? You have a baby….that’s all that is.. what does love got to do with it? But is he faithful? Is it just to marry? Just hope he doesn’t turn around and tell you one day I only married you because you got preagnant. Let’s leave things as that. Some men can be childrean. However, if you both are happy stay off of social media and water your plant. Don’t have to convience anybody your “love” you both are entertainers so continue to entertain us with lies. May your realtionship be tested through the end of time.

  41. Aj

    June 2, 2015 at 8:37 pm

    Lol all these comments. Everybody do you just as Solomon said in the book of ecclesiastics, enjoy your life, have fun, but remember in the end we will give account to God for what we did. Believer, unbeliever, straight, gay, atheist, agnostic, priest, pastor or pope, we will all stand before God wether we like it or not, believe it or not. No need to argue, curse at people or defend your faith, just live your lives the way God had called you to. No need to argue with people who don’t belive in the gospel anyway. Just live and let God keep transforming you.

  42. Who cares

    June 2, 2015 at 9:50 pm

    Also to add is it really love or just pure LUST. Big difference.

  43. Marvel

    June 2, 2015 at 10:22 pm

    @Who cares? You care too much about Dami’s situation. You come across as twisted. Almost as if you are counting down to his leaving her, Mind your business. She has told you what she thinks, I believe she doesn’t care what you think. She has a baby and a man. If it changes tomorrow as it changed for a number of women that didn’t fornicate before marriage
    , she will deal with it then,

  44. Saint Tracy

    June 2, 2015 at 10:26 pm

    Children are a product of SEX Not LOVE, don’t get it twisted. Even people that don’t love each orther have children. Some people love each other and have been trying for children yet they haven’t gotten pregnant. Weren’t you taught that you should not have sex b4 marriage. You don’t have to justify your self, it happened, thank God for the gift and move on. Every thing dosnt need an answer.

  45. Mabel

    June 3, 2015 at 12:22 am

    Not everybody’s life is going to follow the same formula. Some will marry first then have children, some will have children first then marry, some will marry and find out they can never have children. Why the judgement? I know one couple who are married 40+yrs and she got pregnant before marrying and she was a baptized woman in the church at the time, life happens! There is no one perfect recipe to a successful life, not one, none provide any guarantees. I am an advocate for marriage before children, but I am also a realist and have lived long enough to know life is…

  46. Jhennique

    June 3, 2015 at 12:13 pm

    I hope y’all know that fornication is as punishable as calling the name of the lord in vain. Okay!

  47. aggi

    June 3, 2015 at 12:23 pm

    call a spade a spade,they were wrong to be fornicating before marriage,they have produced a child before wedlock ,the child is still a blessing(ask many childless christian couples), but will still suffer the consequensences of being born out of wedlock especially if the parents say they are christians,go before God and repent,many young people are looking up to them as a role model, but do do not justify your actions by saying a child is a ……..

  48. pkay

    June 3, 2015 at 2:18 pm

    well..its not every child that is a product of love. a fling can produce babies too, don’t get it twisted girl.

  49. rrrrr

    June 3, 2015 at 4:26 pm

    children are a product of sex, not necessarily love as Damilola & Brymo claim.
    Having said that, do what makes you happy or works for your relationship. Christianity, Islam, whatever. At the end of the day everyone has a life to live.
    But don’t try to stretch things, children doesn’t equal love or lack of it – its a biological consequence of sex!

  50. Kina99

    June 5, 2015 at 12:43 pm

    Men!!!! The whole thing come dey confuse me oh. I thought isn’t a baby a result of sex, just good old sex nothing more or less? Mchew all these arguments humans go get a life na.

  51. ZeeMaama

    June 23, 2015 at 10:16 pm is a pursuit of happiness fam..Do whatever makes you happy,just be good. And ready to bear the full consequences of the route you to pursue that happiness..that’s it

  52. ZeeMaama

    June 23, 2015 at 10:17 pm


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