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Dencia Writes ‘Don’t make that young girl think she has to sell her body or be under a man to succeed’



DenciaDencia dropped some gems on Instagram a few hours ago as she shared her motivation for success while advising young women on how to make their success legitimate and dignified.

She wrote:


Adesola is the BellaNaija Head of Content and Digital Ventures. She is a BN stan.. Yes, things are that serious for her when it comes to She's a lover of gist, novels, music, and food. She's constantly trying not to take life for granted. She spends most of her time either keeping up with the world on the Internet or sharing some acquired knowledge about digital media. She is passionate about using her voice to speak against injustice, especially towards women. To communicate with her directly, you can hit her up on: Instagram - Twitter - @Adesola_AU


  1. lauryn

    June 13, 2015 at 8:13 am

    Sorry to deviate but please does anyone know a good gynecologist in Ikeja environs

    • nene

      June 13, 2015 at 10:12 am

      check st ives hospital in opebi

    • bil

      June 13, 2015 at 12:34 pm

      Try Magodo Specialist

  2. Ozoremenaoz

    June 13, 2015 at 8:22 am

    mehn,i like this post.

  3. Ozoremenaoz

    June 13, 2015 at 8:31 am

    i luvz dis post.

  4. Ana

    June 13, 2015 at 8:38 am

    sori but this chick is the wrong person to be given advise to anyone how do you explain the mansion and the money u make in such a short amount of time if u r not under a rich mogul somewhere.

    • Ada

      June 14, 2015 at 1:15 am

      Can’t u just be happy for a fellow woman? I don’t understand us ladies these days… We are like our own biggest enemies… What happened to women supporting women?? How do u know she’s the wrong person? Do u have a vetting list on what she has done right and wrong n why she deserves to be on the wrong people list.. Pls u guys…let’s cool it for once…
      The hard truth…she gave very good advice n said the truth!!

  5. Shadeyola

    June 13, 2015 at 9:38 am

    Go to lagoon Hospital @Lauryn. All the best

    • lauryn

      June 13, 2015 at 11:48 am

      Thank you so much. Really appreciate it. @shadeyola

    • Ima

      June 13, 2015 at 8:17 pm

      Dont go to lagoon. I beg you oh.

  6. German juice

    June 13, 2015 at 9:51 am

    Dis bish tryin wayyy too hard 🙁 aint nobody got time 4 yo wack ass cliché advice, music or shitilicious. Now rest.

  7. krasavitsa

    June 13, 2015 at 9:55 am

    I really want to like this write up by Dencia, I do, but how does one push an extreme (judging by her skin) bleaching product like whitenicious and then turn around and preach #womenempowerment??? The reason ANY girl bleaches is to seem more attractive to men. And most girls want to attain that level of faux beauty in order to catch that mugu that’ll “keep” them. So seriously Dencia reevaluate your mission; do you want to empower women or make them feel bad about their God-given skin color?

    • Ms wa

      June 13, 2015 at 11:17 am

      I am appalled at BN commenters did you read the part where she says you don’t have to agree with her choices in life?not every woman does things to please men and she didn’t say women shouldn’t Date men or do things to please men did she?you need to reevaluate your dislike for her because this particular reason is dumb

    • krasavitsa

      June 13, 2015 at 1:43 pm

      @ ms wa, Seriously??? It’s just like a prostitute saying “you don’t have to agree with my life choices but AIDS is real and Jesus is coming soon”. That my friend, is SUPER contradictory. If you knew the effects skin bleaching has on the self esteem of young girls, not to mention the adverse side effects on the health of those who practice it, you wouldn’t have typed such. So please think deeply before you come at me.

    • Seriously

      June 13, 2015 at 12:30 pm

      Exactly. The whitecious cream must have bleached part of her brain cells bcos she doesn’t make any sense. Way too contradicting. There are certain people that should simply keep their mouth shut bcos it’s better for them. Yeah, she’s one of those people.

  8. AlexA

    June 13, 2015 at 11:07 am

    What does she do exactly? That’s is the problem with these social media celebs, you keep shoving yourself in people’s faces and you think people are concerned about you and how you make money. How about u don’t post what you have and see who cares. Plus if you really do work, it would speak for you and you won’t try so hard to prove to it

    • Homa

      June 13, 2015 at 1:29 pm

      Anybody can have a social media account. You wont see it if you dont follow her. How is that shoving it down your throat? If she’s sending you emails ehen but please not instagram. She used to be a clothing/costume designer… all those things she wears she makes them for people. How much will your tailor in Nigeria charge you for one of those? She has her own body care line which is profitable. That is enough to get a car and house even if she’s paying over a period of time.

  9. LaughOutLoud

    June 13, 2015 at 1:13 pm

    What about the video which surfaced of her doing nastiness all in the name of becoming famous?! Was she not displaying herself on Hi5 too? #WonderfulContradiction

  10. Homa

    June 13, 2015 at 1:17 pm

    Dencia’s products are not for becoming white, people never want to hear her out. She was already bleached before she started producing them. A 30ml bottle costs $90 or so which is intended for problem areas like acne scars, knees, knuckles and elbows. When i found this out I realised i was quick to judge her.

    I dont know why she decided to bleach her skin but that is not the only thing about her. She is very intelligent and exposed (but a bit arrogant). And I agree with most of the things she says actually. People are so quick to attribute anything a woman has to a father, boyfriend or husband. What about mothers and herself??? Its not even as if there is a law that says women cant work so I dont understand it.

    Women should not have to be reduced to uplift men. Someone told me the other day that Linda Ikeji needs to stop wearing designer clothes and that she is not married because of the expensive designer she wears. I said Linda is an inspiration and dresses decent for her age and she works hard and deserves to treat herself. I now said at least she’s better than all these runs girls that hop about and she’s still able to afford all these things. The girl told me the runs girls are better than her and men prefer them. It’s a tough world out there for an independent African woman! If this is how you guys feel why do you accuse women of liking money and being gold diggers. Maybe some of the so called gold diggers may just be pretending not to have money O_O

  11. Nonye

    June 13, 2015 at 2:40 pm

    I completely agree with @Homa. People should stop attributing a woman’s financial success to men. As much as am not a fan of Dencia I guess she has the right to speak whenever she cares. If you don’t like her or what she says then stop stalking her on social media……

  12. Bosque

    June 13, 2015 at 3:15 pm

    African men always like to be in control.No one can change that.If you show them they are not needed, then they will not hang around.African men always make their own rules and apply whatever rule the want when it favours them.Then they will look at you and say is it not you that want to marry, so therefore at the end of the day you will submit to whatever bullshit rule they have created.

  13. Bliss

    June 13, 2015 at 5:15 pm

    The problem is not Dencia. The problem is you. Why do you think a young girl cannot make it that fast? You are the problem she discusses in the writing. And btw, Ms. Ana, you can achieve more than Dencia, in lesser time, if you work hard at it. You don’t need a man to succeed.

  14. hatersgonhate

    June 14, 2015 at 8:19 am

    Shes talking from both sides of her mouth,

  15. Jenny

    June 17, 2015 at 9:41 pm

    Once again this gal is denying all the things she has done trying to advise ppl. How did she get the money she needed to start all this business that is now making money? She slept with MEN! So before you advise ppl, how about you start by telling the truth about yourself and help them not make the same mistakes you made. HUMBLE YOURSELf madame! Money really make ppl arrogant, doesnt it! U deh make small change and now u wan give advise abi! I beg find place shiddon!

  16. Aganu paplus

    June 25, 2015 at 10:53 pm

    d only gud point i took is da women sud nt only depend on any man 2 succed,i supot her 4da bcos in hiya instutions xpecialy ladies in final yr,imediately de graduate de fold dia hands & b waitin 4 a wel 2do guy 4marage,i no such ladies plenty.80% of dem r nt tryin.but babe b transpirent am doubtin u 4 d rest.

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