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Court Dissolves 15-year Marriage After Wife Complained of Constant Abuse and Assault by Mother-in-law

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A Lagos Island Customary Court on Wednesday dissolved the 15-year marriage between one Dapo A. and his wife, Titilayo, over constant abuse and assault by the latter’s mother-in-law.

The President of the court, Awos Awosola, ordered the dissolution of the marriage after concluding that the union had broken down irretrievably.

“The marriage between the two parties has broken beyond redemption. The marriage between the two is hereby dissolved with effect from today, June 29th,” Awosola ruled.

He also granted the custody of the three children; Basir, 10; Mutiat, 8; and Khadijat; 3, to their mother.

The petitioner, Titilayo, had earlier informed the court that she could no longer stay in the marriage because of the constant abuse and assault from her mother-in-law.

The 32-year-old trader said that her mother-in-law had turned her husband into a “simpleton” and was the one controlling their home.

“My husband and I have been married for 15 years and we are still staying in his family house where his mother also lives.

There has been constant trouble because of my mother-in-law’s presence in our home.

My husband takes directives from his mother about how to manage his home.

On several occasions, my husband will not eat the food I prepare just because his mother said he should not.

My mother-in-law had beaten and stripped me naked on two occasions and my husband did not say or do anything about it.

I can no longer bear the emotional and physical abuse as well as maltreatment,” she said.

The mother of three, therefore, prayed the court to dissolve the marriage.

The husband, Dapo, who did not deny the allegations, also prayed the court to dissolve the marriage as requested by his wife.

He told the court that his wife had refused to accept his pleas and had rejected all efforts toward reconciliation.

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20 Comments

  1. Money palava

    June 29, 2016 at 3:30 pm

    Very sad,the poor state of the economy is making a lot of young men run away from marriages,while the pastors are busy praying against the spirit of commitment from the men.

    There’s need to pray more for prosperity in our homes,when a man can’t afford a decent place after 15 years of marriage,to get is privacy,may God have mercy.

  2. [email protected]

    June 29, 2016 at 3:31 pm

    @lacey – I rest my case. Tell me this one is the devil that is the enemy. Go and read psalm 55

  3. emmeli

    June 29, 2016 at 3:57 pm

    Why are we women so blatantly stupid?? we just can’t support nor encourage each other. it just makes me sick. Was this how her own mother in law treated her?? my dear woman, u did well. u married a “f- boy”. Move on and do something better with ur life. let his mother marry him.

  4. Prince

    June 29, 2016 at 4:28 pm

    Evil mother-in-law. Foolish husband

    • Joke

      June 29, 2016 at 7:51 pm

      I’m a Yoruba girl and Yoruba mother in laws are another thing. To make matters worse, lack of money to have one’s own place, makes a man more than foolish and especially tied to a Yoruba mother’s apron strings. May God help him.

    • Nahum

      June 29, 2016 at 11:29 pm

      Yoruba mother in laws can be terrible!!! They pretend to outsiders that they love and care for their daughter in laws but deal with the girl behind closed doors. They can be truly terrible.

  5. Someonecute

    June 29, 2016 at 4:38 pm

    Wow 15 years and the couple still lives in family house with the husband’s mum… There’s no way that marriage can last and be enjoyable haba… this life sha. 🙁

  6. @edDREAMZ

    June 29, 2016 at 4:52 pm

    a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said…
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    Mother inlaws are bad shah nobi lie at all…
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    .
    ***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

  7. Ade adebisi

    June 29, 2016 at 5:06 pm

    You cannot have Abrahamic blessings if you reside with In-laws there should be a law against this. Men provide the basic needs according to MASLOW THEORY. God bless us all Amen.

  8. emmeli

    June 29, 2016 at 5:48 pm

    bn, my comment?? no start o

  9. Paul Adeyemo

    June 29, 2016 at 6:10 pm

    Who are the mother in law, are they not the Nigerian women. The present feminist we have now in about 20-30 years time will be worse than this mother in-law in question.

    • jay

      June 29, 2016 at 8:45 pm

      No! It will be the other way round. We will be too busy running our empires to be poke nosing into our kids marriage. Our kids, (including in- laws) will be begging us to come around more often. Our homes will be haven for our daughters in law especially because we know how tough marriage can be.

  10. tunmi

    June 29, 2016 at 6:10 pm

    This is a first. The husband does not deny the allegations. While he may be a mama’s boy, he’s honest.

  11. Paul Adeyemo

    June 29, 2016 at 6:12 pm

    For the past one week on BN, it seems only the women are commiting all the evils in Nigeria from cutting a child’s genital to mistreating their daughter in law. Thank God for Nigeria men, faithfull and cool headed

    • Joke

      June 29, 2016 at 8:08 pm

      Paul are you for real or is this just a sarcastic comment? Faithful and cool headed Nigerian men for where? Maybe to their jobs because most are faithless and egotistical to their spouses…And they should continue…

    • Anonymous

      June 29, 2016 at 8:33 pm

      Sarcasm with a hint of sexism. Odikwa egwu!

  12. Ayobee

    June 29, 2016 at 8:46 pm

    Mr Paul Adeyemo…Ok, we have FINALLY SEEN you. Can you just keep quiet now????

  13. MIA

    June 30, 2016 at 9:41 am

    Am i the only who noticed that she has been married for 15 years and is just 32? I guess her MIL still see her as a child. Let us rasie better sons and be better MIL….

  14. salo

    June 30, 2016 at 10:08 am

    i wonder what is being cooked in Mr. Pauls brain……maybe beans or even stone

  15. uberhautelooks.blogspot.com

    June 30, 2016 at 12:38 pm

    Mr. PAUL ADEYEMO is a Bn employee, placed to spice things up if you get my drift
    Bn pls post

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