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When do you call it Cheating? WATCH Toke Makinwa, Michelle Dede, Abimbola Craig, Bolanle Olukanni & Sika Osei on “Moments”



There’s a brand new episode of “Moments” and on this episode, Ghanaian media personality Sika Osei and actress Abimbola Craig join the co-hosts Michelle Dede, Toke Makinwa and Bolanle Olukanni as they talk about cheating, and if it is right to cheat on a “cheater”.

Watch below.


  1. Chief

    October 13, 2016 at 12:28 pm

    It’s wrong and dangerous for women to cheat,because women get emotionally connected easily when cheating while men don’t..Like me having an affair with my wife younger sister,is it cheating? of course not because i’m not emotionally connected to her.,there’s nothing will make me leave my wife for her.It’s in men’s DNA to have more sexual activity for sex.Men cheat because women help them,men will stop cheating,if desperate women stop helping them cheat.I do whatever I want,I personally don’t need no woman telling me what to do and how to live my live.Men are evolutionarily programmed having sex with same person get boring like eating the same meal every day and also it’s a man’s world.

    • Anti-chief

      October 13, 2016 at 12:43 pm

      Wow!!!! How do i unread what i have just read? You are a chauvinistic, egotistical, demented beast. You do not deserve to be married – Not in this life, not in another life, not EVER!!!!

    • Bea

      October 13, 2016 at 2:21 pm

      As in ehn, I agree with you. My eyes!! How do I unread this extremely daft comment?!

      Chief, my condolences to your wife/girlfriend/baby mama/side-chick, whichever one applies to your case. Smh!

    • shior

      October 13, 2016 at 2:45 pm

      the thunder is doing press up honestly. you are a pit toilet

    • bree

      October 13, 2016 at 2:55 pm

      listen to yourself chief! read your comment aloud to yourself and see if you won’t commit suicide for spitting such trash…your type is the reason Divorce rate is rapidly increasing. you are so shameless. may your wife sleep with your entire clan under your nose without emotional attachment.

    • Yve

      October 13, 2016 at 3:36 pm

      Chief, you are entitled to your opinions…. and you are also an idiot. There I said it.

    • Dayo

      October 13, 2016 at 4:04 pm

      I want to assume this your comment is a joke, otherwise marrying someone like you is the mother of all hazards. If you don’t need anyone telling you what to do then you should have also kept your opinion to yourself, they don’t need you telling them what to do either.

    • Dike

      October 13, 2016 at 4:17 pm

      I first read the replies on your comment and i was shocked as to why people insulted your comment,only for me to read your comment that actually provoked the insults. Who ever you are,marriage is for those that will choose to be faithful and remain faithful. If you cheat you have yourself to blame in the end. We that been said,if only women that have sense of self worth will get to see you for who you are they will leave you well alone.,

    • Spunky

      October 13, 2016 at 5:20 pm

      @chief- you must have the tiniest low self esteem for you to seek validation in whatever form on here with this silly comment. You want attention…yeh? You got it!

    • Arin

      October 13, 2016 at 5:37 pm

      Chief, I have just a few questions for you…. if you wife slept with your brother or your father, would you classify that as cheating? Let’s say you found out…would you still remain with her?

    • A woman can do better!

      October 13, 2016 at 8:01 pm

      @ chief Trust me I have cheated with no emotional connection and I’m a woman! Good riddance! Get out of here with your archaic mindset! You should be living in the jungle with other animals where you belong! Never read so much rubbish in my entire existence. To think a woman is married to such eternal damnation. Sad!

    • Apples

      October 13, 2016 at 9:54 pm

      You are an Olodo!!!!!!!!

    • Prisky

      October 14, 2016 at 4:18 am

      SHUT UP

  2. Sonia Paloma

    October 13, 2016 at 2:32 pm

    It is quite sad that in this day and age a high percentage of Nigerians cannot differentiate between “DATING” and “RELATIONSHIP”. I had my mouth wide open when Bolanle, Toke were just showcasing the little/no knowledge they had on dating/relationship.
    Well done to Bimbo and Sika. Sika did a great job breaking it down for them

  3. iyke

    October 13, 2016 at 4:18 pm

    In truth nearly as many women cheat as men. I think women are usually interested in sex that includes some sort of emotional or relationship connection, while men are typically seeking a purely objectified sexual experience.
    I have been deceitful in the past and yes, have cheated a couple of times. I honestly find monogamy difficult, hard as I try not to stray and cheat.
    Don’t also be deceived, being exclusive as one of the panelists stated, doesn’t hold because even exclusive couples still cheat, not to escape bad relationships but to discover new parts of themselves, satisfy needs that cannot be met by their partner alone, or to feel more ‘alive’. My only honest concern in secretly pursuing these desires while in an exclusive relationship is that it’s selfish in the sense that it benefits the self at the partner’s expense. And there is little doubt that it can be very hurtful to the partner, even in some cases putting their health at risk.
    How do we stop cheating:
    Honestly I have no answer because I am dealing with it myself and undergoing therapy as I believe that my case as with most others that cheat, are long-buried and complex. I have not been in an exclusive relationship in a very very long while not because I have not seen or met amazing women that desire me, but being on my own is the only way I can fulfill my desire to be with more than one partner without being deceitful.
    Can I love one woman and be with her for the rest of my life – God knows it’s a big YES.
    Can I be faithful to her till I die – God knows that the heart is willing but body is weak. If I live right,I have more 55 more years to live on this earth.I can’t confidently say that I can sleep with one woman till I die.So the answer is ‘We shall See’.
    God help me!

    • ....

      October 13, 2016 at 4:35 pm

      If your body is that weak, why don’t you find someone to have an open marriage/relationship with? That’s one of the problem with our people… we too like pretend like marriage is the answer to everything only to get married and continue to misbehaving. If the idea of being love, respecting and have sex with one person sounds like such a hard task, then free yourself and find a partner who will explore with you. But chances are, you will want to chop on the side while your partner chops you alone. It’s not weakness that makes people cheat, it’s selfishness because people way too like cheat dey go mad if the same is done to them. Think am. Anyways, I sabi say some people too like pretend that they are monogamous but do things that go make the devil look naive lol… so involve your partner, remain single or no deceive yourself and go date/marry someone then disrespect her in the name of your body is weak 😀

    • The K

      October 13, 2016 at 5:31 pm

      Your honesty is commendable! I like people who keep it real and acknowledge that we’re human after all. We kind of think alike. How old are you now though?

  4. ....

    October 13, 2016 at 4:28 pm

    You sound like a disgruntled pervert!

    • ....

      October 13, 2016 at 4:29 pm

      Referring to “Chief”

  5. Sisi

    October 13, 2016 at 4:32 pm

    Sika baby, giving me life with that dark chocolate. Yasss! Hey Bimbo, when will SGIT be back 🙂 I agree with Bimbo by the way. Abeg don’t carry migraine on top dating matter, enjoy yourself until ‘the conversation’ has been had which sets the boundaries of commitment. Absolutely agree that it gives you a ‘right’ to that person, a right to feel hurt, to have expectations etc. Ladies (we are more prone to this) lets stop building castles in our heads when no one has signed up to our fairy tales. Songs of Solomon 8:4

  6. Sasha

    October 13, 2016 at 5:15 pm

    Funny thing abt Mr chiefs comment is as a man u can say wateva u like.women re also bored with one penis for ur married so I kw but I choose to be keep deceiving ur self,thank God women re cheatin alot these day.# what is good for the goose is good for the gandalf. #

  7. Sasha

    October 13, 2016 at 5:17 pm

    And why do I feel Toke is behind all this Topics…….

  8. Xxx

    October 13, 2016 at 8:17 pm

    But Toke, you lied. You have cheated ?

  9. keyyna

    October 13, 2016 at 10:39 pm

    The reason a lot of women will always be heartbroken unnecessarily are ALL BUT BIMBO AND SIKA. Gawd, DATING and RELATIONSHIP is different. Women, fall in love easily but, Damn Girls, GUARD YOUR HEART!!! Difficult but can be Done… Can’t be a Victim anymore…

  10. Anonymous

    October 14, 2016 at 9:51 am

    This is the 1st time I’ll post a comment on BN but I just had to say something. @chief, You are an animal and very stupid for that statement. Do you have a conscience at all? I pity the woman who married you, Lord help us women

  11. pops

    October 14, 2016 at 3:00 pm

    i hope this is the same mentality men treat your daughters with. ah ah oga abeg that high horse that you rode in with better come off it.

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