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“Beloved be very careful of those friends that care so much about your struggles, but yet so silent when you win” – Dabota Lawson on Friends who Publicly Betrayed Her

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Former beauty Queen and entrepreneur Dabota Lawson, took to her Snapchat earlier in the day to say her ex- husband Sunny Aku had allegedly told her friends that she’ll go broke and come back begging him after they separated. She also went further to say many of her friends asked her to go back to him and beg before it was too late.

The ex-beauty-queen also revealed that she is in a good place now and has the ‘most wonderful man’ and daughter by her side.

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15 Comments

  1. Me

    March 23, 2017 at 11:58 am

    We’ll said dabota!! I wish I could be friends with u now. I was in the same boat. Two friends couldn’t hold their mouth and was ranting away to someone close to me. Friends that say to you “why do most guys find you attractive when your chest is flat compared to me” hmm “or if that guy comes to you ignore him o, I like him” “she likes to behave like all mother inlaws will like her” things I have heard oo Chei GIRLS ARE BAD ooo. Friends that hear good news about you and don’t contact you haha. I don’t have friends now jare and I’m good. I hear some girls put stuff in their flat mate’ cream to destroy their skin. And many more an wah

    Dabota! Ure a fine girl, glad u know them and stay clear from them.

    Untill u feel such betrayal when all u feel for them is love. Just focus on ur man and daughter Hun xx

    Some friends will have more than you do but still jealous at the little u have.

    • Thelma

      March 24, 2017 at 1:12 am

      Your last sentence is absolutely true! And very relatable. In my personal experience of this sort of envy, the truth I realise is that those sort of people feel heavily threatened by you and whatever little you have achieved. This is because most times they made theirs out of sheer luck! or some random way and deep down still feel insecure, not good enough, not worthy for what they have achieved (which is by the way better than yours) because deep down they feel they don’t have what it takes to sustain the achievement as they feel they don’t measure up to whatever they have achieved.

      You on the other hand they secretly see as superior or have better potential to achieve more than you curse do and also do better than them if given the right opportunity. That my friend is the reason they feel deeply threatened by you and consequently feel envious what what ever Little you have.

      Deep down their innermost wish for you is for you to completely go down, as in fade-out completely so that they don’t see any potential of you to even catch up eventually to shake their “throne”

  2. Beard gang

    March 23, 2017 at 12:05 pm

    Girl leave pettiness and grow up…must you address everything? Be as responsible and resourceful as you can possibly be and leave ‘pepper them’ post for girls …you are a strong woman and a mother now, just focus on being those and thrash all these childish nonsense…stay beautiful and strong…all the best

  3. Pretty

    March 23, 2017 at 12:09 pm

    Please I don’t understand. Who should be writing an epistle? Is this not the lady that married an old man, ate his money and cheated on him. She still has d boldness to talk of struggle. The pple who struggle are girls who work hard for their money. I don’t know about your type of success. Definitely not the type I want to have.

    • Shalley

      March 24, 2017 at 3:30 am

      I TAYA OOOO

  4. ec

    March 23, 2017 at 12:32 pm

    i cannot in good conscience feel sorry or whatever for her. you make your bed and you lay in it.
    girl bye.
    women we often know what we get ourselves into and still do it. then things begin to spiral

  5. adeanon

    March 23, 2017 at 12:36 pm

    We need to let people speak out. So she made a mistake, she thought she had found love . Yes it was probably money motivated. But surely she;s allowed to speak out? Betrayal hurts.

  6. Pretty

    March 23, 2017 at 12:43 pm

    @adeanon what about the man whom she betrayed. He put a ring on it and gave her the money she lusted after. Shouldn’t he write his own epistle. Pple be putting God’s name in everything like its a testimony. You are clapping back at your non supporters, abeg remove God’s name. He didn’t direct you to do what you did,

  7. john

    March 23, 2017 at 12:57 pm

    is her new man pastor suleiman?

  8. issorite

    March 23, 2017 at 1:14 pm

    ah ah @John, please leave that question for Mathias o ehen…anyway, this girl in my opinion is a hustler, she can live her life the way she wants, none of my business, but its best she’s able to speak out before depression sets in. We don’t want another suicide case.
    Thank God she’s found a friend she can rely on..

  9. nene

    March 23, 2017 at 1:46 pm

    it’s true.

  10. Tokstarr the Fakestarr

    March 23, 2017 at 2:51 pm

    Truth is Dabota,NOBODY gives a toss about you and your vacuous existence.
    You contribute absolutely nothing of value to anybody apart from probably your child that you might still be breastfeeding.
    Every once in a while,you appear on social media with some attention seeking post,looking for validation from people who truly?
    want you to just go away.

    Okay what do you need us to do with this nonsense you posted?
    Go and beat those who betrayed you?

    He who comes to equity must come with clean hands.
    If you search your conscience deeply,you would recognize that even your hands are not clean.

    So what is all the noise about?

    No matter how much you want to black paint that confused old dodgy midget that married you,truth is,you laid with a man old enough to be your father,a man with very questionable integrity(says a lot about YOUR upbringing)truth is,this man gave you a taste of that life your lazy self refused to work for.
    Because he knew you for just that,is why he was able to drag your name in the mud anywhere and gossip about you.

    Better believe that real,paid up men know the classy ones.
    Why did Ojukwu not drag Biancas name around?

    You belong in the gutters my darling.
    No amount of attempting to wash yourself clean can help you.

    So just quietly accept your lot in life,continue to build your make up “empire” and stay in your line while putting a sock on it.

    Billionaire wife kwa?
    Girl you must have lost your damn mind!!
    hungry -loshi!
    .

    • Wow

      March 24, 2017 at 1:17 pm

      This is too harsh, don’t forget that God loves us all.

  11. courage

    March 23, 2017 at 4:32 pm

    abeg go and sit down

  12. Bored

    March 23, 2017 at 4:43 pm

    End time warning….continue warning you hear?

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