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Tonto Dikeh dressing up as a Man for her Son’s School’s Father’s Day Celebration is Everything



Actress Tonto Dikeh sure knows how to make a statement. The movie star’s son King Andre had his school’s Father’s Day celebration today and the proud mum showed up for him – dressed as a man. 

We have to say, Tonto Dikeh sure pulls off this look effortlessly.

She shared a video and striking message on her IG page this evening.

Her gesture has received applause from her followers and colleagues in the entertainment industry.

Her makeup artist shared more photos of the final look.

Photo Credit: | @vugo24


  1. Lola

    June 16, 2017 at 7:14 pm

    I don’t think this is right.

    • Deeeee

      June 16, 2017 at 7:49 pm

      its OFFICIALL, Tonto has gone GAGA!!!!!!!!!! #CrayCray

    • Authentic Sunshine

      June 16, 2017 at 8:14 pm

      Cry for help ohhh !!!!
      Pathetic …

    • Jade

      June 16, 2017 at 9:26 pm

      It’s not right. This is confirmation that Tonto don kolo. She’s holding back their son from his dad and now want to portray that he’s not there. She needs to separate her issues from her ex husband. Allow him to be in his son’s life.
      Yes, have your issues with him for cheating, have a mistress but leave you guys son out.
      Mothers like Tonto will overcompensate for the son, then they grow up so spoiled by their mothers and no woman will be good for him(motherinlawproblem)

    • A Real Nigerian

      June 16, 2017 at 9:36 pm

      Nobody cares about what you think.

    • wale

      June 17, 2017 at 2:31 am

      @ a real nigeria, this no b Nigeria culture or tradition and beside, she just put herself in a disadvantage in court against the husband, you will understand this implication when his lawyers feed on these posts and comment online

      Tonte don too smoke weed, e dey affect her now, person when dey smoke loud any how

    • Sharon

      June 17, 2017 at 9:56 am

      Hahahaha what a Saturday morning surprise! She looks like a gay man. And this means nothing to a little child who hardly understands unlike the American mum she copied. Her son who is older understood and appreciated her.

    • Jade

      June 17, 2017 at 5:50 pm

      @real nigerian
      You two sef don kolo, na today.
      But cared enough to comment.

  2. Sasha

    June 16, 2017 at 7:17 pm

    OMG.i think the crazy is spreading.

    • Ottawa Queen

      June 16, 2017 at 8:18 pm

      I am as confused as that child….What would be going through the mind of her son? This is weird.

    • A Real Nigerian

      June 16, 2017 at 9:37 pm

      Shut up abeg.

  3. Jaxen

    June 16, 2017 at 7:18 pm

    This is wrong on every level . Did she show up for him like that because his dad didn’t want to or because she chose to deprive the man of this special moment in his son’s life? If the latter is true, then shame on Tonto, for your son’s sake, put whatever hurt the man might hv caused you aside and let him be the dad he can and wants to be in his son’s life. If indeed he wants to be an involved father, let him be. It’s a whole other ball game if he doesn’t but let that be the case and not you keeping your son from his father’s love. Stop using your kids to hurt your partners people or exes, the one you are hurting is the child who is innocent in all your shenanigans.

  4. tell em

    June 16, 2017 at 7:19 pm

    received accolades by who???… ..time for prozac it seems

    • A Real Nigerian

      June 16, 2017 at 9:37 pm

      By me. From me. Kill yourself.

  5. o

    June 16, 2017 at 7:20 pm

    Very unnecessary. Confusing the poor boy. Anything to make the news I guess.

    • A Real Nigerian

      June 16, 2017 at 9:38 pm

      What is your business? How is it confusing the boy? Stop saying nonsense.

  6. Dude

    June 16, 2017 at 7:20 pm

    Smh, Is all this really necessary? This kinda stuff messes children’s heads and leave them confused. If you want to be there, be there. Not with all this drama.

    • Jide

      June 16, 2017 at 7:41 pm

      Please don’t be stupid. Will the boys head also get messed up if his mother gets a new hairstyle? She’s just having a good time. It’s pointless seeing as the boy actually has a father, but at the end of the day, it’s harmless.

    • A Real Nigerian

      June 16, 2017 at 9:40 pm

      Idiot. A failed, abusive father does more damage than this harmless act all you people are dwelling on. Leave her and her son alone.

  7. Anonymous

    June 16, 2017 at 7:20 pm

    I don’t think this was necessary. An uncle could go. She could go without dressing differently.

  8. xo

    June 16, 2017 at 7:20 pm

    i love you Tonto , but you need to stop abeg.

    that little boy has a father. allow him to play his role in as much you both don’t like yourselves.

    let king Andre enjoy his daddy. afterall he didn’t beg to be born.

  9. Olori

    June 16, 2017 at 7:21 pm

    Oh my God this is not right. I repeat this is not right. The father is not dead. Even if he was a useless husband, from all indications, he is a great dad. Tonto I love you m’dear but you stretched yourself this time. *scrolls back up* NO SHE DIDN’T!!! This is hella cringe-worthy I swear.

  10. Baby gurl

    June 16, 2017 at 7:24 pm

    Now that BN’s got y’allz attention biko what’s the latest on the Anthonia Bisola Abayomi-Ojo case? Anybody got any deets? Updates? Any news at all? Thanks guys.

    • The real dee

      June 16, 2017 at 10:30 pm

      I’m with you on this o Baby gurl. Abeg BN please bring us the latest on that story. Hope justice has been served or is in the course of being served. BN, BN don’t start something and not end it o. We need updates.

      That’s why I like SDK, that babe doesn’t dull.

  11. Mo

    June 16, 2017 at 7:24 pm

    This is all shades of wrong………….so ridiculous,kindly let this boy know his father loves and wants to play fatherly tole in the boy’s life.

  12. pinkrosebeauty

    June 16, 2017 at 7:27 pm

    This is total nonsense, the father of your son is still alive. Why acting like a man, when your son has a father.

  13. demash

    June 16, 2017 at 7:30 pm

    Churchill wannabe!

    • A Real Nigerian

      June 16, 2017 at 9:41 pm

      Why would anyone want to be an arrogant, abusive, failed father and husband?
      She is not a Churchill wannabe, she is everything thing Churchill will never be and more.
      Piss off.

  14. Marian

    June 16, 2017 at 7:33 pm

    I can try to understand this if she asked the father and he declined. My only issue with this is the motive as the boy is too young to care.
    I’ve seen other single moms do this during father daughter dance and it was cute.
    Sharrout to single moms sha, the thing no easy.

    • Marian

      June 16, 2017 at 7:35 pm

      E ku moderation! Una never fix this thing?? O ga o

    • Marian

      June 16, 2017 at 9:37 pm

      I can try to understand this if she asked the father and he declined. My only issue with this is the motive as the boy is too young to care.

      I’ve seen other single moms do this during father daughter dance and it was cute.
      Sharrout to single moms sha, the thing no easy.

  15. Tobi

    June 16, 2017 at 7:34 pm

    Tonte Dike you need an intervention. for the sake of that child I hope you get help soon. Bella stop exploiting this woman’s cracra for traffic on your site. Think about the child.

    • A Real Nigerian

      June 16, 2017 at 9:43 pm

      Shut your mouth.
      Were you thinking about the child when the father was abusing his mom and bringing him up in an unhealthy home? Of course not. But something so harmless, and you want to form morality judge.

  16. survivor

    June 16, 2017 at 7:35 pm

    Not my headache

  17. Darius

    June 16, 2017 at 7:35 pm

    This is all shades of wrong! How did she even conceive the idea?

    Tonto is crazy!

    • Fear God...

      June 16, 2017 at 8:15 pm

      It’s not an original idea. Some lady in the US already did this some time ago

    • A Real Nigerian

      June 16, 2017 at 9:44 pm


    • Darius

      June 16, 2017 at 10:35 pm

      @A Fakeass Nigerian, lolzzzzzzz……you always know when to show your ugly face.

  18. Ese

    June 16, 2017 at 7:36 pm

    Her pikin . Her choice . If you no like am , waka pass.

  19. madman

    June 16, 2017 at 7:37 pm

    This lady looks fun to be with…. I don’t think that her home will be boring. But I guess when Karma strikes, there’s usually no mercy. All the best. What she’s doing is symbolic I guess, she is both the father and mother.

  20. Anonymous

    June 16, 2017 at 7:39 pm

    When the husband said she is crazy, you all thought it was a joke

    • A Real Nigerian

      June 16, 2017 at 9:46 pm

      You must be very stupid.
      Because she is “crazy” is why that useless manbeast was beating her and treating her like garbage?
      What is better, to be “crazy” like Tonto, or to be an animalistic, shameless wife beater and adulterer like him? I know you will pick the man, all you foolish Nigerians will always give the man a free pass.

  21. Jwezee

    June 16, 2017 at 7:46 pm

    LMAO told you B4 this babe no well

    • A Real Nigerian

      June 16, 2017 at 9:46 pm

      Piss off.

  22. Deeeee

    June 16, 2017 at 7:51 pm

    Acting Life and REAL life is NOT the same my dear TONTO! Do not confuse our future king 🙂

  23. Brown bread..

    June 16, 2017 at 7:52 pm

    This woman should receive an Oscar for being a drama queen.

    For God sakes, this boy has a father, you have issues with your husband, fine. But he doesn’t have an issue with his father.

    I find this really disrespectful to his father, not like he abandoned the boy or anything.

    • Tonto ni

      June 17, 2017 at 5:39 pm

      And since she has chosen to keep him out of her child’s life for her own sanity, the child’s future and other reasons best known to her. I hope you find the nearest tree and hang yourself. Mtchew

  24. Bliss

    June 16, 2017 at 7:53 pm

    I’ve tried to be fair and analyze this from her perspective. Unfortunately this is just wrong on so many levels!! Go to Dikeh is bipolar. She has all the symptoms. I just feel sorry for the little boy.

    • A Real Nigerian

      June 16, 2017 at 9:47 pm

      Symptoms of what? What do you know? Aunty keep quiet and leave Tonto alone.

  25. Mummybobo

    June 16, 2017 at 7:54 pm

    I just love it………., I don’t know why

    • A Real Nigerian

      June 16, 2017 at 9:48 pm

      Yasssss. I love it too. You’re the only person with sense on this thread so far.

    • Sakura

      June 17, 2017 at 6:37 pm


  26. LemmeRant

    June 16, 2017 at 7:58 pm

    Beware of people who will push you to do something they know is wrong just because its in their favour

    Tonto. What you haven’t still realized is that peeps like BN or those your Instagram followers are ready to support you in doing anything wrong or right so far it entertains them. Be careful of such people

    • A Real Nigerian

      June 16, 2017 at 9:50 pm

      What is this one saying? After you have put down women IRL, you want to come here and advice Tonto? Who needs the advice of a patriarchal, misogynistic man beast?
      Oga, mind your business.

  27. Issue

    June 16, 2017 at 8:03 pm

    She should know that she didn’t conceive the child by her eggs alone. she still needed a man in order to have her child. I hope she and her estranged husband settles their differences. He should be allowed to play his role. This is a wrong message for women empowerment. in as much as some men might be douche bags, it is still their sperm you used to have a child. women can’t procreate by themselves
    Maybe i’m misunderstanding the message she is try to get across but this is my interpretation of the whole thing

  28. Melvy

    June 16, 2017 at 8:18 pm

    No BN, it is not everything… That’s attention seeking. She clearly misses her husband.

    • A Real Nigerian

      June 16, 2017 at 9:53 pm

      Misses what husband? Why would she miss an abuser and adulterer?
      And how is this attention seeking? This is harmless and lighthearted but your primitive, policed mind can’t see beyond that.
      All you hypocrites are always looking for something to pick on so you can feel good about your own empty, pretentious, and dishonest lives.

  29. nihi

    June 16, 2017 at 8:19 pm

    it’s WIRED…. may God help her. she had to go through all this just to make a point.

  30. annon

    June 16, 2017 at 8:23 pm

    Oyinbo’s say “you can’t fix stupid!” Perfect example.

  31. Sean

    June 16, 2017 at 8:30 pm

    I think she has Attention seeking syndrome, Histrionic personality disorder (HPD),

    It is defined by the American Psychiatric Association as a personality disorder characterized by a pattern of excessive attention-seeking emotions, usually beginning in early adulthood, including inappropriately seductive behavior and an excessive need for approval.

    • Bea

      June 16, 2017 at 9:42 pm

      Hi Sean ???

    • A Real Nigerian

      June 16, 2017 at 9:56 pm

      You are saying utter nonsense.
      Your armchair diagnosis is laughable and idiotic.
      Piss off.

    • Asa

      June 16, 2017 at 10:17 pm

      Hi Sean. I don’t know what you are saying but I agree totally. ??

    • Liz

      June 17, 2017 at 12:28 am

      How dare you make such an acusation on a person you know nothing about. You have gone by seeing just one picture. Yet you don’t know how she feeds her child, You have no idea the circumstance she is in. All you have is a bright green judgemental tongue.mtchew

    • Laila

      June 17, 2017 at 3:15 am

      Hey Sean, where have u been? Looks like madam Tonto has dual diagnosis.

    • bobosteke

      June 19, 2017 at 9:17 am

      Her make up and your face look like resemblance. Ha!

  32. Ayo

    June 16, 2017 at 8:33 pm

    Well,i dont think this is wrong. What if she reached out to churchill and he said he wont be availble…mommma gats to do what momma gats to do……peace

    • Jeanette

      June 16, 2017 at 8:58 pm

      While you are correct, she didn’t need to do so while dressed as a man! It is not good for the child’s emotional and mental well being.

      She could pull it off on an adolescent whose brain and mental development is somewhat stable or mature not on this toddler!

      Tonto I am your fan but I won’t fail to let you know that whom ever suggested this idea for you did not consider the interest of your child.

      For posterity sake and for your child when he grows and even now as a toddler he would appreciate the impact of this message you are trying to depict if you had dressed as his mother. The mother that he knows well but dubbling the role of a mother and father! It will attract more accolades being a woman playing both mum and dad roles! ……If it was the message you were trying send.

      So if you went there looking your normal self but still there as the father figure, the impact would have been best felt. People would have also gotten that message you are trying to send and respect it a lot more!!

    • A Real Nigerian

      June 16, 2017 at 9:56 pm


    • Sul

      June 17, 2017 at 7:14 am

      Yeah but Mama dont gats to clown out to b der for her son. She said it in her caption dt is a black woman n proud of it, why den did she hv to go as a man? Its too much n it honestly comes across as pathetic. I kinda feel bad fr her, she dont seem like shez takin it easy on herself n she dont seem like shez in a good mind frame.

    • Favour

      June 17, 2017 at 11:52 pm

      And so… she would have attended as a woman not disguising as a man. She may have been abused and bruised but I think her love ones should take her to psychiatrist or psychologist, she needs help. Her breaking things during quarrel says it all. I am not blaming her but she is emotionally damaged which definitely it didn’t start when she got married, she has been emotionally damaged before then. Her mental health is key… I hope she finds solace in God

  33. jesy

    June 16, 2017 at 8:38 pm

    Well, people’s opinion differs on this issue. I don’t see anything wrong. Tonto is wearing the shoe, she knows how it hurts.

    • Vivadrew

      June 16, 2017 at 8:49 pm

      Wish the like button can click a thousand times, I’d like your comment those thousand times

  34. Nahum

    June 16, 2017 at 8:50 pm

    I don’t agree with this. The baby has a father who actually WANTS to be in his child’s life. I can applaud this move if the dad has washed his hands off his responsibilities, but this is not the case. Tontoh, a child needs both father and mother as long as both parties are WILLING to be in the child’s life. Don’t hurt your child just to seek attention. The mature thing to do is to invite Churchill to the school to take a picture, not try to portray that he does not exist. I don’t support this crazy, sorry.

    • Nikky

      June 17, 2017 at 8:01 am

      How do u know he wants to be present during the fathers day celebration? Why do you think you know what exactly is going on between ton to and her ex? Your assumptions are baseless and frankly ignorant. I don’t care if the man comes online to say he wasn’t invited. You don’t live with them. You don’t have first hand knowledge of what’s going on so just make an objective comment based on what you really know and keep ya mouth shut.

      What do we know? Tokyo dressed up like a dude for her son. Either you hate the fact she dressed like a man or you like it. For every other stUff, sharrap

  35. Kayla

    June 16, 2017 at 8:50 pm

    What if the father refused to come and she had no choice. Please u all get a life. As some

  36. john

    June 16, 2017 at 8:51 pm

    I see another Evans the kidnapper loading…when I say the worst place for a child to be is in a black woman womb, u guys thought I was kidding

  37. Vincent

    June 16, 2017 at 8:52 pm

    I have never seen anything more stupid than this in my 20+ existence. This lady needs help and quite urgently does she! WTF

    • A Real Nigerian

      June 16, 2017 at 9:57 pm

      Of course you have never seen anything so stupid because you are a blinded, hollow, hateful f%%&.

  38. Mimi festus

    June 16, 2017 at 8:55 pm

    You’ve got to give it up for her, she really nailed this costume in my opinion

    • A Real Nigerian

      June 16, 2017 at 9:57 pm

      Yasss ???

  39. Nunulicious

    June 16, 2017 at 9:20 pm

    Lmao!!! was my first reaction
    2nd-who needs a man once you’ve got the child
    3rd-this world sef is there anything we won’t see?
    4th-she makes a fyyyynne man!

    • Nunulicious

      June 16, 2017 at 9:23 pm

      Finally love her or hate her, you’ve got to admit it, she’s got ballz!! Pun intended

  40. Me

    June 16, 2017 at 9:24 pm

    God help the child

    • A Real Nigerian

      June 16, 2017 at 9:58 pm

      And you too.

  41. letty

    June 16, 2017 at 9:26 pm

    you guys just jump onto the first persons response. what if the dad refused to show up so the poor child shouldnt have a dad representative. i love this it is tongue in cheek….the baby will get a kick out if it he knows its his mom its not that serious…

    Footnote ..ladies pls dont just jump into marriage with any tom, dick, harry or Jones. Please choose wisely..shotgun marriages never work out women work on ur xter tonto has a past of anger issues and aggressive behavior,
    . Two unhealthy ppl will not work in a marriage its hard enough with two mature ppl….

  42. Munachimso

    June 16, 2017 at 9:31 pm

    This woman should receive an Oscar for being a drama queen.

    For God sakes, this boy has a father, you have issues with your husband, fine. But he doesn’t have an issue with his father.

    I find this really disrespectful to his father, not like he abandoned his son or something.

    I get that she could probably be trying to be funny, but please people should find humor in the right places.

  43. Munachimso

    June 16, 2017 at 9:31 pm

    BellaNaija, stop this moderation thing and post my comment please.

  44. Josephine

    June 16, 2017 at 9:51 pm

    My sister’s ex husband doesn’t want the marriage or the kids so for Father’s day celebrations she goes with our dad or brother. But my sister is not an actress. If Tonto wasn’t dramatic she would have another job. Hope Churchill makes it next year.

  45. A Real Nigerian

    June 16, 2017 at 9:59 pm


    • Bokun

      June 16, 2017 at 10:54 pm

      @ a real sad Nigerian , Lmao that’s one heck of an endorsement coming from Bellas resident troll turd. Hopefully tonto would read your yeyefowl crazy supporting statements and realise she actually does not want to join you @ bitter bile. Looneyville . Looool Tonto see your level craze don DEY support you, Hummm sista when craze begin knack Kom Kom for you to dance to it’s time to ask yourself some serious Kwesions. Hum hum looool.

    • A Real Nigerian

      June 16, 2017 at 11:03 pm

      I really don’t understand what you’re saying…
      Please rephrase?

    • Bad gang

      June 16, 2017 at 11:52 pm

      A retarded nigerian

    • RE

      June 19, 2017 at 3:27 am

      My gut tells me you are Tontoh Dikeh or one of her close family members, you are getting to defensive and worked up over the whole issue, makes no sense for someone with no affiliations with her o do so, unless you are plain crazy.

  46. Mandy

    June 16, 2017 at 10:00 pm

    The level of pettiness is something else????.

    • A Real Nigerian

      June 16, 2017 at 10:59 pm

      Shut up.

  47. Las

    June 16, 2017 at 10:02 pm

    Well, if you are playing both roles, you might as well dress the part. I salute all mothers out there who are also fathers and vice versa.

  48. Susie

    June 16, 2017 at 10:22 pm

    A Real Nigerian are you Tontoh Dikeh? Please take it easy ok? This is not acceptable. Any issues she has with her husband personally should not be taken out on the child to deprive him of a father. If he was abusive, then do the proper thing in filing for sole custody & raise this child away from social media exposure & drama as every child deserves. A mother cannot replace a father so there is not need to try. Just do your best for the child without publicizing it please this picture has made me so sad.

  49. Marian

    June 16, 2017 at 10:35 pm

    Will copy and paste again as una dey moderate since.

    I can try to understand this if she asked the father and he declined. My only issue with this is the motive as the boy is too young to care.
    I’ve seen other single moms do this during father daughter dance and it was cute.
    Sharrout to single moms sha, the thing no easy.

  50. Diamond

    June 16, 2017 at 10:41 pm

    Tonto Charity Dikeh has serious issues!

    • A Real Nigerian

      June 16, 2017 at 10:59 pm

      She is a happy woman rebuildin her life. Your comments dont matter.

    • Diamond

      June 17, 2017 at 9:11 am

      You just come pissing underneath people’s comment. People can’t comment in peace. Get lost!

  51. Hawtchic

    June 16, 2017 at 11:17 pm

    Na wa o. Which kind of statements are some confused humans making? She dressed up as a man to be there for her son! Is that wrong? If men are speaking ignorantly (or even foolishly), should we women too join them and turn on one of our own who suffered domestic violence? Some of these women too are being battered and yet keep silent so that same man can go to fathers’ day events with their kids. That way, nobody can talk abi? Those men will kill you one day soon and remarry months after your death.

    • Sul

      June 17, 2017 at 7:27 am

      But madam..d drama is too much N d qstn is simple..did she really have to do all dat to b der fr her son?? Yes we get it..she wants to fill every gap missing but its also obvious she grabs every chance she gets to throw a jab at her ex n using her kid to do so is jst low. Its not helping anybody she needs to set her priorities straight n stop all dis.

    • Tonto ni

      June 17, 2017 at 5:57 pm

      You legit nailed it, all this Ruth abokoku that is trying to crucify a fellow woman who was strong enough to walk away, just so they can feel better about their situation
      But guess what?
      It won’t bring that change and joy you desire. Not now not ever
      Get a grip and stop being loosers

  52. Akon

    June 16, 2017 at 11:41 pm

    There’s no doubt, Tonto Dike is going crazy. I think her parents really need talk to her. She is just over steppin and humiliating the innocent child. Full of drama and we are tired of reading the story of her life. I expected that her marriage will short lived and full of messy stories.

  53. Okafor Maureen

    June 16, 2017 at 11:42 pm

    OMG, abeg make una find somewhere go fight abeg, Lolsss babe de make her money and news unable wey no get any one de here de argue. Mtchewww

  54. Maria Abba

    June 17, 2017 at 12:23 am

    If actually u are a Christian as u once said , then bear it in mind that what u are doing is not good. . Ur son need his father no matter what,. Tonto , go to God and God will save ur marriage ,. Even if ur husband did wrong ,. Forgive him and come together,. All those fake dream can’t give u joy or happiness ,u know that ,. My the holy spirit of God speak more to ur heart in Jesus name

  55. Wow

    June 17, 2017 at 12:24 am

    I’m all for live and let live however, if you’re going to go to your son’s Father’s Day event, just go as yourself. He knows you’re his mom anyway. Who does he recognize this “disguised” person to be?
    In addition, Churchill might have been a lousy husband but that doesn’t mean he’s a lousy dad. So many horrible husbands out there that are great dads. Let them be great abeg.
    “A Real Nigerian” I see you’re commenting under every comment that’s not in support of Tontoh. Abeg safe yourself, people are entitled to their opinions just like you are.

  56. John

    June 17, 2017 at 1:01 am

    Another Evan the kidnapper loading…. when I say the worst place any child can be is in the womb of a black woman , u guys think I am kidding

    • Jade

      June 17, 2017 at 1:29 am

      It’s obvious you hate your life. The black African woman is where life started. All other races came from her.
      Curse, hate your mother all you want, but the best place any child can be is the womb of an African woman.

  57. swissmumu

    June 17, 2017 at 1:34 am

    @arealnigerian – attention seeker oshi. You are dunce, you are a dunce and you are dunce and it’s nothing personal

  58. Pretty

    June 17, 2017 at 1:41 am

    Tonto I think you are taking this thing too far I believe you are not the first to be hurt in a relationship and if you did say for better for worse then don’t kill yourself leave room for rencociliation .that boy has a father do not deny him his rights.

  59. Passerby

    June 17, 2017 at 3:42 am

    She’s trying too hard… need to make a show or drama out of her situation. There are so many single moms and widows out there. It doesn’t make them deficient.

    Your child will love you regardless. We need to embrace our life’s circumstances as ourselves. We can’t all fit into every role or perfect picture.

    Besides his dad is alive. She should’ve just invited him for the child’s sake and I’m sure he would’ve come. What’s she’s done is divert attention from the child to herself even though she means well.

  60. Kk

    June 17, 2017 at 4:05 am

    Tonto is a bonified Bipolar mental case. Always have been. She needs mental help

  61. akua

    June 17, 2017 at 4:37 am


    • Tonto ni

      June 17, 2017 at 5:54 pm

      Yes she can. If the father will raise the boy to be a wife beater and a cheat like he is.
      So you are the crazy and not that woman who is putting her all for her boy to be happy
      Go figurr

  62. tunmi

    June 17, 2017 at 5:14 am

    I didn’t expect this much of a reaction Oh. But we laugh and share when it’s the guy’s dressing up as women, without even puting in the work, all for jokes. Ehhh this one too is for jokes

    Calm down, the kid won’t be confused. Some of us are permanently scarred by NEPA and mosquitoes, this won’t won’t reach that level

  63. MamaD

    June 17, 2017 at 6:58 am

    An Oyibo lady did this same thing sometime ago.
    I think Churchill will love to be active in his child’s life but Tonto is shutting him out.
    She wears the shoes and feels every pain of the pinches.
    Whatever works for her, if she feels right, so be it. This must be hurting Churchill from that recent statement on his IG.
    Men learn from this, be good to your female partners because when a woman can’t take it any longer, you will be shocked at the length she will go to humiliate you and the good news is, kids are likely to glue to their mothers and believe her as well. Na u go lose even if the child grows to look for you, he/she’s heart will always beat for the mum.

  64. annon

    June 17, 2017 at 7:17 am

    @”An imbecile Nigerian” … You are a fool. “Fools have no interest in understanding; they only want to air their opinions.” Proverbs 18:2.

  65. kkay

    June 17, 2017 at 8:06 am

    She could’ve done this for fun (like a costume party).
    Too many harsh comments here.
    If she did it for the attention as you all assumed, she didn’t force you to comment.

    Nobody is totally bad. I actually do not think Tonto is a bad person. Flawed; yes – like every human being.
    None of us is better than her. We all have chinks in our amour.
    The fact is her son won’t be confused at this age. It’s just a one-off thing and he is too young.

    Another thing, don’t assume you know why her ex-husband wasn’t in attendance. It could’ve been anything. What if he wasn’t in the country on that day?
    People won’t always behave we want them to BECAUSE we don’t behave the way they want us to. LIFE.

    • kkay

      June 17, 2017 at 8:08 am

      People won’t always behave *as* we want them to….

  66. Teema

    June 17, 2017 at 8:30 am

    Tonto and baby King ftw! Nothing brings me joy like a joyful and fun Mom. Don’t ever let anyone, anything or any situation dictate to you. Live to your fullest. Hugs!

  67. Ominyi gloria

    June 17, 2017 at 8:40 am


  68. Uno

    June 17, 2017 at 8:51 am

    Well done Tondo…The dad must stap aside if he can’t dad up.

  69. T- baby

    June 17, 2017 at 8:59 am

    @arealnigerian we know you are tonto dikeh but try and read people’s comment and learn you brought this attention on yourself , so public stunt require public talk abi my people .

    • Tonto ni

      June 17, 2017 at 5:51 pm

      Which one is “abi my people”
      Must you seek validation from your fellow lowlife who would always agree with you on demented comments like this ?
      Na wa o

  70. Ngozi

    June 17, 2017 at 9:01 am

    You guys need to chill. He’s her son for heaven’s sake! Do you know the natute of the relation between her and Churchill? No! Yet you happily sit from your house and call her crazy. We need to learn to stop being so judgmental. This is the same way Nigerians cursed Goldie until she passed. How about wishing her well. The child’s father was not there for reasons best known to them so she decided to dress up for the little boy! If it was a Caucasian we’d be “aww”ing all over the place

    Please guys live and let live. I actually commend Ms Dikeh anf encourage women who are single mothers to be creative at such celebrations. Your children will value you for it believe me. It takes strength and the weight of a mother’s love to do what she did

    Happy Father’s day to all the Fathers (and mothers playing both roles). God bless you!

  71. Bokun

    June 17, 2017 at 9:04 am

    She did not need to disguise her womanhood to support her son. What the heck kinda message is she sending to the child. That a woman is default , you got to be a Man to support your child. She just devalued her motherhood for this child. The child is just a prawn in her sick game of chess with Churchill. If she was so hell bent on getting a father figure to attend the function SHE COULD HAVE simply GOTTEN A MALE RELATIVE TO ATTEND. Real life ain’t nollywood babe. It’s a pity you don’t get any acting work these days because at least you were able to vent out your multiple personalities through your characters. Now all them personalities got no were to vent so you acting all crazy in real life. Always looking for the limelight to display your crazy. Now you got to take on the acting role of a father and fuckup the role on so many levels. TONTO and Churchill are both incapable of addressing the emotional needs of this child. They are both selfish, clueless twats, acting like they ain’t got home training mtchewwwwwww


    June 17, 2017 at 9:25 am

    Copycat!!!! Because someone did it recently in America

  73. M&

    June 17, 2017 at 9:30 am

    At some point I started to look forward to a real Nigerian’s response to every single comment. The VOLTRON award goes to you biko! As for Tonto, if the Dad wants to be in the boy’s life she should let him be, if he doesn’t then it’s OK to play Mom and Dad (single parents do so everyday of their lives anyway). Another reality is that they will always grow up and look for their Dad though!


    June 17, 2017 at 9:32 am

    Let me even ask, so every year will she be dressing like this because there’s always gonna be Father’s Day every now and then. Once you have started like this, you are expected to be consistent with it o .. don’t ever stop mtchewwwww

  75. Cmbo

    June 17, 2017 at 9:35 am

    I think she was just having fun with this . It was Fathers day in school and she didn’t want him to feel left out. People should relax , we like to take panadol for people’s headache. See the rage over what does not concern us. Can you love her child more than her?

  76. oloye1

    June 17, 2017 at 10:57 am

    Nigerians are very stupid people…always thinking they have opinions on something they know nada about…my question for you all is how well are you enjoying your relationship… you may brand tontoh with any sort of appellation as you like…how does her life affect your miserable lives you live in pretenses a bit…leave her to be mad…you that is not mad how stable are you emotionally… always acting Pinocchio and stupid judges on people’s lives…

    • passerby

      June 17, 2017 at 4:12 pm

      You must come from the village of idiots situated some place in nigeria. Your direct lineage must carry the defective stupid gene. You are a desendant of slightly evolved baboons that can type idiot comments on blogs. Go and research the history of idiocracy in your ancestory and see the catelogue of unchallenged , uncorrected behaviour that eventually lead to an inbred triple stupid idiot like yourself.

  77. Cindy

    June 17, 2017 at 11:22 am

    I have never make comment on Tonto Dikeh before but I don’t know why this picked my interest. To say the truth, I love it. Please anything that will make the child happy give it to him. God is your stronghold.

  78. Purplegirl

    June 17, 2017 at 11:56 am

    In my opinion highly unnecessary. Unless she’s taking style to audition for a role… Anyway her going as a woman would have been far more prestigious and honorable to me than her dressing up as a man, while shaming the father for his absence. Single mothers and sometimes married woman have had to double on their roles through the ages while raising kids but the im pretty sure none had to pretend to be a man. Anyway I’m sure little King found it strange or funny or just another day mommy was dressing up.

  79. Sibo

    June 17, 2017 at 12:59 pm

    Proud mother ke!!? Why did you not dress like a proud mother instead you try to impersonate a man. I beg I do not see the artistic creativity in this. If you had attend as yourself a mother standing in for baby’s father you would have passed a strong message. So at home some days you dress like a woman and then other days you dress as a man. I tire for you. I wonder what the hell is going on in that head of yours. Not cool. Just hope baby will not see cross dressing as a thing!.

  80. Dozie

    June 17, 2017 at 1:11 pm

    Am disappointed at u tonto. U just made caricature of ur self. Exposure does not guarantee maturity. Grow up.

  81. bolaji

    June 17, 2017 at 1:12 pm

    This is wrong on so many levels. Its also insulting to the boys father. Your child will grow up and ask you about this day. @realnigerian AKA Tonto Dikeh continue scaring your child, continue seeking for attention. Tonto go an get the help you need, churchil was never your problem…you have deeper issues you need to sort out for yourself before you can become a well adjusted wife and mother… i wish you the best…kolomental

  82. KennyCee

    June 17, 2017 at 1:34 pm

    Hahaha? don’t blame her that is what you get when you join illuminati the Bible made it clear that those who go after the things of this world ended up living a miserable life she’s one of them.

  83. No Headaches Please

    June 17, 2017 at 2:11 pm

    I absolutely love this, Tonto!

    Live. Love. Learn.

  84. tee

    June 17, 2017 at 3:07 pm

    @A real sad, disturbed, demented Nigerian, I really pity you and anyone who has anything to do with you. You sit to actually respond to almost every comment here, yet have nothing sensible to type. I wish I had more words to fit your disturbed spirit but sadly words fail me. You need help and you need to get one fast before you end up raving mad.

  85. Truth-be-told

    June 17, 2017 at 4:34 pm

    I actually found this quite amusing. For all those against Tonto, to each his own. She’s only trying to show that she does not need him to raise her son. Ride on girl. @ a real Nigerian- I’m with you on this one.

    • Tonto ni

      June 17, 2017 at 5:45 pm

      Me too. As a single mum myself, I know and understand whatever she must be going through and yes so be it if she decides to keep the man out of the child’s life. All this people spewing let the man be there for his child do not have a clue what having a pretender of a husband or boyfriend turned irresponsible baby daddy is. Well your opinions do not matter I do not need to school y’all on the cause and effect of making a woman go through the torture of raising a child alone . If only shooting was legal, my baby daddy would be on the run by now cos I would def be on the hunt to gun the f*** boy down. Tonto live ok and keep doing you.
      Once again their opinion don’t matter as long as you are happy then it’s settled
      P.s : all is fair in love and war

  86. MM

    June 17, 2017 at 6:09 pm

    Attention seeker rada rada. Like the little boy will have any recollection of his mother’s pulic show of craze. Anyways he’ll see it on the internet when he comes of age, and may be totally embarrassed

  87. Mimi

    June 18, 2017 at 10:34 pm

    I like how many people just assume that the dad wanta to be there for his son. Lile we don’t lnow how hard it is for dads who are present to do theae things not to talk of absent dads. The babe is coping how she can. Unless you’re ready to drop your life and be a second parent to her child please leave her alone.

  88. Buki

    June 19, 2017 at 2:34 pm

    Everyone, please breathe a little… drop your judgements at the door… naija woman, the ultimate hater and criticizer… abeg live and let live…social media be making people feel like they have an opinion on other people’s lives!
    This looks like fun, she had a whim to do something crazy and hilarious and warm for her child and she did! She didn’t ask or request your permissions, she chose to have fun… doesn’t mean she’ll do it every year, but this is what she chose to do now, with her pain and her little strength and all the mixed emotions she’s going through… please leave her alone and mind your families!

  89. D law

    June 27, 2017 at 7:21 pm

    Is like you all here don’t know Nigeria law if you people don’t know I will educate you all … no matter anything she is doing now when that boy is up to 7 years now according to nigeria law the boy father will have full acesss to the boy .. meaning the boy can now live with his father after 7 years so tonoto is just fooling her self .

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