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But some people in this world are not nice oo. Ah!

Where even to begin? Okay. Okay. A Twitter user @Jenniieey has shared how a fight broke out today in her office.

It’s a story of how some people will just disguise themselves, cloak themselves up as (boy)friends, when inside inside, choi!

So a colleague found out her dear friend and coworker got engaged to her ex-fiancé. Yup! Her ex-fiancé.

The fight that ensued ehn, wigs were flying in the air.

Read the story for yourself:

25 Comments

  1. Mawi

    January 15, 2018 at 10:31 pm

    Ha! Things we read

    • Fleur

      January 17, 2018 at 2:01 am

      No be small. Is this fiction or reality TV? Abi this happened somewhere in Naija for real? What am I talking. I remember one girl I supervised leaving her cubicle in one of the oil companies to go and wage a physical fight with the secretary of a big time manager. What was the wahala? They were both fighting over the man. BTW, the man was married and his oldest kid was maybe 6 years younger than one of the girls. They fought on the premises of the company. I called the security to carry them out. Because a major oga was involved, no security report. Then they took it to the apartment of the girl that worked for me. there, they broke the louvre glass in her apartment and stabbed themselves with it. I got a call from my staff asking me to call the man because he is not answering his phone. They needed him to come and settle the issue and take them to hospital. Meanwhile, this round 2 is happening about 8PM. Oga and wife were enjoying a peaceful evening like all family people do. I called the man from official line. He answered. I told him the problem from earlier has erupted again and this time there’s injury. He asked me where. I told him the other boos house. He said to me in his eloquent ENglish “what is all this mess? I am at home with my wife. I cannot be taking all these calls.” I said “no probs Sir. Just keeping you informed. One of them is so crazy she might come to your house if you dont show. That will not be a preferred outcome. She has asked me to call you since you wont pick her calls.” Dude sighed like he was going to cry and hung up. I extricated myself from the case thereafter because the second incident happened outside of work and the first incident was about 4PM when we closed for the day, even though it was on company property. I Nigerian girls sometimes have no boundaries. Kontinu. That is why I love oyinbo work place. Dem get drama but you will have to have a great nose to sniff it out. Otherwise, you will be living in your self made heaven while people are romping with others.

  2. Sexy O

    January 15, 2018 at 10:47 pm

    Na wa ooo. God deliver us from unfriendly friends. You wey not blame those that store their significant others name as “ngozi” and hoard them like December fuel. The hustle is real .

    • Carmen

      January 15, 2018 at 11:02 pm

      Lmao! e say na december fuel…

  3. John

    January 15, 2018 at 11:04 pm

    So after he called off the engagement in October, his babe cried and guess what.. aunty admin was there for her all through. Telling her to forget the guy and that she sud b grateful that he should his true character before she said “I Do” to him………………lol..I like this part..I bet aunty admin comments on BN..she has every characteristicsbof one..that hypocrisy…look..tey are 2 types of people you should avoid as a woman
    1) A woman like aunty admin that is always in tje habit to advise you to leave your relationship or you can do better…please, run

    2) men that claim to feminist and tell you whatever you like to hear
    ……
    If you think that I John is bad or hates women..wait until you jam those 2 set of people..they will use and ruin your life that you wont even know where to begin..You won’t even see it coming

    • Poesy

      January 16, 2018 at 1:39 am

      Advice like yours is why many women stay with their abusive partners.

    • Smh

      January 16, 2018 at 3:45 am

      Had you not been so consumed by your excitement from seeing two women in a negative situation, you would have proof read the nonesense you typed up there and maybe it would have made sense. It’s now obvious that women’s suffering or hearing anything negative that affects women turns you on. Get the help you need in 2018

  4. Agatha Chibuikem Nwosu

    January 16, 2018 at 4:42 am

    I cried and still crying. This is why I need no girlfriend in my life. This is exactly what happened to me few years ago

    • Mama

      January 16, 2018 at 10:19 am

      No, this is not why you need no girlfriends in you life. However, it should be why you resolve never again to date any douchebag that doesn’t love you or know the meaning of the word “commitment”. I am sorry about your pain, but while your friend is culpable and should share in the blame, except she put a gun to your man’s head, then it is all on him. If God forbid he jilted you for your sister or cousin (this happened to someone i know), you wouldn’t say, “this is why i need no sister in my life”. If i have to hide my boyfriend from my friends because he could be snatched then there is a deeper issue of trust that would rear its ugly head in the future. Don’t worry, people like them deserve each other and only time will clarify it to you. Please, make friends and be happy. You’ll meet and man who even if your friend strips naked in front of him, he will not be moved.

    • wifematerial

      January 19, 2018 at 3:53 am

      get a boyfriend then “Bobrisky”

  5. BlizJoan

    January 16, 2018 at 7:37 am

    Lol @ Ngozi and December fuel… That really cracked me up. I pray they don’t loose their jobs all because of an insignificant idiot!!! She should be happy and grateful to God that she didn’t marry him cos a cheat is always a cheat.

    As for Aunty Admin that believes she won the battle should rethink her stands cos I see a very painful, sorrowful and agony filled marriage if she marry that lair.

  6. Ottawa Queen

    January 16, 2018 at 7:55 am

    I wonder how aunty admin sleeps at night.

    • Ade

      January 16, 2018 at 8:15 am

      On her back of course.

    • Loki

      January 16, 2018 at 8:46 am

      Aunty Admin will sleep very well at night because:
      1. Nobody knows what the guy told her. Which Nigerian woman hasn’t heard some guy complain bitterly about how his wife is very very horrible to him, doesn’t understand him and is not interested in their marriage/relationship, just so he can get sympathy sex from another woman and justify his unfaithfulness?
      2. In a place like Nigeria where a woman is nothing without a man, having one by hook, crook or ogboju is a must. Whoever gets hurt in the process- tough. I remember many years ago, a lady telling my JJC self (back then) when I refused to have anything to do with a guy with a girlfriend “Ah,every man has a woman oh. It is your job to push the one that is there out”. She had by that time already pushed out her own boyfriend’s wife AND girlfriend. That is Nigeria for you- get a man, if you can’t get one for yourself, obtain another woman’s own. It is survival of the fittest
      This issue of men treating women like playthings will not stop until we stop treating men like prizes to be won at all costs. @John above is already foaming at the mouth at the idea of two women killing each other over a man. When will Nigerian women realise that no man will have more value for you over the value you place on yourself? There is no BETTER half; most are liabilities. You haven’t WON because you got a ring. You just might have signed a life time contract with a psychopath.
      But what do I know? After all, I’m ONLY a feminist man-hater with a pseudo-penis. No woman will beat me over any man sha. No man on earth is worth that headache. I don talk my own.

  7. Gorgeous

    January 16, 2018 at 10:23 am

    Oh my gaaaddddd,i can’t stop laughing so so so hard while reading this chic’s write-up.
    She said the BRINGER of lunch……hahahahahahahhahah –lol
    Una no go kill person for this social media
    Wigs flying in the air —lol

  8. Ocean Beauty

    January 16, 2018 at 11:27 am

    I’m still trying to understand why me and another woman will fight for one man. Me and you suppose collabo and open office for e head.
    A policeman working with my mum came with a complain.
    Did I say complain, more like lamentation.
    He’s married oh but refused to go home. Instead he rented an apartment to live with his girlfriend. Only am use e hand bring another girlfriend come the house. The two girlfriends lived in peace and harmony. Oga Police even opened different businesses for them oh. Day break everybody will go about their businesses. Evening they will come back to one house. Until both girls got married to different men right under his roof. Police eye open. He started his lamentations, wondering what he did wrong.
    I don’t know when many of us will learn that many times we are not the problem. In this case the man is the issue.

    • mrs pangolo

      January 16, 2018 at 5:46 pm

      what’s there to understand? this particular case is especially hurtful because the so-called comforter/aunty admin was the same person chooking the man wey steal her comfort.
      the man is a he-goat, no mistake about that but this woman might as well as wrung a knife thru her

  9. mz_titilitious

    January 16, 2018 at 11:28 am

    Lmao… its funny but sad…. I dont keep frds anyways.

    • californiabawlar

      January 16, 2018 at 7:36 pm

      So your bobo will just cheat a stranger.

  10. danny boi

    January 16, 2018 at 11:46 am

    like i am literarily dead wiyth lafta right now, i don’t even kno wwhat to say sef, but i guess its one ,more reason to thank God for being single, but meeehnn, whoever that guy is, they garra give him special fifa award for player of the year, as for aunty admin her karma is currently undergoing restructuring in national assembly, and the same goes for the lunch bringer.

  11. Cocoa

    January 16, 2018 at 1:02 pm

    I wish the 1st lady would have seen this for what it was…. JUBILATION TIME. I would congratulate the 2nd lady and the guy, give them a wedding gift and spend my days sharing my testimony of how God delivered me from the hands of my enemies!!!

    They didnt poison your food…You lived to see the reward of the wicked. Their reward was getting engaged to eachother!!!!! Two unfaithful liars found each other and you are the one upset? You should pity them so much that you remember them in your prayers at night….and youre there fighting.

    OPEN YOUR EYES!!! GOD DELIVERED YOU from not One but TWO!!!! I thank God for your life and PRAY you find another job in a brand new environment, Amen!

  12. Cocoa

    January 16, 2018 at 1:06 pm

    Oh btw…another instanceshowing why we shoukd follow God’s manual! SAY NO TO FORNICATION. A man ended an engagement to you but you were too emotionally attached to see that for the rejection it really was and use that time in your brokenness to cling closer to God for restoration.

    Continuing to forcicate with him and act as stand-by girl friend was not a wise decision.

    I pray anyone in similar situations come to the truth and the knowledge of Christ , Amen.

    • LetsTalknigeria

      January 16, 2018 at 2:17 pm

      I totally agree with you, was in a similar situation but there was no engagement involved, and when everything came out in the open and I went crying to my pastor, she sympathized with me but asked me if I was sleeping with him and I said yes, and she was like you just ate the fruit of your actions. Ouch! She was right, God’s way is the best!

    • Sexy O

      January 16, 2018 at 2:27 pm

      Amen.

  13. OA

    January 16, 2018 at 10:16 pm

    People are wicked oh! The boy is just a bold-faced moron! I hope he gets everything that is due him. If he thinks there are no consequences to his actions, he better think again. Such a conniving, low-life!

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