In her latest vlog, Eniola Hu explains the idea that a man who believes in the equality of the sexes is not a feminist.
According to her, they are not capable of experiencing what makes one a feminist. Neither are they welcome into feminist safe spaces, except in a supporting role, which does not require them to identify as feminists. At best, they can be allies or just nothing. Just do the work, men. Your work is to listen and educate your fellow men.