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With All My Love: Tomi Olayinka & Soji Adegbenro Wed



On the 7th of January 2012, Tomi Olayinka and Soji Adegbenro said “I Do” at the Archbishop Vining Memorial Church in GRA Lagos, Nigeria. Just two days before, the couple celebrated their traditional engagement alongside friends and family. Tomi and Soji’s traditional engagement was a colourful and festive occasion filled with joy and love!

This was the start of their wonderful wedding festivities which continued at their church ceremony where they were blessed and joined as husband and wife. Tomi was an utterly gorgeous bride in her stunning embellished trumpet silhouette wedding dress by Caroline Castigliano. The groom was at his dapper best in his double-breasted black tuxedo.

Tomi and Soji’s love story began when they met at a friend’s party and after the church blessing, it was time for another party – their wedding reception! The marquee reception venue was  totally madeover with lush flowers and crystal adornments. Everyone had an absolutely great time as they enjoyed Tomi and Soji’s special day.

BN wishes Tomi and Soji a blessed and joyful marriage.

~ Photos by Dudu Guy Photography | ishoot Photography

Traditional Engagement

PhotographyKenny Songonuga for Dudu Guy Photography – Website | Facebook | Email – duduguyphotography (at) | Niyi Muyi for ishoot Photography

Wedding Colours:
Traditional – Orange and Gold
White Wedding – Teal and Silver
Wedding Dress: Caroline Castigliano –
Bridesmaids Dresses: Lanre DaSilva-Ajayi –
Event Planners: Ngozi Akintujoye & Omorinsola Arogundade for Perfect Coordinators – 08033009376 | 07066444940 – perfectcoordinators (at)
Wedding Venues:
Traditional – The Haven, GRA Ikeja, Lagos
White Wedding Church – Archbishop Vining Memorial Church, GRA Ikeja, Lagos
White Wedding Reception – Marquee @ Giwa Barracks, Ikoyi, Lagos
Food: Kemabom
Decor: Jasmine’s Nest
Cake: Glitz and Glam by Temilola Bada
Rest in Peace Adeola Randolph – Son, Brother, Friend, Best Man…Click Here to Send Your Tributes


  1. ij

    February 27, 2012 at 9:56 am

    oh God !! Nigerians are damn tooooooooooooo fine i beg. meanwhile lovely wedding

  2. dedun

    February 27, 2012 at 10:03 am

    I love the engagement colour…They look amazing!

  3. Sisi_Yemmie

    February 27, 2012 at 10:07 am

    Really beautiful ! God bless their union! x

  4. modupe

    February 27, 2012 at 10:13 am

    wow really lovely wedding. everything is so on point. may God bless ur union.

  5. oghogho Natalie

    February 27, 2012 at 10:17 am

    M just speechless! Wheres my mister right naw! Just tired *wipes sweat*. Nice wedding anyway.

  6. Ice queen

    February 27, 2012 at 10:23 am

    lovely wedding with tons of beautiful people..God bless your union

  7. sandra

    February 27, 2012 at 10:23 am


  8. I talk am

    February 27, 2012 at 10:24 am

    Very colourful wedding. Congrats to the couple, may God bless their marriage.
    Btw: That best man looks like the guy I heard about that … *I can’t even talk*

  9. ify

    February 27, 2012 at 10:26 am

    lovely couple, lovely people.This is the type of wedding you come in and say wow!

  10. sh....

    February 27, 2012 at 10:30 am

    Awww…adeola randolph was the best man….

    • helloo!!!!

      February 27, 2012 at 8:47 pm

      i know! so sad..

  11. bundle

    February 27, 2012 at 10:34 am

    Chai!!! see beaurriful people! lovely photography, lovely couple, Lord i want my own to be beaurriful like dis in Jesus name ohhhhhh….who no like fine thing? If i gree my God go gree too.

  12. brianna

    February 27, 2012 at 10:37 am

    Sooo many beautiful people,damn! i guess if you want to find a a spouse you should just go to one of these weddings

  13. TaMa

    February 27, 2012 at 10:39 am

    nice wedding, every one looks lovely. the best man looks like the guy that passed away (Adeola)

    • herroyalsexiness

      February 27, 2012 at 1:00 pm

      He’s actually the one…so sad! this life is indeed ephemeral…..sisgh!

    • herroyalsexiness

      February 27, 2012 at 3:19 pm

      Sadly so, he’s d one….life is indeed a passing vapour…sigh!

  14. sweetie

    February 27, 2012 at 10:44 am

    QC babes representing!!!! Congrats Tomi, you looked gorg 🙂 , wish you all the best in your marriage…from one of your juniors in school that you punished mercilessly 🙂

  15. pepe

    February 27, 2012 at 11:10 am

    lovely wedding….

  16. Tiki

    February 27, 2012 at 11:11 am

    Chai, see fyne guys everywhere! The couple look really happy and comfortable, and the wedding looks beautiful and classy, without being OTT. Congrats guys! God’s blessings for the future.

  17. Ginika

    February 27, 2012 at 11:18 am

    Awwww, may God bless their marriage immensely.

    Okay, there is just something about big, long, beautiful braids like the girl in pic no. BN068. They add a certain type of touch to your look and they make you beautiful (or maybe it is because I’m rocking the exact same hair, lol).

    Lots of eligible looking bachelors and bachelorettes in the building; whoop, whoop!

    The couple looks really happy and inlove, thank God for their lives.

    • Mariaah

      February 27, 2012 at 6:55 pm

      So true.. Am rocking like it too.. Mine’s close to shoulder length, twist with kinky (d one they use for dreadlocks)…

  18. Berry

    February 27, 2012 at 11:26 am

    Awwww, pretty!!!

  19. kenny

    February 27, 2012 at 11:39 am

    cute couple! wish them the very best in their Married Life!

  20. Lil fiz

    February 27, 2012 at 11:41 am

    Nice. Congrats

  21. cathy

    February 27, 2012 at 11:43 am

    gorgeous people

  22. Priscy

    February 27, 2012 at 11:51 am

    Beautiful wedding and beautiful ppl

  23. Rabina

    February 27, 2012 at 12:11 pm

    PS- is the bride pregnant??? If so, clever choice of wedding gown which conceals her pregnancy

  24. Beediva

    February 27, 2012 at 12:48 pm

    @Ginika, u can say dat again, rocking d same style too….it changed my face entirely. Congrats to the couple !!

  25. jennifer

    February 27, 2012 at 1:09 pm


  26. onyx

    February 27, 2012 at 2:46 pm

    Looks like the couple had an amazing day on both occasions. And I love the white and orange decor for the trado (intending to copy). Happy married life to you lovebirds!

    Also, I see a lot of female guests rocking dem braids. Me likey very much!

  27. Alexa

    February 27, 2012 at 2:48 pm

    I should come to Nigeria for a husband…..beautiful couple with beautiful family and friends. God bless

  28. BukiOni

    February 27, 2012 at 2:49 pm

    Beautiful bride, beautiful wedding. Wishing them a happy marriage, filled with joy and love x

  29. Miss D

    February 27, 2012 at 3:03 pm

    Congrats tomi luvvvvvvvvvvvvvv, you look so stunning

  30. Twix

    February 27, 2012 at 3:27 pm

    habaaaa……9ja get fine men sha…..kilode…handsome men, pretty babes everywhere….Nigeria must survive this trying times ooo

  31. Merciful

    February 27, 2012 at 3:29 pm

    Na wa o! 9ja guyz can fine o! pretty ladies everywhere. wedding =beautiful! God when my own day go come na?

  32. Ndidi

    February 27, 2012 at 3:40 pm

    Beautiful couple,gorgeous wedding!For that guy staring straight at me with that come hither look- right back at ya babe, right back at ya!

    • Pinya

      February 27, 2012 at 5:34 pm

      LOL…somome else’s man and father….Please sister Ndidi commot eye for there…Thank u and God Bless

    • Ibi

      February 27, 2012 at 6:43 pm

      @Ndidi.. biko.. That guy no dey stare at you o. Comot your eye from there. He is married with 2 lovely bambinos.

  33. Personal tuvs

    February 27, 2012 at 3:44 pm

  34. Miss A

    February 27, 2012 at 4:08 pm

    Beautiful people everywhere! Looks like everyone had fun at the wedding

  35. Chikaka

    February 27, 2012 at 4:33 pm

    Fine couple no pimples; Archie and Toun.
    Yes, love the take on braids and twists especially Linda’s
    Everyone dressed so well.
    Hey guys; Ologun and Kunle, i think the facial hair is a bit too much and now looking messy.

  36. Baby Dee

    February 27, 2012 at 4:35 pm

    Gbagaun Gbagaun Gbagaun….. breaking news!
    Brazillian girls are singing : All we are saying, give us back our hair!.. Sheese…

    Congratulations to the beautiful couple.

    • Adaeze

      February 27, 2012 at 10:09 pm

      LMAOOOOO This your comment na die. Really cracked me up! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA But for real though. I’m sure a Brazilian hair store can be opened with all the weaves i have seen at this wedding loool nevertheless they look very beautiful! Lovely wedding, one of the best iv seen on this site. The couple are gorgeous, the bride is breath taking! LOVE LOVE LOVE IT! Nigerians are just on another level oooo Asin dem no dey gree oooo! too much swaaaaagggg!!!!

  37. InCotonou

    February 27, 2012 at 4:40 pm

    This weedding is too beautiful for words. Everything is perfect. bright, fresh colours. lovely pictures. Make me wish i was there!

  38. Remi

    February 27, 2012 at 4:45 pm

    God bless their Union….they are so much in love!!! Almost made me cry to see the love in their eyes…True love does exist.I key in to their marriag as a point of contact 4mine.AMEN

  39. Wahl

    February 27, 2012 at 4:51 pm

    A moment of silence for the guy that passed away. … RIP Adeola Randolph

  40. Layo

    February 27, 2012 at 4:57 pm

    Such all round fabness, gosh!! Beautiful couple, guests and colours. Love it!

  41. Dami_blinks

    February 27, 2012 at 5:40 pm

    Fantastic pictures,gud photography!…wish dem all d gudies dt cums with marriage

  42. coolcat

    February 27, 2012 at 5:40 pm

    tommikko tampikko, congrats dear. honoured to have shared in your day and may all your years be even more blissful.

  43. keri

    February 27, 2012 at 5:48 pm

    nigerians are beautiful:D

  44. Uchechi

    February 27, 2012 at 6:40 pm

    Aww congrats Tomo, wishing you a great union. Muah xxx

  45. LB

    February 27, 2012 at 7:11 pm

    Congrats SOJ!! Perfect choice for a bestman. REST IN PEACE A.I.R. We love you brother!

  46. fifi

    February 27, 2012 at 7:15 pm

    ndidi bolaji is marrried ooooo

  47. J

    February 27, 2012 at 8:10 pm

    Rest in perfect peace Adeola. You will be sorely missed

  48. Nikki

    February 27, 2012 at 8:39 pm

    Congratulations Tomi & her hubby! beautiful beautiful the choice of colours and fabrics..i luv the bride’s maids dresses to bits… RIP Adeola Randolph…

  49. deeb

    February 27, 2012 at 9:40 pm

    Correct Crowd! Everyone looking effortlessly beautiful.x Congrats to the happy couple

  50. TrueTalkCritique

    February 27, 2012 at 10:19 pm

    Such elegance and grace shown…beautifully put together. My hat goes of to DUDUGUY for capturing such volume speaking and lovely pics!!!

  51. t

    February 27, 2012 at 10:24 pm

    Congrats to you two.
    BUT, na wa oh!…did your wedding IV say “COME LOOKING HOT????”
    EVERYONE in this wedding was hot hot hot hot…I am so freaking jealous.
    And I really liked that the bride wore the full dress for the reception not the regular tube. She looked super classy.
    I really enjoyed viewing these pictures!

    • Blossom

      February 28, 2012 at 2:38 pm

      I so agree with you on that. The first thing I noticed was the decency of the bride’s dress and her bridal train’s outfit; very decent yet classy.
      Tomi, I salute you on your total transformation.
      From an ex-Nyberg hall mate.

  52. Yeni

    February 27, 2012 at 11:20 pm

    Wow,lovely wedding. See Adeola Randolph who would have thought about a month ago u’ll begone. Rip

  53. kumzy

    February 27, 2012 at 11:21 pm

    love that the bridesmaids dresses are different & luv the engagement colours

  54. Miola

    February 28, 2012 at 1:37 am

    Look at all these fine Homies…… Waaaaaaaaaah!!!!! Miss Sokunbi I see u …….rocking that fine gele!!! BEAUTIFUL WEDDING …….xxx

  55. Auntie

    February 28, 2012 at 3:23 am

    QC stand up!!! Lovely! Tomikko looked gorge!!!!! Congrats!

  56. itsekiri's finest

    February 28, 2012 at 7:26 am

    No hyperbole here but this is literally the best wedding coverage i have ever seen on this blog! good job bella for posting and great job dudu guy for the pics! i love how there are a lot of pictures of guests at the two ceremonies – gorgeous guests might i add! superb!
    more wedding features like this please bella – with more emphasis on the lovely, dressed-to-kill guests! let’s feast our eyes on beautiful lagosians!
    ps: all the best, tomi and soji! dont know you but still wish you the best! *wink wink*

    • kotbaba

      February 28, 2012 at 3:18 pm

      I agree

  57. Missy

    February 28, 2012 at 7:43 am

    Lovely wedding. Don’t know how so many beautiful people can be together in one place, na wah o!!! But please, who is this Duduguy abeg, saw a fab wedding on BN he did as well. The pictures look fab from beginning to end! Nice one bella.

    • kotbaba

      February 28, 2012 at 3:17 pm

      Thank you oh Missy… ha! so many beautiful pple. Enuff hooking up.

  58. left

    February 28, 2012 at 11:42 am

    This is absolutely gorgeous and lovely, Wishing you the very best in marriage with lots of love and children to fill your home with joy and laughter.

  59. Francesca

    February 28, 2012 at 2:06 pm

    Gorgeous couple. I love the bride’s make up.

  60. Ziariz

    February 28, 2012 at 3:13 pm

    chai! see fine blokes n babes oooo…money is speaking here..everyone looks so well to do… money na good thing …everyone smiling and happy and wat’s with the blokes keeping the same type of facial hair cut…na cult?

  61. kotbaba

    February 28, 2012 at 3:16 pm

    na wa for fine girls oh!!! guys are trying in this naija oh. Ah! Eyes would have been going to and fro. Which ine to choose from the bevvy of ladies. Enuff fine bois too. Must have been a fun wedding.

  62. Anon

    February 28, 2012 at 3:18 pm

    Congrats Tomi! Wish you all teh very best marriage has to offer 🙂

  63. pynk

    February 28, 2012 at 3:25 pm

    Lovely. SoJ u chose well.

  64. titolicious

    February 28, 2012 at 4:28 pm

    Naijaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa>>> U too gbaski!

  65. hanks

    February 28, 2012 at 5:09 pm

    those shoes…Benjamin Adams…love them!

  66. tolu

    February 28, 2012 at 5:23 pm

    lovely couple, lovely wedding, lovely people, lovely decor and lovely pictures!!

  67. bukky

    February 28, 2012 at 5:26 pm

    woah…….fab, i’m in love……everything is just on point..i so love the decor, not over the top, simple n classy…..congrts to d couple

  68. bee bee

    February 28, 2012 at 5:30 pm

    na wa o see fine fine people for lagos……..beautiful wedding………kudos to lanre da silva for the bridesmaids dresses, the bride’s dress is so nice not ur regular “naija” boob tube wedding dresses,
    i love the decor, very nice. photography too correct!!! in short i’m copying everything for my wedding 🙂


    February 28, 2012 at 9:58 pm

    CLASSY WEDDING. Congratulations!!!

  70. duduosun

    February 29, 2012 at 12:06 am

    WOW ! Beautiful couple. I love the color theme. Can you see all these guys ? my eyes O ! The couple had the hottest guys in Lagos at both event.

  71. redfunnylips

    February 29, 2012 at 7:26 am

    Congrats Tomikko Tomms…x

  72. Miss J.

    February 29, 2012 at 8:52 am

    this wedding was planned very well.
    the guests were all fabulous, very well dressed.
    almost perfect

  73. ella

    February 29, 2012 at 9:26 am

    Babcock bride and chics looking Hot!!!! Great to see some old faces after such a while ….Congrats Tomi . God bless your home

  74. colette

    February 29, 2012 at 12:49 pm

    very beautiful wedding and sweet couple….i love ur colors!

  75. Cynthia Fayomi

    February 29, 2012 at 3:24 pm

  76. Sunshine

    February 29, 2012 at 4:27 pm

    Babcock ladies representing.
    Beautiful wedding, wish you both the very best
    Bukky Thomas , i see u

    • Ahday

      March 8, 2012 at 3:29 pm

      Former Miss Bukky Thomas.

  77. Brownsugah

    February 29, 2012 at 4:45 pm

    BN weddings always representing!!!! Fine Fine people so tey i tire. Hmmm…. is it the girls or the guys? They are all so glowing and the couple una do well! God will bless you with beautiful children, a happy home and may ur marriage be as colorful as your wedding. Amen!!!!

  78. popoola omolade

    February 29, 2012 at 7:56 pm

    Beautiful bride, smart train, lovely reception, have a blissful union guys #thumbs up

  79. revivedafrikana

    February 29, 2012 at 10:01 pm

    hot couple sha

  80. diva

    February 29, 2012 at 10:44 pm


  81. chiddy

    March 1, 2012 at 3:43 am

    LDA….love ya werk!! The bridal train….so smart and sexy at d same time. Beaurriful wedding, i believe d bride stole my weeding ideas(for my mind sha). So much love in d air….God’s blessings in ya

  82. beAUtiFul

    March 1, 2012 at 10:54 am

    congrat dear! God bless your union. yes o! Babcock babes representing!!!

    • Lady Kay

      March 10, 2012 at 7:46 am

      Lovely wedding. QC babes representing 🙂

  83. Funmi

    March 1, 2012 at 12:23 pm

    E jooo Nigerian are the most beautiful people in the world talk of mixing traditional with foreign ideals we are the best. I beg am tired of Europe am going home.
    As per the wedding what can I say beautiful, beautiful, beautiful. God bless the union. Oluwa a fiyin sore ara yin kale o.(Amin)

  84. trich

    March 1, 2012 at 3:45 pm

    so simple but elegant!

  85. Phibz!

    March 1, 2012 at 5:53 pm

    Meyhne! All I can see are the fine guyz! Na wetin. All this fineness in one place*sigh*

  86. Daeze

    March 2, 2012 at 2:42 am

    I love the bridesmaid dresses *sigh* LDA, tried. The bride looks super gorgeous as well

  87. funtizzy

    March 2, 2012 at 5:58 am

    so beautiful, congratulation

  88. anonymous

    March 2, 2012 at 7:57 pm

    Is it me or has bella posted a lot of pics of Adeola…I know he was the best man but just a poignant reminder…Here today gone tmrw…still gives goose bumps.

  89. Zara

    March 3, 2012 at 10:42 pm

    The fashion is really nice! I love the materials used!

  90. Modupsie1

    March 4, 2012 at 5:02 pm

    i love,i love, i love

  91. omobolaji

    March 4, 2012 at 11:08 pm

    dis is gorgeous

  92. posi olaiya

    March 4, 2012 at 11:54 pm

    woooow dis is nice God bless yr marriage.

  93. abbey

    March 5, 2012 at 7:42 am

    I just love the fashion sense of Naija guys at this wedding. What they are doing with native is just amazing. I need me a good tailor to give me some real native cut of native and hat. Can’t wait to go to Naija for summer….

  94. Yori

    March 5, 2012 at 4:39 pm

    Awesome! Love the bold red on the bridesmaids

  95. Naijababe

    March 7, 2012 at 12:26 am

    Beautiful couple. Too many beautiful men and women. Why don’t I ever get invited to this kind of wedding? I will be married by now or engaged.

  96. Cali-Babe

    March 7, 2012 at 8:54 am

    Congrats on your wedding… But seriously though who is this FINE…. man starring straight at the camera? Tomi, you have to help a sister out.. lol.. get my email address from BN & give it to him(He’ll know what to do with it.)

  97. Sewa

    March 7, 2012 at 10:23 pm

    Congratulations guys, many happy returns

  98. naynay

    March 8, 2012 at 4:25 pm

    Beautiful wedding ………see fine boys …left!!! right!!! all over!!!!………….eiishhhhh!!!! *sign of the cross*

  99. kunitara

    March 14, 2012 at 5:27 pm

    woowwwwwww….naija babe be too oooo,…….<3 <3 <3 almost everything…eiish…….wen ma tyme go come ooo….*praying*

  100. rorobi nelson

    March 15, 2012 at 10:03 am

    i love dis weding jeeeeeeeeez

  101. Sexy Little Things

    March 15, 2012 at 8:19 pm

    ndidi kai.laff wan kee me oooo.

  102. Sexy Little Things

    March 15, 2012 at 8:32 pm

    meanwhile who is dat guy in .He is ma spec,just d way i like dem.Bella how far?anyfin for your gal?LOL

  103. Miss Mo

    March 16, 2012 at 4:02 am

    Bella please where is my comment?
    Beautiful wedding. You can tell it was well planned and thought out. Love her friends aso ebi. But the engagement could have more traditional. Very nice all the same.

  104. Miss Mo

    March 16, 2012 at 3:51 pm

    Sorry, meant engagement deco could have traditional.

  105. damojo

    March 16, 2012 at 4:58 pm

    Is it just me or do all the guys have alot of beards, skin-cut and fierce lookings? Reminds me of THE DON in DIAMOND RINGS.

  106. Adaugo

    March 17, 2012 at 2:37 pm

    Beautiful wedding

  107. Bimbo Ashiru

    March 26, 2012 at 7:34 pm

    Happy married life to the couple.

  108. Jumoke Salau

    May 2, 2012 at 1:42 pm

    May God bless d couple

  109. opeyemi james

    May 27, 2012 at 4:51 pm

    lovely wedding, amazing colors, nice brides maid dresses

  110. BOLANLE

    October 24, 2012 at 4:29 pm

    im getting married soon, and i love the brides dress,wish i can meet her.

  111. Bella

    November 21, 2012 at 3:41 pm

    Pretty bride. Wishing them a happy married life. Nice & Colorful wedding too.

  112. debola

    November 26, 2012 at 8:28 am

    tomi representing babcock kids, shaky,bola, bolanle, buksipepper, shile, bimpe, i c u all

  113. olarewajufatai

    November 19, 2014 at 12:29 pm

    very lovely wedding.

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