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Chika Ike: “I Left My Marriage because I was a Victim of Domestic Violence” | Nollywood Actress shares Story of Physical Assault



Chika Ike - August 2013 - BellaNaija

Here you have it world, Chika Ike is sharing one of the main reasons she divorced her husband.

Last month, the 27 year old Nollywood actress announced that her divorce is finalised. Ever since her separation, she has received lots of backlash on social media on her failed marriage – from speculation that “she was not a loyal wife” to rumours that “she got married for money”.

Chika Ike's Wedding Day

Single, happy and living life to the fullest now, she shares the reason why she filed for divorce. Her husband, known as Mr Eberibi physically assaulted her for years. One of the many fights resulted in a miscarriage.

Read Chika Ike’s Heartbreaking story;

The past three years has been a very emotional period for me, I focused my energy on work and to build back my self esteem.

It’s been really hard for me to come out straight and talk about this because sometimes, I pinch myself to wake up and not believe that I was a victim of domestic violence. I’ve been through a lot in my life, faced a lot of challenges but this is one topic I’ve tried so hard to avoid and have been waiting for the right time but I have come to a resolve that there’s really no right time because every second of the day, lives are being lost due to domestic violence.

I was a victim of domestic violence in my marriage and that was the singular reason I left my marriage, aside other reasons.

Growing up as a girl, I was always known as the sweetest kid on the block, before I got married, I have been through some relationships and for once no man had ever laid a finger on me. The first time it happened in my marriage I didn’t understand it because I am not the type of woman a man beats but I guess there are no types.

It just happens and no woman deserves it. As a young girl I thought it was love or his way of expressing his emotions,after every beating he pleads , cries and says it won’t happen again, once again I thought it was love and made excuses for him.

Over the years when it kept happening consistently, I started looking for other definitions for it. I started loosing my self pride, self esteem, self worth, and most painfully I lost a pregnancy (Miscarriage). I almost lost my life in the process then I realised how serious and abnormal it really was.

I have heard and read a lot of accusations from ignorant people who don’t know my story, I guess that’s why they are ignorant. I was 20 yrs old and very naive to the world when I got married . “They said I married for money” LOL. I was married to a corporate guy, who had a 9 to 5 job in a bank, lives in a rented 2 bedroom apartment at Egbe.

So do the math! I married for love. I did a traditional wedding. A white wedding and a court wedding. So that’s how much I wanted to be married forever. For five years I hoped, prayed & wished that one day it will all change. But the last straw that broke the carmel’s back was during a heated argument he threw a glass jug to my face and I dogged it and it shattered on d wall.

I saw death flash before me and I made a decision to save my life. I left my marriage.

I am not saying this to draw pity from anyone because we are entitled to our opinions and believes.i am not also saying this to discourage people from falling in love because it’s a beautiful feeling and I still believe in it.

I am saying this to educate, share and talk about my experience as a victim of domestic violence because it is real.


  1. chichi

    August 10, 2013 at 11:11 am

    Eh yaaaa, I feel you, it. Is well…

    • Christiana

      November 5, 2016 at 3:44 pm

      I know how u feel but one day those mouth that said evil will say good thing may god almighty be with u for the rest of your life

    • Tumusiime Sarah

      November 13, 2017 at 6:18 am

      I know how it feels. ..But move on the best is yet to come

  2. bindiddy

    August 10, 2013 at 11:56 am

    ride on darling

  3. Deedee

    August 10, 2013 at 12:35 pm

    Ride on sister…….

  4. shola

    August 10, 2013 at 12:54 pm

    Eya pele.. Enjoy ur life to the fullest

  5. happy girl

    August 10, 2013 at 1:07 pm

    we are not sorry but happy for u.God bless u.


    August 10, 2013 at 1:11 pm

    27 years?

  7. Onye

    August 10, 2013 at 1:14 pm

    So sad! Glad she got out before it ended badly. My aunt was in this same situation. She didn’t get out even when her brothers tried to help her do so. She eventually went mad and he left her anyway. She’s now saddled with 2 kids, a mental illness and her brothers are supporting her. Get out before it’s too late. It’s not your fault, he’s hitting you. A real man would never touch a lady. You are worth more than having a man lay his hands on you. You deserve so much better.

    • Edwardo

      December 18, 2016 at 3:57 pm

      People talk what they feel and will make them happy. But trully speaking the fire burns who is near it. So if you feel the heat you are the one to decide.

  8. jinkelele

    August 10, 2013 at 1:31 pm

    mmmm…sigh it was better you got out than you becoming a headline. By the way BN should have edited this excerpt before posting at least replace ‘believes’ with ‘beliefs’

  9. prettyglo

    August 10, 2013 at 2:19 pm

    just too bad. Thank God 4 everything. He must be a drunkard.

  10. The Fairy GodSister

    August 10, 2013 at 2:36 pm

    BN, nothing wrong with editing her speech. Nothing wrong with that at all.

    Chika, happy for you that you left.

  11. milly

    August 10, 2013 at 3:11 pm

    Chika you want to kill an Urhobo man abi?committing adultery while you were still in your matrimonial home? Please take a chill pill and rest this matter the guy has moved on with his life. Thank God that he is really a professional and he does not care! And continue with all the politicians money you are whoring for now! My dear you think you are enjoying these men ! But you are wasting your life, at 27, you look 40, please go and sit down Liar!!!

    • Haba!

      August 10, 2013 at 6:30 pm

      I feel sorry for you.

    • nene

      August 10, 2013 at 8:59 pm

      sorry for what? is it not the truth?

    • iba

      August 11, 2013 at 8:51 am

      please dont bring that level here. dont sweetheart i dont know her personally or what she did in her marriage but let me address your custom. if that were the case i think more women would have died because we know between a man and woman who cheats more in a relationship.
      so why will this work for a man and not a woman? go sit down please…

    • Mariaah

      August 12, 2013 at 6:47 pm

      Iba if its the African Adultery custom I know of that happens in some tribes that I know of then Milly is right. It actually kills the man (husband) or (and) first son before it pounces on the woman (wife).

      Now, don’t get me wrong. That doesnt excuse domestic violence.. If ur wife commits adultery and you can’t get over it divorce, ask for her parents to return your bride price (in the case of traditions)!! You wan kill pesin pikin??!!

    • Kia

      August 11, 2013 at 1:02 pm

      U must be the ex husband!

    • Keyo

      January 16, 2015 at 4:53 pm

      Judge no one. No one says you shd believe Chika’s story. Always know that life is a wheel and it cld be you someday and there might be no one to believe ur own side of the story. If you’ve got nothing nice to say to people, and I don’t just mean Chika, please say nothing. Being cautious is far better than being vulgar.

    • Verlyn22

      January 21, 2015 at 9:21 pm

      you are so stupid. Leave the woman alone. I believe her!! You need to get a life


      July 8, 2017 at 2:18 pm


  12. CarliforniaBawler

    August 10, 2013 at 3:22 pm

    wow!!! This domestic violence thing scares the crap out of me!!! It really can happen to anybody…damn. In one little corner in my head, I believe all men (especially African) have psychopathic tendencies due to their egos being fed unhealthily over the years even by their own mothers and that just freaks me out. Well, I’m happy she got out alive and is getting back on her feet.
    The statement is well written and she stated all her points clearly, so someone complaining about a spelling or grammatical error or two may have missed the entire point.

    • LondonNigerian

      August 11, 2013 at 8:19 pm

      here here… our women need to stop spoiling their sons and making them feel like they can do whatever the hell they want to their women with impunity. In the long run any woman with such a man will leave and then it is the mother’s fault for spoiling her sons life by not teaching him respect for women. We have ourselves to blame. Train your sons properly!!

  13. pabaibintu

    August 10, 2013 at 4:47 pm

    My dear thank the Lord for your life cause some of our brothers behavior is like animal with no pity at all.

    • osagie

      October 24, 2014 at 9:45 pm

      Yes, they are nothing, I really feel for her, it happens everywhere! Justd useless man sister got married to , I to God everyday to open her eyes, so dat she can run for her dear life

  14. say what?

    August 10, 2013 at 5:20 pm

    Hi Bella i am glad you shared this story but I just wanted to say that as I much as i like Chika im not 100% sure you should have shown her husbands pic(I like that you did actually just confused as you didn’t do so in another article).what if he is innocent?…if you refused to post the name of the – guy during Chika Oduahs article why then do you post this pic especially as her husband is not even a celebrity… just confused if your against character assasination or not…..


      August 10, 2013 at 6:07 pm

      Thanks for your comment. These are 2 distinct scenarios

      Chika Ike has made a public statement detailing what she allegedly went through during her marriage. She publicly named her husband and provided specific details on what allegedly happened. This was the same information which led to her being successfully granted a divorce in a court of law. This is public knowledge which has been used in a successful court case during which her ex-husband had an opportunity to deny or counter the allegations.

      Chika Oduah’s article highlighted an alleged incident of sexual harrassment with NO NAMES mentioned by the author. If there was a past or ongoing legal case or formal complaint and she was also willing to name the harrasser. That would be very different.

      To put things in perspective, if a former colleague or employee of yours insinuated that you harrassed him or her and commenters on a site published your name without any evidence or formally filed complaint, what would you do? 🙂

  15. Flakyjeez

    August 10, 2013 at 6:30 pm

    Fenq god u got out wt yr lyf.Dnt listen to haterx cuz dtey ddnt mary im u did. Xo go out,shop and party cux d devil’x out of yr hair.

    • ogefierce

      August 10, 2013 at 9:55 pm

      erm *clears my throat * i have this strong feeling that you might have been high on something as at the time you posted this comment #justathought#

    • chi

      August 24, 2014 at 6:34 am

      Please go to school stop writing crap.

  16. kelvin

    August 10, 2013 at 6:35 pm

    Its best u left the marriage before he does harm to you.
    Its a shame that some men have chosen to turn themselves into wolves

  17. Baby for real

    August 11, 2013 at 3:14 am

    Am glad u left. Am not in support of domestic violence. YOLO…..

  18. chicadimples

    August 11, 2013 at 11:19 am

    Tank God for ur Life!

    There is a law against D V in Lagos, ladies take advantage of it!

  19. forbisi

    August 12, 2013 at 3:52 am

    She looks nothing like 20 in dt wedding pic!!!

  20. Shade

    August 12, 2013 at 11:03 am

    Issues! Men with issues.
    Soon, women will kukuma stop marrying them!
    I saw tweet post by a fashion designer in USA – EstelleCouture that she can relate with Chika Ike’s story. Another DOmestic violence victim??? I cant wait to hear her own story! Thess Nigerian men will not finish killing our hard-working successful chics O! Marriage is not a do or die affairz abeg!
    #StayAlive! becos if he kills u, he will remarry! Kpakam!

  21. Ernest

    August 12, 2013 at 8:20 pm

    Hmm if u want to marry a nolly wood star just try n do away wit suspect n work wit reality, ur d 1 dat made ur choice not me so be ready to face ur challenge, fellow youth be wise

  22. Nancy

    August 13, 2013 at 12:23 pm

    the best thing to do in a situation of domestic violence is to leave the marriage. but most woman don’t have the courage to do that, they are so scared of facing the society and thinking to themselves what would people say forgetting the fact that if they lost their lives….people will live on. Chika God has blessed you with such courage, move on dear and be happy.

  23. Don Supremo

    August 19, 2013 at 12:38 pm

    I bow for this kind of stories of divorce weh dey happen for our country 9ja, Chika and ex, we know no the truth; na only una and Baba GOD know.

  24. Peter enyinnaya

    August 29, 2013 at 11:12 pm

    Chika go and plead to your husband for forgiveness because no smoke without fire.

    • Freshkid

      August 31, 2013 at 6:15 pm

      Cari go!! no be thief…

    • finish

      September 5, 2015 at 12:26 am

      Hallo friends I love you all and my sincere thanks goes to all of you for the concern you have for ChiKa but I have a proposal ,before telling her to go and make peace with her husband we should first of all know from her if she can still take the risk of going back to her husband and also from him if he can accept her back let us join and plead for Chika ,this is because I love her soon much and I don’t want her to be her hurt by anyone for men are unpredictable and we may be we don’t know he must have taken another wife who will harm

  25. damepenelope

    August 31, 2013 at 8:55 pm

    I know that sometimes ladies can be can push men to the wall,but it still is wrong to beat your wife.Differences occur in marriage,but if both are committed to making it work,it usually does.There was one time I tongue lashed my husband so severely,of course he could not match me for words,and I refused to stop…he was so furious that he threw a metal pan at me,and I docked.That was ten years ago and we are still married…fighting,making up,and loving each other! I think the truth is you both just keep working at it. Fights occur in marriages,offices,and even National Assembly! That there are fights and quarrels in your home is no reason to give up.There are however some relationships that are Really Abusive,and ladies,if you fear for your life,RUN! End of sermon.

    • curious

      January 7, 2014 at 9:59 pm

      your man has somehow convinced you that it’s what you said that made him throw a pan against the wall. Has he thrown pans against men? His boss? His colleagues? Yet i’m sure other men have abused him before. Anywa Well done. He’s got you properly brain washed. Make sure you invite us to your funeral.

    • Dr. N

      January 7, 2014 at 11:09 pm

      Curious, harsh but I see your point. Kindly confirm ma, that he throws things at mopol and soldiers. Thanks.

    • Mrs F

      January 12, 2015 at 12:44 pm

      Ermmm, I hav been married for 8 years, we dated for 3 years before that. We have had heated arguments when we disagree , but NEVER fighting. FIGHTING is for soldiers, for war situations and NOT for normal, rational people that claim to love each other.

      Firstly, I have always believed, marriage is NEVER and can NEVER be the ultimate reason to live. Otherwise, marriage becomes an anticlimax and purpose, vision and direction ends.

      Please dont get it twisted by saying ‘we have been together for 10 years’ etc, and so it is normal. Marriage to the right person is a joy and a blessing to the two of you and those around you.

      DV is a killer. A killer to self esteem, to joy, to fruitfulness, to growth, to the development of a conducive home for the children and yourselves, to peace, to every thing.

      Please dont say ‘ladies push men’. When you get into an argument at work and your colleague slaps you, do you say you pushed them to slap you? Never. !!!!

      Self control is SELF control. Normal people walk away from situations that are potentially explosive, calm down and settle the matter later.

      I know a few women that kept at the marriage, the man killed them and moved on.

      Nothing, NOTHING will happen to the guy in Nigeria especially. Even if he goes to jail, whats the value of your life????

      When children are involved, what happens to them?

      Well done for speaking out Chika. You took responsibility for your own life and made the right choice, may your future be filled with joy instead of pain

  26. damepenelope

    August 31, 2013 at 8:56 pm

    I know that sometimes ladies can push men to the wall…………….

  27. Jp

    September 2, 2013 at 11:52 am

    It is gud 2 “look before u leap” don’t u know is a voilent person before u marry he? Marriage is 4 better 4 worse. Be wise my sis.

  28. Tosyn

    September 15, 2013 at 11:18 am

    Nothing like that justifies domestic violenc. Thnk God she’s out of the marriage. I’ve seen a lot of people bin involved in domestic violet and it doesn’t end well 4 them. U’re young and attractive, I blived there’s a lot of men out there who deserve ur love. Just be urself and ignore haters. I love ur personality. U’re an awesome person.

    • Kemi

      July 4, 2014 at 11:12 pm

      Abi oh! But God will surely deliver her, set her free from the bondage of the wicked ones.AMEN.

  29. Uko kalu onyekachi

    September 28, 2013 at 9:01 am

    My dear tank God 4 ur life n also remember dat what so a man soul dats what he wil reap

  30. Sunday azogor enya

    September 30, 2013 at 8:58 pm

    But to me dat is nt a gud reason for a gud woman 2 leave her home

  31. mary

    October 5, 2013 at 10:03 pm

    Its well,carry on,dear,life is not juz alwayz sweet…!itter n sweet sides.

  32. Gloria

    October 24, 2013 at 7:05 pm

    Chika i tank god u get out cos my sis is in dis too and she dont want to get out b4 it we be too late 4 she wil die my sis life first b4 any other thing

  33. mary

    October 28, 2013 at 2:12 pm

    thnks be to God, let him go mama.

  34. mary

    October 28, 2013 at 2:12 pm

    God loves you just save him

  35. Chuks

    November 8, 2013 at 11:32 am

    Both of you are not born again. U should first give Ur lives to Jesus Christ, ask God for 4giveness. God hates divoice. Any marriage of two is bound to work, be sweet and enjoyable amidst UPs & DOWNs when U make God Ur NO 1 in all things. – the 1st commandment. Do this & U wil C evry area of Ur life falling into place including MARRIGE.

  36. chuks

    November 11, 2013 at 8:14 am

    u’ve jst narrated ur own side of d story, u didn’t tell us wat u did dat made him beat u up bcos i know he’s not a mad man. Y is it dat u nollywood actresses do have a reason to divorce.

    • Elana

      March 24, 2016 at 11:23 pm

      Really? what do pple not do these days to provoke others? abi have u ever beat up ur boss at work because he provoked you? my boss definitely provokes me and I have never beat him up…………..#justsaying

  37. Nwoye paul ifeanyi

    November 11, 2013 at 9:18 am

    Well….is far gud u realis on time u better be thankful 2 God 4 saving ur lyf

  38. CHRIS

    December 21, 2013 at 3:32 pm

    I sypathise with her. I feel most of our actresses down there dont fit inproperly with most of our guys at home due to cultural limitaions and extended family interference in most of their marriages. Therefore, they can extend their interest in getting hubbies abroad, mostly Nigerians who have acquired abroad culture of respect for women in accordance with the laws etc etc . I am one of her fans for yrs. It is a pity her marriage broke down. If she is interested or any of the actresses down there in getting hooked up with mature and God fearing guys, she can reach me through my email address


    January 5, 2014 at 11:02 am

    Nawa for Nigerian actist and actress oo

  40. Kennedy Clane

    January 8, 2014 at 4:27 pm

    I don’t think chika ike is being completely honest here. And even if the court granted her a divorce based on wat eva evidence she provided, We all knw our judiciary system in 9ja is flawed. I’m not trying to justify DV, but if a man is driven to a point where he resolves to beating his wife, den she must av rily erred. What if the man is the victim here? I believe there’s more to dis story dan she’s telling. And in her wedding pix, she looks 26 not 20, and i don’t think she’s 27 like she claims. She’s clearly in her mid 30s

    • mrs chidukane

      February 25, 2014 at 2:31 pm

      I’m sorry but when it comes to divorce, Nigerian Judiciary is not flawed. Are you suggesting she bribed the judge to give her a divorce? I’ve been to Family court so many times, often the husband ie the party being taken to court doesn’t bother showing up.They don’t care enough to even though papers are served on them over and over again. And she’s saying this boldly to the world, her ex should feel free to contradict her and tell us the truth.Even if I call my husband names, he should call me back not beat me up.Just because your dad beat your mum when you were growing up doesn’t make it right. It doesn’t justify it

    • MUA

      February 9, 2018 at 10:56 am

      If you have an issue with her age, increase or decrease yours. stop talking trash. Age is just a number.

  41. Aloysious Effiong Afahaene

    January 28, 2014 at 2:11 am

    Hello mrs chika nancy ike i thank you for your action.but there this saying that says ” to air is human and to forgive is divine “.please marriage is a long time institution and it is for better and for please the bible also tells us that what God as join no body should put a

    • MUA

      February 9, 2018 at 10:57 am

      not when your life is at stake

  42. Eve

    February 2, 2014 at 10:22 pm

    Chika good for you , you are beautiful. Don’t worry about it, you will get a good husband that will cherish you.

  43. AMAKA

    February 4, 2014 at 11:36 am

    Well Chika its only God dat kns the whole truth, but if bioth of u re born again ur marriage wd ve bn sweet nd successful

  44. AMAKA

    February 4, 2014 at 11:39 am


  45. bridget

    February 18, 2014 at 7:21 pm

    Chika ike u beta go back to ur husband.

    • Que

      February 25, 2014 at 3:59 pm

      For what exactly? Na by force?

      Personally I dont know of her domestic violence accusations, but I’m not buying the act yet! Cos I know firsthand dat she was sleeping around asaba while telling d husband she was shooting movies….. her job naturally entailed lotssssss of travelling n he didnt object… now if she said she was claiming to be a victim of multiple infidelity n dat was her excuse, I would agree, except that even on that front, she gave as good as she got! She got a taste of a richer life n it was suddenly time to jump ship.

      At the end of the day adults need to take responsibility for their roles in rship breakdowns…. n no point crying over spilled milk by detailing what she did or didn’t do. If they get to a point where they rethink their decision, then its their business, untill den it is not our business to force her back to him!

    • Dominic Ayuba Mtembezi

      April 1, 2018 at 3:20 am

      Chike ike just go you are not the fist girl to fight and your husband


    February 25, 2014 at 2:00 pm


  47. Evanschinasa

    February 25, 2014 at 4:15 pm

    Baby Stay

  48. [email protected]

    March 4, 2014 at 3:55 pm

    Government should create an attitude orientation camp 4 our iresponsibl actors and actressis

  49. Michael Kenya

    April 28, 2014 at 11:16 pm

    your story is soo touching and i admire your courage…. wish i was old enough to marry you Chike hehe.

  50. Precious cindy

    June 20, 2014 at 3:30 pm

    Pls get marry 2 another man who will luv nd cherish u nd who also no d value of a woman in a man’s life.

  51. angel

    June 26, 2014 at 7:18 pm

    U r a cherished lady, u worth who no man shuld touch,u did d right thin by leavin there 4 him so he n those tale bearers wil knw u were nt there 4 his moni bt 4 luv.

  52. 6ko

    July 2, 2014 at 3:21 pm

    Domestic Violence vs for better for worse… Lets wake up… Let her start being a family woman, take care of her busy husband… Take charge of her home & stop seeking sympathy.. Note that in that quiet place, this forum will be faraway, your conscience will be right by your side and you will realize you lost that modest life everyone is craving to have… Then salty tears will roll down you cheek. Your husband needs to be checked though because he could just be patient with you. Accept you flaws and forgive you. Please, go back to him or ask yourself “IN THIS SITUATION OF MINE, WHAT WILL JESUS DO” do not listen to these people encouraging you to leave your husband because they may be facing much more but they are still managing… If you leave him, he will move on and be happy…. be wise… A rich man may not be a good man…

  53. Lydia C

    January 12, 2015 at 11:57 am

    Infidelity or fidelity,no one has a right to inflict pain unto ones body.if you have never been a victim of DV ,you will say every rubbish.I know what it feels like.Lets all stand up and be advocates against gender based violence.There are better ways to sort out a conflict than torture.You are too beautiful to be beaten.Live your own life and make it better.Do not stop in helping the victims .We can start a project with me in Uganda

  54. Keyo

    January 16, 2015 at 5:28 pm

    I personally stay away from anyone who abuses in any form. It dehumanizes you. Verbal abuse, emotional abuse, physical abuse is all volience. Everyone’s got a choice in life regardless of what other people might think. Noone pays attention anyway to how anyone is being treated, but the moment those actions provoke a reaction, suddenly people have an opinion about ur life and how u shd have handled situation. Never judge people until you yourself have walked just a mile in their shoes and see what their lives have been like.

    • Innocent

      January 21, 2018 at 12:38 am

      Some men don’t no what they have until they lose it! How I wish i’ll have such a lady as wife!

  55. Rapheal

    June 11, 2015 at 9:38 am

    I will like 2 talk Wt now actress one-one,very important.

  56. mmasichukwu

    July 5, 2015 at 12:24 pm

    Am happy u made a very wise decision b4 u die a death of mockery

  57. willy onkundi

    July 9, 2015 at 9:00 am

    Nancy. U are made in special way and more so from christian family. Following ur experience in life, yes its painful when u need happnss from somebody and u find tht person is one who makes cry most of time its very desgusting moment. Am happy for ur step u took. For tht u leaned something good and i think u willl live to rem tht. I am also a victim of the same my story is slitly differ coz am a man we have women who behave like men. The i desided to file the devoce case i thnk God coz now am free man free from domestic vacceny. God will give a nice man who will give u true love care and most important thing happness. Gods time is best time.
    Willy from kenya

  58. Blossom walter

    July 20, 2015 at 9:20 am

    My sweet angel, i have been a fan of u
    eva since, no matter the haters, u did well in leavin dat marriage.A lot of women have lost their lives in this thing called marriage and nobody cares, if u have lost ur lives, all these haters would not go down six feet with u but only u cos dead men dont talk. Keep ya
    head up cos i am by ur side since we now have beast as men now in nigeria.
    love will find u soon than u expected. for those sayn u dont look 20 wen u got married, there are things that happen to
    a woman that pile up years in her actual years but thank God ur ordeal is now past tense. i love u . keep ya head

  59. equity and fairness

    August 6, 2015 at 12:00 am

    Though am not a fan of DV, but if I might ask, has anyone heard the husband’s side of the story before pronouncing verdict?. Sometime it’s good to know what’s really wrong because it might be her that needs to mend her ways for the marriage to have smooth sailing. Remember sometimes the silent tongue keeps a lot of damaging secrets


    September 14, 2015 at 11:57 pm


    • Elana

      March 24, 2016 at 11:24 pm

      Na God go judge you

  61. richard

    September 20, 2015 at 8:45 am

    God will surely give you the rightful man

  62. Maxmus

    October 12, 2015 at 9:04 pm

    I’m sorry dear. It’s not your fault, he’s hitting you. A real man would never touch a lady. You are worth more than having a man lay his hands on you. You deserve so much better.

  63. isaac

    March 22, 2016 at 3:21 pm

    Never judge. Never destroy. May God forgive us.

  64. Tuma

    March 29, 2016 at 2:43 pm

    you dont deserve that treatment . am happy you moved out. go on girl dont regret

  65. Nana Esi

    May 2, 2016 at 2:39 pm

    I love u Chika for everything u do.

  66. [email protected]

    May 12, 2016 at 7:33 pm

    chika wish u all the best in yr life….may god protect u always an yr entire family…..Ameen….


    August 25, 2016 at 12:47 pm

    chika ike i like your personality you are my role model God bless you

  68. Betty

    September 27, 2016 at 8:59 am

    My beautiful actress, well it doesnt matter what people say about you coz people will always have something to say so the most important thing is that you are the only one who wears the shoes and you know exactly where it sqeezes you so my dear if you feel the shoes are not comfortable to walk on, i wont judge you if you get another one that fits you. You are a strong woman just be yourself and never mind people.

  69. mercy mtale

    December 7, 2016 at 1:52 pm

    carry on with lyfe dear , Thann God for saving yr lyfe from thé moth of a lion be blessés.

  70. Jonathan nkansah

    December 12, 2016 at 10:12 am

    brave woman. more days ahead

  71. ken bruce

    January 11, 2017 at 2:52 pm

    this is a big one bro i would love to get her update on my mail thanks.

  72. ken bruce

    January 11, 2017 at 2:53 pm

    this is a big one bro i would love to get her update on my mail thanks. witing to hear rom you sir

  73. Malunga

    January 26, 2017 at 1:02 pm

    Chika you really are my role model, i’m so inspired…..i believe my dream house will soon be built, & thank God for your life…he really didn’t deserve you, because real men do not hit women instead solve issues in a matured and civilised manner……be happy always

  74. faith

    February 25, 2017 at 6:00 pm

    Bravoo chika, l lv what u did


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  76. Tessa Doghor

    October 24, 2017 at 5:47 pm

    If your husband is accusing you of infidelity, leave.
    If after you leave, he accuses you of infidelity, kneel down, thank your God and don’t respond. Many men accuse their innocent wives of infidelity in that silly battle to BE RIGHT EVERY TIME.
    If you stay and he kills you, he will accuse your dead body of infidelity and you won’t be around to defend yourself.

    I am born again. My very first advice is never, go back to your husband. Because I am a woman and I know we are physically not stronger, I always advice a separation. I don’t want to say nice words over a dead body. You are an adult, make the right decisions for your well-being.

    The people advising you to go back to your husband, the wife beater, will most likely say bad things about you if you are no longer here. That is the Nigerian way and the ugly truth.

  77. Tumusiime Sarah

    November 13, 2017 at 6:21 am

    I feel the pain. . U did the best as we say that the better ones r not yet born and the best is yet to come. ..

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