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Toke Makinwa: “It’s Like Living a Double Life”! Nigerian Media Personality on “5 Signs that Guy is Gay”



Toke Makinwa - September 2013 BellaNaija

“He’s too stylish…no he’s metro-sexual…no he’s gay.”

On this episode of her vlog – Toke Moments, Nigerian media personality Toke Makinwa speaks on “In the Closet; 5 Signs that Guy is Gay”.

As with every episode, Toke says it all.

Watch the video and see if you agree with the signs. And if you have the perfect gaydar, share some of your signs.

Check it out!

Photo Credit: Toke Makinwa via Instagram


  1. tito

    September 25, 2013 at 11:37 am


  2. Gistyinka Blog

    September 25, 2013 at 11:37 am

    Toke am getting to love you more and more.. More trending news , entertainment news and celebrity lifestyle here at Gistyinka Blog

  3. aisha

    September 25, 2013 at 11:54 am

    toke is just a cow. i got to work and she made my day. her facial expressions are so quizzical. thanks for setting the mood to work toke…id definitely remember you saying you are wicked…wicked man…lol

  4. Lucylink

    September 25, 2013 at 11:56 am

    So if a “normal” man doesn’t undress you with his eyes, he’s gay? Wow. So as women, we should expect men to sexualize us at every turn……and if he doesn’t, he’s gay. I feel for men sha; According to Toke, the only way a man can prove his heterosexuality is by acting like a disrespectful animal.
    So many misconceptions in this video.

    • Tim'tim

      September 25, 2013 at 8:19 pm

      Ha Alhaja Lucylink is dating a gay… Y wont ur boo undress u with his eyes knowing fully well u looking sexy or attractive. Wo dont be a learner o its still early for u find another one

    • Luv!!!

      September 26, 2013 at 8:19 am

      Luccylink, Toke isnt saying that any man that doesnt wanna straff you is Gay or that, she just stated a number of signs to watch out for, if he exhibits 3 or more of these signs,chances are that he is Gay. Only one sign is not a qualifier.

  5. Bella

    September 25, 2013 at 12:07 pm

    Toke.. lol – no physical attraction is true one o. Men are physical creatures o, first and foremost. but if the guys doesnt want to sleep wiht you dont mean that he is gay, maybe he is not attracted to you. Kwaaa at strap on….and fingers there, gosh babes not sure of the latter cos men are excitable creatures but a strap is the last straw, HELL NAH… rub babe run.

  6. Barbie

    September 25, 2013 at 12:11 pm

    Lol Tokeeeeee ,I regret ever ignoring your blog whenever I saw it,I will never miss an episode ever..all you say Is funny but its the truth…ride on girl

  7. Iyke

    September 25, 2013 at 12:25 pm

    I guess this is a joke right???? If not, then TOKE grow up NOW …… your ignorance is contagious…can you put it on a leash…before I have to taser it….

    • Bliss

      September 25, 2013 at 3:11 pm

      Lol @ taser

  8. Yaw

    September 25, 2013 at 12:45 pm

    Lol! This babe must become a celebrity! Toke easy.

  9. Idak

    September 25, 2013 at 1:05 pm

    Maje thinks about sex 98% of the time.

    • hot mama

      September 25, 2013 at 8:16 pm

      You forgot to add ‘or he’s having it most of the time’ 😉

  10. Idak

    September 25, 2013 at 1:08 pm

    1.) Every guy has a stash of porn.
    2.) Every guy watches porn.

    Toke you deserve to be flogged.

    • jcsgrl

      September 25, 2013 at 2:32 pm

      Lol welcome back homie! I missed you

    • Idak

      September 25, 2013 at 3:33 pm

      Thanks for the love, jcsgirl.
      Have a fine evening/afternoon wherever you are.

    • Tim'tim

      September 25, 2013 at 8:17 pm

      My mind tells me u r gay. Your girlfriend will soon find out

    • Idak

      September 26, 2013 at 2:51 pm

      Are you not too old for this text-speak?
      As for your mind, whatever rocks your boat.

    • Tim'tim

      September 26, 2013 at 6:56 pm

      Sha all am saying is my mind tells me u are gay repent for the kingdom of God is coming.

    • Idak

      September 26, 2013 at 8:48 pm


  11. bee

    September 25, 2013 at 1:15 pm

    Seriously Toke,you are misleading people..Not every male friend who is unttracted to a woman is gay..

  12. jin

    September 25, 2013 at 1:33 pm


  13. Ibukun

    September 25, 2013 at 1:41 pm

    guys do this thing, they do! they keep the girl as the girlfriend everybody knows and then hide the other guy from the world, it is so true…infact any guy that does not agree with what Toke just said probably has a ben/goke/harry hiding somewhere.

  14. ADANNE

    September 25, 2013 at 1:51 pm

    WHAT IF THE GUY IS JUST NOT ATTRACTED TO YOU? Biko stop misleading the young people here. Thank you.


    September 25, 2013 at 2:08 pm

    What if people are GAY ? does it matter. This Girl is misleading people, She need some good education….

    • nene

      September 25, 2013 at 2:48 pm

      it matters oh. people are looking for husband and boyfriends u r there talking. it is a big issue oh.


      September 25, 2013 at 4:08 pm

      Africans with mentality of marriage marriage, My God they need help must everyone get married?
      way far Before the issue of Gay men in Africa, Africa women have always looked for husband every day. #true

  16. jcsgrl

    September 25, 2013 at 2:31 pm

    Toke love your hair! Its everything…dazall

  17. Adeola

    September 25, 2013 at 2:36 pm

    Did she tell you that she is guiding or educating people with her vlogs. What’s with the misleading story. If a youth can’t learn from home and seek guidance or education from a vlog his or her parents have failed. I am not a fan of Toke, she is a fluffy air head in my opinion but to be upset that she is misleading people is placing her on a pedestal she doesn’t deserve. She is not saying anything important don’t take it too seriously.

  18. That African chic

    September 25, 2013 at 2:41 pm

    Ok didn’t watch the video but here’s my own 2 cents. I think most times Toke generalizes a lot in her vlogs. As a young adult I have realized that the world is definitely not black or white. There are so many colours in between. People behave the way they do based on their upbringing, the experiences they go through, their whole socialization process etc. it is therefore erroneous to tell the whole world that people who do not fit in a particular box are different just from your own perceptions.

  19. Bliss

    September 25, 2013 at 3:00 pm

    I’ll tell you what’s gay, that outfit and that hair do. LOL

    • dd

      September 25, 2013 at 11:13 pm

      you’re not funny :/

    • Bliss

      September 26, 2013 at 2:37 pm

      Thanks for the feedback dd. I’ll keep working on my stand
      up comedy material 😉

  20. timi

    September 25, 2013 at 3:08 pm

    Some truths but a lot of generalisation.Every guy is not attracted to every girl. I had a good laugh though.

  21. anon

    September 25, 2013 at 3:40 pm

    I agree with Toks about the gay porn bit. Brings me back to
    a happening in the past when I was working in a certain
    organisation some years back when I had to use the laptop of my
    immediate boss to do some work because all the PCs were either down
    or occupied. Omo, as I was typing in the search box trying to check
    out a fashion site, na so the search history of gay porn commot. To
    cut the long story short, I never looked at my boss the same way
    and guess what? ironically, he married a WOMAN 2months after. I
    felt and still feel so bad for the unfortunate lady. SMDH.

  22. Bobosteke & Lara Bian

    September 25, 2013 at 3:46 pm

    Usually i do not comment on your vlogs for personal reasons. But believe me when i say there are some opinions that should not be heard or aired.

  23. Smallie

    September 25, 2013 at 4:17 pm

    People calm down. Toke is not talking about ll guys! She’s talking about guys who say they like you or want a relationship with you. Not just acquaintances or random friends. People can’t calm down to listen to what is actually being said before they start shouting “murder”. Any guy who is trying to toast you or date you and ISN’T sexually attracted to you is VERY VERY SUSPECT!

  24. temmie

    September 25, 2013 at 4:52 pm

    thank you smallie, ppl need to chill abeg. if he’s toasting
    u and doesn’t flinch wen u flirt with him then sometin is wrong, he
    may not be gay o but sometin is wrong and u should be very worried.
    even men of God sef go flinch

  25. Wannabe

    September 25, 2013 at 5:09 pm

    SHALLOW!!! She sounds as blonde (dumb) as her hair color.


  26. Anon

    September 25, 2013 at 6:07 pm

    I dunno if I am expected to take this chicks vlogs seriously or just for jokes… Like what is the point :-s

  27. Abidear

    September 25, 2013 at 6:28 pm

    True speak.. I know someone who dated a guy for almost a yr. the n**ga didn’t try to touch her.. Church guy indeed. The man is gay! Problem is he probably don’t know it. That’s another type- the one who have not identified or come to terms with that fact. Prayer is key!

  28. Bisqo

    September 25, 2013 at 6:53 pm

    Why did you have to go there????

  29. Naza

    September 25, 2013 at 6:59 pm

    Do a video without intense make up for once

    • Tim'tim

      September 25, 2013 at 8:20 pm

      Dont break up with that gay guy u dating o, let tokes intense make up be bothering u there

  30. Chy

    September 25, 2013 at 8:48 pm

    People should listen well. Am so sure a lot of the ladies dissing her are singleoooo. Pls she is telling de truth! You dont have to like her or her looks to know.Even church guy fiance will show interest and try to control himself. Don’t be napping and get hooked to a gay guy, you will be so sorry. I can count at least 4 ladies in or just leaving their marriage bcos de man is still in de closet… Shine ur eyesoooooo. Make sorry no enter am. As for the person who said such things should not be discussed outside hmmm am sorry for…… Evil things are happening to women and their children and you are saying that. I concure you might be one of them, kapish.

  31. Kay

    September 26, 2013 at 2:19 am

    there’s only one sign a guy is gay- he has sex with men. all these signs don’t mean jack. there are all sorts in the gay community.
    Naija Tea

  32. Workings Guys

    September 26, 2013 at 9:52 am

    Thats serious – I m speechless inshort!

  33. Vlisco

    September 26, 2013 at 8:58 pm

    Such a warped analysis that doesn’t really hold water, aunty toke, I think u need to check maje ayida out too and be sure he’s not gay cos av caught him checking other guys out at events too…….my two cent. So u are not found wanting of what u advise others

  34. xlad

    September 27, 2013 at 6:07 pm

    lol, very funny and mostly true…

  35. inosend

    September 30, 2013 at 10:41 am

    all you insulting toke should just shut your traps abeg..`you should use your common sense to know that not all men who do some of these things will be gay……but these are signs that can help you…..i do not believe she is misleading anybody, it is her blog and she can talk about any topic she finds interesting…..if you dont like her enough to listen to what she has to say just move on, but i do not think it gives anybody any justification to insult her personality.its her opinion nobody is forcing you to accept it

  36. ty

    October 17, 2013 at 1:55 pm

    lol,my bf does not get attracted to skinny girls, infact if a skinny girl is beside him she would probably think he is gay because he would not even look at her once. so this does not really follow

  37. i’m not into judging people based on mainstream defition of
    what’s normal. how about gay men who arealso attracted to women or
    are living in the down low? hizz. I think the best advice is to
    never force yourself on a guy. You’ll know if someone isn’t
    attracted to you.

  38. favcool

    October 25, 2013 at 4:55 pm

    Na waa for u and gay matter toke.

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